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Have been chatting to a single male on here, who after a few messages states he does not kiss on meets.
This for me is a must.
Now I can understand certain couples not kissing when meeting, but a single male?
Anybody else come across single women or males who do not kiss on a meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talking to a really lovely guy at a club once but as soon as he said he did not kiss, it put me right off him.
Sex without kissing to me would feel too mechanical & like I was just a prostitute. My opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few meets where I would have been happy for there to be no kissing. A mouth full of spit and tooth chips is not sexy."
Nah I like wet kissing, drives me crazy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not everyone enjoys kissing... Not everyone needs it.. if you need it but a potential meet doesn't do it decide if you want to meet without it and if not meet someone else.
I'd say most single guys don't kiss anyway.. or at least we have found that most don't. And it certainly hasn't ruined anything for us.. however for me its not important on a meet but the lady being able to kiss Mr is x odd I know .. yet we have had some great meets where kissing isn't allowed between opposite sex x |
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over a year ago
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"I've had a few meets where I would have been happy for there to be no kissing. A mouth full of spit and tooth chips is not sexy."
I've had meets where I'd rather not kiss to be honest. Not everyone kisses the same and some just aren't compatible |
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"I've had a few meets where I would have been happy for there to be no kissing. A mouth full of spit and tooth chips is not sexy.
I've had meets where I'd rather not kiss to be honest. Not everyone kisses the same and some just aren't compatible"
Have to agree lol not many I've met that can turn me on by just a kiss. Prefer to do without it if they kiss like a zanussi! |
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"Have been chatting to a single male on here, who after a few messages states he does not kiss on meets.
This for me is a must.
Now I can understand certain couples not kissing when meeting, but a single male?
Anybody else come across single women or males who do not kiss on a meet?"
So! You've been chatting to someone who has revealed a preference to you and instead of accepting it you call it into question publicly. We all have preferences all of which should be accepted by other people and if they don't suit it's easy enough to move on. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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We have been messaged by a few couples who do not kiss but have yet to find a single male or female who doesn't.........they must be out there I guess but we haven't found them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't encountered this with a single man, unfortunately it would be a deal breaker for me, I don't think I'd know what to do with myself if I couldn't kiss on a meet. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Have been chatting to a single male on here, who after a few messages states he does not kiss on meets.
This for me is a must.
Now I can understand certain couples not kissing when meeting, but a single male?
Anybody else come across single women or males who do not kiss on a meet?"
Yes we have. It's not a deal breaker for us.
Not everyone enjoys kissing and I'd rather someone be honest than do something they aren't happy/comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At least he's been completely upfront with you about his preferences. Better to know sooner rather than later."
For me it would mean no meet, but I'd be glad he'd said so upfront rather than when we were face to face as it would have been a waste of both of our time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly I'd say most single guys don't kiss... Or they haven't bothered x for Mr it is a must... For me I'm not fussed and many after one kiss I'd not want a 2nd. And they seem to neither notice nor care that I avoid more x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I also like finding out how she like to kiss/be kissed either delicate soft kisses hard passionate kissing or open mouthed tongue flicking etc etc
I don't have a preference myself |
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"Have been chatting to a single male on here, who after a few messages states he does not kiss on meets.
This for me is a must.
Now I can understand certain couples not kissing when meeting, but a single male?
Anybody else come across single women or males who do not kiss on a meet?"
Nope we'd be disappointed .... As long as they were nice kissers of course lol xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, backs to the wall all consuming kissing is a must for me!
Really Iv had never known he he x
Doesn't it say on my profile?  "
Nope lol Iv just checked ;0) xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, backs to the wall all consuming kissing is a must for me!
Really Iv had never known he he x
Doesn't it say on my profile?
