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"I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git 
What if you can only have it now OR later?
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I'm not good with being told what i can and can't have. I shall have it now with Miss A and later with Miss B |
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"It's that line in Rocky Horror. I see you shiver in antici
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...............pation!"
But maybe the rain, isn't really to blame... |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git
What if you can only have it now OR later?
I'm not good with being told what i can and can't have. I shall have it now with Miss A and later with Miss B "
Very well. For this scenario I should make it clear there is only Miss A. Miss A is only available once.
Will you defer or have her now? |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"It's that line in Rocky Horror. I see you shiver in antici
.................................
...............pation!
But maybe the rain, isn't really to blame..."
So I'll remove the cause.... |
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"It's that line in Rocky Horror. I see you shiver in antici
.................................
...............pation!
But maybe the rain, isn't really to blame...
So I'll remove the cause...."
But not... the symptom! |
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"I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git
What if you can only have it now OR later?
I'm not good with being told what i can and can't have. I shall have it now with Miss A and later with Miss B
Very well. For this scenario I should make it clear there is only Miss A. Miss A is only available once.
Will you defer or have her now?"
When exactly is later, what sort of mood is she currently in, what mood will she be in later, will she have any time constraints or distractions with either time zone.....so many vaiables  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Greater pleasure or frustrating?
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
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Then again a Bush in the hand is worth 20 dollar luvie luvie long time
Gimp |
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"I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git
What if you can only have it now OR later?
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Isn't the point of delays gratification exercises that you get a bigger reward if you wait
If it's the same reward there is no sense in waiting.
But equally in the real world outside of testing it's often likley you'll just miss your chance and get nothing if you pass up on an opertunity for the promise of a greater one at a later date. |
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"I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git
What if you can only have it now OR later?
Isn't the point of delays gratification exercises that you get a bigger reward if you wait
If it's the same reward there is no sense in waiting.
But equally in the real world outside of testing it's often likley you'll just miss your chance and get nothing if you pass up on an opertunity for the promise of a greater one at a later date."
Experience tells me that if you piss about too long with this waiting lark- something (or someone) will most certainly manage to bolox it up......hence wanting it now and later- just because  |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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I don't enjoy it and get frustrated and a little grumpy but I love doing it to guys...waiting until I feel them tense up and move my mouth - it makes me giggle and when they do finally cum I usually get my tonsils banged - one bad thing is that they are usually hyper sensitive afterwards so I need to play gently for aaaaaaages  |
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"Greater pleasure or frustrating?
The journey, for as long as it takes, is more important than the destination..so great pleasure for me x"
Really? Even if the journey is a 20 mile slog through broken glass and lemon juice and the destination is a "world's cuddliest puppies and kittens on a super size bed" contest? |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I want it now, tomorrow and the day after- i'm a greedy git
What if you can only have it now OR later?
I'm not good with being told what i can and can't have. I shall have it now with Miss A and later with Miss B
Very well. For this scenario I should make it clear there is only Miss A. Miss A is only available once.
Will you defer or have her now?
When exactly is later, what sort of mood is she currently in, what mood will she be in later, will she have any time constraints or distractions with either time zone.....so many vaiables "
That's the problem with delaying your gratification - you don't know if you'll be alive to be gratified.
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"Greater pleasure or frustrating?
The journey, for as long as it takes, is more important than the destination..so great pleasure for me x
Really? Even if the journey is a 20 mile slog through broken glass and lemon juice and the destination is a "world's cuddliest puppies and kittens on a super size bed" contest?"
Great metaphore  |
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