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By *ap Adge OP Man
over a year ago
Wirral |
hi every one been single for while now after relationship ended because lack of sex partner drink problems and lack of doing things together
went though all the cards on table thing
it just wore me out in the end
any one similar ? paul |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmmm tipping point....when my husband and bridemaid/best friend for 10 years, had sex, 12 days after we were married....no cards on the table, his sorry ass was put out that night and shes lucky to still be alive.
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
For me, got tired of being accused of going to clubs and parties to play (I quote "Its a social, not everyone is here to play") ... even though she'd played 3, 4 or 5 times more than I did (not that I'm keeping score).
But hey - each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My husband drank heavily and smoked a lot of . When in one of his sessions he said "funny how I have two healthy sons by someone else, but my son with you is dead. Why is that: bad blood?"
There was no going on from that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My husband drank heavily and smoked a lot of . When in one of his sessions he said "funny how I have two healthy sons by someone else, but my son with you is dead. Why is that: bad blood?"
There was no going on from that!"
omg what a terrible thing to say!!! Big hugs to you XXXXXXXXXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The morning I finally got in to his email, facebook x 2, Fab profile and all the other countless adult dating websites and realised exactly how many women he'd been cheating with. This was in a supposedly vanilla relationship.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men - we're all bastards
I fucked mine up - work shite - wages shite, didn't have the balls to tell her we spent more than we earn't even though I had multiple opportunities when I had my breakdown. I still lied about finances. Ran up debt of 10k (apparently that's not a lot in the scheme of things especially when your house is worth £650k) but the trust had gone. I hurt her by not being able to speak to her.
I tell you what though - now I can't stand lies & won't ever hide/pretend or bullshit again so some thing good has come out of it I suppose.
Making up for lost ground too!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many many years ago I was in a 4-year relationship with someone I cared very deeply for and it ended when she said, and I quote verbatim here, "I'm pregnant, I'm getting rid of it, and we're through."
Just like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Many many years ago I was in a 4-year relationship with someone I cared very deeply for and it ended when she said, and I quote verbatim here, "I'm pregnant, I'm getting rid of it, and we're through."
Just like that."
Ouch!
Unless you'd told her "trust me - I'm a Jaffa" 
Sill not nice though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many many years ago I was in a 4-year relationship with someone I cared very deeply for and it ended when she said, and I quote verbatim here, "I'm pregnant, I'm getting rid of it, and we're through."
Just like that.
Ouch!
Unless you'd told her "trust me - I'm a Jaffa"
Sill not nice though!"
I didn't say anything tbh, I was too stunned. I just walked away and never spoke to her again. I bumped into her years later and we chatted briefly but that's been it. Water under the bridge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ooo, and being told I was insensitive to the other person's feeling because I was too anxious to know about back up plan(s) made me take off my rose-tinted glasses that I had been wearing.
Come to think of it, I was probably wearing blacked-out ones! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My husband drank heavily and smoked a lot of . When in one of his sessions he said "funny how I have two healthy sons by someone else, but my son with you is dead. Why is that: bad blood?"
There was no going on from that!
omg what a terrible thing to say!!! Big hugs to you XXXXXXXXXX"
Thank you.
The only reason we're friends now and I speak to him is I know he has no recollection of saying it. If it wasn't the girls confirming what he said he'd be convinced I was lying!
When I left he stopped drinking, smoking and found God! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men - we're all bastards
I fucked mine up - work shite - wages shite, didn't have the balls to tell her we spent more than we earn't even though I had multiple opportunities when I had my breakdown. I still lied about finances. Ran up debt of 10k (apparently that's not a lot in the scheme of things especially when your house is worth £650k) but the trust had gone. I hurt her by not being able to speak to her.
I tell you what though - now I can't stand lies & won't ever hide/pretend or bullshit again so some thing good has come out of it I suppose.
Making up for lost ground too!!!"
