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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever genuinely got lucky on Fabs by sending this most clichéd of one line messages?
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Fairly often lol.
But a lot of women don't help themselves in getting a decent first message when their profile says nothing about themselves really but is mostly a list of what they don't want.
I tend to try and include some reference to their status or what lead me to them but yeah a good old hey how's you, here's my pics, a bit of light conversatio then move off the site to WhatsApp etc quickly so we can chat properly.
It's annoying as duck trying to have a proper conversation through the godawful messaging system here so I try to move to phone quickly.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol"
See like this.
On so from the profile the only real info is.
Your straight, you're looking for a straight guy who's into being filmed and must send a message longer than 1 word.
That's no more info than the tags/info gives.
And makes it kinda hard to write a decent message to.
If you bread your own profile and pretended you were a single guy what would you write to yourselves a safe first message.
... hmm this might make a good game |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes it all depends on what's written on their profile.
I may try to send out a message like that but i need to find a way to get around some filters or match their requirements to send a message first though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol
See like this.
On so from the profile the only real info is.
Your straight, you're looking for a straight guy who's into being filmed and must send a message longer than 1 word.
That's no more info than the tags/info gives.
And makes it kinda hard to write a decent message to.
If you bread your own profile and pretended you were a single guy what would you write to yourselves a safe first message.
... hmm this might make a good game"
That is a start . If they send a 1 word 1st mail then they get a 1 word reply .
If people read the profile they will get an understanding of what we are in to . Didn't you get as far as the veries then ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol
See like this.
On so from the profile the only real info is.
Your straight, you're looking for a straight guy who's into being filmed and must send a message longer than 1 word.
That's no more info than the tags/info gives.
And makes it kinda hard to write a decent message to.
If you bread your own profile and pretended you were a single guy what would you write to yourselves a safe first message.
... hmm this might make a good game
That is a start . If they send a 1 word 1st mail then they get a 1 word reply .
If people read the profile they will get an understanding of what we are in to . Didn't you get as far as the veries then ?"
I prefer someone's own words rather than someone else's word on a person.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol
See like this.
On so from the profile the only real info is.
Your straight, you're looking for a straight guy who's into being filmed and must send a message longer than 1 word.
That's no more info than the tags/info gives.
And makes it kinda hard to write a decent message to.
If you bread your own profile and pretended you were a single guy what would you write to yourselves a safe first message.
... hmm this might make a good game
That is a start . If they send a 1 word 1st mail then they get a 1 word reply .
If people read the profile they will get an understanding of what we are in to . Didn't you get as far as the veries then ?
I prefer someone's own words rather than someone else's word on a person.
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A person can say anything about themselves where as a few people saying about someone is better as more varied references . You can get all the info you need from reading ALL of our profile just because it isn't in our words the info is still there . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol
See like this.
On so from the profile the only real info is.
Your straight, you're looking for a straight guy who's into being filmed and must send a message longer than 1 word.
That's no more info than the tags/info gives.
And makes it kinda hard to write a decent message to.
If you bread your own profile and pretended you were a single guy what would you write to yourselves a safe first message.
... hmm this might make a good game
That is a start . If they send a 1 word 1st mail then they get a 1 word reply .
If people read the profile they will get an understanding of what we are in to . Didn't you get as far as the veries then ?
I prefer someone's own words rather than someone else's word on a person.
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You said you couldn't get anything but basic info from our profile . You can get all the info you need about us . You said nothing about it being in our own words . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol
See like this.
On so from the profile the only real info is.
Your straight, you're looking for a straight guy who's into being filmed and must send a message longer than 1 word.
That's no more info than the tags/info gives.
And makes it kinda hard to write a decent message to.
If you bread your own profile and pretended you were a single guy what would you write to yourselves a safe first message.
... hmm this might make a good game
That is a start . If they send a 1 word 1st mail then they get a 1 word reply .
If people read the profile they will get an understanding of what we are in to . Didn't you get as far as the veries then ?
I prefer someone's own words rather than someone else's word on a person.
You said you couldn't get anything but basic info from our profile . You can get all the info you need about us . You said nothing about it being in our own words ."
Well the Vieris are a bit a of mixed bag aren't aside from a specific mention occasionally of rough anal and facials they're all just the generic "oh they're a wonderful couple, treat with respect, fit as funk, can't wait to meet again".
That doesn't really help write a message or say much about you heck your one specific request for an activity on a meet isn't mentioned in a single one of your veries |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol
See like this.
On so from the profile the only real info is.
Your straight, you're looking for a straight guy who's into being filmed and must send a message longer than 1 word.
That's no more info than the tags/info gives.
And makes it kinda hard to write a decent message to.
If you bread your own profile and pretended you were a single guy what would you write to yourselves a safe first message.
... hmm this might make a good game
That is a start . If they send a 1 word 1st mail then they get a 1 word reply .
If people read the profile they will get an understanding of what we are in to . Didn't you get as far as the veries then ?
I prefer someone's own words rather than someone else's word on a person.
You said you couldn't get anything but basic info from our profile . You can get all the info you need about us . You said nothing about it being in our own words .
Well the Vieris are a bit a of mixed bag aren't aside from a specific mention occasionally of rough anal and facials they're all just the generic "oh they're a wonderful couple, treat with respect, fit as funk, can't wait to meet again".
That doesn't really help write a message or say much about you heck your one specific request for an activity on a meet isn't mentioned in a single one of your veries"
All i am going to say is you have your opinion that's fine but we have had no problems with others understanding what we are looking for . If you have that's your problem . Good night all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a friendly opener, if something about them interests you and you wish to continue the conversation then why not.
