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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nearly all people online are now single or pretending to be single men.... Almost as if a men only site. Organised meets are nearly all men. The see whose near function.... Nearly all men. The couples are on usually block single men? Surely some changes required? Not sure how to change it, but it's become impossible to meet a woman if you're a single man. They block tusk you can't chat, couples don't want single men. It's a vicious circle? It's getting worse too
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Even couples and females now pretend to be single men.
A lot of single guys do well here though, reportedly. I'm guessing as volumes of users grow, the proportions remain stable amongst the categories.
There are evolutionary forces at work here though. Survival of the fittest profiles and meeting strategies win. |
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"Nearly all people online are now single or pretending to be single men.... Almost as if a men only site. Organised meets are nearly all men. The see whose near function.... Nearly all men. The couples are on usually block single men? Surely some changes required? Not sure how to change it, but it's become impossible to meet a woman if you're a single man. They block tusk you can't chat, couples don't want single men. It's a vicious circle? It's getting worse too
Mike. "
. There are lots of ladies and couples on the site who want to meet men, however they will have their standards. Just to get to the starting line you will need a good well written profile , good pictures and the right attitude . Your attitude will also have an impact on whom people choose to meet . I don't have any complaints about single males with poorly written profiles which simply say that they want to fuck.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not a single man or pretending to be a single man 
Oh no
Neither am I
Well that's 2 of us  "
And I personally know a few more. That's at least 6 ladies on Fab. The number of messages I get from couples is growing too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not a single man or pretending to be a single man
Oh no
Neither am I
Well that's 2 of us
And I personally know a few more. That's at least 6 ladies on Fab. The number of messages I get from couples is growing too. "
6  are you sure, that sounds an awful lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not a single man or pretending to be a single man
Oh no
Neither am I
Well that's 2 of us
And I personally know a few more. That's at least 6 ladies on Fab. The number of messages I get from couples is growing too.
6 are you sure, that sounds an awful lot "
2 is more than enough for me!
Any more is just greedy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am not a single man. If wearing a strap-on once whilst with another lady counts as pretending to be one then I am guilty as charged. Sorry (no I'm not). "
Okay, 3 are enough for me  |
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"Nearly all people online are now single or pretending to be single men.... Almost as if a men only site. Organised meets are nearly all men. The see whose near function.... Nearly all men. The couples are on usually block single men? Surely some changes required? Not sure how to change it, but it's become impossible to meet a woman if you're a single man. They block tusk you can't chat, couples don't want single men. It's a vicious circle? It's getting worse too
Mike. "
Um but you're a "single" man? And you're saying there are too many of you!
What do you want to change? Would you pay £100 a month to be on here? Or go through a rigorous application process? |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"I'm not a single man or pretending to be a single man
Oh no
Neither am I
Well that's 2 of us
And I personally know a few more. That's at least 6 ladies on Fab. The number of messages I get from couples is growing too.
6 are you sure, that sounds an awful lot "
lol im one more..that makes 7..elusive maybe..hehe but definitely female, single and on Fabs... |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"I'm not a single man or pretending to be a single man
Oh no
Neither am I
Well that's 2 of us
And I personally know a few more. That's at least 6 ladies on Fab. The number of messages I get from couples is growing too.
6 are you sure, that sounds an awful lot
lol im one more..that makes 7..elusive maybe..hehe but definitely female, single and on Fabs..."
And you think we are just going to believe you with no proof??? |
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Op all ways rember u only get out what u put in that u can use for life in genrail
U have no face pics no 6 pack and 2 many cock pics stop going on grow up and if it don't work fix it go gym tidy your self up and smile lol
Try clubs after u do above |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op all ways rember u only get out what u put in that u can use for life in genrail
U have no face pics no 6 pack and 2 many cock pics stop going on grow up and if it don't work fix it go gym tidy your self up and smile lol
Try clubs after u do above "
the Op appears to have done fairly well based on his verifications to be honest....
the question really is when the OP can meet...which appears to be daytimes...that alone will cut a good percentage of potential meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op all ways rember u only get out what u put in that u can use for life in genrail
U have no face pics no 6 pack and 2 many cock pics stop going on grow up and if it don't work fix it go gym tidy your self up and smile lol
Try clubs after u do above "
When does filming for London shore start? |
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I doth notice a wedding ring in his pics.
