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Nice legs, shame about the boat race
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a sucker for a pretty face and nice legs, so much so that I often overlook the "bit in the middle" when I perve prospective playmates.
You can't see personality in a picture, and some profile details would have Sherlock Holmes scratching his knob in wonderment about the profile holder.
So, how do you choose your "targets"?
Looks generally form everyones first impression, but what a different world it would be if we _iewed it through different eyes 
We see plenty of profiles that claim not to descriminate on grounds of looks, size, age, race etc.
Would they really play with anyone, and would you really want to play with them if it is the case?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to say that its the text in the profile that attracts me but in all honesty if a profile has an eye catching pic then I'm more likely to respond. However, if its a great pic accompanied by a 'hi hows u hun' message then its a no! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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an articulate profile always attracts me....that and the promise of a bottle or two of laurent perrier rose and oysters (temporarily forgetting where i am of course...) |
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A decent profile allways catches my attention first, more so if I fall into the critea the person asks and if they come across as a person with whom I could get on with.
A eye catching picture can also get my utmost attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Actually on reading this thread and other people's criteria for looking etc. I now realise that I'm probably one of those dreaded ones who never reads the profiles. I actually won't read the profile until they've caught my attention either in here or in chat. I do it back to front I guess. For the most part, to me, profiles are just a load of tosh anyway, you can see people's real personalities in chat and, if they are regular enough in the forums, also in here. I spy from a distance in both and then ...
I pounce   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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in the club it always helps if they are pleasing to the eye as well as a pleasure to chat to.
On here however its a different matter...I met a guy who sparked an interest in me through msgs alone....we clicked over chats about movies and music and our sense of humour. so much so I didn't even ask for a face pic and met him on the back of those txts/msgs. Personality wins every time!! |
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"in the club it always helps if they are pleasing to the eye as well as a pleasure to chat to.
On here however its a different matter...I met a guy who sparked an interest in me through msgs alone....we clicked over chats about movies and music and our sense of humour. so much so I didn't even ask for a face pic and met him on the back of those txts/msgs. Personality wins every time!!"
just a pity a there are not a lot more peeps like you to many after looks and body shape sadly, for me looks never come in to it always personality  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in the club it always helps if they are pleasing to the eye as well as a pleasure to chat to.
On here however its a different matter...I met a guy who sparked an interest in me through msgs alone....we clicked over chats about movies and music and our sense of humour. so much so I didn't even ask for a face pic and met him on the back of those txts/msgs. Personality wins every time!!
just a pity a there are not a lot more peeps like you to many after looks and body shape sadly, for me looks never come in to it always personality "
there are a lot more like that...we just get accused of wanting more than nsa...just because we have to like the person we meet and do put personality above looks.
Or, the assumption is made that we must be soooo unnatractive that we don't think we have the right to have standards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in the club it always helps if they are pleasing to the eye as well as a pleasure to chat to.
On here however its a different matter...I met a guy who sparked an interest in me through msgs alone....we clicked over chats about movies and music and our sense of humour. so much so I didn't even ask for a face pic and met him on the back of those txts/msgs. Personality wins every time!!
just a pity a there are not a lot more peeps like you to many after looks and body shape sadly, for me looks never come in to it always personality "
I don't tend to look at their faces for long anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in the club it always helps if they are pleasing to the eye as well as a pleasure to chat to.
On here however its a different matter...I met a guy who sparked an interest in me through msgs alone....we clicked over chats about movies and music and our sense of humour. so much so I didn't even ask for a face pic and met him on the back of those txts/msgs. Personality wins every time!!
just a pity a there are not a lot more peeps like you to many after looks and body shape sadly, for me looks never come in to it always personality
there are a lot more like that...we just get accused of wanting more than nsa...just because we have to like the person we meet and do put personality above looks.
Or, the assumption is made that we must be soooo unnatractive that we don't think we have the right to have standards. "
thats true...what i lack in looks though i make up for in other ways |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Good topic
I was thinking about this earlier and wanted to post something along those lines.
I have to say that for me it's a bit more tricky, I'm one of those dreaded single males (that are all bad with NO exceptions whatsoever! *note the extreme sarcasm people!*) you see and I've found that that alone is enough to turn some people away.
I’ve tried hard to get my personality to come though in my profile and also the messages that I send (and the posts I put on here too) but I’m aware that sometimes a pretty face can be that initial spark that causes the contact to be made.
