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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?
I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.
Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!
Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!!  |
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Hells yes!
Did that to myself just this wknd. In my defence I was VERY d*unk and as I was ignored anyway there was no harm done.
Please don't do it! You are a STRONG INDEPENDENT woman. Delete that number ... erase it from your mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?
I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.
Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!
Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!! "
yep... I'm having a weak moment myself... I won't message him as I know I'll feel worse afterwards but fuck it's hard!! I seen him yesterday for the first time in months aswell- just typical when I'm having a weak moment.
The feeling does pass luckily, it just doesn't pass quickly enough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nope. They are an ex for a reason. And I've usually been the one to end it. Maybe people who have been dumped are the ones who keep going back? Rather than the dumper? No idea, just a thought.  |
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"Nope. They are an ex for a reason. And I've usually been the one to end it. Maybe people who have been dumped are the ones who keep going back? Rather than the dumper? No idea, just a thought. "
Absolutely! They are trying to deny the rejection.
Some think it's love but it's just them wanting to heal their pain.
Sooner they realise that the only way is forward, sooner they will find better times.
No relationship is ever a dead loss. It was good while it was good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No never had one as I been single all my life 
#letsgetshagagirlfriendlol yes and why not 
You heard it here first folks - I'm ordering a hat! "
Yes and don't forget the haribos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I haven't ex's are for a reason all this going back and forwards is a waste of time. It could be better spent getting to know someone else instead. "
Have to agree with cheeky, Mav and Granny here! Exes are Exes for a reason! If you both want to get back together then fair enough I guess - but persuing someone who isn't interested any more must be soul destroying! Best to give your attention to someone who'll return it! |
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Nope. I could happily punch my ex in the balls. He's a total prick. Amusingly in between girlfriends even though he's been a complete cunt to me over the years he still texts me to try it on. I'd rather gouge my eyeballs out with a rusty spoon. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any ex I ever had was ruthlessly cut out off life. Throw numbers and addresses away. Get rid of any possessions ASAP,
They're ex for a reason so I'd never go back |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks all. There are a still tortured souls out there with me!
I do understand about them being ex's for a reason, if it had if worked we would still be together now.
I go through these phases every now and again, I think it's when I'm feeling lonely. Maybe it's more if missing the company of being in a relationship rather than actually missing him. |
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What if your number is blocked? They may never have a clue you succumb to the pressure.
I sent a couple of messages to an ex, when I was contacted for support and then someone with the same name contacted me too. Never again. I like clean breaks or the patio redone, for same result. |
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"... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?
I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.
Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!
Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!! "
Yes, absolutely. The one that got away! Lol. He's so damned yummy I just can't help myself from sending the occasional d*unk text.
But there's the dilemma of deleting the number...'when' (if) he ever calls or texts and you have to ask who it is?!
Or keep it to save face?! |
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"Nope mine cost me a fortune to get rid of! (Divorce that is not a hit man before anyone asks lol)
Definitely wouldn't go back
Although wish her best of luck on her new path "
Took me over 2 years to get over mine after 20 years together. The day I applied for my Decree Absolute I realised I was done. Still have to see him 4 or 5 times a week though because of the kids. One day I'll thank him for his screw up as I finally feel free. I just wish he knew how much fun I'm having now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I haven't ex's are for a reason all this going back and forwards is a waste of time. It could be better spent getting to know someone else instead.
Have to agree with cheeky, Mav and Granny here! Exes are Exes for a reason! If you both want to get back together then fair enough I guess - but persuing someone who isn't interested any more must be soul destroying! Best to give your attention to someone who'll return it! "
and someone who deserves it!! The best revenge is to be happy and pity the sad fucker when they try to crawl back into your life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nope. It's a very very long time since I had that urge. Can you delete his number from your phone, so you resist the urge? Or text a friend instead? Although, don't beat yourself up about doing it, it is human nature and we have all done it, at some time in our lives.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Somewhere this guy is starting a thread saying " have you all got that ex, that no matter how many times you've said no or ignored her still calls and texts you? Anyone know how to stop it short of a hit man? " |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have said person that treated me wrong so much and still after I left I still wish I had her Cz sometimes u think of the good times and wish u still had them and u block out the bad times and u feel like I'll never find that feeling ever again and don't know how to do things to move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?
I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.
Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!
Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!! "
I was going to say delete his number but no doubt you know it off by heart anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Somewhere this guy is starting a thread saying " have you all got that ex, that no matter how many times you've said no or ignored her still calls and texts you? Anyone know how to stop it short of a hit man? ""
Playing devils advocate, wouldn't he just block her number though - if he didn't want her to text at all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?
I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.
Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!
Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!!
