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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

that they are here is no surprise, they are just after a reaction especially if their ego has been wounded by rejection..

rise above it and ignore..

concentrate on the nice types..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't let them get to you. The weekend all the trolls come out to play - by Monday they're back under the bridge hiding from the goats !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I go to the gym , they do a fantastic meat ball ciabatta and as for their chocolate muffins , well

Don't let the buggers get you down , ignore block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And your response should be

"I could go to the gym but you'd still be an arsehole"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't let them get to you. The weekend all the trolls come out to play - by Monday they're back under the bridge hiding from the goats ! "

Well said. You look lovely. Best ignored!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd ask them for a lift, I'm too lazy to walk or cycle! Ignore twats like that, they do it to boost their clearly fragile ego.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"that they are here is no surprise, they are just after a reaction especially if their ego has been wounded by rejection..

rise above it and ignore..

concentrate on the nice types..

Yes thanks hun, just mad me angry more than upset as I am a very confident women.xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't let them get to you. The weekend all the trolls come out to play - by Monday they're back under the bridge hiding from the goats ! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't let the b£&&?!$s grind you down. Shows what kind of people they are and personally I wouldn't want to go anywhere near them. Hold your head up high and try not to let their stupid comments upset you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't let them get to you. The weekend all the trolls come out to play - by Monday they're back under the bridge hiding from the goats ! "

This made me

awww.xxx

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan over a year ago

here

I was about to launch in to a list of the really bad (painful) massages I have had over the years when travelling - but then read the thread

Great busoms btw

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's always going to be jealous people hunny. Probably some saddo you wouldn't look twice at anyway. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think there's some generally snobby harsh people on this site, especially towards men. There's just no need for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Awww thanks u lovely funny lot, put a smile back on my face .xxxx

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Think there's some generally snobby harsh people on this site, especially towards men. There's just no need for it. "

only the fuckwits..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There's always going to be jealous people hunny. Probably some saddo you wouldn't look twice at anyway. X "

In general there are some lovely people here who acually have become good friends of mine so cheers to the good and booooo to the hatter's.

And you are classed as 1 of my friends here hunny.xxx mwahhh

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By *hooWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

I try not let them get to me as I was receiving them quite often as I usef to try being polite saying thanks but no thanks and on a few occasions received insults back. Now I just instantly delete the messages if I know i don't want to play with them.

I feel a lot of people have lost any sense of manners or respect on this site

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Think there's some generally snobby harsh people on this site, especially towards men. There's just no need for it.

only the fuckwits.. "

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's ukip voters everywhere unfortunately!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's ukip voters everywhere unfortunately!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think some of these young, fit guys take offence and have their egos hammered when rejected by overweight women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's always going to be jealous people hunny. Probably some saddo you wouldn't look twice at anyway. X

In general there are some lovely people here who acually have become good friends of mine so cheers to the good and booooo to the hatter's.

And you are classed as 1 of my friends here hunny.xxx mwahhh"

Mwah to you too hunny. Hey I have turned from being gorgeous to a fat fucker. Usually after I have politely declined someone's kind offer of a fuck lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All sorts of weirdos about just block and ignore

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's always going to be jealous people hunny. Probably some saddo you wouldn't look twice at anyway. X

In general there are some lovely people here who acually have become good friends of mine so cheers to the good and booooo to the hatter's.

And you are classed as 1 of my friends here hunny.xxx mwahhh

Mwah to you too hunny. Hey I have turned from being gorgeous to a fat fucker. Usually after I have politely declined someone's kind offer of a fuck lol xxx"

Me too, I think its hilarious

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There's always going to be jealous people hunny. Probably some saddo you wouldn't look twice at anyway. X

In general there are some lovely people here who acually have become good friends of mine so cheers to the good and booooo to the hatter's.

And you are classed as 1 of my friends here hunny.xxx mwahhh

Mwah to you too hunny. Hey I have turned from being gorgeous to a fat fucker. Usually after I have politely declined someone's kind offer of a fuck lol xxx"

Iv been many things but to tell me go to the gym you fat fucker was a bit harsh...but I did giggle as well reading it from a 22 year old...xx

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By *ilthyHabitCouple over a year ago

south west

It's those sort of people that can't handle the curves!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"All sorts of weirdos about just block and ignore

Ow don't worry he was blocked instantly

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's those sort of people that can't handle the curves!!!