Nope lol Iv just checked ;0) xx"
Oh?  |
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Some of the posts ive seen on here make me chuckle. Guys thinking it's just a quick fuck. A kiss is what makes it more passionate and intermate rather tryna get your end away. At the end of the day I think most guys are forgetting the principle of the site if they wanted quickie there's plenty ceedy street corners they can go |
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"Some of the posts ive seen on here make me chuckle. Guys thinking it's just a quick fuck. A kiss is what makes it more passionate and intermate rather tryna get your end away. At the end of the day I think most guys are forgetting the principle of the site if they wanted quickie there's plenty ceedy street corners they can go"
Why does not wanting to kiss mean he's only after a quickie? |
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over a year ago
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I've experienced both - meets where kissing was never in the agenda from the outset ("that's for my husband only") and those where kissing has been the dominant part of the meet.
I love a nice song personally provided we've both got good oral hygiene and, ideally, minty fresh breath! Can't beat it! |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I don't like to as it interferes with my make up 
I am going to kiss you.....I don't care if your lipstick goes everywhere I am still full on tongue kissing you "
Yes, yes, yes, but I've still to hear a convincing method of us getting close enough to do that. Our boobies will keep up a foot or two apart  |
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"We all have choices and I respected his, I did not ask why.
I just politely declined the offer of a meet with him."
Then came along and told us all about it, that's not respect in my book the guy can obviously identify himself. Poor form. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder if the responses would have been any different if it was a woman who didn't want to kiss on a meet?"
Considering a lot of Men have said they wouldn't meet a Woman without kissing on the agenda I doubt it |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't like to as it interferes with my make up
I am going to kiss you.....I don't care if your lipstick goes everywhere I am still full on tongue kissing you
Yes, yes, yes, but I've still to hear a convincing method of us getting close enough to do that. Our boobies will keep up a foot or two apart "
You have found the fatal flaw in my plan........okay new plan - I will lie down with you on top of me....my boobs will slide sideways and hide near my armpits then we only have yours to contend with |
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I've been seeing someone for 5 years and never kissed him. It's a different dynamic with us. On here if a man says he doesn't kiss it has meant he does nothing with his mouth,so I tell him I will do nothing with mine. As I'm not here to just open my legs for a cock he had better be prepared to have his arse invaded,just to spice things up a bit. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"I don't like to as it interferes with my make up
I am going to kiss you.....I don't care if your lipstick goes everywhere I am still full on tongue kissing you
Yes, yes, yes, but I've still to hear a convincing method of us getting close enough to do that. Our boobies will keep up a foot or two apart
You have found the fatal flaw in my plan........okay new plan - I will lie down with you on top of me....my boobs will slide sideways and hide near my armpits then we only have yours to contend with "
I will have to tickle you in that case |
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I like to kiss, however I guess it's too intimate for some on a meet. I'd say I wouldn't meet someone who didn't kiss, but I have - and we met a few times. I still had a great time. People with autistic tendencies can find kissing difficult too, so it can be for different reasons. |
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"I like to kiss, however I guess it's too intimate for some on a meet. I'd say I wouldn't meet someone who didn't kiss, but I have - and we met a few times. I still had a great time. People with autistic tendencies can find kissing difficult too, so it can be for different reasons. "
Very true but it seems this is one preference that otherwise open minded and tolerant people struggle to accept. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"I like to kiss, however I guess it's too intimate for some on a meet. I'd say I wouldn't meet someone who didn't kiss, but I have - and we met a few times. I still had a great time. People with autistic tendencies can find kissing difficult too, so it can be for different reasons. "
I have Aspergers and love kissing.....I have boundary issues and can't always look at you or understand if you are teasing but kissing I can do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had a few meets where I would have been happy for there to be no kissing. A mouth full of spit and tooth chips is not sexy.