Partially a reason i swing, is that ive huge debts that are my responsibility to sort, unlike those my ex ran up which i had to pay. I work shifts in a pub as well as a full time job to clear those debts, i just dont have the time to have a relationship, so swinging works for me though travelling is difficult, so many nice people ive chatted to but so far away  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being accused of sleeping with every woman I talked too, put up with it for many months then enough was enough so walked away. Got into another relationship and then after a year together all seeming to be good, found out she was sleeping around while I was working nights and went off with a good friend of mine, not a friend now lol |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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so pleased to say K and I have been together for 35 years (married 33) and do almost everything together including swinging. No secrets from eachother and just a little tollerance of each others little foibles. |
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my relationship ended because i cheated - not proud of it but i had my reasons (they may be wong and not understood by others but they are mine)
the guy i was cheating on my partenr with decided it was time for him to know and sent him a message on facebook. i tried to intercept the message bu suggesting going for a walk nd for me to tell him first but that didnt work.
all in all it was actually a fairly painless break up, no shouting no crying no blaming etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so pleased to say K and I have been together for 35 years (married 33) and do almost everything together including swinging. No secrets from eachother and just a little tollerance of each others little foibles. "
wow your longer then us we are 28 ,, lol xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After months of suspicions that he was cheating on me I found absolute proof that he had. I walked out of his house that day and have never spoken to him since.
The hardest thing I have ever done! |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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"so pleased to say K and I have been together for 35 years (married 33) and do almost everything together including swinging. No secrets from eachother and just a little tollerance of each others little foibles. wow your longer then us we are 28 ,, lol xxx"
yeah we is old farts (well I am K isn't lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lack of communication and interfering mother in law. many other issues but what tipped it was one day I got home from work about 15 minutes later than usual and was accused of being with another woman. I said I had had enough and wondered if divorce was really an option. Her response? "Thanks, thought you'd never ask"
That was the straw.
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"lack of communication and interfering mother in law. many other issues but what tipped it was one day I got home from work about 15 minutes later than usual and was accused of being with another woman. I said I had had enough and wondered if divorce was really an option. Her response? "Thanks, thought you'd never ask"
That was the straw.
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Ah, so you divorced her and remarried but carried on cheating? Nice one, but that day that you were late was probably the thing that tipped her over the edge and not you! Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex-hubby and I grew apart, and ended up more like brother/sister in cosy co-habitation instead.
The sex died a long time ago, however, we still loved and cared for each other immensely.
The relationship ended eventually when I met my late partner, who provided the much needed fireworks in my life.
When my late partner died of a boating accident, my ex-hubby was the second person I rang and told.
He is still a big part of my life, and a good friend who provides support whenever I need it most.
To this day, I regret hurting him as he has done nothing wrong except not to light my fire.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lack of communication and interfering mother in law. many other issues but what tipped it was one day I got home from work about 15 minutes later than usual and was accused of being with another woman. I said I had had enough and wondered if divorce was really an option. Her response? "Thanks, thought you'd never ask"
That was the straw.
Ah, so you divorced her and remarried but carried on cheating? Nice one, but that day that you were late was probably the thing that tipped her over the edge and not you! Z"
it is rather strange that he moans about a relationship breakdown but is cheating on his wife, but i guess even they are allowed to have one bad break up though i suspect her suspicions have been correct |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we went to egypt for my birthday 3 days into the fortnite found out she was having an affair she had known him 3 weeks...
She said it was all over and nothing I did or said could sway her !!!! she broke my heart and it took me a long time to get over it.
we are now divorced coming up for 3 years and as she got nasty and hurtful I sent her a letter to say that she was dead to me !!! we have not spoken or seen each other in 2 and half years.
