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Not as easy as i thought!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fabswingers....
loads of horny girls and guys all in on place looking for sex. Ive soon found out i was extremely naive in thinking there would be an unlimited supply of potential meets throwing themselves in my direction.
Oh how wrong can one be! I find it far easier to pull on a night out with the boys with my clothes on and a bit of banter than on here!
I get loads of _iews but hardly any winks and even less mail. I know i wont appeal to everybody but surely there must be someone out there who wants to take my fabswingers virginity?  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Do you approach people in the same way you would on a night out, where you are more successful?
It is easier out there, face to face, if you're good with people.
Did you assume because the women on here have elected to be here we might have lower expectations or requirements than someone in a bar? I often find it's the other way around. Many of us are fussy bitches on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabswingers....
loads of horny girls and guys all in on place looking for sex. Ive soon found out i was extremely naive in thinking there would be an unlimited supply of potential meets throwing themselves in my direction.
Oh how wrong can one be! I find it far easier to pull on a night out with the boys with my clothes on and a bit of banter than on here!
I get loads of _iews but hardly any winks and even less mail. I know i wont appeal to everybody but surely there must be someone out there who wants to take my fabswingers virginity? "
Have faith my friend. You're bi sexual, so you have double the chance of meeting than a straight guy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you approach people in the same way you would on a night out, where you are more successful?
It is easier out there, face to face, if you're good with people.
Did you assume because the women on here have elected to be here we might have lower expectations or requirements than someone in a bar? I often find it's the other way around. Many of us are fussy bitches on here.
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Definitely right on the last bit lol ?? |
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I find it far easier to meet in clubs and at socials. Can't get my personality across on here, my messages end up being sarcastic when I reply and I seem pretty boring on the forums, I'm not as confrontational as I was when I first joined and by the time that I've typed out a witty/funny reply, someone else has beaten me to it. Same with good advice, by the time of read through the post, the advice I was gonna give has already been given!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's what all men think when singing up that they will get an easy shag, however as the ratio is more men than women its a woman world as they can get a shag whenever they fancy lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought at least one woman would want to maybe get to know me. But nooooo boy was I wrong. It's way to difficult to get to know people here "
My advice would be to meet someone when they give their phone number as my fb did. It generally means they're interested. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"How easy did you think it would be ?
I thought id be drowning in ladies within minutes of joining.... 
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now, 1, 2, 3 back in the room....
so anyway, how is the real world
welcome and good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabswingers....
loads of horny girls and guys all in on place looking for sex. Ive soon found out i was extremely naive in thinking there would be an unlimited supply of potential meets throwing themselves in my direction.
Oh how wrong can one be! I find it far easier to pull on a night out with the boys with my clothes on and a bit of banter than on here!
I get loads of _iews but hardly any winks and even less mail. I know i wont appeal to everybody but surely there must be someone out there who wants to take my fabswingers virginity? "
Put your clothes on then..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How easy did you think it would be ?
I thought id be drowning in ladies within minutes of joining.... "
I gather from your post OP, that though fab hasn't quite met your initial expectations, you have come to realise during your first week here that more effort and patience is required and, more to the point, seem to have accepted this and so have stuck around.
Kudos to you young man! |
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Approach it as you might chatting to a female at a bar. Get to know her. Take it slow and build a trust. Its difficult for females to either invite a guy over or travel to them without getting to know them.
Im sure youll have many meets but be patient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your in good company op. I'll be surprised if anyone joined without the expectation of easy sex. Took me a year to get my first meet. If some had their way on here I'd have been booted off after 6 months as a timewaster and fantasist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How easy did you think it would be ?
I thought id be drowning in ladies within minutes of joining....
I gather from your post OP, that though fab hasn't quite met your initial expectations, you have come to realise during your first week here that more effort and patience is required and, more to the point, seem to have accepted this and so have stuck around.
Kudos to you young man!"
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"How easy did you think it would be ?
I thought id be drowning in ladies within minutes of joining.... "
There's loads of young men seem to have this impression - what I want to know is where they get it from in the first place?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How easy did you think it would be ?
I thought id be drowning in ladies within minutes of joining....