Love that...power to the curves.xx

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By *huramMan over a year ago

Abergavenny

Block, delete and never respond to them.

Those who want a reaction, hate not getting a reaction.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've had my own same messages over the years, being accused of being anorexic etc so you just need to suck it up buttercup and ignore and move on

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Judgmental people are so far up their own arses they can't see what they are missing out on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

What a sweet message.

Bless, thankyou hunny...xxx

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By *nleashedin89Man over a year ago

south shields

People have to try and belittle other people because their insecure about them selves ...fact!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Judgmental people are so far up their own arses they can't see what they are missing out on."

I don't actually think these abusive types are on here to meet. I think there's a small minority of people on here who think its acceptable to hurl abuse at random strangers for no reason at all other than to make them feel big as they lack any self confidence in themselves so putting people down boosts their sad pathetic egos. Sad that they don't have a life!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

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By *ilthyHabitCouple over a year ago

south west

"It's those sort of people that can't handle the curves!!!

Love that...power to the curves.xx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"People have to try and belittle other people because their insecure about them selves ...fact!

So true ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

don't let them get to you hun.. its there loss if they dont want fun with a curvy lady.. we all know curvy ladies are more fun both in and out of the bedroom. . rude i know but i prefer a curvy woman sat over my face than a skinny woman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"that they are here is no surprise, they are just after a reaction especially if their ego has been wounded by rejection..

rise above it and ignore..

concentrate on the nice types..

Yes thanks hun, just mad me angry more than upset as I am a very confident women.xx

And so you should be. These small minded people get a kick because they are inadequate. Tiny penis, premature ejaculation, just plain ignorant. It makes them feel important if they think they are getting to you. Truth is, they are insignificant.

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By *andy6677Man over a year ago

crewe

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Some idiots and trolls on here just do it to provoke reactions xx Your not fat but curvy and very sexy in my opinion xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got a nasty msg saying they would love to fuck me but only if I had a paper bag covering my ugly face!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Judgmental people are so far up their own arses they can't see what they are missing out on.

this..

the actuality of meeting someone for some is just a wank fantasy..

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

Here we go a curvy versus slim

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All sorts of weirdos about just block and ignore

Ow don't worry he was blocked instantly"

Very good i think they do it to inflate there ego because there lacking elsewhere.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Judgmental people are so far up their own arses they can't see what they are missing out on.

Very true, life is what you make it and I intend to live mine to the max and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You look perfect to me Hun just block them xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Tell them your there now shagging g the gym bunny whose built like a brick shit house ...ask em if they want to join I ...seriously gawjus lady ignore people like that ain't worth a reply..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not "

Iam overweight That's not my issue it's there's

But if you don't like a profile you just move on to the profile you like.

There's no need to message people and be nasty.

Just move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's always going to be jealous people hunny. Probably some saddo you wouldn't look twice at anyway. X

In general there are some lovely people here who acually have become good friends of mine so cheers to the good and booooo to the hatter's.

And you are classed as 1 of my friends here hunny.xxx mwahhh

Mwah to you too hunny. Hey I have turned from being gorgeous to a fat fucker. Usually after I have politely declined someone's kind offer of a fuck lol xxx

Iv been many things but to tell me go to the gym you fat fucker was a bit harsh...but I did giggle as well reading it from a 22 year old...xx"

His mummy probably told him off for being on the computer too long.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them. "

But if they decided the OP wasn't for them, why did they have to message her in the first place?

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

I treat the occasional nasty message (and it is only occasional; most people on this site have better things to do with their time) the same way I treat the messages telling me I'm beautiful or have a lovely tight fanny when neither my face or Lady parts are on public display as misguided attempts at getting a response that are easy to just ignore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

Iam overweight That's not my issue it's there's

But if you don't like a profile you just move on to the profile you like.

There's no need to message people and be nasty.

Just move on."

I agree no need

When young attractive guys are ignored or turned down by overweight older women it seem to turn them into sulky kids

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

I would happily change my name to Jim if you would come to me...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them.

But if they decided the OP wasn't for them, why did they have to message her in the first place?