She was the love of my life so was a real painful thing for me but couldn't cope with the way she behaved towards me.
she is currently on boyfriend number 5 !!! good luck to her
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I sent her a letter to say that she was dead to me !!! we have not spoken or seen each other in 2 and half years.
she is currently on boyfriend number 5 !!! good luck to her
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How would you know that?!! Keeping tabs?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thankyou for letting us ... me into your life. Reading some of the posts here i think your a brave lot for opening up we all live and learn in life and at times you just have to be true to youself and do whats right for you and others and move on its not easy at times i know.Big hugs xxxx xxxxx jo xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when my ex told me he wanted to call the wedding off to think about what he really wanted..... that i could sort of live with, it was when he went on to say i should be grateful as he never intended to turn up at the wedding....... i was out the door. He returned 5 months later saying he had made a mistake and could we marry, i told him he was actually 5 months too late..... !!!!!!!!1  |
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"lack of communication and interfering mother in law. many other issues but what tipped it was one day I got home from work about 15 minutes later than usual and was accused of being with another woman. I said I had had enough and wondered if divorce was really an option. Her response? "Thanks, thought you'd never ask"
That was the straw.
Ah, so you divorced her and remarried but carried on cheating? Nice one, but that day that you were late was probably the thing that tipped her over the edge and not you! Z"
Why do you assume he was cheating on his first wife?
Why do you assume he is cheating on his present wife?
For all you know he may be playing with his wife's knowledge and permission. |
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After 13 years of (what I thought) was a blissfully happy marriage I came home from work on a Thursday evening to be told he would be gone by Sunday.... and he did... no explaination other than he was not happy. Now (after 5 years) he's engaged again and I've moved from totally vanilla to total swinger!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I kept reading it too George.
He says he was accused of cheating not that he was cheating....... I didn't understand the crits he got either.
Even Less do I understand how people share so easily .... Thanks for the Jeremy Kyle type thread..... velly intellesting.
What ever has happened I wish everyone happy futures n great swinging xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even Less do I understand how people share so easily .... Thanks for the Jeremy Kyle type thread..... velly intellesting.
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I guess each to their own, and some of us has a (much) smaller "personal" window than others etc... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think at times when theres crap and stuff in people life its nice to off load and getting it out ..... even if its here on the forum even if thay have moved on ....there will be others here having same things going on in there lifes ... and it could help them knowing this reading posts here. jo xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even Less do I understand how people share so easily .... Thanks for the Jeremy Kyle type thread..... velly intellesting.
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I guess each to their own, and some of us has a (much) smaller "personal" window than others etc... "
I'm really stumped now Pearl. I'll have to private you ..... you asked for it .... Here I come ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even Less do I understand how people share so easily .... Thanks for the Jeremy Kyle type thread..... velly intellesting.
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I guess each to their own, and some of us has a (much) smaller "personal" window than others etc...
I'm really stumped now Pearl. I'll have to private you ..... you asked for it .... Here I come !"
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Replied!
And to clarify.
One that is prepared to share one's intimate/private information has a smaller personal window than those who don't.
Something I picked up from one of these team-building/management courses.  |
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The first guy i lived with we split up cause i couldnt take anymore beatings, i would probely have been dead, last straw was when he came at me with an axe and missed my head by about an inch and it went so far into the wall had a job to pull it out.
My husband and i split up cause he couldnt cope with my illness and walked out on me while i was in the hospital
Thankfully, hopefully ive got it right this time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my last relationship ended out the blue but i did have another relationship wher i was being mentally abused. I didnt realise it at all but even though i was being a brilliant boyfriend she kept making me feel like i was worth nothing at all. i done everything i could for her resulting in me being a doormat.
i didnt realize but my friends and familly all new i was depressed even just from looking at me. it went on for months and i remember a couple times when i got home after spending the day/evening with her wher i just started crying....
i managed to get the balls a couple times towards the end wher we had a couple rows but even then it made me feel worse but we had a final massive row and the next day i ended it.
once it was ended i was really upset but it was like a weight was lifted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my ex was an alcoholic and used to beat me, final straw came the night he tried to strangle me but cut the phone wires first to prevent me ringing for help, thank god for mobile phones. i met pete a few weeks later and have never been happier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The day that I told her I was leaving her and that I'd already got the keys to a new house.