There's loads of young men seem to have this impression - what I want to know is where they get it from in the first place? "
Porn sites. Search for "swingers".
Some woman in the middle while all the men just climb on top without so much as a "fancy a fuck?" |
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"How easy did you think it would be ?
I thought id be drowning in ladies within minutes of joining....
There's loads of young men seem to have this impression - what I want to know is where they get it from in the first place?
Porn sites. Search for "swingers".
Some woman in the middle while all the men just climb on top without so much as a "fancy a fuck?""
I know some guys have no manners..lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought at least one woman would want to maybe get to know me. But nooooo boy was I wrong. It's way to difficult to get to know people here
Hang on....you have a verification! "
I have yes she was when I had my old profile. I have had no meets or even come close on this profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I certainly think that on nites out boys have it easier cos on here looks tend to lead first and personalities second xx
Very good point. You usually have one message to impress on here."
Ive found when ive taken the time to write a message the majority of the time its never even read....
So i need to try a new approach... im just not sure what it is yet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fabswingers....
loads of horny girls and guys all in on place looking for sex. Ive soon found out i was extremely naive in thinking there would be an unlimited supply of potential meets throwing themselves in my direction.
Oh how wrong can one be! I find it far easier to pull on a night out with the boys with my clothes on and a bit of banter than on here!
I get loads of _iews but hardly any winks and even less mail. I know i wont appeal to everybody but surely there must be someone out there who wants to take my fabswingers virginity?
Put your clothes on then....."
Holding a cup of tea.....very clever  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Patience seems to be key.
but I'm sure there's just people on here abusing the use of the site as some kind of control element. Maybe that's just me I dunno |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
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Considering I hate going out clubbing, Fab suits me down to the ground, even if meets are hard to come by.
I find it lets me attract people with good conversation, as well as my looks. When I've been out clubbing, it looks like alcohol and looks alone (maybe with a bit of banter) work most of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How easy did you think it would be ?
I thought id be drowning in ladies within minutes of joining....
There's loads of young men seem to have this impression - what I want to know is where they get it from in the first place?
Porn sites. Search for "swingers".
Some woman in the middle while all the men just climb on top without so much as a "fancy a fuck?""
Also their buddies telling them how many women they are sleeping with on Fab. Just imagine him saying something like this . Hey I found this website and I'm shagging a different woman each night. Neglecting to tell him it took 6 months to a year to learn the ropes. Now this poor guy signs up and is expecting instant sex. Once again men have ruined this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I certainly think that on nites out boys have it easier cos on here looks tend to lead first and personalities second xx
Very good point. You usually have one message to impress on here.
Ive found when ive taken the time to write a message the majority of the time its never even read....
So i need to try a new approach... im just not sure what it is yet!"
You could try moving to Shropshire |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lets turn the question, when women joined or couples what did you except and did you find as many men as you wanted?."
Yes - infact there are far more gorgeous and available men out there than I can ever get through - hubby rations me to a couple a week, although last night he let me go on a bit of a spree at a Club! ....and OP - You are on my hotlist, be patient, do you go to Isis in Leeds? might see you there one day soon m x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I certainly think that on nites out boys have it easier cos on here looks tend to lead first and personalities second xx
Very good point. You usually have one message to impress on here.
Ive found when ive taken the time to write a message the majority of the time its never even read....
So i need to try a new approach... im just not sure what it is yet!"
Move to Gloucester , with that cock Sabrina would be happy to be the first on fab to sample it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I certainly think that on nites out boys have it easier cos on here looks tend to lead first and personalities second xx
Very good point. You usually have one message to impress on here.
Ive found when ive taken the time to write a message the majority of the time its never even read....
So i need to try a new approach... im just not sure what it is yet!
You could try moving to Shropshire "
Wheres my bloody suitcase!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lets turn the question, when women joined or couples what did you except and did you find as many men as you wanted?.
Yes - infact there are far more gorgeous and available men out there than I can ever get through - hubby rations me to a couple a week, although last night he let me go on a bit of a spree at a Club! ....and OP - You are on my hotlist, be patient, do you go to Isis in Leeds? might see you there one day soon m x"
Im new to swinging and ive not dipped my toes in the club scene yet so i need someone to take my hand and show me the ropes(or sex toys or handcuffs).. ;-p
but wait.... im on Someones hotlist!? |
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"Do you approach people in the same way you would on a night out, where you are more successful?
