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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Adam and I took a long walk today and were discussing everything we could think of. We started talking about our experiences with swinging and why we got into it in the first place.
My main reason was girl/girl play.
His was variety.
Variety is now entering into it for me too. We have also learned to communicate a lot better because of this lifestyle.
My question is...why did you get into swinging? Why do you continue in the lifestyle? |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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Initially I wanted to see him with another girl so I could see what he looked like doing all the things he does to me  we both got carried away and stay here because it's fun.....we have better and more intense sex with each other and always have but it is a giggle. If either of us decided it was boring we would stop in a heartbeat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Adam and I took a long walk today and were discussing everything we could think of. We started talking about our experiences with swinging and why we got into it in the first place.
My main reason was girl/girl play.
His was variety.
Variety is now entering into it for me too. We have also learned to communicate a lot better because of this lifestyle.
My question is...why did you get into swinging? Why do you continue in the lifestyle?"
Because it's a good way to meet people who often have similar interests to myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a swingle not a swinger as such, but I was single, high sex drive and frustrated, but also, being a single parent, rather bored and lonely in the evenings! Friends suggested this, and I love it, only met a couple of times, taken it slow to find guys I gel with, got a a lovely fwb now and we're going to explore more together. I love the forums, and the social side as much as the play,x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My fuck buddy mentioned it to me one day! It was something id heard of before and it did really interest me i just didnt want to do it alone.... So when he mentioned we could do it together i jumped at the chance! We set a profile up as fuckbuddy couple on here and took it from there really! We both now have the confidence to go it alone hence single profiles.... Except for swingers clubs we do that together!
I love every minute, i perv people quite alot on here now hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I started because there was a lack of decent men in my university city so I started looking on line and stumbled into swinging.... Never looked back.
I love sex but have no desire to have the headfuck of a relationship right now, so this suits me fine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being single, I don't really class myself as a swinger. I've always explored sexually and this is just another avenue to meet people who like to do the same. |
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Weird I was going to ask this same question!
Our sex life was amazing. We used to sneak off for cheeky weekends away, and no one knew we were together! Until our kids came along my body changed I had/have confidence issues. My fella joined fab but I was not intrested.. did he not want me any more? What was he looking for? So he let me take over the reigns a few weeks ago we chatted about what we wanted, what our fantasies are/were. I got talking to some couples and single men.. Again I discovered I had fantasies my fella has let me meet 2 men alone (on separate occasions) with strict boundaries in place, with a _iew to them becoming part of our 3some fantasy... Since I have been in control and we both know what we want, every night we have have some of the best sex we have had for 4/5 years!! Happy swinging I say.. as long as your meets know the boundaries, and you love each other as a couple who's to say people can not enjoy sex with others! I certainly do!! X
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Adam and I took a long walk today and were discussing everything we could think of. We started talking about our experiences with swinging and why we got into it in the first place.
My main reason was girl/girl play.
His was variety.
Variety is now entering into it for me too. We have also learned to communicate a lot better because of this lifestyle.
My question is...why did you get into swinging? Why do you continue in the lifestyle?"
 for us it was much the same reason tbh... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After 15 years of married monogamy and a patch of low self esteem because our sex life was scarce and dull, I suggested to hubby that we should try something different like swinging.
We discussed it for a year, then started going to clubs. It took a few goes before we actually swapped.
3 years later, it has really boosted my confidence, we've had some great experiences and we still do it. |
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We started with the swinging after discussing fantasies and deciding that a swingers club was the most likely place to allow these fantasies to happen.
In the 18 months since we started, our reasons for swinging have evolved. Basically it allows us sexy ally to do things we can't do with just the two of us... and obviously there's always another fantasy. Most of all though, we're both having a "fabulous" time.
Cal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we love meeting folk on the same sexual wavelength and want to share new experiences together with them - also have high sex drives that need nourishing  |
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I got into it from my ex wife I am in the RAF traveled away 9 months of the year when I came back the first couple of days sex was amazing but got kind of stale after. We wanted to learn more and play some of our fantasies out. We meet some outstanding people and it was great fun and I know it brought us closer together.
Yes I know she is my ex now but that was due to another reason pmd me if you would like to know
The main reason I still swing is to learn to satisfy my partner or teach  |
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