I think that's when the relationship was all over
Best fucking day of my life.
Bob. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sent her a letter to say that she was dead to me !!! we have not spoken or seen each other in 2 and half years.
she is currently on boyfriend number 5 !!! good luck to her
How would you know that?!! Keeping tabs?!! "
ha ha well spotted !!! and I suppose yes in a way but not deliberate !!!!
my sons tell me things every now and the lol
have told them not to tell me anything anymore lol
still hurts tho !!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hi every one been single for while now after relationship ended because lack of sex partner drink problems and lack of doing things together
went though all the cards on table thing
it just wore me out in the end
any one similar ? paul"
fairly, lack of participation in family, out every night drinking and then either wanted ruf fun or an argument ..... and that was only me!!!naaa not really, over it now though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even Less do I understand how people share so easily .... Thanks for the Jeremy Kyle type thread..... velly intellesting.
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I guess each to their own, and some of us has a (much) smaller "personal" window than others etc...
I'm really stumped now Pearl. I'll have to private you ..... you asked for it .... Here I come !
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And to clarify.
One that is prepared to share one's intimate/private information has a smaller personal window than those who don't.
Something I picked up from one of these team-building/management courses. "
some days we are the flies, some days we are the windscreens (maharaja phuknukel) |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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My ex had a "friend" I was totally accepting og this, his mum, my parents etc didnt like this relationship. Things happened, little things that should have made me think but I was totally in love and trusting. Moved away he told me(when we did break up eventually) that he thought it was a good idea to move away from her.
We moved in the jan, fell preggie in the feb, she came for a weekend when I was about 2 months preggie, massive bells rang for the firast time ever, I confronted him and he assured me all was fine. Carried on being happy, had a lovely baby boy in the october and then he left at the xmas.
Defining moment was when he said having kids will fuck uo my life while our 4 and half year old and 12 week old baby were sleeping upstairs in bed and also raised a hand to hit me.
Sent me deep into depression which swinging in many ways saved me including my family of course.
His relationship with kids isnt great die to his choices, kids are great now,I love swinging and still would love to meet a special man but really cant imagine trusting a man and who could be a good role model for my boys.
My life is beginnning again now. More rocky road to come still but o well lol
Stronger for it, just cant find even stronger men lol |
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my ex told me that he had been having thoughts that he had missed out on a lot not really having much of a social life growing up and wasn't sure what he wanted out of life anymore...this conversation happened while I was timing my contractions hours before I gave birth to our twins...going home when twins were 6 days old he said "oh I trust you aren't going to check my emails but I am chatting to zoe again", a woman he used to chat to online before he met me.he then proceeded to have a 3 month online affair with her which came to a head when after I had been in hospital after a collaspe from stress and exhaustion I found all their correspondance.we had a huge fight and he said he didn't want to be with me anymore anyways, but it was still a month of hell before he actually left when the twins were 4 months old, and our son was 2 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont really think i had a tipping point as such, i never loved my husband, i married him because i was pregnant and i felt trapped, i was very young and easily influanced so at the time felt i had to do it, i put nearly 18 years into my marrage, never relly wanting to be there but accepting it as my life, till i decided one day enough was enough and i wanted my life back
thing is ive wasted the best years of my life, im now well past anyone wanting me ive had 3 kids and because of this my bodys fucked lol and im the wrong side of 30 so i guess i'll never know what love is
thank god for these sites tho or id never get a shag either lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Left the house in the morning thinking things are not good .
Came home in the evening and she had left with my son .
