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If someone upsets me, I don't talk it through when it happens. I walk away, write it down, then talk about it once I've got my thoughts in order. Otherwise I just get angry and become incoherent and cry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends what it is I deal with different situations different
if somebody pisses me off I tend to tell them
if it's a personal problem I tend to bottle it up, I moved away from home so I have no family or real friend round here to talk to, except my kids and I'm not dumping my problems on them |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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You can see exactly what I am feeling by the expressions on my face so even if I tried to hide it I couldn't - if I am upset it's obvious and I will talk about it.....I don't do bottling up emotions  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a person pisses me off, I tell them. Until they accept what they have done and apologise, I'll hold a grudge. Especially if they attempt to patronise me, or manipulate the situation.
All I need is acknowledgement and an appology to forgive. But it seems some people are just incapable of it. |
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Depends on the situation, but being a Scorpio, if I don't say my piece there and then, or soon afterwards, then I will bide my time. Mr keeps it in and it eats away at him as he never wants to upset people, so I fight his battles for him too, at times |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone annoys me I walk away and forget about it in less time than it would take to let them know I am annoyed. If its serious then I will deal with it with that person at the time, best advice I ever got was "never stay angry it only harms you". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually let the guilty part know that I am less than happy...no matter the situation...it has lost me jobs...as Clive Dunno says...They don't like it up 'em...  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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It depends on the situation, and the person and also what has upset me, for the most I rely on myself and tell myself to get a grip and get over it if outwith my control I have become to just rely on myself more and more. I |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I massively bottle things up
I have learnt that this is a very bad thing!
My OH let's rip...but that generally turns me on and doesn't have the desired effect...
Anyway, let the stress go peeps...
Skateboarding is good for that....can't beat a good slash grind on coping.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"....do you talk to someone or bottle it up?
Mild curiosity makes me ask.
How about you OP?
Not too good at emotional stuff so I tend to bottle it up. Which doesn't work. "
I'm the opposite. I end to be too open with my emotions which also doesn't work at times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I talk about it, as I think bottling it up just creates a pressure valve that'll come out elsewhere. Partly, it's an age thing as I used to keep everything to myself. I think it's far better that things are out in the open than festering away inside. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people piss me off I just smile, nod, walk away and let it roll off my shoulders. If I'm having a bad time, then I disappear and go quiet for a while until I've sorted it. |
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