I was going to say delete his number but no doubt you know It off by heart anyway "
That made me laugh!  |
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"Somewhere this guy is starting a thread saying " have you all got that ex, that no matter how many times you've said no or ignored her still calls and texts you? Anyone know how to stop it short of a hit man? "
Playing devils advocate, wouldn't he just block her number though - if he didn't want her to text at all? "
Some people just thrive off drama. |
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Yesterday my daughter phoned me to say she was pregnant with twins. I was so thrilled and for a second wanted to phone my ex-husband to celebrate our news...but the desire passed as quickly as it came, so no! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yesterday my daughter phoned me to say she was pregnant with twins. I was so thrilled and for a second wanted to phone my ex-husband to celebrate our news...but the desire passed as quickly as it came, so no!"
That's brilliant news ! Congratulations.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Somewhere this guy is starting a thread saying " have you all got that ex, that no matter how many times you've said no or ignored her still calls and texts you? Anyone know how to stop it short of a hit man? "
Playing devils advocate, wouldn't he just block her number though - if he didn't want her to text at all? "
Maybe she's hidden numbering him.
Or the fact he's ignoring her each time might suggest he has blocked her number :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Somewhere this guy is starting a thread saying " have you all got that ex, that no matter how many times you've said no or ignored her still calls and texts you? Anyone know how to stop it short of a hit man? "
Playing devils advocate, wouldn't he just block her number though - if he didn't want her to text at all?
Maybe she's hidden numbering him.
Or the fact he's ignoring her each time might suggest he has blocked her number :p"
I did wonder that -I wasn't sure if the text still sent, but guess it does. Mobile phones are a curse in some ways! I remember writing letters to a lost love in my teens - much more therapeutic than texting. |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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No
However, I have a woman I would give anything to be with, but she's with someone else and it'll never happen. We're such incredibly honest, close friends and it hurts me that she has someone who doesn't really seem to care for her.
I seem to specialise in unrequited love, even as a forty-something. I can't stop thinking about her and have just woken from a dream (not rude!) in which we were together.
Like texting an ex, I know I have to get past this, but it's so damn hard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?
I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.
Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!
Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!!
I was going to say delete his number but no doubt you know It off by heart anyway
That made me laugh! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nope. It's a very very long time since I had that urge. Can you delete his number from your phone, so you resist the urge? Or text a friend instead? Although, don't beat yourself up about doing it, it is human nature and we have all done it, at some time in our lives.
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I know his number off by heart, I really need to forget it. Texting someone else may be a good idea... I'll send it to someone that would appreciate it! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You guys are a hard bunch of cold hearted fucker's aren't you!
If you haven't got a "Kryptonite Ex" then you must be shit at picking them in the first place
Im with you OP!"
Love this! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Somewhere this guy is starting a thread saying " have you all got that ex, that no matter how many times you've said no or ignored her still calls and texts you? Anyone know how to stop it short of a hit man? "
Playing devils advocate, wouldn't he just block her number though - if he didn't want her to text at all?
Maybe she's hidden numbering him.
Or the fact he's ignoring her each time might suggest he has blocked her number :p"
He hasn't replied for a long time, he did succumbe at one point and we ended up spending a night together, that was a while ago now. He's moved on, clearly, and I need to do the same  |
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"Somewhere this guy is starting a thread saying " have you all got that ex, that no matter how many times you've said no or ignored her still calls and texts you? Anyone know how to stop it short of a hit man? "
Playing devils advocate, wouldn't he just block her number though - if he didn't want her to text at all?
Maybe she's hidden numbering him.
Or the fact he's ignoring her each time might suggest he has blocked her number :p
He hasn't replied for a long time, he did succumbe at one point and we ended up spending a night together, that was a while ago now. He's moved on, clearly, and I need to do the same "
It's difficult how long ago did you split up and how long were you together. Sometimes it takes more to let go than to carry on but the rewards are greater once you have let go. |
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"... The one that still makes you weak at the knees?
I must need my head examining, every now and then I weaken and text him, despite him really not deserving another second of me thinking of him.
Today's one of those days... And all that will happen is he'll ignore me and I'll be even more pissed off that I weakened!!
Aaaarrrgggghhhhh!!!! "
Yes she calls or txts and I go running like a dog chasing a stick!!
She usually calls me asking for money and I'm the idiot who can't refuse!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My advice to you is get yourself a dog if you are missing the company of a relationship , and block him from your phone and all social media . Get yourself a new dress and go out for a girly night x |
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I see my ex now and then, so I just have a little chuckle to myself and think, that fook I had a very lucky escape, ( as she was proper bloody mental). And now she's married to some unlucky bugger.. |
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