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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male
Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here "
In most cases it just proves they are real and do actually meet people, I don't read to much into them myself sometimes just to see they type of Men they meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male
Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol
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It's nothing to do with your age or lack of verifications. Focus on what you can influence not what you can't  |
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"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male
Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol
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Cry some more, you need at least a paddling pool full of tears before you get a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first guys I met on here I met them because they didn't have any verifications. Verifications only put me off if I'm honest because if I look at who they've met 9 times out of 10 they'll be buzzing and I judge him for having no standards. |
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By *irceWoman
over a year ago
Gloucester |
Try being TS ...have awesome meets at times but because of society's take on my kind some guys are to scared to verri you, which I understand as they will struggle with other meets,kiss of death. |
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"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male
Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol
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How many socials have you been to? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here
Would you display a bad one ? "
I did. It was my favourite verification.
The worst thing about this site is the failure of the teleportation system. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not all about veris, many do meet unverifieds as well..... just saying  "
I have to agree. I've had a few meets where, even after leaving a veri myself, I haven't had one in return.
I don't place too much weight on how many, or how recent someone has had a verification.
After all, the sole purpose of verifications is to prove that the person / people are real and actually turn up |
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"Same problem when you get older mate, I had loads but when people leave you loose their verifications so you go back to square one."
They would still be on the summary though.. That number stays even when the person leaves site.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not all about veris, many do meet unverifieds as well..... just saying
I have to agree. I've had a few meets where, even after leaving a veri myself, I haven't had one in return.
I don't place too much weight on how many, or how recent someone has had a verification.
After all, the sole purpose of verifications is to prove that the person / people are real and actually turn up"
Yes that's right, I also meet one 3 years ago here but she didn't leave a veri its not all about veris here, its about having fun to. |
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"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here
Would you display a bad one ?
Exactly!
Duh!"
I had a couple on a previous website
I displayed them
Just to confirm I'm NOT perfect
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"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male
Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol
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they should of called it no single males .....I have no faith in the site till I get a meet |
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"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male
Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol
they should of called it no single males .....I have no faith in the site till I get a meet "
Plenty of single males get meets on this site.
You just have to work on getting a decent profile and sending polite messages having read their profile. Eventually that works, but you're not automatically entitled to a meet |
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"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here
Exactly this "
As pointed out a couple of messages ago, nobody is likely to display a bad one....that's why there aren't any..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And in answer to the Op's question, singles leading people on, giving false details about themselves. Sometimes resulting in angry girlfriends/wives contacting you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here
Exactly this
As pointed out a couple of messages ago, nobody is likely to display a bad one....that's why there aren't any....."
Nobody would leave a bad one - agree
What if the person didn't want to leave one at all instead of leaving a bad one ie no verifications at all ??
Ooooooppps OP doesn't have any
Verifications are simply that, they verify the person will turn up, and you will survive the encounter to tell the tale. A must to ensure the safety of single lady's - wouldn't you say ?? |
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"Veris are all bollocks anyway. Has anyone ever seen a bad one on here
Exactly this
As pointed out a couple of messages ago, nobody is likely to display a bad one....that's why there aren't any.....
Nobody would leave a bad one - agree
What if the person didn't want to leave one at all instead of leaving a bad one ie no verifications at all ??
Ooooooppps OP doesn't have any
Verifications are simply that, they verify the person will turn up, and you will survive the encounter to tell the tale. A must to ensure the safety of single lady's - wouldn't you say ?? "
Exactly.
Veris are not about lurid details or unmitigated praise so much as providing some reassurance that the guy actually turns up, just as the veri for a woman shows that it is actually a woman....
Not guaranteed of course but helpful in the overall process of selection...better than no veris at all. |
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"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male
Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol
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Not necessarily so.....everyone had no verifications at some point but managed to get meets. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male
Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol
Not necessarily so.....everyone had no verifications at some point but managed to get meets. "
I got my first veri 10 mins after joining. the joy of being well known on multiple swinging sites |
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If this thread is a thinly disguised 'why can't I get a meet?' type of thread, consider your profile and how you interact with people. If it isn't, then I apologize and heartily agree that the only thing stopping you getting meets is lack of verifications. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"If this thread is a thinly disguised 'why can't I get a meet?' type of thread, consider your profile and how you interact with people. If it isn't, then I apologize and heartily agree that the only thing stopping you getting meets is lack of verifications. "
No, its a not so thinly disguised post about how successful with the laydeez the OP is in real life. |
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"If this thread is a thinly disguised 'why can't I get a meet?' type of thread, consider your profile and how you interact with people. If it isn't, then I apologize and heartily agree that the only thing stopping you getting meets is lack of verifications.
No, its a not so thinly disguised post about how successful with the laydeez the OP is in real life."
Well that's all good then! Anyway, you look rather lush.  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"If this thread is a thinly disguised 'why can't I get a meet?' type of thread, consider your profile and how you interact with people. If it isn't, then I apologize and heartily agree that the only thing stopping you getting meets is lack of verifications.
No, its a not so thinly disguised post about how successful with the laydeez the OP is in real life.
Well that's all good then! Anyway, you look rather lush. "
Fancy a shag?  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"If this thread is a thinly disguised 'why can't I get a meet?' type of thread, consider your profile and how you interact with people. If it isn't, then I apologize and heartily agree that the only thing stopping you getting meets is lack of verifications.
No, its a not so thinly disguised post about how successful with the laydeez the OP is in real life.
Well that's all good then! Anyway, you look rather lush.
Fancy a shag? "
PS Can't respond to messages at the mo  |
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"The hardest thing on this site is trying to decipher all of the text speak that we get in messages."
not entirely true if you understand the concept of shorthand writing, they are similar in a way and quite futuristic. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"If this thread is a thinly disguised 'why can't I get a meet?' type of thread, consider your profile and how you interact with people. If it isn't, then I apologize and heartily agree that the only thing stopping you getting meets is lack of verifications.
No, its a not so thinly disguised post about how successful with the laydeez the OP is in real life."
Sorry OP meant to post this on another post. Whoops  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The hardest thing about this site is being a young horny single male
Everyone wants to see verifications. Which for me has been like trying to find rocking horse sh*t lol
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Tbh the profile is doing you more harm than the lack of veries |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same problem when you get older mate, I had loads but when people leave you loose their verifications so you go back to square one."
But your summary still keeps a record of them all. So all the verifications you have collected (in over 5 years?) are there on your summary. So all of the loads you had are still showing.? |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
I have met guys who did not have any verifications and who even now, only have the one verification on their profile; mine
Verifications are more useful when meeting a woman or a woman who is a part of a couple. These confirm that they are the sex they claim to be as there are too many men here pretending to be women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately veri's don't always mean they will turn up!!!! I've had guys with veri's not turn up. It's all a load of c**p if you ask me.
I've chatted with some guys who choose not to display veri's because they are embarrassed by who left them!!!
Doesn't really say much for the whole veri system really tbh |
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"If this thread is a thinly disguised 'why can't I get a meet?' type of thread, consider your profile and how you interact with people. If it isn't, then I apologize and heartily agree that the only thing stopping you getting meets is lack of verifications.
No, its a not so thinly disguised post about how successful with the laydeez the OP is in real life.
Well that's all good then! Anyway, you
look rather lush.
Fancy a shag? "
Brazen Hussey!! 
Of course I do! |
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"The hardest thing on this site is trying to decipher all of the text speak that we get in messages.
not entirely true if you understand the concept of shorthand writing, they are similar in a way and quite futuristic. "
I don't understand shorthand and neither do the people that send us messages I would suspect....I wouldn't call it futuristic, more lazy. |
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