I've had meets where I'd rather not kiss to be honest. Not everyone kisses the same and some just aren't compatible"
Tooth chips that's vile lol. Dental hygenie is a must |
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We won't meet people who won't kiss. It's to easy for us to get caught up in the moment and kiss the person during play, we don't want to make people feel uncomfortable if that's there rules. And like a lot have said it feels very mechanical. |
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"I like to kiss, however I guess it's too intimate for some on a meet. I'd say I wouldn't meet someone who didn't kiss, but I have - and we met a few times. I still had a great time. People with autistic tendencies can find kissing difficult too, so it can be for different reasons.
I have Aspergers and love kissing.....I have boundary issues and can't always look at you or understand if you are teasing but kissing I can do "
Yes that's makes perfect sense. I wanted others to understand that there can be a reason behind it other than its just a preference. |
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"I like to kiss, however I guess it's too intimate for some on a meet. I'd say I wouldn't meet someone who didn't kiss, but I have - and we met a few times. I still had a great time. People with autistic tendencies can find kissing difficult too, so it can be for different reasons.
Very true but it seems this is one preference that otherwise open minded and tolerant people struggle to accept."
"otherwise open minded and tolerant people"..... ?!  |
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"I like to kiss, however I guess it's too intimate for some on a meet. I'd say I wouldn't meet someone who didn't kiss, but I have - and we met a few times. I still had a great time. People with autistic tendencies can find kissing difficult too, so it can be for different reasons.
Very true but it seems this is one preference that otherwise open minded and tolerant people struggle to accept.
"otherwise open minded and tolerant people"..... ?! "
Yes sorry I got a bit carried away there  , I honestly don't know what I was thinking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I hate when the person your kissing CAN'T KISS and it's almost like they are trying to eat your face, bashing their teeth against mine. Had to move my face from hers and kiss her neck to keep up the intimacy, as it was torture. Usually like a good snog lol. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"I hate when the person your kissing CAN'T KISS and it's almost like they are trying to eat your face, bashing their teeth against mine. Had to move my face from hers and kiss her neck to keep up the intimacy, as it was torture. Usually like a good snog lol."
I dislike goldfish kisses - the mouth opens and closes but no passion and no tongue......I would rather not kiss if the kisses are like that |
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"I hate when the person your kissing CAN'T KISS and it's almost like they are trying to eat your face, bashing their teeth against mine. Had to move my face from hers and kiss her neck to keep up the intimacy, as it was torture. Usually like a good snog lol.
I dislike goldfish kisses - the mouth opens and closes but no passion and no tongue......I would rather not kiss if the kisses are like that "
Yep will have to state no goldfish on profile.... although I don't think they actually realise |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I once had a lunchtime social meet that ended up as just an hour of snogging and groping over clothes. Fookin' horny as hell. I made a right old mess of my boxers  |
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Love kissing. As foreplay, during and after. And just for kisses.
If I couldn't kiss, I don't think I could get get emotionally involved enough to get intimate. |
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"We all have choices and I respected his, I did not ask why.
I just politely declined the offer
of a meet with him.
Then came along and told us all about it, that's not respect in my book the guy can obviously identify himself. Poor form."
No mention of name. No veris to worry about. No criticism of the guy just a quizzical OP asking if this has been anyone else's experience.
Some people need to think before they start looking for a tall stallion to leap upon.  |
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"Talking to a really lovely guy at a club once but as soon as he said he did not kiss, it put me right off him.
Sex without kissing to me would feel too mechanical & like I was just a prostitute. My opinion."
This
To me sex is never just a fuck. At the time, especially if it's one-on-one, the person I'm having sex with is the most important person in the world and deserves all the passion I have. That has to include passionate kissing. |
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I think I would find it very difficult not to kiss as to me this happens instinctively with physical intimacy. I don't think I would enjoy a meet as much if kissing were forbidden.
Kissing has a language all of its own.
