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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? " I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from." you did by saying she's also intelligent... | |||
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"I don't really like that word, but for the sake of this thread, it was the best I could conceive. I met a woman years ago on here, who was, for want of a better expression, the aforementioned true slut. She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission. Some of the stories she told me still excite me to this day, and whilst sadly I didn't know her long enough to explore more with her, the sheer hunger with which she fucked and moaned convinced me that she wasn't making any of it up. Now don't think for a moment I'm being derogatory toward her, she was also a very intelligent, friendly and lovely looking woman who I've missed a lot over the years, it's simply that I found her sexual nature fascinating, and wanted to hear from more women who had similar sexual urges, and why they appeal to you, what is it about this kind of sluttish/whorishness in sex that excites you?" I do all the things you describe, but I don't consider myself a slut or a whore. I believe I'm a sexually liberated and promiscuous person. | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... " And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification?" because it's sexist drivel. | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons)." I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing." Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. " How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x" By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other. | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing." I'm still stalking this topic though.  | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive?" Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please?" I quote: "She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission." | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x" he "excuses" promiscuity by saying she's also intelligent/attractive/nice. he uses derogatory terms for females instead of just acknowledging it as a love of sex. he also treats females as a different sub species by addressing them alone as in only a woman could be a slut/whore. | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other." Either that or acknowledging the fact that a woman can be both. Seriously, I think you're both either bored or just looking to pick a fight. | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? I quote: "She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission."" So, to reiterate: Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other." That makes no sense. You can describe people using more then one word. If someone described me as short and funny, I wouldn't think he was reinforcing that he believes people can only be one or the other | |||
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"Why is it considered sluttish and whorish to be sexually confident if you are a woman, it still amazes me that on a site that caters for everything and everyone some men still can't get their head around the fact that women like sex too and some of us aren't afraid to show it " | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other. Either that or acknowledging the fact that a woman can be both. Seriously, I think you're both either bored or just looking to pick a fight." Your posts about women are always so weird, like you're observing and studying them instead of treating women as equals. why do you need to be told a female can enjoy sex? it's dumb | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? I quote: "She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission." So, to reiterate: Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please?" The words where you said 'she had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out'. "Whoring" - working as a prostitute. That *almost always* suggests you're sleeping with quite a high amount of people. | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? I quote: "She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission." So, to reiterate: Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? The words where you said 'she had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out'. "Whoring" - working as a prostitute. That *almost always* suggests you're sleeping with quite a high amount of people." also, women who have 1 or minimal number of partners aren't thought of as "sluts"  | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other. Either that or acknowledging the fact that a woman can be both. Seriously, I think you're both either bored or just looking to pick a fight. Your posts about women are always so weird, like you're observing and studying them instead of treating women as equals. why do you need to be told a female can enjoy sex? it's dumb" Thankyou for clarifying that you simply don't understand the things I'm writing, as opposed to me actually being misogynistic
I find women fascinating, I have no problem saying that, hence why some of the things I write about women sound rather analytical, it doesn't mean that I _iew them as another species. | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? I quote: "She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission." So, to reiterate: Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? The words where you said 'she had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out'. "Whoring" - working as a prostitute. That *almost always* suggests you're sleeping with quite a high amount of people. also, women who have 1 or minimal number of partners aren't thought of as "sluts" "That is true. Women who enjoy having sex with minimal amounts of partners and who *don't* indulge in promiscuous behaviour are normally insulted by being called "frigid". | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other. Either that or acknowledging the fact that a woman can be both. Seriously, I think you're both either bored or just looking to pick a fight. Your posts about women are always so weird, like you're observing and studying them instead of treating women as equals. why do you need to be told a female can enjoy sex? it's dumb Thankyou for clarifying that you simply don't understand the things I'm writing, as opposed to me actually being misogynistic
I find women fascinating, I have no problem saying that, hence why some of the things I write about women sound rather analytical, it doesn't mean that I _iew them as another species."it's not lack of comprehension, i do think you're massively sexist and completely understand your lack of success with women. | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? I quote: "She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission." So, to reiterate: Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? The words where you said 'she had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out'. "Whoring" - working as a prostitute. That *almost always* suggests you're sleeping with quite a high amount of people." I like your use of the word 'almost' there. On this occasion, my use of the word whoring implied that she would do pretty much anything to please, as opposed to engage in sex with multiple partners for cash. As I touched upon above, try to understand my arguments before taking offence to them. | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? I quote: "She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission." So, to reiterate: Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? The words where you said 'she had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out'. "Whoring" - working as a prostitute. That *almost always* suggests you're sleeping with quite a high amount of people. I like your use of the word 'almost' there. On this occasion, my use of the word whoring implied that she would do pretty much anything to please, as opposed to engage in sex with multiple partners for cash. As I touched upon above, try to understand my arguments before taking offence to them." It would help people understand your argument if you used correct wording. Whoring means being paid for sex. Were you paying her for sex or weren't you? | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? I quote: "She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission." So, to reiterate: Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? The words where you said 'she had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out'. "Whoring" - working as a prostitute. That *almost always* suggests you're sleeping with quite a high amount of people. I like your use of the word 'almost' there. On this occasion, my use of the word whoring implied that she would do pretty much anything to please, as opposed to engage in sex with multiple partners for cash. As I touched upon above, try to understand my arguments before taking offence to them." yes, you're just misunderstood | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other. Either that or acknowledging the fact that a woman can be both. Seriously, I think you're both either bored or just looking to pick a fight."
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other. Either that or acknowledging the fact that a woman can be both. Seriously, I think you're both either bored or just looking to pick a fight. Your posts about women are always so weird, like you're observing and studying them instead of treating women as equals. why do you need to be told a female can enjoy sex? it's dumb Thankyou for clarifying that you simply don't understand the things I'm writing, as opposed to me actually being misogynistic
I find women fascinating, I have no problem saying that, hence why some of the things I write about women sound rather analytical, it doesn't mean that I _iew them as another species.
it's not lack of comprehension, i do think you're massively sexist and completely understand your lack of success with women. "Depends on what you define as a lack of success? | |||
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"Wow, that escalated rather quickly. I'm fortunate to have my own ultra slut who acts in the ways the OP describes. Yes, she's mine. Sexist as hell I'm sure but hey." Just don't say she's also intelligent or you'll be a sexist pig x  | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other. Either that or acknowledging the fact that a woman can be both. Seriously, I think you're both either bored or just looking to pick a fight. Your posts about women are always so weird, like you're observing and studying them instead of treating women as equals. why do you need to be told a female can enjoy sex? it's dumb Thankyou for clarifying that you simply don't understand the things I'm writing, as opposed to me actually being misogynistic
I find women fascinating, I have no problem saying that, hence why some of the things I write about women sound rather analytical, it doesn't mean that I _iew them as another species.
it's not lack of comprehension, i do think you're massively sexist and completely understand your lack of success with women.