No idea I'm not them. Like I said not good to send nasty messages but ignore , block and move on is all it takes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got a nasty msg saying they would love to fuck me but only if I had a paper bag covering my ugly face!

My response would have been, "And I would like to fuck you . ....... With a club hammer"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I fortunately don't get much abuse but if I do, I like to be overly polite, it winds them up more and they don't know how to take it and I always thank them for showing their true colours, wish them well than block them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I fortunately don't get much abuse but if I do, I like to be overly polite, it winds them up more and they don't know how to take it and I always thank them for showing their true colours, wish them well than block them. "

Oh me to , me to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them. "

Or because the op was not looking for what they had to offer, and they felt offended, as they are gods gift. Inadequate toss pots.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Immaturity/ignorance/annonimity = I'm the king of the world and I can say what I like!

Worst thing to do is let them know you even noticed.

Report, block, forget...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh me to , me to

Childish I know but I might as well have a good laugh at their expense

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Report the message and people will look at it.

We have one side of a story before he is crucified

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them.

Or because the op was not looking for what they had to offer, and they felt offended, as they are gods gift. Inadequate toss pots."

Why do so many people find the best way to express them selves in the forums is to call people they have never meet names ? Think myself it shows them in the same light as the people that have offended them in first place.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Report the message and people will look at it.

We have one side of a story before he is crucified"

Too late for that , he already has been

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By *irm hand LukeMan over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

Always sucks hearing these types of messages, there's simply no need to be so cruel. Even though it can be very frustrating when a polite, friendly message is written and subsiquently deleted, there really is no excuse for such a message.

Block and move on x

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Ask him the name of his cosmetic surgeon so we can all go elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't you give them chance I read there message n if I don't like I block prob loose out on a few nice guys that way but hey im here to shag someone I like not someone ill settle for

Ive always got my vibe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh me to , me to

Me three, it's such a giggle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them.

Or because the op was not looking for what they had to offer, and they felt offended, as they are gods gift. Inadequate toss pots.

What gives someone the right to verbally abuse someone else and not expect a reaction as a consequence ? If I think that people who bully are inadequate human beings, and that offends you, then so be it. I'm not the one who is the bully.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Report the message and people will look at it.

We have one side of a story before he is crucified

Too late for that , he already has been

Well as nobody on here knows who "he" is except for the OP, I can't see how this thread has crucified him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not "

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them.

Or because the op was not looking for what they had to offer, and they felt offended, as they are gods gift. Inadequate toss pots.

I don't think that being told to go to the gym which is what we have been told was the message is verbally abusive where as calling someone a toss pot is but hey that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any message would be good

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

To the OP, I once had a similar message ...."We don't go with or play with Uglies"!

Bloody nerve of some people!

As in your case, I'm sure they don't meet the most exacting standards of sheer perfection, looks, body image, personality etc.

You are who you are, be proud of yourself and deal with what you have to the full and enjoy life.

Ignore the saddoes of life to their own insecure and insignificant world.

As for your profile, if only I was a few years younger..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

They are sad little boys who are throwing the teddy out of the cot that they are getting little if any attention.

Ignore them your pictures and profile are simply brilliant.

Your a gorgeous lady xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them.

Or because the op was not looking for what they had to offer, and they felt offended, as they are gods gift. Inadequate toss pots.

I don't think that being told to go to the gym which is what we have been told was the message is verbally abusive where as calling someone a toss pot is but hey that's just me. "

She was told to "go to the gym you fat fucker" which is verbally abusive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them.

Or because the op was not looking for what they had to offer, and they felt offended, as they are gods gift. Inadequate toss pots.

I don't think that being told to go to the gym which is what we have been told was the message is verbally abusive where as calling someone a toss pot is but hey that's just me. "

Why would you tell someone to go to the gym, anymore than you would tell them to dye their hair, because you don't like brunettes, or get a nose job, because your hooters too big, unless you were trying to be provocative or insulting ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've all had the shitty messages, and there's no need for them.

However, I hope he doesn't read the forums or he will see this and know that he got to you, having the intended effect.

Delete, block, ignore - then he gets no satisfaction.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them.

Or because the op was not looking for what they had to offer, and they felt offended, as they are gods gift. Inadequate toss pots.

I don't think that being told to go to the gym which is what we have been told was the message is verbally abusive where as calling someone a toss pot is but hey that's just me.

