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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey,
When you tell people you need to be discreet, what's the best way to know that they will be? As I have a partner I have to be discreet. Any tips to be careful?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah.
Tell your partner then you don't have to worry about it. "
Kin ell. New record first reply and it starts lol.
I'll give a slightly better but no more helpful answer. That is you will never be sure of anyone else's discretion. |
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You can tell your best friend a 'secret' and can't guarantee that it will remain so. So, there's probably less chance with people you only casually know.
Other than meeting a loooong way from your home area, there are few things you can do to increase the chance of secrecy.
My guess is that if you meet long time members, people who go to swinging clubs and events, there's a higher possibility that they won't be revealing much to others. If you only met at swinging clubs, then others may not gain as much information about you - but this varies as much, as with people you're just meeting from the net.
I don't have a secret life as such but overall, trust your gut instinct about someone. Many here don't like others who are cheating, so being honest with them will ensure that at least you're not deceiving them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the end of the day no one on here 'owes' you discretion so you can't really demand it. If they chose to give it to you, or say they will, its up to you whether you trust or believe a stranger on an internet sex site. This place is what it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No guarantees anyone will be discreet on here or in real life.
Maybe meeting people in a similar situation to you would help, at least they'd understand the need. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Beware the moral guardians of Fab  "
If someone starts a thread looking for tips to assist them in their infidelity what do they really expect as a response? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sorry I don't want to Make anyone angry or annoy anyone, I apologise
You have made me very angry by not knowing Dads Army!!!!  "
I'm sorry! I will watch it  |
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"I'm sorry I don't want to Make anyone angry or annoy anyone, I apologise
You have made me very angry by not knowing Dads Army!!!!
I'm sorry! I will watch it "
Don't tell them your name Christchurch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Beware the moral guardians of Fab
If someone starts a thread looking for tips to assist them in their infidelity what do they really expect as a response?"
I think he was asking about discretion. I'm sure even some couples on here like to be discreet about their swinging lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm sorry I don't want to Make anyone angry or annoy anyone, I apologise
You have made me very angry by not knowing Dads Army!!!!
I'm sorry! I will watch it
Don't tell them your name Christchurch "
Damn!! And they say never to make your username your actual name  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice would be to look for other cheats people in the same boat will likely relate to where you are coming from. "
Thst was most likely his thinking. Yeah i know call me captain obvious lol |
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