Depends on what you define as a lack of success?"I'll refer you back to your own posts about being turned down or lack of sex for ~12 months. it's clear why you're frustrated with women | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? I quote: "She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission." So, to reiterate: Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? The words where you said 'she had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out'. "Whoring" - working as a prostitute. That *almost always* suggests you're sleeping with quite a high amount of people. I like your use of the word 'almost' there. On this occasion, my use of the word whoring implied that she would do pretty much anything to please, as opposed to engage in sex with multiple partners for cash. As I touched upon above, try to understand my arguments before taking offence to them. It would help people understand your argument if you used correct wording. Whoring means being paid for sex. Were you paying her for sex or weren't you?" There was nothing wrong with my wording, you simply took it out of context - now that I've explained what I meant, are we to continue arguing about it, or do you want to share your thoughts on sexual liberty as the thread was intended? | |||
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"Wow, that escalated rather quickly. I'm fortunate to have my own ultra slut who acts in the ways the OP describes. Yes, she's mine. Sexist as hell I'm sure but hey. Just don't say she's also intelligent or you'll be a sexist pig x "Damn, I'll lie and say she's stupid then  | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? I quote: "She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission." So, to reiterate: Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? The words where you said 'she had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out'. "Whoring" - working as a prostitute. That *almost always* suggests you're sleeping with quite a high amount of people. I like your use of the word 'almost' there. On this occasion, my use of the word whoring implied that she would do pretty much anything to please, as opposed to engage in sex with multiple partners for cash. As I touched upon above, try to understand my arguments before taking offence to them. It would help people understand your argument if you used correct wording. Whoring means being paid for sex. Were you paying her for sex or weren't you? There was nothing wrong with my wording, you simply took it out of context - now that I've explained what I meant, are we to continue arguing about it, or do you want to share your thoughts on sexual liberty as the thread was intended?" I'm sexually liberated, I sleep with lots of people, but I'm not a slut. I might be a whore though. If whoring has now changed definition to not mean being paid for sex. Although if it's changed definition, I'm not really sure what it means. | |||
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"Why is it considered sluttish and whorish to be sexually confident if you are a woman, it still amazes me that on a site that caters for everything and everyone some men still can't get their head around the fact that women like sex too and some of us aren't afraid to show it "
I enjoy sex, a lot, I do not see myself as whoring myself out by choosing lots of people to have sex with. I don't see myself as a slut for enjoying many different sexual practices, including being an exhibitionist. I don't see myself as submitting to anyone's will. If I offer to let someone control a particular meeting it's on my terms and is a gift not a submission.
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other. Either that or acknowledging the fact that a woman can be both. Seriously, I think you're both either bored or just looking to pick a fight. Your posts about women are always so weird, like you're observing and studying them instead of treating women as equals. why do you need to be told a female can enjoy sex? it's dumb Thankyou for clarifying that you simply don't understand the things I'm writing, as opposed to me actually being misogynistic
I find women fascinating, I have no problem saying that, hence why some of the things I write about women sound rather analytical, it doesn't mean that I _iew them as another species.
it's not lack of comprehension, i do think you're massively sexist and completely understand your lack of success with women.
Depends on what you define as a lack of success?
I'll refer you back to your own posts about being turned down or lack of sex for ~12 months. it's clear why you're frustrated with women"Rather than me bothering to argue with that, I'm more curious as to why your profile has the exact same wording as countless others I've seen? Oh, and no verifications at all...? | |||
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" On this occasion, my use of the word whoring implied that she would do pretty much anything to please, as opposed to engage in sex with multiple partners for cash. As I touched upon above, try to understand my arguments before taking offence to them." I don't like the word whoring - but we all have words we dislike sexually. I'm not 100% sure what you are asking. I would say though, that maybe she got a buzz sexually from having to make no decisions sexually. She enjoyed pleasing others and through doing that it gave her a level of satisfaction too. If she had a demanding life and she made lots of decisions all the time - handing herself over completely - took that decision making need away - just for the time of that sexual experience. To me - it's similar to men who have very demanding jobs and who are very alphas male to the outside world who want to be completely submissive sexually. It can apply to both sexes. | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other. Either that or acknowledging the fact that a woman can be both. Seriously, I think you're both either bored or just looking to pick a fight. Your posts about women are always so weird, like you're observing and studying them instead of treating women as equals. why do you need to be told a female can enjoy sex? it's dumb Thankyou for clarifying that you simply don't understand the things I'm writing, as opposed to me actually being misogynistic
I find women fascinating, I have no problem saying that, hence why some of the things I write about women sound rather analytical, it doesn't mean that I _iew them as another species.
it's not lack of comprehension, i do think you're massively sexist and completely understand your lack of success with women.
Depends on what you define as a lack of success?
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other. Either that or acknowledging the fact that a woman can be both. Seriously, I think you're both either bored or just looking to pick a fight. Your posts about women are always so weird, like you're observing and studying them instead of treating women as equals. why do you need to be told a female can enjoy sex? it's dumb Thankyou for clarifying that you simply don't understand the things I'm writing, as opposed to me actually being misogynistic
I find women fascinating, I have no problem saying that, hence why some of the things I write about women sound rather analytical, it doesn't mean that I _iew them as another species.
it's not lack of comprehension, i do think you're massively sexist and completely understand your lack of success with women.
Depends on what you define as a lack of success?
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Rather than me bothering to argue with that, I'm more curious as to why your profile has the exact same wording as countless others I've seen? Oh, and no verifications at all...?"my profile was auto-filled by the site at sign up. no meet verifications, no. I am photo verified. | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other. Either that or acknowledging the fact that a woman can be both. Seriously, I think you're both either bored or just looking to pick a fight. Your posts about women are always so weird, like you're observing and studying them instead of treating women as equals. why do you need to be told a female can enjoy sex? it's dumb Thankyou for clarifying that you simply don't understand the things I'm writing, as opposed to me actually being misogynistic
I find women fascinating, I have no problem saying that, hence why some of the things I write about women sound rather analytical, it doesn't mean that I _iew them as another species.
it's not lack of comprehension, i do think you're massively sexist and completely understand your lack of success with women.
Depends on what you define as a lack of success?
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? I quote: "She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission." So, to reiterate: Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? The words where you said 'she had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out'. "Whoring" - working as a prostitute. That *almost always* suggests you're sleeping with quite a high amount of people. I like your use of the word 'almost' there. On this occasion, my use of the word whoring implied that she would do pretty much anything to please, as opposed to engage in sex with multiple partners for cash. As I touched upon above, try to understand my arguments before taking offence to them. It would help people understand your argument if you used correct wording. Whoring means being paid for sex. Were you paying her for sex or weren't you? There was nothing wrong with my wording, you simply took it out of context - now that I've explained what I meant, are we to continue arguing about it, or do you want to share your thoughts on sexual liberty as the thread was intended? I'm sexually liberated, I sleep with lots of people, but I'm not a slut. I might be a whore though. If whoring has now changed definition to not mean being paid for sex. Although if it's changed definition, I'm not really sure what it means." Alright, but I was being more specific than that in my opening post. Lots of people enjoy sex with multiple partners, but I'm more about those sex acts in general, I mean would you consider yourself to be a particularly intense sex partner, willing to do almost anything to please the other person, and do you derive your own pleasure from this form of submissiveness? | |||
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"Wow, that escalated rather quickly. I'm fortunate to have my own ultra slut who acts in the ways the OP describes. Yes, she's mine. Sexist as hell I'm sure but hey. Just don't say she's also intelligent or you'll be a sexist pig x
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"Alright, but I was being more specific than that in my opening post. Lots of people enjoy sex with multiple partners, but I'm more about those sex acts in general, I mean would you consider yourself to be a particularly intense sex partner, willing to do almost anything to please the other person, and do you derive your own pleasure from this form of submissiveness?" When I'm submissive and with one of my long term dominant partners, sure, I'll do *many* things to please the other person. I don't think that makes me a 'true slut' though. It's not a word I identify with. My partners believe I'm pretty good in bed - intense if you will. But none of them would call me a slut. | |||
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" On this occasion, my use of the word whoring implied that she would do pretty much anything to please, as opposed to engage in sex with multiple partners for cash. As I touched upon above, try to understand my arguments before taking offence to them. I don't like the word whoring - but we all have words we dislike sexually. I'm not 100% sure what you are asking. I would say though, that maybe she got a buzz sexually from having to make no decisions sexually. She enjoyed pleasing others and through doing that it gave her a level of satisfaction too. If she had a demanding life and she made lots of decisions all the time - handing herself over completely - took that decision making need away - just for the time of that sexual experience. To me - it's similar to men who have very demanding jobs and who are very alphas male to the outside world who want to be completely submissive sexually. It can apply to both sexes. " THANKYOU. That's the kind of response I was looking for. So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? | |||