I personally have always put personality above looks, that’s not some lame way of saying "I’d do anyone!" but rather because I’d sooner have a good convo with someone and have a cuppa then pop round for a quickie and never meet them again.
OK fine that might not work for some but I don’t feel I can just treat someone like a warm place to park myself for the duration.
Before anyone has a go, no I know this isn't a dating site but we are all humans and at the end of the day I think I'd rather spend my time with someone who at least finds my brain interesting, not just what's in my trousers!
I know that it must be hard trying to cut through the dozens of mails that the single ladies / couples get on here from single males but sometimes in the massacre to clear the inbox there are some good guys that get washed away 
Cheers,
H :0) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in the club it always helps if they are pleasing to the eye as well as a pleasure to chat to.
On here however its a different matter...I met a guy who sparked an interest in me through msgs alone....we clicked over chats about movies and music and our sense of humour. so much so I didn't even ask for a face pic and met him on the back of those txts/msgs. Personality wins every time!!
just a pity a there are not a lot more peeps like you to many after looks and body shape sadly, for me looks never come in to it always personality
there are a lot more like that...we just get accused of wanting more than nsa...just because we have to like the person we meet and do put personality above looks.
Or, the assumption is made that we must be soooo unnatractive that we don't think we have the right to have standards.
thats true...what i lack in looks though i make up for in other ways "
I think you are gorgeous honey |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As someone once commented about me "nice legs shame about the face" not sure ive anything to say  "
I've had the exact opposite, nice face, shame about the legs...although when my 34" inside legs are wrapped around someone they don't generally complain! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in the club it always helps if they are pleasing to the eye as well as a pleasure to chat to.
On here however its a different matter...I met a guy who sparked an interest in me through msgs alone....we clicked over chats about movies and music and our sense of humour. so much so I didn't even ask for a face pic and met him on the back of those txts/msgs. Personality wins every time!!
just a pity a there are not a lot more peeps like you to many after looks and body shape sadly, for me looks never come in to it always personality
there are a lot more like that...we just get accused of wanting more than nsa...just because we have to like the person we meet and do put personality above looks.
Or, the assumption is made that we must be soooo unnatractive that we don't think we have the right to have standards.
thats true...what i lack in looks though i make up for in other ways
I think you are gorgeous honey "
and I, you hun....it never stopped us having fun anyway lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good topic
I was thinking about this earlier and wanted to post something along those lines.
I have to say that for me it's a bit more tricky, I'm one of those dreaded single males (that are all bad with NO exceptions whatsoever! *note the extreme sarcasm people!*) you see and I've found that that alone is enough to turn some people away.
I’ve tried hard to get my personality to come though in my profile and also the messages that I send (and the posts I put on here too) but I’m aware that sometimes a pretty face can be that initial spark that causes the contact to be made.
I personally have always put personality above looks, that’s not some lame way of saying "I’d do anyone!" but rather because I’d sooner have a good convo with someone and have a cuppa then pop round for a quickie and never meet them again.
OK fine that might not work for some but I don’t feel I can just treat someone like a warm place to park myself for the duration.
Before anyone has a go, no I know this isn't a dating site but we are all humans and at the end of the day I think I'd rather spend my time with someone who at least finds my brain interesting, not just what's in my trousers!
I know that it must be hard trying to cut through the dozens of mails that the single ladies / couples get on here from single males but sometimes in the massacre to clear the inbox there are some good guys that get washed away
Cheers,
H :0)"
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I'm more attracted to personality rather than those who are visually 'attractive'. Ok, I admit it, someone who is 'easy on the eye' is a bonus.
But some of the very best sex I've ever had was with someone who many people would not give a second glance at. Or possible even a third.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm a sucker for a pretty face and nice legs, so much so that I often overlook the "bit in the middle" when I perve prospective playmates.
You can't see personality in a picture, and some profile details would have Sherlock Holmes scratching his knob in wonderment about the profile holder.
So, how do you choose your "targets"?
Looks generally form everyones first impression, but what a different world it would be if we _iewed it through different eyes
We see plenty of profiles that claim not to descriminate on grounds of looks, size, age, race etc.
Would they really play with anyone, and would you really want to play with them if it is the case? "
disagree, I think you can tell quite a lot from a pic or pics.
male searches female hones down targets
lastly, who they play with is their business, it's certainly not that which will sway our decision. |
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