Who fancies a horny snog ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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that would be ney on impossible to not kiss.. For me, it is the start of foreplay. Love to kiss and touch. If a good kisser, surely would want to showcase the talents!!! Xx |
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"Some of the posts ive seen on here make me chuckle. Guys thinking it's just a quick fuck. A kiss is what makes it more passionate and intermate rather tryna get your end away. At the end of the day I think most guys are forgetting the principle of the site if they wanted quickie there's plenty ceedy street corners they can go
Why does not wanting to kiss mean he's only after a quickie?"
It doesn't mean it but I reckon it definitely suggests it. |
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"I don't like to as it interferes with my make up
I am going to kiss you.....I don't care if your lipstick goes everywhere I am still full on tongue kissing you
Yes, yes, yes, but I've still to hear a convincing method of us getting close enough to do that. Our boobies will keep up a foot or two apart
You have found the fatal flaw in my plan........okay new plan - I will lie down with you on top of me....my boobs will slide sideways and hide near my armpits then we only have yours to contend with "
You could always role over.
Just a thought. |
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Okay, simple scenario here for the none kissers:
You have him or her on the bed, hands pinned above their head, held down by yours as you lie on top of them. Your faces inches apart, eyes locked as you slowly slide in/down that first time.
How do you not kiss and feel the catch of breath as you move a second time? |
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"Okay, simple scenario here for the none kissers:
You have him or her on the bed, hands pinned above their head, held down by yours as you lie on top of them. Your faces inches apart, eyes locked as you slowly slide in/down that first time.
How do you not kiss and feel the catch of breath as you move a second time? "
Simple. I wouldn't get close like that with a meet, I don't look into their eyes and they wouldn't have me pinned anywhere.. if they are in missionary I would then my face away if they tried to kiss me. I really don't kiss once sex has started with anyone but Mr as I find it a bit odd. ( btw I do kiss but just if I want to.. And at the start. )
And I am totally different with Mr deviant and its great... He btw would do all of what you said with another woman And id be most upset If she didn't kiss him back but then I'm a odd little thing |
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"Okay, simple scenario here for the none kissers:
You have him or her on the bed, hands pinned above their head, held down by yours as you lie on top of them. Your faces inches apart, eyes locked as you slowly slide in/down that first time.
How do you not kiss and feel the catch of breath as you move a second time?
Simple. I wouldn't get close like that with a meet, I don't look into their eyes and they wouldn't have me pinned anywhere.. if they are in missionary I would then my face away if they tried to kiss me. I really don't kiss once sex has started with anyone but Mr as I find it a bit odd. ( btw I do kiss but just if I want to.. And at the start. )
And I am totally different with Mr deviant and its great... He btw would do all of what you said with another woman And id be most upset If she didn't kiss him back but then I'm a odd little thing "
I think I'm more odd because I need to feel what the other person is feeling. And kisses do that for me. |
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"I like to kiss, however I guess it's too intimate for some on a meet. I'd say I wouldn't meet someone who didn't kiss, but I have - and we met a few times. I still had a great time. People with autistic tendencies can find kissing difficult too, so it can be for different reasons.
Very true but it seems this is one preference that otherwise open minded and tolerant people struggle to accept.
"otherwise open minded and tolerant people"..... ?!
Yes sorry I got a bit carried away there , I honestly don't know what I was thinking. "
I like to think I am open minded and tolerant. It really doesn't bother me that some prefer sex without out kissing but it just wouldn't work for me. That's surely not being intolerant, is it? |
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Kissing for me is a massive turn on.
Just getting carried away and ripping off clothes get me hot under the collar.
If they're a good kisser though.
if they're crap, it's not so good |
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"Talking to a really lovely guy at a club once but as soon as he said he did not kiss, it put me right off him.
Sex without kissing to me would feel too mechanical & like I was just a prostitute. My opinion.
This
To me sex is never just a fuck. At the time, especially if it's one-on-one, the person I'm having sex with is the most important person in the world and deserves all the passion I have. That has to include passionate kissing."