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"I am a true slut. I genuinely love being fucked and even have my own gloryhole. While initially I felt that I shouldn't have sex with lots of men or nsa, I now think the opposite. There are men who I see in the street who clearly need a blowjob and I would gladly suck their dick just for the pleasure of feeling a man in need empty his balls in my mouth. I don't need to know his name. I don't expect anything in return except a mouthful of cum. He doesn't even need to be good looking. Just the feeling of being fucked or sucking and getting up to filthy times is the biggest turn on for me. I've sucked off an armed police officer on duty, a married man in the toilets of a pub while his family was in the beer garden outside, been spitroasted by squaddies in an alleyway, climbed into truckers cabs and sat on their cock and have several regulars who use my mouth as a cum dump to or from their way home or to work or to pub. The man who built me my gloryhole I've been sucking off for nearly 8 years. He has spunked in my mouth countless times and I don't even know his name or think he is that attractive but he has a fantastic cock and is a heavy cummer and I love it. I'm a true slut. At the same time I don't let it affect my work or family or relationships. For me the men i meet are just sexual. A cock to satisfy my pussy. The ejaculation to satisfy my thirst for cum. I'm not emotionally connected to them. A lot of people may be judgemental about it but the truth is I simply don't care any more. You only live once and I'd rather have the experiences than regret not having them. Men tell me they need to fuck my ass and they wanna use me as a fuck toy. Well I need to be fucked and I use them as fuck toys, otherwise I'm not satisfied. Dunno what people make of that. " wonder if the OP will accept this answer as you're not cisfemale... | |||
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x" calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. | |||
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" There are men who I see in the street who clearly need a blowjob.... " How do you recognise them, is there a blowjob need walk ? | |||
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. " Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x | |||
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" There are men who I see in the street who clearly need a blowjob.... How do you recognise them, is there a blowjob need walk ? "Did you not get the memo? Might explain why all those randy men were chasing you down the street... they just wanted to help! | |||
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x" if that were the case, he wouldn't have excused the use of the words with "but don't worry, she's nice really!". he acknowledged them being derogatory. | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that." How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? | |||
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" On this occasion, my use of the word whoring implied that she would do pretty much anything to please, as opposed to engage in sex with multiple partners for cash. As I touched upon above, try to understand my arguments before taking offence to them. I don't like the word whoring - but we all have words we dislike sexually. I'm not 100% sure what you are asking. I would say though, that maybe she got a buzz sexually from having to make no decisions sexually. She enjoyed pleasing others and through doing that it gave her a level of satisfaction too. If she had a demanding life and she made lots of decisions all the time - handing herself over completely - took that decision making need away - just for the time of that sexual experience. To me - it's similar to men who have very demanding jobs and who are very alphas male to the outside world who want to be completely submissive sexually. It can apply to both sexes. THANKYOU. That's the kind of response I was looking for. So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them?" It's all to do with the mind. She had the ultimate control over it all though. | |||
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" There are men who I see in the street who clearly need a blowjob.... How do you recognise them, is there a blowjob need walk ?
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Might explain why all those randy men were chasing you down the street... they just wanted to help!"and I thought they just wanted to stroke my beard! Now I have to change the way I walk haha | |||
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x" I don't believe he said he called her that to her face, he has used those words to describe her to us...there is a huge difference. | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different?" I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. | |||
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x if that were the case, he wouldn't have excused the use of the words with "but don't worry, she's nice really!". he acknowledged them being derogatory. " If i agreed with you, we'd both be wrong. I've had enough of this childish back and forth we've got going on. You stick to your guns love See ya later  x | |||
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x if that were the case, he wouldn't have excused the use of the words with "but don't worry, she's nice really!". he acknowledged them being derogatory. If i agreed with you, we'd both be wrong. I've had enough of this childish back and forth we've got going on. You stick to your guns love See ya later x"Silly | |||
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"It's all to do with the mind. She had the ultimate control over it all though." I suppose it's rather like when you see a pic in most fabbed of a girl presenting her ass to the camera, sighing lustfully. Indeed it would very much appear to be a submissive pose, but when you think about the hundreds of males whose hearts will race and tongues hang as they rush to message her, you have to ask who has the power really? | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason." There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. | |||
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"what is it about this kind of sluttish/whorishness in sex that excites you?" Nothing about a man using the words 'slut' and 'whore' to describe a sexually liberated female exites me. | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually." Why? Can people not simply enjoy something without having to rationalise and justify it? A | |||
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"Wow, that escalated rather quickly. I'm fortunate to have my own ultra slut who acts in the ways the OP describes. Yes, she's mine. Sexist as hell I'm sure but hey." Same here - i love the fact that she is the way she is . She loves being the slut and when in the zone can't get enough . She is also intelligent and a great mother , and for me the perfect wife . | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually." No. There doesn't have to be. Why do you enjoy sex? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being dominant? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being submissive? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy hot tea tree baths? Because they feel good. Why do I enjoy doughnuts? Mmmm... doughnuts... | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. No. There doesn't have to be. Why do you enjoy sex? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being dominant? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being submissive? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy hot tea tree baths? Because they feel good. Why do I enjoy doughnuts? Mmmm... doughnuts..." I agree with all you say except the bits about doughnuts and tea tree baths | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. No. There doesn't have to be. Why do you enjoy sex? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being dominant? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being submissive? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy hot tea tree baths? Because they feel good. Why do I enjoy doughnuts? Mmmm... doughnuts... I agree with all you say except the bits about doughnuts and tea tree baths "Now. Have you ever considered humiliation? Cause I've got a nice hot bath and some doughnuts just waiting here... for you... | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. Why? Can people not simply enjoy something without having to rationalise and justify it? A" Dunno, perhaps I'm just curious, I mean, WHY do you feel like you have to contribute to EVERY single thread I post? I can't say I've even once felt the same way in return... | |||
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"I am his slut, and love being a little whore hungry for him It seems that you understand the context in which I used those words, do you savour the feeling of saying them, in relation to what you do for him sexually? " Obviously, or I wouldn't do it. Its as much about my pleasure and enjoyment as it is about his. Its not a one way thing. And taking a small part of what I was saying completely ignores the context of that being within a trusting relationship... | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. No. There doesn't have to be. Why do you enjoy sex? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being dominant? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being submissive? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy hot tea tree baths? Because they feel good. Why do I enjoy doughnuts? Mmmm... doughnuts..." Look, please don't ever kill anyone, ok? I really don't think that kind of reasoning would go down well in court. Prosecution: Wasphunter, why did you murder that person. Wasphunter: Because I wanted to. Jury: | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. Why? Can people not simply enjoy something without having to rationalise and justify it? A Dunno, perhaps I'm just curious, I mean, WHY do you feel like you have to contribute to EVERY single thread I post? I can't say I've even once felt the same way in return..." lol attitude | |||
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"I am his slut, and love being a little whore hungry for him It seems that you understand the context in which I used those words, do you savour the feeling of saying them, in relation to what you do for him sexually? Obviously, or I wouldn't do it. Its as much about my pleasure and enjoyment as it is about his. Its not a one way thing." My opening post made it quite clear that I never thought it was, I was openly curious about the enjoyment the submissive women got from the sex. | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. Why? Can people not simply enjoy something without having to rationalise and justify it? A Dunno, perhaps I'm just curious, I mean, WHY do you feel like you have to contribute to EVERY single thread I post? I can't say I've even once felt the same way in return..." Every one? You're not that interesting. But as another poster said. Why? Why can something not be enjoyed for what it is. Enjoyable. All the over thinking and over analysing in the world doesn't change the simple fact that some people enjoy things for the simple reason that they find them pleasurable with no other motive, justification or forethought. If every action and activity had to be thoroughly evaluated before and after most people would miss out on a lot of enjoyment and some of life's little suprises. A | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. No. There doesn't have to be. Why do you enjoy sex? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being dominant? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being submissive? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy hot tea tree baths? Because they feel good. Why do I enjoy doughnuts? Mmmm... doughnuts... Look, please don't ever kill anyone, ok? I really don't think that kind of reasoning would go down well in court. Prosecution: Wasphunter, why did you murder that person. Wasphunter: Because I wanted to. Jury: "To be fair, if I killed someone that would almost certainly be the reason why I did it. So are you satisfied now that some women can just enjoy being sexually submissive without some ulterior motive? | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. Why? Can people not simply enjoy something without having to rationalise and justify it? A Dunno, perhaps I'm just curious, I mean, WHY do you feel like you have to contribute to EVERY single thread I post? I can't say I've even once felt the same way in return... Every one? You're not that interesting. " Ah ah ah, a little denial there? Seriously, if its not EVERY thread I post, it's 9/10 of them. I'll have to keep a link to this thread, and link to it each time you post on any of my subsequent ones. | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. No. There doesn't have to be. Why do you enjoy sex? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being dominant? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being submissive? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy hot tea tree baths? Because they feel good. Why do I enjoy doughnuts? Mmmm... doughnuts... Look, please don't ever kill anyone, ok? I really don't think that kind of reasoning would go down well in court. Prosecution: Wasphunter, why did you murder that person. Wasphunter: Because I wanted to. Jury:
To be fair, if I killed someone that would almost certainly be the reason why I did it.