Oh yes
She shoots
She scores
Well done you girl
Dum Dum Dum
Another credible man bites the dust
Dum Dum Dum
Lmfao "
i would play that card very carefully ...alot if bereaved people always wear their ring as they see no reason to take it off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nearly all people online are now single or pretending to be single men.... Almost as if a men only site. Organised meets are nearly all men. The see whose near function.... Nearly all men. The couples are on usually block single men? Surely some changes required? Not sure how to change it, but it's become impossible to meet a woman if you're a single man. They block tusk you can't chat, couples don't want single men. It's a vicious circle? It's getting worse too
Mike. "
You need to click "see who's near that match your preferences" and boom all the men are gone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op all ways rember u only get out what u put in that u can use for life in genrail
U have no face pics no 6 pack and 2 many cock pics stop going on grow up and if it don't work fix it go gym tidy your self up and smile lol
Try clubs after u do above "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I doth notice a wedding ring in his pics.
Oh yes
She shoots
She scores
Well done you girl
Dum Dum Dum
Another credible man bites the dust
Dum Dum Dum
Lmfao
i would play that card very carefully ...alot if bereaved people always wear their ring as they see no reason to take it off "
Yeah, play it very carefully... Because experience tells us that most of the blokes on here wearing wedding rings are bereaved husbands |
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Yeah, play it very carefully... Because experience tells us that most of the blokes on here wearing wedding rings are bereaved husbands "
i was just pointing out that everyone who has a ring on their finger is not a cheating fucker ...i have one on my finger and im not married
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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Yeah, play it very carefully... Because experience tells us that most of the blokes on here wearing wedding rings are bereaved husbands
i was just pointing out that everyone who has a ring on their finger is not a cheating fucker ...i have one on my finger and im not married
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On a couple profile no one is going to notice.
I've had the "I'm a widower" game played on me.
As to the OP, let's thin out the men based on penis size shall we? It's as fair as any other criterion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its true...
haha I'm pretending to be a real boy...now fuck my extending nose"
Show us your woody then?
OP- there's single women and couples out there. Many like doing the searching themselves and will come to you. Going to a social would get you known, if it's something you can get along to.
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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We are not a single man pretending to be a couple.....we do sometimes meet single guys and we meet loads of couples - maybe we are on the wrong site if this one is quickly becoming fab guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are not a single man pretending to be a couple.....we do sometimes meet single guys and we meet loads of couples - maybe we are on the wrong site if this one is quickly becoming fab guys "
hahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nearly all people online are now single or pretending to be single men.... Almost as if a men only site. Organised meets are nearly all men. The see whose near function.... Nearly all men. The couples are on usually block single men? Surely some changes required? Not sure how to change it, but it's become impossible to meet a woman if you're a single man. They block tusk you can't chat, couples don't want single men. It's a vicious circle? It's getting worse too
Mike. "
I think your just having a bad day and venting, failing that, try working on your profile and looking at what you can change with yourself rather than others, sometimes it helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not impossible to meet as a single male, check out my verifications. Also this site is mainly for making contacts, have you considered going to a club? You may have more success. As for fake profiles, if their not photo verified, have no pics or have not been verified then treat them as suspicious.
Best of luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I doth notice a wedding ring in his pics.
Oh yes
She shoots
She scores
Well done you girl
Dum Dum Dum
Another credible man bites the dust
Dum Dum Dum
Lmfao
i would play that card very carefully ...alot if bereaved people always wear their ring as they see no reason to take it off "
In my experience during the short six months on here, there are - by far - a lot more cheating people (the majority males) than there are bereaved, on here. I know as I get the messages in my inbox everyday asking if I'm cool to meet taken guys.
Hence I put the question to the OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nearly all people online are now single or pretending to be single men.... Almost as if a men only site. Organised meets are nearly all men. The see whose near function.... Nearly all men. The couples are on usually block single men? Surely some changes required? Not sure how to change it, but it's become impossible to meet a woman if you're a single man. They block tusk you can't chat, couples don't want single men. It's a vicious circle? It's getting worse too
Mike. "
Sounds good to me. I like single men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I look at my "who's near" in unfiltered mode it's mainly couples and women!!
