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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"I know but she is gouges she come with agency but would love to meet her "
It's unprofessional and could get you in a lot of trouble if she complains to her agency or your boss and her extremely upset but you don't want to hear that do you? Everyone says leave it but I suspect you were looking for validation rather than advice......... |
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"Hi guys need your advice l worked with someone l was winking on fabs should l put my picture so that she knows it's me or just leave it ? Do women want to meet there work mate "
I'd turn it round and say that if she expresses an interest in your profile you should warn her who you are before taking it any further(so she can also make the decision about mixing work and pleasure herself). If she doesn't, then say nothing and block her. If she isn't interested in your profile from a wink, nor as a person in work, telling her you know she's on here probably won't go well I'm afraid. (Like Lickawitch said)
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I know but she is gouges she come with agency but would love to meet her
It's unprofessional and could get you in a lot of trouble if she complains to her agency or your boss and her extremely upset but you don't want to hear that do you? Everyone says leave it but I suspect you were looking for validation rather than advice........."
I can't see how he'd get in trouble - what would she say? "Someone at work has sent me a message on a swingers site we're both on!!"
I do suggest OP as Mr DDC said that you should send her a message and make her aware - not asking to meet, just simply stating the fact you've seen her.
The ball is then in her court.
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I do suggest OP as Mr DDC said that you should send her a message and make her aware - not asking to meet, just simply stating the fact you've seen her.
The ball is then in her court.
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Noooo, that's not what I meant, that's the bit I think sounds a bit stalkery if she has shown no interest either at work, or from when he winked at her.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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I do suggest OP as Mr DDC said that you should send her a message and make her aware - not asking to meet, just simply stating the fact you've seen her.
The ball is then in her court.
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Noooo, that's not what I meant, that's the bit I think sounds a bit stalkery if she has shown no interest either at work, or from when he winked at her.
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Sorry. Hadn't had my first brew of the day! 
If her profile has a face pic then I see no issue in him sending a message. He must have seen something to recognise her.
If it's not 100% certain then if it's not her then no harm will be done.
I'd say it's more stalkery not to say anything. At least she'd know and could block if not interested (which if she's sensible about not mixing work and pleasure she'd do!) whereas right now he can browse her profile and follow her activities.
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"Hi guys need your advice l worked with someone l was winking on fabs should l put my picture so that she knows it's me or just leave it ? Do women want to meet there work mate "
Very few people with common sense would want to meet a work colleague. At work you should be dedicating your efforts to your career / job and not trying to arrange fab meets .Your private life and your work life are two entirely different parts of your life and should remain separate .  |
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