So are you satisfied now that some women can just enjoy being sexually submissive without some ulterior motive?"No, as I know the next time I see the look on a womans face as she climaxes whilst in a sexually subservient situation will only reignite my curiosity. | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. Why? Can people not simply enjoy something without having to rationalise and justify it? A Dunno, perhaps I'm just curious, I mean, WHY do you feel like you have to contribute to EVERY single thread I post? I can't say I've even once felt the same way in return... Every one? You're not that interesting. Ah ah ah, a little denial there? Seriously, if its not EVERY thread I post, it's 9/10 of them. I'll have to keep a link to this thread, and link to it each time you post on any of my subsequent ones." Really so are you suggesting certain people can't post on your threads?
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. Why? Can people not simply enjoy something without having to rationalise and justify it? A Dunno, perhaps I'm just curious, I mean, WHY do you feel like you have to contribute to EVERY single thread I post? I can't say I've even once felt the same way in return... Every one? You're not that interesting. Ah ah ah, a little denial there? Seriously, if its not EVERY thread I post, it's 9/10 of them. I'll have to keep a link to this thread, and link to it each time you post on any of my subsequent ones. Really so are you suggesting certain people can't post on your threads? "Nope - once more on this thread I ask, kindly point out where I said that? | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. Why? Can people not simply enjoy something without having to rationalise and justify it? A Dunno, perhaps I'm just curious, I mean, WHY do you feel like you have to contribute to EVERY single thread I post? I can't say I've even once felt the same way in return... Every one? You're not that interesting. Ah ah ah, a little denial there? Seriously, if its not EVERY thread I post, it's 9/10 of them. I'll have to keep a link to this thread, and link to it each time you post on any of my subsequent ones." Ok. Go for it. I had to chuckle at one of your posts the other day (and wow - I managed not to post on the thread - go me!!!) "There are numerous categories of swinger: Single males Single females Couples MF Couples FF Couples MM TV/TS Sexybrain" You're definitely right there. I'll leave you to your thread now. Good luck with the statistical analysis. Let me know when I hit 9/10. A | |||
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"Dear sexybrain, I'm not sure you understand women at all "i don't think most men understand women..... but i do think there is a sliding scale of (and i dont know if there is a right the word I am looking for... but you know what i mean) ignorance/savvy/understanding..... | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. No. There doesn't have to be. Why do you enjoy sex? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being dominant? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being submissive? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy hot tea tree baths? Because they feel good. Why do I enjoy doughnuts? Mmmm... doughnuts... Look, please don't ever kill anyone, ok? I really don't think that kind of reasoning would go down well in court. Prosecution: Wasphunter, why did you murder that person. Wasphunter: Because I wanted to. Jury:
To be fair, if I killed someone that would almost certainly be the reason why I did it.
So are you satisfied now that some women can just enjoy being sexually submissive without some ulterior motive?
No, as I know the next time I see the look on a womans face as she climaxes whilst in a sexually subservient situation will only reignite my curiosity."Why don't you just think to yourself 'her kink is to be sexually submissive because she enjoys it' and carry on with your life? And why does nobody ever ask if people like being dominant (such as yourself) only enjoy it because they like to wield power over people because they have a crap job with no responsibility? | |||
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x if that were the case, he wouldn't have excused the use of the words with "but don't worry, she's nice really!". he acknowledged them being derogatory. " Could be because society assumes a slut isn't intelligent,isn't nice and looks down on them. I saw it as he didn't want people to think he was doing that. Words can just be a description of behaviour. I'm a slut,I whore my body out for free. I fucking love it. I'm not on here for the flattery and adoration. I'm here for fucking in every possible way I can manage. Men want to use me,they can use me as much as I'm using them for my own slutty satisfaction. I like a bit of eroticism,kissing and cuddling sometimes too. Which I get because I'm on here | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. No. There doesn't have to be. Why do you enjoy sex? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being dominant? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy being submissive? Because it feels good. Why do I enjoy hot tea tree baths? Because they feel good. Why do I enjoy doughnuts? Mmmm... doughnuts... Look, please don't ever kill anyone, ok? I really don't think that kind of reasoning would go down well in court. Prosecution: Wasphunter, why did you murder that person. Wasphunter: Because I wanted to. Jury:
To be fair, if I killed someone that would almost certainly be the reason why I did it.
So are you satisfied now that some women can just enjoy being sexually submissive without some ulterior motive?
No, as I know the next time I see the look on a womans face as she climaxes whilst in a sexually subservient situation will only reignite my curiosity.
Why don't you just think to yourself 'her kink is to be sexually submissive because she enjoys it' and carry on with your life?
