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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I have had some messages from guys that say can't travel or can't accomidate? Whats that mean?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

that they are bone idle and wont make an effort

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

can't accomodate...probably cos they have a wifey at home. can't travel....maybe on dole so can't afford the fare.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I couldn't work it out either I think they expect you to pick them up go to a hotel that you pay for have there fun and then you run them home lol Oh well I would be better staying at home with the hubby with that it would be cheeper pmsl

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston


"I have had some messages from guys that say can't travel or can't accomidate? Whats that mean? "

I looked at a couple with the same thing the other day and was as puzzled as you. If you can't travel OR accommodate then your pretty stuffed unless your lucky enough to find a randy chauffeur or gipsy!!

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By *emjoCouple  over a year ago

Reading

To be fair, some people say can't travel meaning they can't travel a large distance. We have kids so we don't want to be too far away.

But yes, makes us giggle when we see it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

can't accom for any single or couple can be for lots of different reasons, kids at Home etc etc, can't travel means they probably have no transport.

There are lots of nice and genuine people in this position who need picking up and accomodating

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By *unky monkeyMan  over a year ago

in the night garden

Could mean they are not meeting currently?

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By *ouple1234Couple  over a year ago

BELFAST UK

or if its a young couple the could still be living at home and dont drive so then they wouldnt do both, i know for sure if we did have a car we wouldnt be getting to many trains or buses just for a shag and back home again

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By *ruitWoman  over a year ago

near kings lynn

Think it is important to remember that some of the men who cant accomodate is not always because there is a wife at home. Think people naturally assume this is the case.

Yes there are those who do but please do not tar every man with the same brush and assume the worst as those assuming are giving the single men the bad name. Not all are married,some yes,but maybe give the benefit of the doubt until evidence proves wrong

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By *ashful BazMan  over a year ago

poole dorset


"Think it is important to remember that some of the men who cant accomodate is not always because there is a wife at home. Think people naturally assume this is the case.

Yes there are those who do but please do not tar every man with the same brush and assume the worst as those assuming are giving the single men the bad name. Not all are married,some

yes,but maybe give the benefit of the doubt until evidence proves wrong"

My problem with accomodating is I still live with my mum which is a bit embarrassing to admit to on here!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"can't accomodate...probably cos they have a wifey at home. can't travel....maybe on dole so can't afford the fare."

You can't accomodate do you have a Hubby at Home ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cant accommodate means so many things and I personally and sick of seeing guys being hit with the "you are married and cheating" label.

I know many guys who cant accommodate for many reasons, flat share, have kids stay over, look after relatives. I cant accommodate because I have both my parents live here as Im main carer

And the same for cant travel - not everyone has cars and cant be travelling miles. And like myself, I wont travel more them 30 mins drive just in case I have to get back in a hurry

I think if you want to know what it means in a persons profile - ask them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"can't accomodate...probably cos they have a wifey at home. can't travel....maybe on dole so can't afford the fare.

You can't accomodate do you have a Hubby at Home ? "

Can't accommodate and doesn't give a reason why, but the men that can't accommodate HAVE to explain to her why...hmmmm...really!!

Personally I DON'T meet men that can't accommodate. It's not because I think they're married, but usually they don't want to play in their home but have no qualms about playing in mine - yeah, right - not...going...to...happen!!

As for the not travelling: I assume it's people who only meet locally and in clubs.

The bottom line is, we set out our profiles how we want. If someone contacts me who can't travel or accommodate I won't even respond, as it set out quite clearly in my profile what I expect regarding accommodating for meets.

There are soooooooo many people that meet our play requirements, I struggle to understand why people bother themselves with those that don't, or how others conduct their own business!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i cannot accomodate because i share a place and i had trouble on the door before when her husband turned up.

but i do travel and often hotels for all night fun.

maybe some people put cannot accom or travel as some sort of guard until they know the person well enough.

a safety thing maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have had some messages from guys that say can't travel or can't accomidate? Whats that mean? "
Interesting post. I can accomodate, and I can travel, but honestly I prefer to meet initially in a hotel, as its a sensible thing to do. If a meet goes well, and everyone really "clicks", and wants a continuing relationship, then I think that it can be appropriate to travel to and stay over at other people's homes

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston

I think the OP was questioning the point of a profile where they cannot accommodate -- AND -- cannot travel.

Do they expect you to collect them and take them to their home or a hotel? Not an encouraging start for a meet to be honest!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They might be looking for party invites?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I take it as meaning they are looking for local meets only.

As for reasons for not travelling: Its harsh to assume somebody is on the dole because they wont travel. I dont own a car, not because I'm poor but because I'm trying to live without one on principal.

