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over a year ago
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I tend to look to the older woman because they are more experienced than I am usually  , my age range is 20+ but I never seem to meet anyone over 40 is it me or dose swingers still mind this stuff with age or am I barking up the wrong trees, i thought we are all here for the magic  I'm 26 in my prime I assumed I'd be desired but that's my own fault ...is there any tips out there I'm always respectable and accept things straight away I don't push or try different angles? |
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Everyone will be different but I prefer older men just as you prefer older women. You say you prefer older because they have more experience but I would guess that could turn older women off....just my thoughts. |
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"Some of us have sons/daughters near your age so won't meet because of that reason, not saying everyone.. but that's my reason why not."
Yes that is understandable I have thought across they lines before , there is boundaries in certain places for those who dose have kids my age but those without , I'm not saying its my only prefferance but in that department I'm looking for more experience , should I be persistant in my search or wait for it to come to me ? |
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"should I be persistant in my search or wait for it to come to me ?"
It won't come to you... that's for certain. You're probably best off getting out and meeting people at clubs.
The young have their bodies gong for them but other things can make them less desirable to people. The sexiest decades in our opinion are 30's, 40's, first... followed by 20's and 50's in joint third place. Sexiness is a whole package about personality, life experience, sensuality, energetic engagement, physicality, fun, emotional maturity, etc etc... all this tends to peak in the 30's and 40's as far as we're concerned... but of course the 50's and 20's are wonderful too and individuals can differ greatly from the norm... so if you feel that counts for you too then you're best off getting out and meeting people... then they'll see the real package rather than go off the stereotype.
Having said that I (mr) definitely have fantasies about getting it on with the babysitter... but that's only because I'm a total pervert lol  |
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"should I be persistant in my search or wait for it to come to me ?
It won't come to you... that's for certain. You're probably best off getting out and meeting people at clubs.
The young have their bodies gong for them but other things can make them less desirable to people. The sexiest decades in our opinion are 30's, 40's, first... followed by 20's and 50's in joint third place. Sexiness is a whole package about personality, life experience, sensuality, energetic engagement, physicality, fun, emotional maturity, etc etc... all this tends to peak in the 30's and 40's as far as we're concerned... but of course the 50's and 20's are wonderful too and individuals can differ greatly from the norm... so if you feel that counts for you too then you're best off getting out and meeting people... then they'll see the real package rather than go off the stereotype.
Having said that I (mr) definitely have fantasies about getting it on with the babysitter... but that's only because I'm a total pervert lol "
Thank you that's very insightful I really appreciate you took the time to write that , I understand that completely and will take your advice personally myself just a little guidance can set you on the road and you have done that for me  |
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"should I be persistant in my search or wait for it to come to me ?
It won't come to you... that's for certain. You're probably best off getting out and meeting people at clubs.
The young have their bodies gong for them but other things can make them less desirable to people. The sexiest decades in our opinion are 30's, 40's, first... followed by 20's and 50's in joint third place. Sexiness is a whole package about personality, life experience, sensuality, energetic engagement, physicality, fun, emotional maturity, etc etc... all this tends to peak in the 30's and 40's as far as we're concerned... but of course the 50's and 20's are wonderful too and individuals can differ greatly from the norm... so if you feel that counts for you too then you're best off getting out and meeting people... then they'll see the real package rather than go off the stereotype.
Having said that I (mr) definitely have fantasies about getting it on with the babysitter... but that's only because I'm a total pervert lol "
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"For intense hi gear sex no doubt id go for a young girl but for experience and passion I guess nothing beats a sexy oldie but goodie x"
Oldie but goodie and sexy seem odd in the same sentence.
In the past couple of days I've seen over 50s referred to as seniors and now this |
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