She was told to "go to the gym you fat fucker" which is verbally abusive."

And I apologise as I have only just seen that , my reply was based on the ops opening post but I still believe that there is no need to lower yourself to their level by calling them names in return. Much better to rise above it all especially considering we only know one side of the story.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

lots of morons on here ..just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them.

Or because the op was not looking for what they had to offer, and they felt offended, as they are gods gift. Inadequate toss pots.

I don't think that being told to go to the gym which is what we have been told was the message is verbally abusive where as calling someone a toss pot is but hey that's just me.

She was told to "go to the gym you fat fucker" which is verbally abusive."

Were does it say fat fucker???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them.

Or because the op was not looking for what they had to offer, and they felt offended, as they are gods gift. Inadequate toss pots.

I don't think that being told to go to the gym which is what we have been told was the message is verbally abusive where as calling someone a toss pot is but hey that's just me.

She was told to "go to the gym you fat fucker" which is verbally abusive.

Were does it say fat fucker???

In one of the OP's posts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's always going to be jealous people hunny. Probably some saddo you wouldn't look twice at anyway. X

In general there are some lovely people here who acually have become good friends of mine so cheers to the good and booooo to the hatter's.

And you are classed as 1 of my friends here hunny.xxx mwahhh

Mwah to you too hunny. Hey I have turned from being gorgeous to a fat fucker. Usually after I have politely declined someone's kind offer of a fuck lol xxx

Iv been many things but to tell me go to the gym you fat fucker was a bit harsh...but I did giggle as well reading it from a 22 year old...xx"

Just out of interest why did you decide after giggling about it that it was a good idea to then come and post a thread moaning about it ?

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

"We've all had the shitty messages, and there's no need for them.

However, I hope he reads the forums or he will see this"

In some ways, I disagree. If he IS seeing the responses to his action, I doubt he possesses the balls to admit it and face up to everyone.

Like all trolls, he gets his kicks hiding behind a keyboard but isn't a proper man to do so publicly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them.

Or because the op was not looking for what they had to offer, and they felt offended, as they are gods gift. Inadequate toss pots.

I don't think that being told to go to the gym which is what we have been told was the message is verbally abusive where as calling someone a toss pot is but hey that's just me.

She was told to "go to the gym you fat fucker" which is verbally abusive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I first joined I had a.really nasty message which had me in tears I.nearly left fab it took ages for me to grow a thicker skin and realise they have the.problem not me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've all had the shitty messages, and there's no need for them.

However, I hope he reads the forums or he will see this

In some ways, I disagree. If he IS seeing the responses to his action, I doubt he possesses the balls to admit it and face up to everyone.

Like all trolls, he gets his kicks hiding behind a keyboard but isn't a proper man to do so publicly."

Why is he a troll ?

He has sent supposedly sent one bad message to the op which none of us can be 100% sure of unless we all get to see it and now he is a troll ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ohhh the angst. Some people thrive on drama.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've all had the shitty messages, and there's no need for them.

However, I hope he reads the forums or he will see this

In some ways, I disagree. If he IS seeing the responses to his action, I doubt he possesses the balls to admit it and face up to everyone.

Like all trolls, he gets his kicks hiding behind a keyboard but isn't a proper man to do so publicly."

Couldn't disagree more. If he sees it, he sees he's provoked a reaction which sounds like it's what he wanted to do. And means he'll probably keep on doing it to other people.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"(don't let them get to you hun.. its there loss if they dont want fun with a curvy lady.. we all know curvy ladies are more fun both in and out of the bedroom. . rude i know but i prefer a curvy woman sat over my face than a skinny woman "

Of course, because us skinnies are no fun at all are we? You need to have real curves to be able to be good at anything!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ohhh the angst. Some people thrive on drama.

Nah, they thrive on the reaction (sympathy) to the drama...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I treat the occasional nasty message (and it is only occasional; most people on this site have better things to do with their time) the same way I treat the messages telling me I'm beautiful or have a lovely tight fanny when neither my face or Lady parts are on public display as misguided attempts at getting a response that are easy to just ignore."

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ohhh the angst. Some people thrive on drama.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"Ohhh the angst. Some people thrive on drama.

And it won't change one bad behaviour.......