Never mind meticulously crafted messages, just be yourself when messaging, if they like you they will continue the interaction, if not they won't, simple as. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a friendly opener, if something about them interests you and you wish to continue the conversation then why not.
Never mind meticulously crafted messages, just be yourself when messaging, if they like you they will continue the interaction, if not they won't, simple as. "
That's how we see it . It isn't perfect far from it , but it gives people the sort of idea of what we like and if they are interested then it shouldn't be to hard to draft a message to us .
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"Has anyone ever genuinely got lucky on Fabs by sending this most clichéd of one line messages?
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Of course, if someone's profile is attractive to me I will answer. Whatever the content, all a first message is really saying is 'I fancy you, do you fancy me?'
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By *aycee70Couple
over a year ago
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Just received one, although he did add this is me and some pics. Took a look At profile and pics and well mmmm. How much waffle do you need to write to say "I want to fuck you, will you fuck me?". We are all here for one reason, aren't we? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It works for me if I like the look of the guy asking how I am. Why would anything else be necessary as a first message?
I don't understand the "bow down before me and lick my boots" mentality on here sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever genuinely got lucky on Fabs by sending this most clichéd of one line messages?
Of course, if someone's profile is attractive to me I will answer. Whatever the content, all a first message is really saying is 'I fancy you, do you fancy me?'
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 Yup. Profile is more important than message (unless it's actually offensive or ridiculous) |
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By *aycee70Couple
over a year ago
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"It works for me if I like the look of the guy asking how I am. Why would anything else be necessary as a first message?
I don't understand the "bow down before me and lick my boots" mentality on here sometimes. "
Hit the nail on the head here, some couples need to loose their crowns |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It works for me if I like the look of the guy asking how I am. Why would anything else be necessary as a first message?
I don't understand the "bow down before me and lick my boots" mentality on here sometimes.
Hit the nail on the head here, some couples need to loose their crowns "
Yes we agree some get the "I'm great" mentality because of the attention they get which they wouldn't normally receive in the real world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever genuinely got lucky on Fabs by sending this most clichéd of one line messages?
Of course, if someone's profile is attractive to me I will answer. Whatever the content, all a first message is really saying is 'I fancy you, do you fancy me?'
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But then how often, when you send a quick reply back giving them the opening are they shown to genuinely have nothing to say. Their three word message was sent because that's all they can think of  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It works for me if I like the look of the guy asking how I am. Why would anything else be necessary as a first message?
I don't understand the "bow down before me and lick my boots" mentality on here sometimes. "
Ego trips.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What about the well crafted, well meaning message to a person that leads I a reply that reads:
"Thanks"
Or
"Not sure"
I know I'm not going to get a reply to most messages and if I do they're either full on and of interest and want to know more or the majority are as above, vague. That leads to a new message from me which may well be deleted.
Personally I'd like some form of reply, even if it's turning me down but undo get it ladies, you're all in demand and there are a lot of men here bugging you.
I'll just keep on sending and hope for the best  |
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"Has anyone ever genuinely got lucky on Fabs by sending this most clichéd of one line messages?
Of course, if someone's profile is attractive to me I will answer. Whatever the content, all a first message is really saying is 'I fancy you, do you fancy me?'
But then how often, when you send a quick reply back giving them the opening are they shown to genuinely have nothing to say. Their three word message was sent because that's all they can think of "
Oh happens all the time, or the conversation is totally inane. But I just don't think its reasonable to demand a time consuming first message all the tome in what is, after all, a numbers game. |
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Thanks for the responses, genuinely interested if this approach works for people on here.
Personally, I ignore them as I've asked people to read my profile. Majority clearly haven't but hey ho. Not offended or flattered either way.
And yes I do send first messages... |
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I dont see a problem with a message like that. (Hey how are you?)
It saves reading the profile twice, all the CAPS, The DO's, The DON'Ts, only to see 'un read deleted' after you have written a longer well worded first message with the mentioned 'face pic'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What would be best to say in a first message? I need help"
Something about their profile, one of their photos, their status if they have one, etc.
If the profile has that wanky "mention this key word" thing then you should probably mention it. Or alternatively just ignore the profile and don't even bother because if they need a code word it's a sure sign they have far too many messages for a mere mortal to make an impact... |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
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"It works for me if I like the look of the guy asking how I am. Why would anything else be necessary as a first message?
I don't understand the "bow down before me and lick my boots" mentality on here sometimes. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had this as a message:
"hi am interested in gangbang am from glasgow"
That's it - full message. Is anyone so deluded that they expect someone actually to follow up on a message like this? "
Have you sent them their train fare?
And the answer to your question.. "yes". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, several times. 
That's worth remembering.
At the right time it always works.
That's DEFINITELY worth remembering! "
Nobody knows when the right time is though. 
Maybe. |
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"Just had this as a message:
"hi am interested in gangbang am from glasgow"
That's it - full message. Is anyone so deluded that they expect someone actually to follow up on a message like this? "
Just had one that simply read "Do u do anal?"
Classy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, several times.
That's worth remembering.
At the right time it always works.
That's DEFINITELY worth remembering!
Nobody knows when the right time is though.
Maybe."
I'm well aware of the need to grab opportunities as and when they present themselves. I'll just have to make sure I present myself to you when I can! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, several times.
That's worth remembering.
At the right time it always works.
That's DEFINITELY worth remembering!
Nobody knows when the right time is though.
Maybe.
I'm well aware of the need to grab opportunities as and when they present themselves. I'll just have to make sure I present myself to you when I can! "
Please don't spam me lol.
Night, i'm well tired. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I don't see what's wrong with it,people take fab a little too seriously,if anything it's the profiles that are written like CV's and have all the do's and don'ts that turn me off |
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