And why does nobody ever ask if people like being dominant (such as yourself) only enjoy it because they like to wield power over people because they have a crap job with no responsibility?"Pretty much the long and short of it yes. Lol, but seriously, I enjoy playing the dominant role because I enjoy the trust I'm given, it makes me feel valued. It's another reason why I have a liking for lifting women in my arms. | |||
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x if that were the case, he wouldn't have excused the use of the words with "but don't worry, she's nice really!". he acknowledged them being derogatory. Could be because society assumes a slut isn't intelligent,isn't nice and looks down on them. I saw it as he didn't want people to think he was doing that. Words can just be a description of behaviour. I'm a slut,I whore my body out for free. I fucking love it. I'm not on here for the flattery and adoration. I'm here for fucking in every possible way I can manage. Men want to use me,they can use me as much as I'm using them for my own slutty satisfaction. I like a bit of eroticism,kissing and cuddling sometimes too. Which I get because I'm on here "Have a gold star. And a kiss. On the ass x | |||
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x if that were the case, he wouldn't have excused the use of the words with "but don't worry, she's nice really!". he acknowledged them being derogatory. Could be because society assumes a slut isn't intelligent,isn't nice and looks down on them. I saw it as he didn't want people to think he was doing that. Words can just be a description of behaviour. I'm a slut,I whore my body out for free. I fucking love it. I'm not on here for the flattery and adoration. I'm here for fucking in every possible way I can manage. Men want to use me,they can use me as much as I'm using them for my own slutty satisfaction. I like a bit of eroticism,kissing and cuddling sometimes too. Which I get because I'm on here "a great post | |||
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" So you believe that this kind of submissiveness is a form of stress relief for them? In the last fifteen years on the BDSM I've met quite a few men who say that submission is a stress relief from their high power jobs. I've met only one woman who says that. How many women did you meet who had similar roles? Were their reasons any different? I know more submissive women than I do submissive men. Most of them do it because they enjoy it sexually. No other reason. There must be a reason WHY they enjoy it sexually. Why? Can people not simply enjoy something without having to rationalise and justify it? A Dunno, perhaps I'm just curious, I mean, WHY do you feel like you have to contribute to EVERY single thread I post? I can't say I've even once felt the same way in return... Every one? You're not that interesting. Ah ah ah, a little denial there? Seriously, if its not EVERY thread I post, it's 9/10 of them. I'll have to keep a link to this thread, and link to it each time you post on any of my subsequent ones. Ok. Go for it. I had to chuckle at one of your posts the other day (and wow - I managed not to post on the thread - go me!!!) There are numerous categories of swinger: Single males Single females Couples MF Couples FF Couples MM TV/TS Sexybrain You're definitely right there. I'll leave you to your thread now. Good luck with the statistical analysis. Let me know when I hit 9/10. A" Most people can remember a specific post they replied to, YOU can remember a specific post you didn't. | |||
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x if that were the case, he wouldn't have excused the use of the words with "but don't worry, she's nice really!". he acknowledged them being derogatory. Could be because society assumes a slut isn't intelligent,isn't nice and looks down on them. I saw it as he didn't want people to think he was doing that. Words can just be a description of behaviour. I'm a slut,I whore my body out for free. I fucking love it. I'm not on here for the flattery and adoration. I'm here for fucking in every possible way I can manage. Men want to use me,they can use me as much as I'm using them for my own slutty satisfaction. I like a bit of eroticism,kissing and cuddling sometimes too. Which I get because I'm on here "I think there's a huge difference between someone called themselves a slut or whore and someone calling them it for lack of better words. plus it seems like something he should've asked the individual instead of telling us all about her private life. | |||
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"I don't really like that word, but for the sake of this thread, it was the best I could conceive. I met a woman years ago on here, who was, for want of a better expression, the aforementioned true slut. She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission. Some of the stories she told me still excite me to this day, and whilst sadly I didn't know her long enough to explore more with her, the sheer hunger with which she fucked and moaned convinced me that she wasn't making any of it up. Now don't think for a moment I'm being derogatory toward her, she was also a very intelligent, friendly and lovely looking woman who I've missed a lot over the years, it's simply that I found her sexual nature fascinating, and wanted to hear from more women who had similar sexual urges, and why they appeal to you, what is it about this kind of sluttish/whorishness in sex that excites you?" Eeek! You're getting it tight with this thread
I have a very submissive side and believe it's my vent from some real life pressures. Handing myself over willingly is such a relief and gives me maximum sexual enjoyment. For me it's extreme but, equally vanilla meets hit all the right spots.
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x" That's not really how it works. If you know something can be offensive or upsetting to some people, you should avoid it. Some people like boxing, but you wouldn't go around thumping people and then say "what?! My friend over there is fine with it!" | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? I quote: "She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission." So, to reiterate: Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? The words where you said 'she had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out'. "Whoring" - working as a prostitute. That *almost always* suggests you're sleeping with quite a high amount of people. I like your use of the word 'almost' there. On this occasion, my use of the word whoring implied that she would do pretty much anything to please, as opposed to engage in sex with multiple partners for cash. As I touched upon above, try to understand my arguments before taking offence to them. It would help people understand your argument if you used correct wording. Whoring means being paid for sex. Were you paying her for sex or weren't you? There was nothing wrong with my wording, you simply took it out of context - now that I've explained what I meant, are we to continue arguing about it, or do you want to share your thoughts on sexual liberty as the thread was intended? I'm sexually liberated, I sleep with lots of people, but I'm not a slut. I might be a whore though. If whoring has now changed definition to not mean being paid for sex. Although if it's changed definition, I'm not really sure what it means. Alright, but I was being more specific than that in my opening post. Lots of people enjoy sex with multiple partners, but I'm more about those sex acts in general, I mean would you consider yourself to be a particularly intense sex partner, willing to do almost anything to please the other person, and do you derive your own pleasure from this form of submissiveness?" Yes for the right man I would and I have opened myself and shared every desire I have am not ashamed of anything ive done or anything that lurks in my deprived mind | |||
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"I don't really like that word, but for the sake of this thread, it was the best I could conceive. I met a woman years ago on here, who was, for want of a better expression, the aforementioned true slut. She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission. Some of the stories she told me still excite me to this day, and whilst sadly I didn't know her long enough to explore more with her, the sheer hunger with which she fucked and moaned convinced me that she wasn't making any of it up. Now don't think for a moment I'm being derogatory toward her, she was also a very intelligent, friendly and lovely looking woman who I've missed a lot over the years, it's simply that I found her sexual nature fascinating, and wanted to hear from more women who had similar sexual urges, and why they appeal to you, what is it about this kind of sluttish/whorishness in sex that excites you? Eeek! You're getting it tight with this thread
"Any different from usual? Is the fact I stand my ground as well? "I have a very submissive side and believe it's my vent from some real life pressures. Handing myself over willingly is such a relief and gives me maximum sexual enjoyment. For me it's extreme but, equally vanilla meets hit all the right spots. I personally (irrespective of others understanding) class myself as a slut not a slag "I find that luscious x | |||
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x That's not really how it works. If you know something can be offensive or upsetting to some people, you should avoid it. Some people like boxing, but you wouldn't go around thumping people and then say "what?! My friend over there is fine with it!" " That's not really how it works either, there's a considerable difference between taking offence to being punched, and a thread that was specifically worded to refer to a very specific type of sex. | |||
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"why did you have to separate intelligence from sexuality? I didn't, but I wanted to clarify that there was more to her appeal than simply the sex, as I've been here long enough to know how often people will jump to conclusions all too readily unless fully informed of where I'm coming from. you did by saying she's also intelligent... And as I just explained, I did so to prevent anyone from thinking I was being derogatory toward her - I've no idea why this even requires clarification? because it's sexist drivel. How so? I didn't find it sexist at all x By highlighting that this *particular* woman is both 'slutty' and 'intelligent' he's reinforcing that he believes most women are one or the other. That makes no sense. You can describe people using more then one word. If someone described me as short and funny, I wouldn't think he was reinforcing that he believes people can only be one or the other" | |||
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"I don't agree that having sex with many people makes you a slut for me its what you are willing to do for your partners that makes you a slut" Nope. slut sl?t/Submit noun derogatory 1. a woman who has many casual sexual partners. synonyms: promiscuous woman; More 2. dated a woman with low standards of cleanliness. | |||
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"If people don't like the OP why don't they leave him the fuck alone? Read another thread. I am utterly sick to death of some people jumping on people they don't like for no reason other than just to pick a fight. It's a fucking joke!!! OP good thread. Still thinking about your OP as I think it's a good question..." | |||
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"If people don't like the OP why don't they leave him the fuck alone? Read another thread. I am utterly sick to death of some people jumping on people they don't like for no reason other than just to pick a fight. It's a fucking joke!!! OP good thread. Still thinking about your OP as I think it's a good question..." | |||
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"I talked to a psychologist (in a non professional capacity ) who said that the seeds of our sexual preferences were set by the age of five, but it was subsequent interactions which determined which seeds took precedence. I have no idea how much any of that is true, but I do believe deep held desires originate from our experiences. If you think about why you do what you do too much, it'll cook your noodle. Some things are just best enjoyed. " Debs if my noodle were any more cooked, carbon would pour out of my ears. "If people don't like the OP why don't they leave him the fuck alone? Read another thread. I am utterly sick to death of some people jumping on people they don't like for no reason other than just to pick a fight. It's a fucking joke!!! OP good thread. Still thinking about your OP as I think it's a good question..." Thankyou Scarlet, and I didn't even think you liked me | |||
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"It's all to do with the mind. She had the ultimate control over it all though. I suppose it's rather like when you see a pic in most fabbed of a girl presenting her ass to the camera, sighing lustfully. Indeed it would very much appear to be a submissive pose, but when you think about the hundreds of males whose hearts will race and tongues hang as they rush to message her, you have to ask who has the power really?" | |||
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"If people don't like the OP why don't they leave him the fuck alone? Read another thread. I am utterly sick to death of some people jumping on people they don't like for no reason other than just to pick a fight. It's a fucking joke!!! OP good thread. Still thinking about your OP as I think it's a good question..."
