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best first message to send a female
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is no best first message. You can write anything you like if your profile is on point. "
This, no point writing reams of shit you think the other person wants to hear. Write a bit that says 'this is me' and hit the send button.
Failing that 'fancy a fuck' always goes down well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I disagree. If the message is crap I don't even read the profile.
I like a message that mentions something in my profile."
Opposite for me, if the picture is shit I don't even read the message! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I disagree. If the message is crap I don't even read the profile.
I like a message that mentions something in my profile.
Opposite for me, if the picture is shit I don't even read the message! "
You get a picture too?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I disagree. If the message is crap I don't even read the profile.
I like a message that mentions something in my profile.
Opposite for me, if the picture is shit I don't even read the message!
You get a picture too? "
Well yeah their profile picture or avatar or whatever you want to call it. When I get a message before opening it I'll look at the picture first then click their profile to check other pictures, will check height and then if all of that is satisfactory then I will read the message. If they don't have a profile picture but the message shows there's attachments then I'll open it to see the pictures.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm with Athena on this. First message is irrelevant as long as it is something I can understand and not abusive. if I don't like the look of the person sending the message I won't respond no matter how good their message is. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"I disagree. If the message is crap I don't even read the profile.
I like a message that mentions something in my profile."
We have a quick look at the profile before opening the message. There's never been a time when we've not liked the profile and changed our minds because of the message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hiya. What the best first message to send to a female. Not geting any reply's from any female,s  "
Maybe start by seeing us as people - as women or ladies - it feels very disrespectful and off-putting to be referred to as "a female"..!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a reasonable amount of success with people replying and I'm fairly new
As innocent had suggested I always at least attempt to show I've bothered to read their profile by mentioning something that is in there
I also always attach a clear face pic seems to work for me |
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