Oh, and yes, its difficult.

Barry.

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By *andsomgeorgeMan  over a year ago

Rugby


"I have had some messages from guys that say can't travel or can't accomidate? Whats that mean? "

I've often casually wondered how (and where) a meet will take place when profiles (couples, singles whoever) state this.

It's never niggled enough to post it as a 'serious' thread but as a Lounge style, idle question kind of thread as I've taken this one to be it's interesting.

OP, I know enough of your part of the country to say that unless people are prepared/able to travel or to accommodate they are going to be pretty limited in their options.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"that they are bone idle and wont make an effort "

LOL

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)  over a year ago

birmingham


"I have had some messages from guys that say can't travel or can't accomidate? Whats that mean? "

Totally irresistible, YOU will make the effort to meet!

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston


"I have had some messages from guys that say can't travel or can't accomidate? Whats that mean?

Totally irresistible, YOU will make the effort to meet! "

Ooooo! I'd not thought of that! I'm changing mine now!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I can accomidate as I live with my father who's poorly after a heart attack! But always happy to travel! Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

And I certainly don't have a hubby at home, not that mad!! Been there done it lol

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By *andsomgeorgeMan  over a year ago

Rugby


"I can accomidate as I live with my father who's poorly after a heart attack! But always happy to travel! Xxxx"

I assume you mean can't accommodate - you don't want him having another one! I promise I'm not making light of it as my Dad's had quite a few himself.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago
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I just see it as playing locally,I don't read too much into it,I certainly don't assume that they expect the other party to pay for a room

Most people will explain more on their profile anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

That's what I meant "can't" lol

yes pops would have another attack!!!

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By *obletonMan  over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

when I started out swinging I was sharing a flat with a friend, so accommodating a single lady was no problem, he just used to assume I'd pulled (its been known to happen )

I didn't really feel comfortable bringing a couple back if he was around tho - as much for their sake as for mine - seeing a couple leave my room after the sounds of bedroom antics eminating from under my door might have been a difficult one to explain

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By *andsomgeorgeMan  over a year ago

Rugby


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when I started out swinging I was sharing a flat with a friend, so accommodating a single lady was no problem, he just used to assume I'd pulled (its been known to happen )

I didn't really feel comfortable bringing a couple back if he was around tho - as much for their sake as for mine - seeing a couple leave my room after the sounds of bedroom antics eminating from under my door might have been a difficult one to explain "

It's funny how straight some of the most 'ladish' blokes can be. That would have been great if you could have. I have some mates who are real 'dirt bags' and I can talk to about anything and others who are far too straight (to the best of my knowledge) but you never know.

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By *obletonMan  over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


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It's funny how straight some of the most 'ladish' blokes can be. That would have been great if you could have. I have some mates who are real 'dirt bags' and I can talk to about anything and others who are far too straight (to the best of my knowledge) but you never know."

true - but I'm not sure how a couple that I might have brought back would have felt about that.

I'm not the most personally discrete swinger, I'm happy to show my face on my profile, and a good proportion of my friends know I do this, but when it comes to the privacy of the people I meet, that is something I wont fuck with.

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By *andsomgeorgeMan  over a year ago

Rugby


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It's funny how straight some of the most 'ladish' blokes can be. That would have been great if you could have. I have some mates who are real 'dirt bags' and I can talk to about anything and others who are far too straight (to the best of my knowledge) but you never know.

true - but I'm not sure how a couple that I might have brought back would have felt about that.

I'm not the most personally discrete swinger, I'm happy to show my face on my profile, and a good proportion of my friends know I do this, but when it comes to the privacy of the people I meet, that is something I wont fuck with."

You're right. Not ours to mess with. Just shows how society conditions people though and how different we are. That swinging can be so popular with a significant number (certainly not a majority) yet so taboo also.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

It's become a taboo because people have labelled it so, I'm not that discreet either, it's my private life and what I do with it is my business.

I swing because of the freedom it gives. I like variety,well it is the spice of life afterall.

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By *endyJeffWalesCouple  over a year ago

MerthyrTydfil

There is a degree in interpretation involved with the term accomodate as some people read this as an overnight stay.

Perhaps it would better to use the terms "play at ours", "play at yours", "play other place". Use the term accomodate to mean an "can have you stay at our place for the night".

Similar definitions could be done for the travel side too that specifies a time or distance.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's become a taboo because people have labelled it so, I'm not that discreet either, it's my private life and what I do with it is my business.

