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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was wondering about women paying for sex is this a fantasy for some? I met up with a lady who was absolutely soaking for paying for sex found it very strange indeed at the time but have recently come across it again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was wondering about women paying for sex is this a fantasy for some? I met up with a lady who was absolutely soaking for paying for sex found it very strange indeed at the time but have recently come across it again "
I have paid for sex, so not a fantasy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm not at a point where I have had to (yet) for some it's not about needing to, it's about the excitement of it all. X"
Most definitely that's what I took it as from her anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm available for this service but I'll accept nothing less than 2 tubs of Ben and Jerry's.
I'm not cheap after all!"
I'll do it for 2 cans of Vimto and a bag of Bombay mix..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was wondering about women paying for sex is this a fantasy for some? I met up with a lady who was absolutely soaking for paying for sex found it very strange indeed at the time but have recently come across it again
I have paid for sex, so not a fantasy."
If you don't mind me asking how come you came to paying for sex a gorgeous lady like you I can imagine has people queuing up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm available for this service but I'll accept nothing less than 2 tubs of Ben and Jerry's.
I'm not cheap after all!
I'll do it for 2 cans of Vimto and a bag of Bombay mix....."
See this is why my business never gets off the ground all these scummy types who'll put out for buttons  |
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For some it's about ensuring that you can get absolutely what you want from a sex session. Many people promise that they can deliver the goods, be focused on their partner's desires etc, but the reality can quite often be different.
It's more common than we probably believe. I'll employ event naked waiters etc, which let's face it is about titillation. Guys go to lap dancing clubs and more frequently women go too.
Women now have more spending power than in the past, probably quite a few have had some poor lovers, so it adds up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm available for this service but I'll accept nothing less than 2 tubs of Ben and Jerry's.
I'm not cheap after all!
I'll do it for 2 cans of Vimto and a bag of Bombay mix.....
See this is why my business never gets off the ground all these scummy types who'll put out for buttons "
Join forces and I'll split the profit with ya then |
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As I age, then maybe I won't enjoy the volume of attention that I get today. That alone makes me think that I'll potentially enjoy the pleasure.
I'm not sure that just the process would be a turn-on, but as others hint that it can, maybe it would for me too 
A lot of my needs aren't sexual as such but appreciating attractive horny guys around me, for company, help with chores. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was wondering about women paying for sex is this a fantasy for some? I met up with a lady who was absolutely soaking for paying for sex found it very strange indeed at the time but have recently come across it again
I have paid for sex, so not a fantasy.
If you don't mind me asking how come you came to paying for sex a gorgeous lady like you I can imagine has people queuing up "
Because sometimes I want sex with the person that I choose, with no commitment or warm up, and I want to do exactly the things that I want to do without considering what they want to do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was wondering about women paying for sex is this a fantasy for some? I met up with a lady who was absolutely soaking for paying for sex found it very strange indeed at the time but have recently come across it again
I have paid for sex, so not a fantasy.
If you don't mind me asking how come you came to paying for sex a gorgeous lady like you I can imagine has people queuing up
Because sometimes I want sex with the person that I choose, with no commitment or warm up, and I want to do exactly the things that I want to do without considering what they want to do."
Well that would be exactly my reasoning. great profile btw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oh yes they pay for it alright. Washing some lazy gits underpants, cooking his tea and putting up with all the crap that many a married woman has to put up with ! |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"I was wondering about women paying for sex is this a fantasy for some? I met up with a lady who was absolutely soaking for paying for sex found it very strange indeed at the time but have recently come across it again
I have paid for sex, so not a fantasy.
If you don't mind me asking how come you came to paying for sex a gorgeous lady like you I can imagine has people queuing up
Because sometimes I want sex with the person that I choose, with no commitment or warm up, and I want to do exactly the things that I want to do without considering what they want to do."
Holy moly, that was an unexpectedly fierce turn on!.. gosh, wphor!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was wondering about women paying for sex is this a fantasy for some? I met up with a lady who was absolutely soaking for paying for sex found it very strange indeed at the time but have recently come across it again
I have paid for sex, so not a fantasy.
If you don't mind me asking how come you came to paying for sex a gorgeous lady like you I can imagine has people queuing up
Because sometimes I want sex with the person that I choose, with no commitment or warm up, and I want to do exactly the things that I want to do without considering what they want to do.
Holy moly, that was an unexpectedly fierce turn on!.. gosh, wphor! "
Whenever I've discussed this publicly I always get guys messaging saying 'it would be such a turn on to be treated in the way you describe, I'd do it without the money'.