I think those that are single often are like that. But I doubt many in couples are .... As even when your with someone else your own partner would be the most important person... Or at least I would presume so |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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Our profile states we only meet people who kiss along with the fact that I struggle with soft swing and we have been lucky that we have met some lovely people.....we do get randomers who message even though their profiles say they don't kiss and when we point it out sometimes they offer to change their boundaries for a meet
We always say no thanks though |
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"Talking to a really lovely guy at a club once but as soon as he said he did not kiss, it put me right off him.
Sex without kissing to me would feel too mechanical & like I was just a prostitute. My opinion.
This
To me sex is never just a fuck. At the time, especially if it's one-on-one, the person I'm having sex with is the most important person in the world and deserves all the passion I have. That has to include passionate kissing. I think those that are single often are like that. But I doubt many in couples are .... As even when your with someone else your own partner would be the most important person... Or at least I would presume so "
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"Love kissing so i wouldn't want to meet someone who wasn't happy doing so on a meet.Its all part of the build up for me ,luckily not met anyone who hasn't enjoyed it too."
We have met couples that dont meet but the weird thing is that really we have found the women are really into being kissed but mostly the guys don't... I love it as Part of a couples meet with the exception of I wouldn't kiss laid down whole having sex xx I have but it just makes an uncomfortable with anyone but my partner...
I do not agree about it being cold but for me if I'm watching I need to see that interaction |
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"Talking to a really lovely guy at a club once but as soon as he said he did not kiss, it put me right off him.
Sex without kissing to me would feel too mechanical & like I was just a prostitute. My opinion.
This
To me sex is never just a fuck. At the time, especially if it's one-on-one, the person I'm having sex with is the most important person in the world and deserves all the passion I have. That has to include passionate kissing. I think those that are single often are like that. But I doubt many in couples are .... As even when your with someone else your own partner would be the most important person... Or at least I would presume so
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Fair point but still pretty sure that no kissing is not really for me. |
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I think perhaps this is a factor in my aversion to meeting couples. To be there and not even be able to kiss either of them, I can't imagine anything that would make me feel more like a spare part. Different strokes for different folks though eh |
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"I think perhaps this is a factor in my aversion to meeting couples. To be there and not even be able to kiss either of them, I can't imagine anything that would make me feel more like a spare part. Different strokes for different folks though eh "
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"I think perhaps this is a factor in my aversion to meeting couples. To be there and not even be able to kiss either of them, I can't imagine anything that would make me feel more like a spare part. Different strokes for different folks though eh "
See my favourite thing if we meet a lady is 3way kisses and seeing her respond to Mr deviants kisses but I like to spoil the other lady be it as a 3sum or moresum. |
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"Have been chatting to a single male on here, who after a few messages states he does not kiss on meets.
This for me is a must.
Now I can understand certain couples not kissing when meeting, but a single male?
Anybody else come across single women or males who do not kiss on a meet?"
I'm not that interested in kissing. I don't find it particularly enjoyable. |
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"Okay, simple scenario here for the none kissers:
You have him or her on the bed, hands pinned above their head, held down by yours as you lie on top of them. Your faces inches apart, eyes locked as you slowly slide in/down that first time.
How do you not kiss and feel the catch of breath as you move a second time? "
It's easy... you just don't kiss.
If it's not something you really enjoy that much, then you don't go out of your way to do it. |
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"There is only one thing worse than someone who don't kiss and that's a bad kisser that insists on kissing
Washing machine kissers.
Yuck."
Or people with really hard pouts that just rapidly peck |
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"There is only one thing worse than someone who don't kiss and that's a bad kisser that insists on kissing
Washing machine kissers.
Yuck.
Or people with really hard pouts that just rapidly peck "
How about kissing toes?  |
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"There is only one thing worse than someone who don't kiss and that's a bad kisser that insists on kissing
Washing machine kissers.
Yuck.
Or people with really hard pouts that just rapidly peck
How about kissing toes? "
Was that an offer |
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"There is only one thing worse than someone who don't kiss and that's a bad kisser that insists on kissing
Washing machine kissers.
