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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's just with Kez loving boobs and Ste loving butts we're constantly seeing pics we like and occasionally just feel like letting people know but don't want it to sound like a cheap chat up line. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just with Kez loving boobs and Ste loving butts we're constantly seeing pics we like and occasionally just feel like letting people know but don't want it to sound like a cheap chat up line."
Have a compliment and insult in the same mail even things out ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often send compliments to people that I'd have no opportunity to meet or who wouldn't consider meeting me, usually because their profile made me smile, nit because they had hot photos. |
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"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message? "
I wouldn't be offended at all...it would make me take a look at their profile and if I felt I could give one (a compliment, that is) in return, I would  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message?
I wouldn't be offended at all...it would make me take a look at their profile and if I felt I could give one (a compliment, that is) in return, I would "
Agreed, a nicely place compliment can make someone's day
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message? "
Not offended but from random people who I don't know they mean nothing. All the 'you're beautiful crap' I don't have a head on my profile so you know that based on ....? Just to get a fuck. Think most see thro it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message?
Not offended but from random people who I don't know they mean nothing. All the 'you're beautiful crap' I don't have a head on my profile so you know that based on ....? Just to get a fuck. Think most see thro it. "
Was just going to post the exact same...I always laugh when they say wow ain't you beautiful and not one face pic in public...   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like receiving genuine compliments so a random message on here is hardly going to be that to be honest. Especially when it's copied & pasted each week
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"...be offended if someone just randomly sent you a compliment in a message?
I wouldn't be offended at all...it would make me take a look at their profile and if I felt I could give one (a compliment, that is) in return, I would "
exactly this is me also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was a lady in here I'd be a little suspicious and cynical re: motives I think, given the nature of the site. The best compliments are sincere with no ulterior motives, and even if that's how they have been given on here, as it's essential a casual sex site (yes, I know swinging is much more than just that) the perception will always be there's an agenda behind a random stranger suddenly offering compliments
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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If it the "you are beautiful" type compliment then I tend to just ignore them - my profile doesn't show my face, so being called beautiful comes across as insincere.
However, I often reply to compliments on a forum post or about my profile (when people actually get my sense of humour) as they seem more genuine. |
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"If I was a lady in here I'd be a little suspicious and cynical re: motives I think, given the nature of the site. The best compliments are sincere with no ulterior motives, and even if that's how they have been given on here, as it's essential a casual sex site (yes, I know swinging is much more than just that) the perception will always be there's an agenda behind a random stranger suddenly offering compliments
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Of course, but if someone messages me with a compliment, they have still made a choice to do so and I can accept that at face value. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will very often wink or send a little message if I like what I see on photos.
Not for any other reason than they have taken the time to post them and I would like them to know they're appreciated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do this alot and don't expect anything in return. But if they do and we start chatting then that's a bonus. Doesn't mean we will meet, its just making friends.
I just think everyone likes to receive a compliment, be nice if everyone did this in their everyday lives  x |
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It's always nice to get a compliment, I always reply. Even if it is a bro with the ghey yo.
In fact come to think of it I probably wouldn't get compliments at all if it wasn't for the bros with the ghey.
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