The reality is when I've met a couple of guys that said that, in fact they wanted to get off too. And do their own thing. |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"I was wondering about women paying for sex is this a fantasy for some? I met up with a lady who was absolutely soaking for paying for sex found it very strange indeed at the time but have recently come across it again
I have paid for sex, so not a fantasy.
If you don't mind me asking how come you came to paying for sex a gorgeous lady like you I can imagine has people queuing up
Because sometimes I want sex with the person that I choose, with no commitment or warm up, and I want to do exactly the things that I want to do without considering what they want to do.
Holy moly, that was an unexpectedly fierce turn on!.. gosh, wphor!
Whenever I've discussed this publicly I always get guys messaging saying 'it would be such a turn on to be treated in the way you describe, I'd do it without the money'.
The reality is when I've met a couple of guys that said that, in fact they wanted to get off too. And do their own thing."
I think I'm still exploring the idea of being something of a subject without the capacity to resist. Certainly, there are times when I'm filled with the urge to be in control and seek my own release (clumsily put, I know), but there's definitely a part of many men that desires all control being taken away. How that might work when not so much immobilized as made to perform in a somewhat dominant role yet at the direction of another, I'm yet to discover. But then that's just another part of the journey. |
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"I was wondering about women paying for sex is this a fantasy for some? I met up with a lady who was absolutely soaking for paying for sex found it very strange indeed at the time but have recently come across it again
I have paid for sex, so not a fantasy.
If you don't mind me asking how come you came to paying for sex a gorgeous lady like you I can imagine has people queuing up "
 Some people will want to be in total control. A make escort will have to do as the lady instructs and she is not under any obligation to provide him anything in return. |
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Nothing new here...Check out single (mainly) British women goin to turkey Tunisia etc...It is fairly common for them to 'spoil ' local brown skinned men..
They are relatively poor and we are relatively rich.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm available for this service but I'll accept nothing less than 2 tubs of Ben and Jerry's.
I'm not cheap after all!
I'll do it for 2 cans of Vimto and a bag of Bombay mix.....
See this is why my business never gets off the ground all these scummy types who'll put out for buttons "
Chocolate buttons go well with Ben n Jerrys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see the attraction
I think it would be great to have a guy who was their solely for my pleasure, somebody to totally spoil me and conform to my every sexual needs
I have never paid for sex but it's something that the thought turns me on |
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"I can see the attraction
I think it would be great to have a guy who was their solely for my pleasure, somebody to totally spoil me and conform to my every sexual needs
I have never paid for sex but it's something that the thought turns me on "
Try a role play...great fun..
I once dressed as a whore and hung around on the street..kerb crawler arrived,wound window down, I said "lookin for business? "& away we went...fun negotiations!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does frustrate me slightly that when guys talk about paying for sex it's treated as quite a serious thing. When a woman talks about paying for sex it's treated as something to laugh or joke about. |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"It does frustrate me slightly that when guys talk about paying for sex it's treated as quite a serious thing. When a woman talks about paying for sex it's treated as something to laugh or joke about."
Social conditioning I suppose. Personally, though, I don't see any difference between the two in this context - people are just people as far as I can tell, motivated by all sorts of needs and desires sometimes regardless of gender. |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
"Nothing new here...Check out single (mainly) British women goin to turkey Tunisia etc...It is fairly common for them to 'spoil ' local brown skinned men..
They are relatively poor and we are relatively rich.
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Yeah, I've seen that happening in Turkey and in parts of Africa - it used to be very common along the Kenyan coast, all the way from Mombassa to Lamu. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a bit of me that does like the idea but he would have to be something pretty spectacular "
Oh God yes
if I was paying it would have to be somebody I would have no chance pulling in real life |
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By *huramMan
over a year ago
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"It does frustrate me slightly that when guys talk about paying for sex it's treated as quite a serious thing. When a woman talks about paying for sex it's treated as something to laugh or joke about."
I agree with this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a bit of me that does like the idea but he would have to be something pretty spectacular
Oh God yes
if I was paying it would have to be somebody I would have no chance pulling in real life "
If Mr Tatum ever joined fab id be one of those creeps offering him money for a snog and a feel lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is a program about it now on quest red, women paying for sex with jodie march.
I wouldn't pay to have sex with jodie marsh  "
She got nice boobs tho and she said in the end, to have the perfect date you have to pay lol. |
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