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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious. I've seldom been mailed by anyone, more often it's me who sends the first message.
I know you ladies get inundated with mail, but do you make the first contact at all? Or just wait to see if you get mailed by someone you like the look of? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious. I've seldom been mailed by anyone, more often it's me who sends the first message.
I know you ladies get inundated with mail, but do you make the first contact at all? Or just wait to see if you get mailed by someone you like the look of? "
Yes, I drop people a mail if I like the look of them. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"At least you get a response! "
I take a delete with no reply as a knock back - as the FAQs on here suggest you do, so no I do not always get a response. Why should I?
I do not expect to respond to people who do not appeal to me, and do not expect anything from others in return |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I send messages & if they don't reply within 2 minutes of receiving my message I send them an abusive text, calling them a fake & a timewaster."
I've never had that pleasure!
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"I send messages & if they don't reply within 2 minutes of receiving my message I send them an abusive text, calling them a fake & a timewaster."
I know you do, I'm still sobbing in my cold cuppa from the last one you sent after I had logged off... but I am about to make up for it and send you a message a minute for the next hour... will see if the stalker approach works  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a couple, not a single lady (who I think you were asking?) but I can say we send out messages and get rejected/ignored at times. We don't really send them to single guys though. We used to when we first joined but have since found it is a wasted effort for the most part.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I will send a wink,to someone that interests me, if I get one back or a message then will reply and see where it goes."
Some would consider that lazy, especially if it was me winking at you. I try to resist winking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send messages & if they don't reply within 2 minutes of receiving my message I send them an abusive text, calling them a fake & a timewaster."
well done you!! its the only way they'll ever learn!..i do hope you also block them after the 3rd or 4th abusive message if they havent replied!...because that'll teach 'em! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Feel free to wink at me tho, should you get an uncontrollable urge 
Nawh, I've not got me lazy head on today  "
Lazy head! I asked for that.
Just as long as you've kept your fit bum on too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I have been lucky enough to have been contacted first and its always nice to have someone make a play for you. Bit don't it give you a bog head until the day of the meet that is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Feel free to wink at me tho, should you get an uncontrollable urge
Nawh, I've not got me lazy head on today
Lazy head! I asked for that.
Just as long as you've kept your fit bum on too "
Oh yes, the bum never leaves me. |
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