I swing because of the freedom it gives. I like variety,well it is the spice of life afterall. "

absolutely right.

sod everyone else. what you do is your business and that of the person your meeting only.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cannot accommodate does not always mean that they are married men etc. It could be that some people dont want to swing in their own home. It may be that swinging is a fantasy life for them and they dont want any reminders of the children looking down at them from photographs or have their "real life" things surrounding them

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By *ity Slickers PartiesCouple (MM)  over a year ago

Milan, Italy

... or perhaps they have simply forgotten to click the right box!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"... or perhaps they have simply forgotten to click the right box!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have that on my profile. I live with my mum so cant accommodate and i also don't have a car so have to rely on public transport or lifts!

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston


"I have that on my profile. I live with my mum so cant accommodate and i also don't have a car so have to rely on public transport or lifts!"

But I bet you get a lot more offers than a bloke in the same position.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well I see on on single ladies profiles Alot.

I take as 'look at me I'm so amazing and if you want me the go to the fuel station, fill up your fucking car, drive however far it is to pick me up, once you have picked me up, whisk me off to a hotel or a night out, get out you cash as I'm so overly rated myself and tight i wont even bring a fiver, by all the drinks all the food and pay for the room, once in the room I will take over and might be able to undress my scrouging little ass and then fuck you good and hard, which I normally never do as to lazy to even grind on you throbbing cock, in morning after I have taken up all the room in the bed and snoored all night then take me home drop me off with a 'thanks' and leg it out the car and take you sorry ass home quite a few nicker down

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well I see on on single ladies profiles Alot.

I take as 'look at me I'm so amazing and if you want me the go to the fuel station, fill up your fucking car, drive however far it is to pick me up, once you have picked me up, whisk me off to a hotel or a night out, get out you cash as I'm so overly rated myself and tight i wont even bring a fiver, by all the drinks all the food and pay for the room, once in the room I will take over and might be able to undress my scrouging little ass and then fuck you good and hard, which I normally never do as to lazy to even grind on you throbbing cock, in morning after I have taken up all the room in the bed and snoored all night then take me home drop me off with a 'thanks' and leg it out the car and take you sorry ass home quite a few nicker down

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PMSL!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well I see on on single ladies profiles Alot.

I take as 'look at me I'm so amazing and if you want me the go to the fuel station, fill up your fucking car, drive however far it is to pick me up, once you have picked me up, whisk me off to a hotel or a night out, get out you cash as I'm so overly rated myself and tight i wont even bring a fiver, by all the drinks all the food and pay for the room, once in the room I will take over and might be able to undress my scrouging little ass and then fuck you good and hard, which I normally never do as to lazy to even grind on you throbbing cock, in morning after I have taken up all the room in the bed and snoored all night then take me home drop me off with a 'thanks' and leg it out the car and take you sorry ass home quite a few nicker down

PMSL!! "

It's true on this site,

Another lady from this site invited me and mate to a club and said we had to wait my turn to have a session with her. We had to get permission from her fella first, then if we got the nod and If she liked it she would add us to her list of meet,

How up your own arse is that, I laughed my head off when getting the message

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well my response to that it you are a free willed person if you don't like it leave! As for me I'm not like that at all so please do not tar me with that brush!

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By *nvictusMan  over a year ago

Beeston


"Well my response to that it you are a free willed person if you don't like it leave! As for me I'm not like that at all so please do not tar me with that brush!"

I think your verifications speak for themselves so I don't see any issues there for you at all.

But there are a lot of female profiles not disimular to Themagictouch's posting as well. When I hit the 'Terms & Conditions' bit on their sites I usually loose interest pretty quickly!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well my response to that it you are a free willed person if you don't like it leave! As for me I'm not like that at all so please do not tar me with that brush!

I think your verifications speak for themselves so I don't see any issues there for you at all.

But there are a lot of female profiles not disimular to Themagictouch's posting as well. When I hit the 'Terms & Conditions' bit on their sites I usually loose interest pretty quickly!! "

I think that as a woman you get a lot of attention from men..it can got to your head. I just take everything with a pinch of salt!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well my response to that it you are a free willed person if you don't like it leave! As for me I'm not like that at all so please do not tar me with that brush!

I think your verifications speak for themselves so I don't see any issues there for you at all.

But there are a lot of female profiles not disimular to Themagictouch's posting as well. When I hit the 'Terms & Conditions' bit on their sites I usually loose interest pretty quickly!!

I think that as a woman you get a lot of attention from men..it can got to your head. I just take everything with a pinch of salt!"

of course you should, it's only a site and for all to have fun. As a lady it's easy to just sit back and the messages will flood in, but for it to blinker you and think that you are gods gift then I will just have to laugh at that, I'm just stating what I have found and seen which I think is piss funny

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