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By *ischief ManagedCouple over a year ago

manchester

I like the comment they can't handle the curves! I have massive body issues. BUT my fella loves me and my meets have been amazing... I'm honest from the outset if I get a face pic and I don't feel attracted to them. I tell them in a nice way but always "happy swinging" as there is always someone out there for all of us. But I agree if you don't like us don't message simple! I've sent face pics and not heard back. Not fussed...Next! Lol bring it on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There's always going to be jealous people hunny. Probably some saddo you wouldn't look twice at anyway. X

In general there are some lovely people here who acually have become good friends of mine so cheers to the good and booooo to the hatter's.

And you are classed as 1 of my friends here hunny.xxx mwahhh

Mwah to you too hunny. Hey I have turned from being gorgeous to a fat fucker. Usually after I have politely declined someone's kind offer of a fuck lol xxx

Iv been many things but to tell me go to the gym you fat fucker was a bit harsh...but I did giggle as well reading it from a 22 year old...xx

Just out of interest why did you decide after giggling about it that it was a good idea to then come and post a thread moaning about it ? "

Because I know that alot of people get nasty messages so it would be a good subject to talk about which had been proven by this thread as it is currently at 86 messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ignore the silly sods .

I had a nasty message a month or so ago , stupidly I repeated the message in here and got a ban , doh.

They accused me of being dull boring and going on too much about the pooch, and people like me spoilt the site.

I have noticed they still have yet to meet any one lol.

So OP ignore the silly people they will never get half the fun we posters do in the forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here."

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30 "

Ow dear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30 "

My BMI is 31, I'm obese

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30 "

It's not an insult either. My BMI is over 30, comparing pics I'd say you're probably right.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30

My BMI is 31, I'm obese

You don't count Miss Flame, you could probably bench press me

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30 "

Not sure why wether the op is overweight or not Is being debated at all to be honest. I got called 'skinny with a druggy looking body' last week. People can be nasty no matter what size you are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30

Not sure why wether the op is overweight or not Is being debated at all to be honest. I got called 'skinny with a druggy looking body' last week. People can be nasty no matter what size you are. "

It's irrelevant to this thread. *sigh*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30

My BMI is 31, I'm obese

You don't count Miss Flame, you could probably bench press me

I can bench 130kg so you'd probably be an easy warm up

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30

Not sure why wether the op is overweight or not Is being debated at all to be honest. I got called 'skinny with a druggy looking body' last week. People can be nasty no matter what size you are.

It's irrelevant to this thread. *sigh*"

*sigh* indeed x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30

Not sure why wether the op is overweight or not Is being debated at all to be honest. I got called 'skinny with a druggy looking body' last week. People can be nasty no matter what size you are. "

My original post was to another person who said "you aren't overweight" to the OP

Sorry that's just not true hence my original comment. I wasn't having a pop at the OP at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30

It's not an insult either. My BMI is over 30, comparing pics I'd say you're probably right. "

If that's the case i d say the OP's bmi would be higher then tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My BMI is 31, I'm obese

You don't count Miss Flame, you could probably bench press me

I can bench 130kg so you'd probably be an easy warm up

Yep! Yippee, now I feel light

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all can't be everyone's taste on this site.

There's fit..overweight.slim.muscular people In all walks of life.

So if I get a message saying (GO TO THE GYM)

What are them nasty people getting out of that, you don't like a bigger women then why look at me and go out of your way to be nasty by sending me a message.

Stop with the "it's their loss " crap. Whilst I agree there is never a need for nasty messages it wasn't their loss at all as they had decided themselves that the op wasn't for them.

Or because the op was not looking for what they had to offer, and they felt offended, as they are gods gift. Inadequate toss pots.

I don't think that being told to go to the gym which is what we have been told was the message is verbally abusive where as calling someone a toss pot is but hey that's just me.

She was told to "go to the gym you fat fucker" which is verbally abusive.

Were does it say fat fucker???

In one of the OP's posts."

cheers ill reread to be fair im heavily drugged on hayfever meds n parras

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

"We've all had the shitty messages, and there's no need for them.

However, I hope he reads the forums or he will see this

In some ways, I disagree. If he IS seeing the responses to his action, I doubt he possesses the balls to admit it and face up to everyone.