Yuck.
Or people with really hard pouts that just rapidly peck
How about kissing toes?
Was that an offer "
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Great thing that he's honest up front. I'd likely not meet someone who'd not kiss, as it's important and makes the meet less of a robotic sexual interaction. If someone had a dental condition that caused some discomfort for others, then I'd prefer that they'd say that, no matter how embarrassing it may be for them. |
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"Okay, simple scenario here for the none kissers:
You have him or her on the bed, hands pinned above their head, held down by yours as you lie on top of them. Your faces inches apart, eyes locked as you slowly slide in/down that first time.
How do you not kiss and feel the catch of breath as you move a second time? "
That sounds more like making love, which we do with each other and kiss passionately whilst doing so. Swing-fucking is totally different and we don't kiss other people. |
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I couldn't do it. I'm a kisser. Kissing is what gets me going and i love doing it.
I find kissing dictates the flow and dictates the meet. It's either going to be slow, sensual with a lot of build up or just pure fireworks with each other
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"Okay, simple scenario here for the none kissers:
You have him or her on the bed, hands pinned above their head, held down by yours as you lie on top of them. Your faces inches apart, eyes locked as you slowly slide in/down that first time.
How do you not kiss and feel the catch of breath as you move a second time?
That sounds more like making love, which we do with each other and kiss passionately whilst doing so. Swing-fucking is totally different and we don't kiss other people."
Sounds nothing like making love whatsoever to me. But then, I don't have sex with anyone if I don't like them - otherwise I might as well invest in a machine instead. |
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"There is only one thing worse than someone who don't kiss and that's a bad kisser that insists on kissing
Washing machine kissers.
Yuck.
Or people with really hard pouts that just rapidly peck "
Oh god no!
Gotta get your French on.
Just none of that movie stuff. |
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"Okay, simple scenario here for the none kissers:
You have him or her on the bed, hands pinned above their head, held down by yours as you lie on top of them. Your faces inches apart, eyes locked as you slowly slide in/down that first time.
How do you not kiss and feel the catch of breath as you move a second time?
That sounds more like making love, which we do with each other and kiss passionately whilst doing so. Swing-fucking is totally different and we don't kiss other people."
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"Okay, simple scenario here for the none kissers:
You have him or her on the bed, hands pinned above their head, held down by yours as you lie on top of them. Your faces inches apart, eyes locked as you slowly slide in/down that first time.
How do you not kiss and feel the catch of breath as you move a second time?
That sounds more like making love, which we do with each other and kiss passionately whilst doing so. Swing-fucking is totally different and we don't kiss other people.
Ditto "
But that's because you have each other there to be intimate or passionate with. If you didn't have each other there, and you interacted the way you do with your single extra person but as two singles - I'm sure you can see why that would perhaps seem cold and why the OP was surprised that a single male had that rule. |
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"Okay, simple scenario here for the none kissers:
You have him or her on the bed, hands pinned above their head, held down by yours as you lie on top of them. Your faces inches apart, eyes locked as you slowly slide in/down that first time.
How do you not kiss and feel the catch of breath as you move a second time?
That sounds more like making love, which we do with each other and kiss passionately whilst doing so. Swing-fucking is totally different and we don't kiss other people.
Ditto
But that's because you have each other there to be intimate or passionate with. If you didn't have each other there, and you interacted the way you do with your single extra person but as two singles - I'm sure you can see why that would perhaps seem cold and why the OP was surprised that a single male had that rule. "
I'd been doing this for many years before I ever ever kissed anyone in this lifestyle. I'd rarely if ever had guys even try to kiss me. It never felt cold. Just exciting and as I wanted x |
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Well like the OP said you can understand some couple not wanting to kiss, but a singleton not wanting to kiss is just not for me love a long lingering kiss, A very clever person once said to me you can tell a lot by a kiss and she was right. |
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