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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
I think maybe I expect a little too much in the way of prospective meets.
I like a bit of banter with people... for me sex is all about having fun with it. I want to fuck people I like and who are entertaining and witty and not just there because a shag is a shag.
I suspect I know the answer (yes for the smart arses who can see I'm a fussy bugger)  but is it too much to ask?
I don't want to marry them... I just want to have some sort of conversation that doesn't involve "how r u 2day?" sort of chat. I like a bit of cheek. Am I alone with that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally with you... all the way... its gotta be fun....otherwise its not fun.... hmmm, that last bit seems to have got away from me.... but yep..... fun....agreed   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think maybe I expect a little too much in the way of prospective meets.
I like a bit of banter with people... for me sex is all about having fun with it. I want to fuck people I like and who are entertaining and witty and not just there because a shag is a shag.
I suspect I know the answer (yes for the smart arses who can see I'm a fussy bugger) but is it too much to ask?
I don't want to marry them... I just want to have some sort of conversation that doesn't involve "how r u 2day?" sort of chat. I like a bit of cheek. Am I alone with that?"
I like a bit of banter and im a flirt and very fussy so if i arrange a meet they know im interested |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"some only have a wee bit of banter going for us...
that's it.
A wee bit is a whole lot better than none though right?!  "
defo..... my banter is a grower not just a shower.  |
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I do banter with a hint of madness! I don't think you can take swinging too seriously to be honest!!
"I say old chap, may I possible have sexual congress with your good lady wife? You may, naturally, wish to observe our antics!" |
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"I love a bit of cheeky banter,sorts out who's on the same wave length as me and who is'nt
This!! This is exactly what I mean! Wavelength... that's the word I was after!  "
Wavelength? Get with it people! I'm now Digital!!! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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if I am honest, the banter is the main reason I am here... if I get to put my 'man train' into a 'female train tunnel' and/or the occasional 'man mouth depot'.... happy days. |
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By *irtyGirl OP Woman
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"if I am honest, the banter is the main reason I am here... if I get to put my 'man train' into a 'female train tunnel' and/or the occasional 'man mouth depot'.... happy days. "
Yeah this too... sometimes I just feel it's a little bit like pulling teeth arranging a meet. I want it to be exciting and fun and have a little bit of oomph going for it rather than the clinical arrangement of times and places.
*looks sadly at neglected train tunnel* |
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"I love a bit of cheeky banter,sorts out who's on the same wave length as me and who is'nt
This!! This is exactly what I mean! Wavelength... that's the word I was after! "
Sex itself shouldn't be taken too seriously - that's not to say I expect people to always laugh at me when I'm naked but sometimes the positions we get in (or want someone in) means you have to ask some weird questions sometimes.
The forums are great for banter too although as with all forms of non-verbal comms it can be easy to get it wrong - tone of voice or facial expressions aren't picked up on. Not easy getting it right but fun trying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's one of the reasons why I always meet socially before playing.
I met a gorgeous man for coffee today: when I saw him waiting I upped it to lunch: his pictures didn't do him justice! We spent three hours chatting getting to know each other and we talked about sex for about 10 minutes of that.
We know why we're here, and great sex is the order of the day, but personally, being able to laugh and chat with playmates adds to my enjoyment!
A lot is made of the social aspect of swinging and that adds to it.
I'm not looking for a boyfriend: it's just fun being able to have banter with someone on the same wavelength! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love a bit of cheeky banter,sorts out who's on the same wave length as me and who is'nt
This!! This is exactly what I mean! Wavelength... that's the word I was after!
Wavelength? Get with it people! I'm now Digital!!! "
tch back to length again ..... |
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By *ig badMan
over a year ago
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"I think maybe I expect a little too much in the way of prospective meets.
I like a bit of banter with people... for me sex is all about having fun with it. I want to fuck people I like and who are entertaining and witty and not just there because a shag is a shag.
I suspect I know the answer (yes for the smart arses who can see I'm a fussy bugger) but is it too much to ask?
I don't want to marry them... I just want to have some sort of conversation that doesn't involve "how r u 2day?" sort of chat. I like a bit of cheek. Am I alone with that?"
I always put on a full show. A few stand up jokes as an appetizer, a full blown shag and i sing requests to finish the night off. |
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