Like all trolls, he gets his kicks hiding behind a keyboard but isn't a proper man to do so publicly.

Why is he a troll ?

He has sent supposedly sent one bad message to the op which none of us can be 100% sure of unless we all get to see it and now he is a troll ?

I only reinforced what another post referred to an hour or so ago.

Troll, Idiot, Immature, all the same description

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ignore them. My time on fab has taught me just take everything with a pinch of salt. May it be compliments or insults. They only do it half the time to see if they can get a reaction out of you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've all had the shitty messages, and there's no need for them.

However, I hope he reads the forums or he will see this

In some ways, I disagree. If he IS seeing the responses to his action, I doubt he possesses the balls to admit it and face up to everyone.

Like all trolls, he gets his kicks hiding behind a keyboard but isn't a proper man to do so publicly.

Why is he a troll ?

He has sent supposedly sent one bad message to the op which none of us can be 100% sure of unless we all get to see it and now he is a troll ?

I only reinforced what another post referred to an hour or so ago.

Troll, Idiot, Immature, all the same description"

Oh well that's ok then , glad you managed to work all that out from something none of us can prove is 100% right.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ignore them. My time on fab has taught me just take everything with a pinch of salt. May it be compliments or insults. They only do it half the time to see if they can get a reaction out of you"

And on this occasion, they certainly have!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Guys im healthy.

My bmi is not the issue here, neither is if im fat or not

The issue is nasty people sending messages to people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ignore the silly sods .

I had a nasty message a month or so ago , stupidly I repeated the message in here and got a ban , doh.

They accused me of being dull boring and going on too much about the pooch, and people like me spoilt the site.

I have noticed they still have yet to meet any one lol.

So OP ignore the silly people they will never get half the fun we posters do in the forum

Oi ttaff it was a mistake ok n ive got some veris now so pooch off

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30

Not sure why wether the op is overweight or not Is being debated at all to be honest. I got called 'skinny with a druggy looking body' last week. People can be nasty no matter what size you are.

My original post was to another person who said "you aren't overweight" to the OP

Sorry that's just not true hence my original comment. I wasn't having a pop at the OP at all "

Not having a pop maybe but definately have a bit of a bee In your bonnet about it and the men who get turned down by overweight women.

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By *trawberry-popWoman over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I'm a big girl and I do go to the gym!

Never had that one before though. Occasionally been called a fat slag when i've said no, but never been told what to do with MY body.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a big girl and I do go to the gym!

Never had that one before though. Occasionally been called a fat slag when i've said no, but never been told what to do with MY body. "

I'm big because I go to the gym, if I stopped going I'd lose weight!!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"We've all had the shitty messages, and there's no need for them.

However, I hope he reads the forums or he will see this

In some ways, I disagree. If he IS seeing the responses to his action, I doubt he possesses the balls to admit it and face up to everyone.

Like all trolls, he gets his kicks hiding behind a keyboard but isn't a proper man to do so publicly.

Why is he a troll ?

He has sent supposedly sent one bad message to the op which none of us can be 100% sure of unless we all get to see it and now he is a troll ?

Well he clearly gets his kicks out of sending stupid messages,it sounds like you are defending him. Do you think he's only send this one

,probably not!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"that they are here is no surprise, they are just after a reaction especially if their ego has been wounded by rejection..

rise above it and ignore..

Yes thanks hun, just mad me angry more than upset as I am a very confident women.xx

You gorgeous block and delete...He must be perfect ...NOT..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We've all had the shitty messages, and there's no need for them.

However, I hope he reads the forums or he will see this

In some ways, I disagree. If he IS seeing the responses to his action, I doubt he possesses the balls to admit it and face up to everyone.

Like all trolls, he gets his kicks hiding behind a keyboard but isn't a proper man to do so publicly.

Why is he a troll ?

He has sent supposedly sent one bad message to the op which none of us can be 100% sure of unless we all get to see it and now he is a troll ?

Well he clearly gets his kicks out of sending stupid messages,it sounds like you are defending him. Do you think he's only send this one

,probably not!"

And you can prove he has sent more than one ? Probably not.

I'm not defending him , his message if he sent it was uncalled for. Like I have said none of us know the whole story but in my eyes the bigger person so the one who ignores and moves on , not the one that resorts to name calling and slander of someone they themselves have had no direct contact with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't let the tossers get to you OP

Some individuals (I hesitate to even call them people) seem to get off on insulting others or putting others down.