I've been thinking about an answer for a while & still haven't come up with one.
That's because I'm over tired & judging by some responses a few others are too!
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x if that were the case, he wouldn't have excused the use of the words with "but don't worry, she's nice really!". he acknowledged them being derogatory. Could be because society assumes a slut isn't intelligent,isn't nice and looks down on them. I saw it as he didn't want people to think he was doing that. Words can just be a description of behaviour. I'm a slut,I whore my body out for free. I fucking love it. I'm not on here for the flattery and adoration. I'm here for fucking in every possible way I can manage. Men want to use me,they can use me as much as I'm using them for my own slutty satisfaction. I like a bit of eroticism,kissing and cuddling sometimes too. Which I get because I'm on here
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x if that were the case, he wouldn't have excused the use of the words with "but don't worry, she's nice really!". he acknowledged them being derogatory. Could be because society assumes a slut isn't intelligent,isn't nice and looks down on them. I saw it as he didn't want people to think he was doing that. Words can just be a description of behaviour. I'm a slut,I whore my body out for free. I fucking love it. I'm not on here for the flattery and adoration. I'm here for fucking in every possible way I can manage. Men want to use me,they can use me as much as I'm using them for my own slutty satisfaction. I like a bit of eroticism,kissing and cuddling sometimes too. Which I get because I'm on here
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"Some of the responses on this thread were very petty x just because you can't see the fault, it doesn't mean what was said was acceptable. Just because you've took offence, it doesn't mean what was said was unacceptable x calling a woman a slut and a whore due to lack of vocabulary isn't okay. Maybe she enjoyed being called a slut and a whore. I know i do and I'm sure other women do as well. Like I said, just because you took offence doesn't mean your right x if that were the case, he wouldn't have excused the use of the words with "but don't worry, she's nice really!". he acknowledged them being derogatory. Could be because society assumes a slut isn't intelligent,isn't nice and looks down on them. I saw it as he didn't want people to think he was doing that. Words can just be a description of behaviour. I'm a slut,I whore my body out for free. I fucking love it. I'm not on here for the flattery and adoration. I'm here for fucking in every possible way I can manage. Men want to use me,they can use me as much as I'm using them for my own slutty satisfaction. I like a bit of eroticism,kissing and cuddling sometimes too. Which I get because I'm on here
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"If people don't like the OP why don't they leave him the fuck alone? Read another thread. I am utterly sick to death of some people jumping on people they don't like for no reason other than just to pick a fight. It's a fucking joke!!! OP good thread. Still thinking about your OP as I think it's a good question...
I've been thinking about an answer for a while & still haven't come up with one.
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"I don't agree that having sex with many people makes you a slut for me its what you are willing to do for your partners that makes you a slut Nope. slut sl?t/Submit noun derogatory 1. a woman who has many casual sexual partners. synonyms: promiscuous woman; More 2. dated a woman with low standards of cleanliness. Only if you live your life from a dictionary entry. There would be no gender fluidity if we didn't adapt our language." Thank my dear this didn't come up on my thread i wonder why | |||
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"If people don't like the OP why don't they leave him the fuck alone? Read another thread. I am utterly sick to death of some people jumping on people they don't like for no reason other than just to pick a fight. It's a fucking joke!!! OP good thread. Still thinking about your OP as I think it's a good question... Why assume it's personal? I respond to threads because I want to say something on them. Just because my response does not agree with the OP doesn't mean I don't like that person - I only know them through what they post. It's an open forum and I'll read and respond as I please within the rules. " I think it's pretty obvious who is airing their opinions -in agreement or not- and those that are just taking the piss for the sole reason that they don't like the OP. ...Or the OP of whichever thread they jump on. Anyway I wasn't telling people what to do. It was a question. | |||
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"To answer the OP... I think your comment part way down about the submissive actually being dominant/ in charge is what does it for me. I don't sub in my head yet I do sometimes do what you describe. So in fact your friend may not have been submissive at all...." You're probably correct, I mean, as luscious as I remember the encounter being, and how fondly I remember it, chances are she doesn't think about me as often as I do her. What for me may well have been an incredibly exciting meet worth recounting, to her could have been just one of many to fulfil her hunger for male desire. | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons)." A) because who wants a prude? B) because men are fascinated and terrified by female sexuality in equal measure. Male patriarchy has spent centuries trying to own and control it in, from suppressing it to objectifying it and everything in between. But the truth is we struggle to deal with our own response to a 'liberated' woman - the 'slut' you describe, however she likes to be fucked, cannot be owned, cannot be kept, cannot be tied down, she doesn't need any one man, and that makes many of us feel very inadequate and small. On the other hand, we want all women to be like that, coz the sheer visceral and physical pleasure women can get out of sex is something men yearn for, and the freedom and hedonistic joy of a wanton woman infatuates us. Hope that clears it up... | |||
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"To answer the OP... I think your comment part way down about the submissive actually being dominant/ in charge is what does it for me. I don't sub in my head yet I do sometimes do what you describe. So in fact your friend may not have been submissive at all.... You're probably correct, I mean, as luscious as I remember the encounter being, and how fondly I remember it, chances are she doesn't think about me as often as I do her. What for me may well have been an incredibly exciting meet worth recounting, to her could have been just one of many to fulfil her hunger for male desire." This... | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). I wouldn't say 'used' women specifically, it's more that I'm fascinated by women who genuinely enjoy being submissive, not as a role in a dom/sub relationship, but rather it's simply the part of sex they find most appealing. Do you think that sleeping around means a woman is submissive? Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? I quote: "She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission." So, to reiterate: Point out to me where I mentioned sleeping around please? The words where you said 'she had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out'. "Whoring" - working as a prostitute. That *almost always* suggests you're sleeping with quite a high amount of people. I like your use of the word 'almost' there. On this occasion, my use of the word whoring implied that she would do pretty much anything to please, as opposed to engage in sex with multiple partners for cash. As I touched upon above, try to understand my arguments before taking offence to them. It would help people understand your argument if you used correct wording. Whoring means being paid for sex. Were you paying her for sex or weren't you? There was nothing wrong with my wording, you simply took it out of context - now that I've explained what I meant, are we to continue arguing about it, or do you want to share your thoughts on sexual liberty as the thread was intended? I'm sexually liberated, I sleep with lots of people, but I'm not a slut. I might be a whore though. If whoring has now changed definition to not mean being paid for sex. Although if it's changed definition, I'm not really sure what it means. Alright, but I was being more specific than that in my opening post. Lots of people enjoy sex with multiple partners, but I'm more about those sex acts in general, I mean would you consider yourself to be a particularly intense sex partner, willing to do almost anything to please the other person, and do you derive your own pleasure from this form of submissiveness?" I'll answer this question,yes I do. I thoroughly get off on being a woman who men want. Nothing wrong with it and it's incredibly hot sex being used by a hot man. I'm a very lucky woman | |||
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"I don't agree that having sex with many people makes you a slut for me its what you are willing to do for your partners that makes you a slut Nope. slut sl?t/Submit noun derogatory 1. a woman who has many casual sexual partners. synonyms: promiscuous woman; More 2. dated a woman with low standards of cleanliness. Only if you live your life from a dictionary entry. There would be no gender fluidity if we didn't adapt our language." Well, quite. But there's a difference between changing the meaning because there simply isn't a word/language to describe something... and... Just deciding that you don't like the way a word is used so you're going to use an arbitrary definition that you made up? "I'd like a ham and slut sandwich please" "You what?!" "You know, that stuff we used to call cheese. I call it slut now." | |||