It is easier out there, face to face, if you're good with people.
Did you assume because the women on here have elected to be here we might have lower expectations or requirements than someone in a bar? I often find it's the other way around. Many of us are fussy bitches on here.
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you spoke to me so you cant be to fussy  |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Lets turn the question, when women joined or couples what did you except and did you find as many men as you wanted?.
Yes - infact there are far more gorgeous and available men out there than I can ever get through - hubby rations me to a couple a week, although last night he let me go on a bit of a spree at a Club! ....and OP - You are on my hotlist, be patient, do you go to Isis in Leeds? might see you there one day soon m x
Im new to swinging and ive not dipped my toes in the club scene yet so i need someone to take my hand and show me the ropes(or sex toys or handcuffs).. ;-p
but wait.... im on Someones hotlist!? "
had any offers yet from this thread? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lets turn the question, when women joined or couples what did you except and did you find as many men as you wanted?.
Yes - infact there are far more gorgeous and available men out there than I can ever get through - hubby rations me to a couple a week, although last night he let me go on a bit of a spree at a Club! ....and OP - You are on my hotlist, be patient, do you go to Isis in Leeds? might see you there one day soon m x
Im new to swinging and ive not dipped my toes in the club scene yet so i need someone to take my hand and show me the ropes(or sex toys or handcuffs).. ;-p
but wait.... im on Someones hotlist!?
had any offers yet from this thread?"
Ive had a few _iews of my profile but whether its linked to this or not i couldnt say? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lets turn the question, when women joined or couples what did you except and did you find as many men as you wanted?.
Yes - infact there are far more gorgeous and available men out there than I can ever get through - hubby rations me to a couple a week, although last night he let me go on a bit of a spree at a Club! ....and OP - You are on my hotlist, be patient, do you go to Isis in Leeds? might see you there one day soon m x
Im new to swinging and ive not dipped my toes in the club scene yet so i need someone to take my hand and show me the ropes(or sex toys or handcuffs).. ;-p
but wait.... im on Someones hotlist!?
had any offers yet from this thread?
Ive had a few _iews of my profile but whether its linked to this or not i couldnt say?"
I would linger longer if you had more pics to show. Will private message you re: first trip to a club - sure I can show you the ropes! m x |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Lets turn the question, when women joined or couples what did you except and did you find as many men as you wanted?.
Yes - infact there are far more gorgeous and available men out there than I can ever get through - hubby rations me to a couple a week, although last night he let me go on a bit of a spree at a Club! ....and OP - You are on my hotlist, be patient, do you go to Isis in Leeds? might see you there one day soon m x
Im new to swinging and ive not dipped my toes in the club scene yet so i need someone to take my hand and show me the ropes(or sex toys or handcuffs).. ;-p
but wait.... im on Someones hotlist!?
had any offers yet from this thread?
Ive had a few _iews of my profile but whether its linked to this or not i couldnt say?"
ill get the ball rolling for you..ill be in Preston next week, staying there if you'd like a social meet, ill meet you, while im around... im doing this publicly because i have all my message filters on, basically cos ill be in the NW all summer..if im not your cup of tea that's fine..you can pass with no offence taken but you'll get a veri on the board..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lets turn the question, when women joined or couples what did you except and did you find as many men as you wanted?.
Yes - infact there are far more gorgeous and available men out there than I can ever get through - hubby rations me to a couple a week, although last night he let me go on a bit of a spree at a Club! ....and OP - You are on my hotlist, be patient, do you go to Isis in Leeds? might see you there one day soon m x
Im new to swinging and ive not dipped my toes in the club scene yet so i need someone to take my hand and show me the ropes(or sex toys or handcuffs).. ;-p
but wait.... im on Someones hotlist!?
had any offers yet from this thread?