Usually you'll find that they themselves are a 'Billy no mates' anyway, Jealous of others and of the mindset that if they can't have happiness then why should anyone else. The sort of vile cretins that would run their keys down the side of a nice car.

Ignore them.

I think you look great

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't let the tossers get to you OP

Some individuals (I hesitate to even call them people) seem to get off on insulting others or putting others down.

Ignore them.

I think you look great"

And you by your own admission now become one of them tossers.

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not "

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Ah well I dont know the OP or you but Her Fabs show that the majority of people like what she has.

I am significantly overweight..

However she is shapely with some meat on her bones.

I like a lady to look that way.

Dont think it nice to say any one is significantly fat or thin. Some people are just mean.. some are not.

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By *untimetonks69Couple over a year ago

IRVING

"And your response should be

"I could go to the gym but you'd still be an arsehole""

Hahaha love it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't let the tossers get to you OP

Some individuals (I hesitate to even call them people) seem to get off on insulting others or putting others down.

Ignore them.

I think you look great"

Thankyou sweetheart..xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

****

Ah well I dont know the OP or you but Her Fabs show that the majority of people like what she has.

I am significantly overweight..

However she is shapely with some meat on her bones.

I like a lady to look that way.

Dont think it nice to say any one is significantly fat or thin. Some people are just mean.. some are not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had some nasty messages since joining, and not from a 3 word message I've sent out, which I never do by the way, my messages are well worded and personalised, but a small few feel it necessary to give a vile reply then block me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got a nasty msg saying they would love to fuck me but only if I had a paper bag covering my ugly face!

My response would have been, "And I would like to fuck you . ....... With a club hammer""

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its the internet where people can whatever they want, dont let it get to y,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really wouldnt worry.. its obviously just one out of many..

You are someone who has photos with 7000 plus and 5000 plus fabbed photos.. in 11 months here.

I have never seen so many fabs..

you should feel proud. Probably someone who is very jealous..

You are hardly an overweight person.

I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30

Not sure why wether the op is overweight or not Is being debated at all to be honest. I got called 'skinny with a druggy looking body' last week. People can be nasty no matter what size you are.

My original post was to another person who said "you aren't overweight" to the OP

Sorry that's just not true hence my original comment. I wasn't having a pop at the OP at all

Not having a pop maybe but definately have a bit of a bee In your bonnet about it and the men who get turned down by overweight women. "

No I just don't think blind sisterly love posts saying you aren't overweight are relevant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't let the tossers get to you OP

Some individuals (I hesitate to even call them people) seem to get off on insulting others or putting others down.

Ignore them.

I think you look great

And you by your own admission now become one of them tossers. "

For a moment I wondered how you came to that conclusion and then it dawned on me. By highlighting the unpleasant behaviour of some, I have fallen into the inevitable trap of putting THEM down.

Damn you're good at this Moody, lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Anyways.. The guy won, you gave him what he wanted, a huge reaction he's probably in a euphoric state right now looking at all the reactions he's getting

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

You are hardly an overweight person.

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I'm all for the sisterly support but after looking at the pics she is clearly significantly overweight

That's not meant to be derogatory merely a statement of fact

Some like it and some not

She isn't significantly overweight at all. Some obviously do like her as her photos are always in top fabbed. Some significantly rude people on here.

Of course some people like her - not everyone likes thinner people and each to there own

But she is significantly overweight - look at the pics. I would be surprised if her bmi was under 30

Not sure why wether the op is overweight or not Is being debated at all to be honest. I got called 'skinny with a druggy looking body' last week. People can be nasty no matter what size you are.

My original post was to another person who said "you aren't overweight" to the OP

Sorry that's just not true hence my original comment. I wasn't having a pop at the OP at all "

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The quote is above .. I did not say she was not over weight. I said she *was hardly overweight.

Is this the lady or the guy taking part in this thread ?

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Because I know that alot of people get nasty messages so it would be a good subject to talk about which had been proven by this thread as it is currently at 86 messages."

Only because Ive been watching a film

As always, abusive messages are not acceptable. Report, block, and let Admin deal with it rather than starting a thread about it.

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