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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When sending your initial message to a hopeful meet, I've been trying the polite approach and it doesn't seem to be getting much, if any, response, should I try a more vulgar route like my fello single guys? What type of message do you prefer to receive, straight to the point or an introductory message asking if interested in chatting first and seeing where it leads? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I've been on this site before, like a lot seem to mention in their profile text, I didnt bother putting it in as it seems irrelevant. But thanks for your input   |
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Oi, don't blame other makes or assume were vulgar and you're superior to avoid the fact that you're likely just not that appealing.
That being said, there's around ten men per woman lower your expectations and try to stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oi, don't blame other makes or assume were vulgar and you're superior to avoid the fact that you're likely just not that appealing.
That being said, there's around ten men per woman lower your expectations and try to stand out. "
I've been watching the forums for a while and most do complain about single guys 3 word messages, and I don't think I'm better than anyone else here, and I've been trying to stand out since I joined, its quite possible that I'm not what most are looking for? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Has family, can't accommodate.
Why should any woman pick you out of a theoretical 9 other guys. "
So is it just bored married women looking for fun on this site  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I look at a profile before I read the message to see if I like the look of them or not if I don't I just delete the message you will find most Women take this approach |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been watching the forums for a while and most do complain about single guys 3 word messages, and I don't think I'm better than anyone else here, and I've been trying to stand out since I joined, its quite possible that I'm not what most are looking for?"
As is the case in the real world, you tend to hear more about peoples bad experiences than good and that applies here too.
I would suspect that the guys sending these 'bad' messages may actually be in a minority, but since we never really hear about people getting a decent message it's very difficult to quantify any possible ratio or even make a comment about which 'type' of bloke is in the majority. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I look at a profile before I read the message to see if I like the look of them or not if I don't I just delete the message you will find most Women take this approach "
Well there's no way I'm putting up a what's up with my profile, I've seen how they pan out and it's not pretty, specially as its Thursday too  |
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"Oi, don't blame other makes or assume were vulgar and you're superior to avoid the fact that you're likely just not that appealing.
That being said, there's around ten men per woman lower your expectations and try to stand out.
I've been watching the forums for a while and most do complain about single guys 3 word messages, and I don't think I'm better than anyone else here, and I've been trying to stand out since I joined, its quite possible that I'm not what most are looking for?"
You've been here 3 weeks....
Yes a lot of people make jokes and complain about the one liner guys but say 50% are one liners that still leaves 4 guys and you in the running.
So what's special about you?
What can you offer that they can't?
I'm sorry to burst your bubble but you're nothing special, at all.
Lower your expectations and keep trying. Look at other single successful guys and take notes.
Oh and if you can't accommodate because of that family that's more baggage that a lot of people don't want when there's 30 younger, hotter guys with bigger cocks who Can access. |
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"I've been watching the forums for a while and most do complain about single guys 3 word messages, and I don't think I'm better than anyone else here, and I've been trying to stand out since I joined, its quite possible that I'm not what most are looking for?
As is the case in the real world, you tend to hear more about peoples bad experiences than good and that applies here too.
I would suspect that the guys sending these 'bad' messages may actually be in a minority, but since we never really hear about people getting a decent message it's very difficult to quantify any possible ratio or even make a comment about which 'type' of bloke is in the majority."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe if I lie about my personal sercumstances? That might work? Right? I know from being on here last time that a lot of "single guys" lie about a lot of things to get a shag, not me I'm afraid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has family, can't accommodate.
Why should any woman pick you out of a theoretical 9 other guys.
So is it just bored married women looking for fun on this site "
No, why would you think that?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oi, don't blame other makes or assume were vulgar and you're superior to avoid the fact that you're likely just not that appealing.
That being said, there's around ten men per woman lower your expectations and try to stand out.
I've been watching the forums for a while and most do complain about single guys 3 word messages, and I don't think I'm better than anyone else here, and I've been trying to stand out since I joined, its quite possible that I'm not what most are looking for?
You've been here 3 weeks....
Yes a lot of people make jokes and complain about the one liner guys but say 50% are one liners that still leaves 4 guys and you in the running.
So what's special about you?
What can you offer that they can't?
I'm sorry to burst your bubble but you're nothing special, at all.
Lower your expectations and keep trying. Look at other single successful guys and take notes.
Oh and if you can't accommodate because of that family that's more baggage that a lot of people don't want when there's 30 younger, hotter guys with bigger cocks who Can access."
What makes you so fucking special? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oi, don't blame other makes or assume were vulgar and you're superior to avoid the fact that you're likely just not that appealing.
That being said, there's around ten men per woman lower your expectations and try to stand out.
I've been watching the forums for a while and most do complain about single guys 3 word messages, and I don't think I'm better than anyone else here, and I've been trying to stand out since I joined, its quite possible that I'm not what most are looking for?
You've been here 3 weeks....
Yes a lot of people make jokes and complain about the one liner guys but say 50% are one liners that still leaves 4 guys and you in the running.
So what's special about you?
What can you offer that they can't?
I'm sorry to burst your bubble but you're nothing special, at all.
Lower your expectations and keep trying. Look at other single successful guys and take notes.
Oh and if you can't accommodate because of that family that's more baggage that a lot of people don't want when there's 30 younger, hotter guys with bigger cocks who Can access.
What makes you so fucking special?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been on this site before, like a lot seem to mention in their profile text, I didnt bother putting it in as it seems irrelevant. But thanks for your input "
Mentioning you've been here before probably acts against those that say it. There are a lot of people who join and leave regularly. It's not a good way to show you're genuinely meeting and/or reliable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Go polite, the one liners just get deleted, if your polite at least we will look at your profile, if you appeal then we will continue chatting or its a no thanks"
Agreed, I've seen some crude messages and statuses from single guys and do wonder why they think they would get a response |
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