Emotional for a while until I saw the ' remote control '. All mine at last lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont really think i had a tipping point as such, i never loved my husband, i married him because i was pregnant and i felt trapped, i was very young and easily influanced so at the time felt i had to do it, i put nearly 18 years into my marrage, never relly wanting to be there but accepting it as my life, till i decided one day enough was enough and i wanted my life back
thing is ive wasted the best years of my life, im now well past anyone wanting me ive had 3 kids and because of this my bodys fucked lol and im the wrong side of 30 so i guess i'll never know what love is
thank god for these sites tho or id never get a shag either lmao "
The first paragraph of your post could have been written by me (Lynne). Fortunately shortly after we split I met Andy and we have been together over 25 years and married more than 20. Best thing (apart from my kids) that ever happened to me, found my soulmate and wouldn't change a thing. Sometimes have to have the "bad" to appreciate the good when it finally comes along. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tipping point, this may sound trivial but when my wife finally admitted she had been smoking. I knew she was and had asked her on many occasions. I didn't care she was smoking, She's an adult and can make her own decisions, but the bare faced lying and the implication that I as her husband was sombody that she could not speak too.
As I say this was the tipping point, there had been many instances of lying in the past. This just made me re-evealuate what we had and I realised for all the promises, she would always choose to lie if it suited her and she got and easy life. Hence I deduced she didn't love or respect me and I was just a tick in a box.
Barry.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1981
I played in a football tournament in Utrecht. we stayed in the homes of the dutch players and i stayed with a bloke called Jan (pronounced yan). She saw hisname and address written in a book when I got back and she read it as Jan (pronounced Jan)
one thing led to another and she hit me
with a Morris 1300
at 20MPH
I didn't lol
weird thing is although I haven't seen her since, I'm somehow still fond of her!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sometimes it is very hard to walk away from someone you care about. even harder when that people has problems.
you can feel bad about ending it but what about you.
all of this does impact you and to leave or split cannot have been taken lightly.
just good luck for the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even Less do I understand how people share so easily .... Thanks for the Jeremy Kyle type thread..... velly intellesting.
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I guess each to their own, and some of us has a (much) smaller "personal" window than others etc...
I'm really stumped now Pearl. I'll have to private you ..... you asked for it .... Here I come !
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Replied!
And to clarify.
One that is prepared to share one's intimate/private information has a smaller personal window than those who don't.
Something I picked up from one of these team-building/management courses. "
Yes. Quite - but Pearl - they meant talk about your summer hol, the dog and the wallpaper.......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even Less do I understand how people share so easily .... Thanks for the Jeremy Kyle type thread..... velly intellesting.
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I guess each to their own, and some of us has a (much) smaller "personal" window than others etc...
I'm really stumped now Pearl. I'll have to private you ..... you asked for it .... Here I come !
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Replied!
And to clarify.
One that is prepared to share one's intimate/private information has a smaller personal window than those who don't.
Something I picked up from one of these team-building/management courses.
Yes. Quite - but Pearl - they meant talk about your summer hol, the dog and the wallpaper....... "
They Did, but that is not what this thread is about Granny, you cynic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow!! what a thread !!
Thank you all for sharing,i wish i could but im afraid im still on that rocky road of recovery and rebuilding,reading some of this has made me realise there is light at the end of the tunnel and i can become "me" again xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After months of suspicions that he was cheating on me I found absolute proof that he had. I walked out of his house that day and have never spoken to him since.
The hardest thing I have ever done!"
im sorry you had to face that. it must have been the most gut wrenching thing to do.
seems a lot of sadness out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow!! what a thread !!
Thank you all for sharing,i wish i could but im afraid im still on that rocky road of recovery and rebuilding,reading some of this has made me realise there is light at the end of the tunnel and i can become "me" again xxxxx"
u sure can and it ain't half fun when u get there. best wishes. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After months of suspicions that he was cheating on me I found absolute proof that he had. I walked out of his house that day and have never spoken to him since.