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" There are men who I see in the street who clearly need a blowjob.... How do you recognise them, is there a blowjob need walk ? "They are obvious to the experienced eye. Men who are clearly not focusing on the task at hand, keep shifting positions, keep readjusting themselves, keep checking out women, sometimes agitated, no patience. Clearly their mind is elsewhere. Keep checking their phones. Silent smiles while looking up to make sure people can't see what they are looking at. I can spot them a mile off. | |||
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"I don't agree that having sex with many people makes you a slut for me its what you are willing to do for your partners that makes you a slut Nope. slut sl?t/Submit noun derogatory 1. a woman who has many casual sexual partners. synonyms: promiscuous woman; More 2. dated a woman with low standards of cleanliness. Only if you live your life from a dictionary entry. There would be no gender fluidity if we didn't adapt our language. Well, quite. But there's a difference between changing the meaning because there simply isn't a word/language to describe something... and... Just deciding that you don't like the way a word is used so you're going to use an arbitrary definition that you made up? "I'd like a ham and slut sandwich please" "You what?!" "You know, that stuff we used to call cheese. I call it slut now."" | |||
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"Just posting here so i can keep coming in and reading. Always wanted to know why guys like 'used' women...(for personal reasons). A) because who wants a prude? B) because men are fascinated and terrified by female sexuality in equal measure. Male patriarchy has spent centuries trying to own and control it in, from suppressing it to objectifying it and everything in between. But the truth is we struggle to deal with our own response to a 'liberated' woman - the 'slut' you describe, however she likes to be fucked, cannot be owned, cannot be kept, cannot be tied down, she doesn't need any one man, and that makes many of us feel very inadequate and small. On the other hand, we want all women to be like that, coz the sheer visceral and physical pleasure women can get out of sex is something men yearn for, and the freedom and hedonistic joy of a wanton woman infatuates us. Hope that clears it up..." I like that. | |||
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They are obvious to the experienced eye. Men who are clearly not focusing on the task at hand, keep shifting positions, keep readjusting themselves, keep checking out women, sometimes agitated, no patience. Clearly their mind is elsewhere. Keep checking their phones. Silent smiles while looking up to make sure people can't see what they are looking at. I can spot them a mile off. "Shit | |||
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"Offence is taken not given. A lot of comedians would have no careers if they avoided iffy subjects. Sexybrain tried his absolute best here to avoid offending anyone knowing he was on dodgy ground. It was inevitable that someone would pipe up. To me he just seems to have tried to defend himself the whole thread. Just my thoughts." FairPlay to him in my opinion. | |||
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"I don't agree that having sex with many people makes you a slut for me its what you are willing to do for your partners that makes you a slut Nope. slut sl?t/Submit noun derogatory 1. a woman who has many casual sexual partners. synonyms: promiscuous woman; More 2. dated a woman with low standards of cleanliness. Only if you live your life from a dictionary entry. There would be no gender fluidity if we didn't adapt our language. Well, quite. But there's a difference between changing the meaning because there simply isn't a word/language to describe something... and... Just deciding that you don't like the way a word is used so you're going to use an arbitrary definition that you made up? "I'd like a ham and slut sandwich please" "You what?!" "You know, that stuff we used to call cheese. I call it slut now."" I did laugh at that. A sandwich is an inanimate object,it has no actions to define it. If I say I act like a slut people wouldn't say that I am one. They may interchange slut for woman,only because of my actions. Back in the day when the word slut was used purely for derogatory purposes there were no women like us. Well,there were but they were called sluts and promiscuous. It was derogatory,now it's used to denote sexual preferences. Not by all of course. | |||
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"Offence is taken not given. A lot of comedians would have no careers if they avoided iffy subjects. Sexybrain tried his absolute best here to avoid offending anyone knowing he was on dodgy ground. It was inevitable that someone would pipe up. To me he just seems to have tried to defend himself the whole thread. Just my thoughts." I agree he was attacked straight out of the gates, but it hasn't escaped my notice that the only posts he has replied to (apart from to defend himself) are the ones posted by self confessed sluts, asking pretty prurient follow up questions. If someone's agenda is so obvious, then they can't always complain that there might be people who take issue with that. Also, as I have said before, the OP has been on here long enough to know which words can be offensive. I am pretty sure he knows exactly how his posts will be taken. | |||
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"Offence is taken not given. A lot of comedians would have no careers if they avoided iffy subjects. Sexybrain tried his absolute best here to avoid offending anyone knowing he was on dodgy ground. It was inevitable that someone would pipe up. To me he just seems to have tried to defend himself the whole thread. Just my thoughts." It's no different to what I have to do on most threads, but fortunately for everyone who sees me as a pigheaded twat pouring petrol on the fire, there's another who see's me as a man with an opinion who's willing to stand by it. And they're the ones I respect. | |||
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"Offence is taken not given. A lot of comedians would have no careers if they avoided iffy subjects. Sexybrain tried his absolute best here to avoid offending anyone knowing he was on dodgy ground. It was inevitable that someone would pipe up. To me he just seems to have tried to defend himself the whole thread. Just my thoughts. I agree he was attacked straight out of the gates, but it hasn't escaped my notice that the only posts he has replied to (apart from to defend himself) are the ones posted by self confessed sluts, asking pretty prurient follow up questions. If someone's agenda is so obvious, then they can't always complain that there might be people who take issue with that. Also, as I have said before, the OP has been on here long enough to know which words can be offensive. I am pretty sure he knows exactly how his posts will be taken." well said that lady | |||
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"Offence is taken not given. A lot of comedians would have no careers if they avoided iffy subjects. Sexybrain tried his absolute best here to avoid offending anyone knowing he was on dodgy ground. It was inevitable that someone would pipe up. To me he just seems to have tried to defend himself the whole thread. Just my thoughts. I agree he was attacked straight out of the gates, but it hasn't escaped my notice that the only posts he has replied to (apart from to defend himself) are the ones posted by self confessed sluts, asking pretty prurient follow up questions. If someone's agenda is so obvious, then they can't always complain that there might be people who take issue with that. Also, as I have said before, the OP has been on here long enough to know which words can be offensive. I am pretty sure he knows exactly how his posts will be taken." My thread the other day highlights how people can take offence from something that wasn't offensive or aimed at anyone. We have a forum for discussion,some people take everything personally and can't just discuss. I'm sure everyone at some point has used a word of term that has been construed as offensive by someone. | |||
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"My thread the other day highlights how people can take offence from something that wasn't offensive or aimed at anyone. We have a forum for discussion,some people take everything personally and can't just discuss. I'm sure everyone at some point has used a word of term that has been construed as offensive by someone." I agree that this forum is for discussion, but what does the OP gain by describing and ex lover in such a way? Yeah, she might be rocking with laughter at the whole thought of us clucking like hens about it, but it seems to me disrespectful, and I would soon dissuade a man from assuming that, just because I am uxorious in bed, I am to be considered a slut and a whore. Its 2015 for heavens sake. | |||
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"Offence is taken not given. A lot of comedians would have no careers if they avoided iffy subjects. Sexybrain tried his absolute best here to avoid offending anyone knowing he was on dodgy ground. It was inevitable that someone would pipe up. To me he just seems to have tried to defend himself the whole thread. Just my thoughts. I agree he was attacked straight out of the gates, but it hasn't escaped my notice that the only posts he has replied to (apart from to defend himself) are the ones posted by self confessed sluts, asking pretty prurient follow up questions. If someone's agenda is so obvious." And yet it should be perfectly clear what my agenda was from the get go, as I never made any attempt to hide it? I was sexually curious as to the nature of submissive women, and so pursued answers from those women who chose to share details about their own sex lives. I don't see this as being in any way inappropriate on a site that provides a potential avenue for people to pursue their sexual goals, where people have the freedom to disclose whatever details they feel comfortable with, if they choose to, of their own volition. | |||