Use the "who meets my preferences" to filter it down to your search preferences.
From my experiences on here I find that MM and MF couples are more likely to be single men in disguise but even then it's a small percentage.
The one thing that I really loathe on this site are guys who whine about the number of other men and problems getting meets.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and meets! They tend to mirror the proportions on here. That being said I would never dream of putting a meet request on! All it leads to is an overloaded Intray and tonnes of unsuitable replies. I did once (in my defence it was not long after I joined the site) and I had over 250 responses. Never again
As another responder has said some women prefer to look for themselves.
A regular playmate of mine was someone I going through his meet listing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab charging an annual fee to join will easily scare away fakers and time wasters.. single men are a bit more tricky to shake off  "
It will see an awful lot of genuine people go UNLOS too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nearly all people online are now single or pretending to be single men.... Almost as if a men only site. Organised meets are nearly all men. The see whose near function.... Nearly all men. The couples are on usually block single men? Surely some changes required? Not sure how to change it, but it's become impossible to meet a woman if you're a single man. They block tusk you can't chat, couples don't want single men. It's a vicious circle? It's getting worse too
Mike. "
Sorry but must disagree with much of this, there may be more single men...live with it! Can't get meets? Nonsense...maybe look at your own profile and the messages you send?
Women don't want single Jen...again rubbish. It's what most of them are here for.
If you REALLY think the site is so bad then why are you here?
The rest of us single guys are having lots of fun....
Just remember it is a lifestyle site...not called plenty of quick fucks! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nearly all people online are now single or pretending to be single men.... Almost as if a men only site. Organised meets are nearly all men. The see whose near function.... Nearly all men. The couples are on usually block single men? Surely some changes required? Not sure how to change it, but it's become impossible to meet a woman if you're a single man. They block tusk you can't chat, couples don't want single men. It's a vicious circle? It's getting worse too
Mike. "
If the site is that bad you could always leave? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nearly all people online are now single or pretending to be single men.... Almost as if a men only site. Organised meets are nearly all men. The see whose near function.... Nearly all men. The couples are on usually block single men? Surely some changes required? Not sure how to change it, but it's become impossible to meet a woman if you're a single man. They block tusk you can't chat, couples don't want single men. It's a vicious circle? It's getting worse too
Mike. "
The site works fine. Those who make an effort and stand out from the rest will get meets. Those who complain about it being too hard when they put zero effort in - wont. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fab charging an annual fee to join will easily scare away fakers and time wasters.. single men are a bit more tricky to shake off "
No it wouldn't seen countless silver members come and go every few days.
If fabs became a mandatory pay site I'd be off tbh. The fact it's voluntary makes it feel different, and means there's less sense of entitlement make everyone pay and they'll be demanding something for thier money |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We interact with two very successful males on here with both "getting" how it works and with some very marketable skills. They had to be chased down and certainly stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm one of the many single women on here who is ONLY interested in single men!
However - with the exception of forum friends who live some distance away - I'm looking for regular friends - not one-off shags - so I'm guessing that will put a lot of men off? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another single female who mainly meets single guys. I've told a few ex play partners about the site. Verified them and they've had plenty of meets. It's all about marketability. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Nearly all people online are now single or pretending to be single men.... Almost as if a men only site. Organised meets are nearly all men. The see whose near function.... Nearly all men. The couples are on usually block single men? Surely some changes required? Not sure how to change it, but it's become impossible to meet a woman if you're a single man. They block tusk you can't chat, couples don't want single men. It's a vicious circle? It's getting worse too
Mike. "
nope..... you don't effect how i do on the site.... and I certainly dont have any impact on you...
we are all masters of our of fate..... the site gives you the tools to make in work if you decide to....
you all of them, some of them or none of them... in the end thats on you...
you can complain about it... or you can do something about it....
which are you doing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh dear all those single fems pretending to be men. Jeez will they never quit!!
You only have to look at some of the guest lists in the party sections to see that this is far from s single male site.
The secret to success? Get off your arse, quit whinging and get out there!! |
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