The hardest thing I have ever done!
im sorry you had to face that. it must have been the most gut wrenching thing to do.
seems a lot of sadness out there "
there are a lot of sad stories....and none worse than the next.
however, what we all get from the hard times is the strength and the knowledge it blesses you with so you (hopefully) don't allow the mistakes from the past either to haunt you or repeat themselves.
me and my ex respect why we split and I won't discuss them here, but I never grieved, felt sad or bitter or resented the fact he is now with someone else. the relationship was over and i think most of us do our mourning before we reach that moment where we say "enough".
good luck to everyone that's made it out alive!! |
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hi its sad when sex does go out the windows my ex never asked for sex ever was just content to go out get pissed drink wine at home wait for me to go to bed and get up first she did that to her ex too ? ? i know what you mean the first time dating again i started snogging was wonderfull felt like 16 again paul |
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A husband who thought more of his squadron buddies and bar fly pals, was frequently violent towards me when d*unk but I took it all.
Until I found out about his girlfriend of almost a year, while he was working abroad..... think it was the night I beat fuck out of him with a frozen salmon was the actual tipping point though........we never recovered after that although tried to keep 'working things out' for five years... she was just the end of it all for me. |
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Done 2 tours of duty and still marching.
The hardest thing i have learnt is to wake up and see just four walls.
no people just four walls.
Go on dating sites which was not good.
so false and living in daydreams of 1 day my prince will come.
Then came on swinging sites and made so many friends.
real people who know exactly what they are and what they want. |
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"A husband who thought more of his squadron buddies and bar fly pals, was frequently violent towards me when d*unk but I took it all.
Until I found out about his girlfriend of almost a year, while he was working abroad..... think it was the night I beat fuck out of him with a frozen salmon was the actual tipping point though........we never recovered after that although tried to keep 'working things out' for five years... she was just the end of it all for me. "
A frozen salmon !!! what a waste of good fish ,a bag of frozen sprouts yeah ,even a frozen bag of peas or
mixed veg ....
Hell truly has no fury like a woman scorned |
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"A husband who thought more of his squadron buddies and bar fly pals, was frequently violent towards me when d*unk but I took it all.
Until I found out about his girlfriend of almost a year, while he was working abroad..... think it was the night I beat fuck out of him with a frozen salmon was the actual tipping point though........we never recovered after that although tried to keep 'working things out' for five years... she was just the end of it all for me.
A frozen salmon !!! what a waste of good fish ,a bag of frozen sprouts yeah ,even a frozen bag of peas or
mixed veg ....
Hell truly has no fury like a woman scorned "
Method in my madness.....Like Roald Dahl's story 'Lamb to the slaughter', I'd have cooked it and fed the police the murder weapon!!! |
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"A husband who thought more of his squadron buddies and bar fly pals, was frequently violent towards me when d*unk but I took it all.
Until I found out about his girlfriend of almost a year, while he was working abroad..... think it was the night I beat fuck out of him with a frozen salmon was the actual tipping point though........we never recovered after that although tried to keep 'working things out' for five years... she was just the end of it all for me.
A frozen salmon !!! what a waste of good fish ,a bag of frozen sprouts yeah ,even a frozen bag of peas or
mixed veg ....
Hell truly has no fury like a woman scorned
Method in my madness.....Like Roald Dahl's story 'Lamb to the slaughter', I'd have cooked it and fed the police the murder weapon!!! "
shudddderrrrs ...ever thought of changing your name to side show bob... |
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I once ended a relationship by chucking his car keys in a ditch.... let me explain why!
I was sharing a house with two female friends, one of which was also called Claire.
On returning from a night out, (in fact it was Valentines Day) with my boyfriend, our other friend and her boyf and my (then single) friend Claire, in a taxi all together, he went into her room with her and spent the night in her bed!!!!
They had both gone missing for a while that night out, but I had failed to realise they were awol together!
So the next morning she and he left, in her car and returned an hour later in convoy having gone to collect his vehicle.
In his haste to get back in to her room with her, he left his car keys in the ignition, so I chucked them in a ditch!
Think him sleeping with her, may have been the tipping point! |
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