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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's it a bad thing to ask someone for a face pic... I asked a couple if I could see a face pic of them before we go any further and they seemed a bit miffed.. They said we have never sent them before... I have face pics on my profile (all be it private) but I do send. I like to see who I'm going to meet.. What does everyone else think.? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thinks it's bad form to ask for a face pic if you haven't sent one first
Other than that I'm not chatting or meeting anyone without seeing what they look like  |
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"It's it a bad thing to ask someone for a face pic... I asked a couple if I could see a face pic of them before we go any further and they seemed a bit miffed.. They said we have never sent them before... I have face pics on my profile (all be it private) but I do send. I like to see who I'm going to meet.. What does everyone else think.? "
I think ..........
Some peeps do.
Some peeps don't
Some peeps shag a blind date and
Some peeps wont ..
Some peeps need pics before hand
That much is true.
So stick with those the same as you.
( sung to the tune of some girls ) |
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"I thinks it's bad form to ask for a face pic if you haven't sent one first
Other than that I'm not chatting or meeting anyone without seeing what they look like "
Agree, really gets my goat when people ask for a face pic without sending one first.
But even worse when they demand one of me when i've just told them they're not my type...why would I send a face pic to someone i've no intention of meeting?  |
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"It's it a bad thing to ask someone for a face pic... I asked a couple if I could see a face pic of them before we go any further and they seemed a bit miffed.. They said we have never sent them before... I have face pics on my profile (all be it private) but I do send. I like to see who I'm going to meet.. What does everyone else think.?
I think ..........
Some peeps do.
Some peeps don't
Some peeps shag a blind date and
Some peeps wont ..
Some peeps need pics before hand
That much is true.
So stick with those the same as you.
( sung to the tune of some girls ) "
I was reading that to that tune, than giggled when I read your last sentence  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"It's it a bad thing to ask someone for a face pic... I asked a couple if I could see a face pic of them before we go any further and they seemed a bit miffed.. They said we have never sent them before... I have face pics on my profile (all be it private) but I do send. I like to see who I'm going to meet.. What does everyone else think.? "
Who made first contact?
If it was them then I see no issue with your request.
If it was you? And you've not sent them one? I'd say they were entitled to expect one first if you were suggesting meeting. If you were just chatting and no meet was on the cards it's down to personal choice.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thinks it's bad form to ask for a face pic if you haven't sent one first
Other than that I'm not chatting or meeting anyone without seeing what they look like
Agree, really gets my goat when people ask for a face pic without sending one first.
But even worse when they demand one of me when i've just told them they're not my type...why would I send a face pic to someone i've no intention of meeting? "
because they sent you one beforehand
so what if ur not gonna meet
face pics should be a trade really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't meet anyone who doesn't send face pics ..its not blind date but everyone uses this site differently so just move on till you find someone whose willing to share their face pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thinks it's bad form to ask for a face pic if you haven't sent one first
Other than that I'm not chatting or meeting anyone without seeing what they look like
Agree, really gets my goat when people ask for a face pic without sending one first.
But even worse when they demand one of me when i've just told them they're not my type...why would I send a face pic to someone i've no intention of meeting?
because they sent you one beforehand
so what if ur not gonna meet
face pics should be a trade really"
It's not Top Trumps where you trade face pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thinks it's bad form to ask for a face pic if you haven't sent one first
Other than that I'm not chatting or meeting anyone without seeing what they look like
Agree, really gets my goat when people ask for a face pic without sending one first.
But even worse when they demand one of me when i've just told them they're not my type...why would I send a face pic to someone i've no intention of meeting?
because they sent you one beforehand
so what if ur not gonna meet
face pics should be a trade really"
Because they'll probably be abusive and say they didn't fancy you either even if they did, rejection can do funny things to some people's egos! If someone I had never seen said I wasn't for them then that's it, I respect that and say goodbye. What's the point in wasting time on someone who doesn't want to meet you? |
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"I thinks it's bad form to ask for a face pic if you haven't sent one first
Other than that I'm not chatting or meeting anyone without seeing what they look like
Agree, really gets my goat when people ask for a face pic without sending one first.
But even worse when they demand one of me when i've just told them they're not my type...why would I send a face pic to someone i've no intention of meeting?
because they sent you one beforehand
so what if ur not gonna meet
face pics should be a trade really"
Really, so im expected to send a face pic to every mail I get with a face picture attached, even if im ignoring and deleting the message. |
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I won't send a face pic to people who ask for a face pic with your first message to them, I also won't send them a message. I think a couple of messages into it, its fine for face pics to be swapped, but if someone sends me theirs, I dont expect to have to reciprocate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ask for a face pic with first message but then mine is on show. Nothing worse I think than talking to someone and then realising there is so physical attraction. Shallow maybe but saves time in long run. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no no no
i mean if ur at the stage where you wanna swap face pics then you agree to both send one
im not sending someone a face pic unless im getting one back regardless of the outcome
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no no no
i mean if ur at the stage where you wanna swap face pics then you agree to both send one
im not sending someone a face pic unless im getting one back regardless of the outcome
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What if you send one and you don't get one back
Or do you nor send one unless you've received one
2 stubborn people will get nowhere on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no no no
i mean if ur at the stage where you wanna swap face pics then you agree to both send one
im not sending someone a face pic unless im getting one back regardless of the outcome
What if you send one and you don't get one back
Or do you nor send one unless you've received one
2 stubborn people will get nowhere on here "
if i send one and i dont get one back, even though we both agreed to send one then i feel conned  its happened to me once
lol there was another time when i wouldnt send first and neither would she so we had a stalemate  |
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Even if you have public photos, it's worth sending them via messaging, before asking for others to send to you. People forget what they've seen on profiles, or has already been sent - and inboxes soon fill-up, so they can't retrieve old messages.
It may just be that the people you spoke with Op weren't the right people for you, for whatever reasons.
Another option, rather than asking for pics, would be to ask when they might be exchanging them, prior to a meet? This isn't an instant demand for pics, but sets out your expectation of seeing photos of them, before you meet in the flesh, even for a social. |
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