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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How much do you sabotage potential meets?

Things like -

If they are scarily good-looking, they must be a fake profile?

And then there's the "their previous veris are too good-looking, so I don't want a pity fuck".

Or you think they aren't that interested so instead of asking, you just stop talking to them.

Do you sabotage meets? How often? And how?

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Never, what would be the point in that?

If you put the spadework in at the beginning, you expect to get your pot of gold at the end surely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just don't talk to hardly anyone who messages me, lol. No need to sabotage anything.

More seriously, if someone likes me then they like me, and nothing like other meets and that would put me off meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd just say thanks but no thanks If they are what I deem to good for me x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm guilty of doing 2 and 3 in the past

I can overthink things a lot....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't need to...Most are put off when they realise how infrequently i can meet anyway so why would i want to deliberately put guys off? ?

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

Only when their stated versus real aims/fantasies are too ridiculous for me to partake of

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"Do you sabotage meets? How often? And how?"

Yes.

All the time.

Simply by the wording at the top of our profile and in the first paragraph.

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By *ustcutieWoman over a year ago

edinburgh

"I don't need to...Most are put off when they realise how infrequently i can meet anyway so why would i want to deliberately put guys off? ?"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tell them straight. If someone really good looking with a nice body messages I chat a bit,same as I would with anyone else. The wankers don't last long as I don't do wank talk. Sometimes it's ended in meeting up. If I don't fancy someone I will say

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