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"My thread the other day highlights how people can take offence from something that wasn't offensive or aimed at anyone. We have a forum for discussion,some people take everything personally and can't just discuss. I'm sure everyone at some point has used a word of term that has been construed as offensive by someone. I agree that this forum is for discussion, but what does the OP gain by describing and ex lover in such a way? Yeah, she might be rocking with laughter at the whole thought of us clucking like hens about it" Most likely she would have, and probably taken the label as a great compliment. She was PROUD of her passionate level of submissiveness, and would probably be flattered that she'd inspired me to write a thread on her years later. | |||
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"Offence is taken not given. A lot of comedians would have no careers if they avoided iffy subjects. Sexybrain tried his absolute best here to avoid offending anyone knowing he was on dodgy ground. It was inevitable that someone would pipe up. To me he just seems to have tried to defend himself the whole thread. Just my thoughts. I agree he was attacked straight out of the gates, but it hasn't escaped my notice that the only posts he has replied to (apart from to defend himself) are the ones posted by self confessed sluts, asking pretty prurient follow up questions. If someone's agenda is so obvious. And yet it should be perfectly clear what my agenda was from the get go, as I never made any attempt to hide it? I was sexually curious as to the nature of submissive women, and so pursued answers from those women who chose to share details about their own sex lives. I don't see this as being in any way inappropriate on a site that provides a potential avenue for people to pursue their sexual goals, where people have the freedom to disclose whatever details they feel comfortable with, if they choose to, of their own volition." If you aren't interested in responses from women who object to being called sluts and whores, then make your question more considered towards getting what you were really after - women you could meet. | |||
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"Offence is taken not given. A lot of comedians would have no careers if they avoided iffy subjects. Sexybrain tried his absolute best here to avoid offending anyone knowing he was on dodgy ground. It was inevitable that someone would pipe up. To me he just seems to have tried to defend himself the whole thread. Just my thoughts. I agree he was attacked straight out of the gates, but it hasn't escaped my notice that the only posts he has replied to (apart from to defend himself) are the ones posted by self confessed sluts, asking pretty prurient follow up questions. If someone's agenda is so obvious, then they can't always complain that there might be people who take issue with that. Also, as I have said before, the OP has been on here long enough to know which words can be offensive. I am pretty sure he knows exactly how his posts will be taken. My thread the other day highlights how people can take offence from something that wasn't offensive or aimed at anyone. We have a forum for discussion,some people take everything personally and can't just discuss. I'm sure everyone at some point has used a word of term that has been construed as offensive by someone."
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"My thread the other day highlights how people can take offence from something that wasn't offensive or aimed at anyone. We have a forum for discussion,some people take everything personally and can't just discuss. I'm sure everyone at some point has used a word of term that has been construed as offensive by someone. I agree that this forum is for discussion, but what does the OP gain by describing and ex lover in such a way? Yeah, she might be rocking with laughter at the whole thought of us clucking like hens about it Most likely she would have, and probably taken the label as a great compliment. She was PROUD of her passionate level of submissiveness, and would probably be flattered that she'd inspired me to write a thread on her years later." Why do you struggle so hard to understand that one woman isn't all women? Maybe you could address that in your next post. | |||
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"Would this be the wrong time to mention that I love it when Mr ruggers calls me his little dirty slut? " Nope. Seems like perfect timing to me. Thanks for sharing btw. | |||
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"Would this be the wrong time to mention that I love it when Mr ruggers calls me his little dirty slut? Nope. Seems like perfect timing to me. Thanks for sharing btw. " Having read your _iews about feministy stuff I am guessing that is sarcasm. | |||
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"Would this be the wrong time to mention that I love it when Mr ruggers calls me his little dirty slut? Nope. Seems like perfect timing to me. Thanks for sharing btw. Having read your _iews about feministy stuff I am guessing that is sarcasm. "Nope. As if! The two can get along just fine. No objections from me on that one. | |||
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"I don't really like that word, but for the sake of this thread, it was the best I could conceive. I met a woman years ago on here, who was, for want of a better expression, the aforementioned true slut. She made no secret of the fact that she LOVED sex and debauchery, of many kinds, and had no problems frankly prostrating and whoring herself out, herself getting a massive thrill out of this kind of submission. Some of the stories she told me still excite me to this day, and whilst sadly I didn't know her long enough to explore more with her, the sheer hunger with which she fucked and moaned convinced me that she wasn't making any of it up. Now don't think for a moment I'm being derogatory toward her, she was also a very intelligent, friendly and lovely looking woman who I've missed a lot over the years, it's simply that I found her sexual nature fascinating, and wanted to hear from more women who had similar sexual urges, and why they appeal to you, what is it about this kind of sluttish/whorishness in sex that excites you?" Not wanting a argument but why use the word "slut" to me she is human and deserves to be looked that way and not a piece of meat | |||
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"My thread the other day highlights how people can take offence from something that wasn't offensive or aimed at anyone. We have a forum for discussion,some people take everything personally and can't just discuss. I'm sure everyone at some point has used a word of term that has been construed as offensive by someone. I agree that this forum is for discussion, but what does the OP gain by describing and ex lover in such a way? Yeah, she might be rocking with laughter at the whole thought of us clucking like hens about it, but it seems to me disrespectful, and I would soon dissuade a man from assuming that, just because I am uxorious in bed, I am to be considered a slut and a whore. Its 2015 for heavens sake." Well,I've just described how a regular partner of mine hurts me fucking my arse sometimes. I often refer to actual people when I talk about sex. I could say subject A or B,no one would be any the wiser. | |||
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"Would this be the wrong time to mention that I love it when Mr ruggers calls me his little dirty slut? Nope. Seems like perfect timing to me. Thanks for sharing btw. Having read your _iews about feministy stuff I am guessing that is sarcasm.
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"Offence is taken not given. A lot of comedians would have no careers if they avoided iffy subjects. Sexybrain tried his absolute best here to avoid offending anyone knowing he was on dodgy ground. It was inevitable that someone would pipe up. To me he just seems to have tried to defend himself the whole thread. Just my thoughts. I agree he was attacked straight out of the gates, but it hasn't escaped my notice that the only posts he has replied to (apart from to defend himself) are the ones posted by self confessed sluts, asking pretty prurient follow up questions. If someone's agenda is so obvious. And yet it should be perfectly clear what my agenda was from the get go, as I never made any attempt to hide it? I was sexually curious as to the nature of submissive women, and so pursued answers from those women who chose to share details about their own sex lives. I don't see this as being in any way inappropriate on a site that provides a potential avenue for people to pursue their sexual goals, where people have the freedom to disclose whatever details they feel comfortable with, if they choose to, of their own volition. If you aren't interested in responses from women who object to being called sluts and whores, then make your question more considered towards getting what you were really after - women you could meet." And again, you say that as though my desire to meet women by posting threads - another thing I make no attempt to hide - is in some way inappropriate? As for who I chose to reply to, I made it clear very early on that my slut/whore comments were used in a very specific fashion, and did not reflect my _iews on women in general. This has been clearly reiterated by myself and several others throughout the thread, and I have nothing more to say on such a pointless argument. | |||
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