Ive had a few _iews of my profile but whether its linked to this or not i couldnt say?
ill get the ball rolling for you..ill be in Preston next week, staying there if you'd like a social meet, ill meet you, while im around... im doing this publicly because i have all my message filters on, basically cos ill be in the NW all summer..if im not your cup of tea that's fine..you can pass with no offence taken but you'll get a veri on the board..
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Jesus, if only more women were like this. Get in there mate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lets turn the question, when women joined or couples what did you except and did you find as many men as you wanted?.
Yes - infact there are far more gorgeous and available men out there than I can ever get through - hubby rations me to a couple a week, although last night he let me go on a bit of a spree at a Club! ....and OP - You are on my hotlist, be patient, do you go to Isis in Leeds? might see you there one day soon m x
Im new to swinging and ive not dipped my toes in the club scene yet so i need someone to take my hand and show me the ropes(or sex toys or handcuffs).. ;-p
but wait.... im on Someones hotlist!?
had any offers yet from this thread?
Ive had a few _iews of my profile but whether its linked to this or not i couldnt say?
ill get the ball rolling for you..ill be in Preston next week, staying there if you'd like a social meet, ill meet you, while im around... im doing this publicly because i have all my message filters on, basically cos ill be in the NW all summer..if im not your cup of tea that's fine..you can pass with no offence taken but you'll get a veri on the board..
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Thanks for the offer and if at any point next week i find myself in Preston id like to come for a social woth you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lets turn the question, when women joined or couples what did you except and did you find as many men as you wanted?.
Yes - infact there are far more gorgeous and available men out there than I can ever get through - hubby rations me to a couple a week, although last night he let me go on a bit of a spree at a Club! ....and OP - You are on my hotlist, be patient, do you go to Isis in Leeds? might see you there one day soon m x
Im new to swinging and ive not dipped my toes in the club scene yet so i need someone to take my hand and show me the ropes(or sex toys or handcuffs).. ;-p
but wait.... im on Someones hotlist!?
had any offers yet from this thread?
Ive had a few _iews of my profile but whether its linked to this or not i couldnt say?
ill get the ball rolling for you..ill be in Preston next week, staying there if you'd like a social meet, ill meet you, while im around... im doing this publicly because i have all my message filters on, basically cos ill be in the NW all summer..if im not your cup of tea that's fine..you can pass with no offence taken but you'll get a veri on the board..
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El grande is a sweetie isn't he Suzy? I will share him with you! m x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I certainly think that on nites out boys have it easier cos on here looks tend to lead first and personalities second xx
Very good point. You usually have one message to impress on here."
Exactly no second chances |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
"Lets turn the question, when women joined or couples what did you except and did you find as many men as you wanted?.
Yes - infact there are far more gorgeous and available men out there than I can ever get through - hubby rations me to a couple a week, although last night he let me go on a bit of a spree at a Club! ....and OP - You are on my hotlist, be patient, do you go to Isis in Leeds? might see you there one day soon m x
Im new to swinging and ive not dipped my toes in the club scene yet so i need someone to take my hand and show me the ropes(or sex toys or handcuffs).. ;-p
but wait.... im on Someones hotlist!?
had any offers yet from this thread?
Ive had a few _iews of my profile but whether its linked to this or not i couldnt say?
ill get the ball rolling for you..ill be in Preston next week, staying there if you'd like a social meet, ill meet you, while im around... im doing this publicly because i have all my message filters on, basically cos ill be in the NW all summer..if im not your cup of tea that's fine..you can pass with no offence taken but you'll get a veri on the board..
El grande is a sweetie isn't he Suzy? I will share him with you! m x"
id love to meet you two also...only up for a week from tomorrow, however im staying in Preston all of august..maybe we could meet at a club or something..no expectations..id like to go to a few places, see the NW, a friendly face or two would be lovely x |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
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"I certainly think that on nites out boys have it easier cos on here looks tend to lead first and personalities second xx
Very good point. You usually have one message to impress on here.
Exactly no second chances "
So based on that, the quality of guys who actually end up getting a meet on here is much higher? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've met 5 great people on here in my time. Around 2 years. Just be patient. Nobody appeals to everyone. I found some lovely people who we all clicked with and had some great meets. And I also meet them on a regular basis. I think people who join a swingers site and think they will have a queue as long as the Next sale waiting for them are slightly deluded. Every week there is someone going on about not getting any luck on here and not had a meet yet and you look at their profile and they've only been on the site 2 weeks!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lets turn the question, when women joined or couples what did you except and did you find as many men as you wanted?."
