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Friends invites, who else does this?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well you know how it goes, you get an unsolicited friends invite, and you know they just want a nosey at your private gallery.
For whatever reason you arnt going to be friends........do you just deleate or like me do you wait till they go offline, accept, have a nosey at their privite pics, then deleate from your friends list? |
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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago
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"Well you know how it goes, you get an unsolicited friends invite, and you know they just want a nosey at your private gallery.
For whatever reason you arnt going to be friends........do you just deleate or like me do you wait till they go offline, accept, have a nosey at their privite pics, then deleate from your friends list?"
 every single time lol if they hot as then i'l send em a lil msg and keep them on a bit longer...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"or like me do you wait till they go offline, accept, have a nosey at their privite pics, then deleate from your friends list?"
Always, and if they look OK we will leave them on as friends and send a message or wink.....  |
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lol !! oh gotta be done !! if they have sent a friends invite then obviously dont care if you view their pics. i make clear on my profile i dont add people to friends list unless i know them well,so they read profile theyd be fully awear they aint gonna see my pics by sending random invite or get message back .if they havent read profile then thats their look out lol ! didnt stop one disgruntled cpl complaining after sending random invite to me that i had dared to view their profile and then not message back  nowt as queer as folk lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess my method of dealing with spurious Friend invitation is someway between being partially polite and slightly flippant.
I just cut and paste the following message to the Invitee, obviously including their user name where appropriate…
Hello XXXX, just replying about your friend invitation, I’ll not be accepting at the moment,,,,, its nothing personal... but you must have read on my profile where it clearly mention I only accept Friend Invitations from people I've actually met ,,,,anyway that aside, I'm sure you can appreciate a view shared by many serious swingers which suggest it just all seems rather odd, even a tad suspicious when people we don’t know, or who have never bothered to say hello, want to put us on a list and pretend we are somehow friends,,... Anyway, no offence intended or taken, good luck and happy swinging. Best regards XXXX
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I get loads of people send frined invites when I dont know them so delete and block them now. My profile does explain this but I know full well they only want to perv my pics and no more |
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We do the same as the OP - wait till they're off line and have a quick look - delete if they're not our cup of tea or send a message if they are! If people do this to perve at our private pics they'd be dissappointed as there isn't anything to see as we don't have explicit or face pics to view! We keep our face pics separate to attach to messages to people that we have chatted to, that way we know who we're letting see our face pics! Z
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I'm very shy and hardly ever ask people to become friends. Usually it's only after I have talked to them for a while and know them a little bit then I feel confident to ask.
I also can't bare the rejection if I get a no, I guess I'm just a little softy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont even tend to wait till thier offline as by the time they realize i have accepted i am in and out hahais it that small????  "
super small  you cant even see it |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Well you know how it goes, you get an unsolicited friends invite, and you know they just want a nosey at your private gallery.
For whatever reason you arnt going to be friends........do you just deleate or like me do you wait till they go offline, accept, have a nosey at their privite pics, then deleate from your friends list?"
will you stop giving away my blooming secrets!!!!!
okay... guilty as charged... going to hell!!!  |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
Nope I just delete but now I see I am missing out on a potential perving opportunity I might have to revise my tactics... 
Having said that I dont think I could really be arsed to bother |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope I just delete but now I see I am missing out on a potential perving opportunity I might have to revise my tactics...
Having said that I dont think I could really be arsed to bother "
Snap |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well you know how it goes, you get an unsolicited friends invite, and you know they just want a nosey at your private gallery.
For whatever reason you arnt going to be friends........do you just deleate or like me do you wait till they go offline, accept, have a nosey at their privite pics, then deleate from your friends list?"
Tend to initiate a chat before accepting invitations, and tend not to accept everybody as list gets too long and you never get chance to get to know anybody really. |
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