We rarely meet people via Fab. We've had some brilliant meets off here and achieved everything we wanted, and more. But we are realistic so although sometimes things haven't gone to plan we still had fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you bring your wellies thinking you'd be knee deep in clunge
And my raincoat and a lifejacket... i couldnt have been any more optimistic!"
There's your problem right there...it's the waders that ladies go wild for |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did you bring your wellies thinking you'd be knee deep in clunge
And my raincoat and a lifejacket... i couldnt have been any more optimistic!
There's your problem right there...it's the waders that ladies go wild for "
I only use my waders on special occassions though... Maybe il drag them out of my fancy dress box and start wading my way to yours ;-p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I certainly think that on nites out boys have it easier cos on here looks tend to lead first and personalities second xx
Very good point. You usually have one message to impress on here.
Exactly no second chances
So based on that, the quality of guys who actually end up getting a meet on here is much higher? "
shag the best ignore the rest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the OP has joined in on the forums really well
Almost like he's been here before. "
Good to see it when it's done well. The forums are like a game of tennis.. its often not what you say initially that counts but how you respond to jibes. The OP has done really well... good start mate. Oh.. and forget the wellies... looks like you'll be needing fucking waders |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Do you approach people in the same way you would on a night out, where you are more successful?
It is easier out there, face to face, if you're good with people.
Did you assume because the women on here have elected to be here we might have lower expectations or requirements than someone in a bar? I often find it's the other way around. Many of us are fussy bitches on here.
you spoke to me so you cant be to fussy "
You had Mindy with you.
I like to chat - you know that. I like to bounce too but unlike the chatty I don't do that with everyone (someone would jump me in the queue if I did ). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How easy did you think it would be ?
I thought id be drowning in ladies within minutes of joining.... "
What was that old Viz quote, ' I could fall into a vat of fannies and come up sucking a cock ' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the OP has joined in on the forums really well
Almost like he's been here before.
Good to see it when it's done well. The forums are like a game of tennis.. its often not what you say initially that counts but how you respond to jibes. The OP has done really well... good start mate. Oh.. and forget the wellies... looks like you'll be needing fucking waders "
Face mask, snorkel, and fins maybe.
Might wanna raise a flag on that flagpole ye got - make it easier for 'em to find ye. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the OP has joined in on the forums really well
Me too.
Aww shucks.... Thanks everyone. Im just trying to get noticed
Job done then. Enjoy yourself.
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..... i didnt mean stop showering me with compliments ;-p |
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"Do you approach people in the same way you would on a night out, where you are more successful?
It is easier out there, face to face, if you're good with people.
Did you assume because the women on here have elected to be here we might have lower expectations or requirements than someone in a bar? I often find it's the other way around. Many of us are fussy bitches on here.
you spoke to me so you cant be to fussy
You had Mindy with you.
I like to chat - you know that. I like to bounce too but unlike the chatty I don't do that with everyone (someone would jump me in the queue if I did )."
so more chatty chatty than bouncy bouncy then ,,, you sure do know how to deflate a mans balls nicely ehh licky |
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"Do you approach people in the same way you would on a night out, where you are more successful?
It is easier out there, face to face, if you're good with people.
Did you assume because the women on here have elected to be here we might have lower expectations or requirements than someone in a bar? I often find it's the other way around. Many of us are fussy bitches on here.
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I've found a lot of guys do think that cos im on here that means they have a right to shag me and how dare I turn them down! Lol.
Im also very fussy! |
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"I certainly think that on nites out boys have it easier cos on here looks tend to lead first and personalities second xx
Very good point. You usually have one message to impress on here.
Ive found when ive taken the time to write a message the majority of the time its never even read....
So i need to try a new approach... im just not sure what it is yet!"
They likely skip to your profile - so put your emphasis there. |
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I agree about profile, that is really important - and join in discussions on forum too. That way people get an idea of how your mind works, what you are into etc, m x |
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