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did you meet and marry the person you thought you would
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As we grow up we think about the type of person we want to meet and in some ways marry. Did you meet that person or did you have to compromise on certain things? You hear people mention that before they got together they didnt like them for ages and then they get together. Discuss.. |
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over a year ago
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I wouldn't say he was the person I thought I'd end up with but when I met my late husband just knew he was for me within 6 was we were living together and until the day he died after 25 yrs of marriage we were still very much in love , probably still would be if he was still alive today |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't say he was the person I thought I'd end up with but when I met my late husband just knew he was for me within 6 was we were living together and until the day he died after 25 yrs of marriage we were still very much in love , probably still would be if he was still alive today"
. 6 wks. Not was
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By *andy57TV/TS
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say she was the person I thought I'd end up with but when I met my late wife after nursing me in a milatary hospital after been injured in Northern Ireland when I first opened my eyes and saw her just knew she was for me although she did not think so at the time but after a few weeks we were so close we had a fantastic marriage she past away coming up 2 years now still miss her like hell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. Married a guy who kills pirates for a living and climbs El Capitan at Yosemite in his spare time...
Can say pretty much that he has set the bar very high, and even though we aren't together anymore, I think finding a man as cultured, capable and with such a strong sense of character will be very hard.
But He also taught me to not put up with lies and games by his questionable behavior! Lol he was a very impressive knob! Lol   |
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I wouldn't say the first time I met him I knew I would marry him as we worked in the same nightclub as we moved in different circles but 1 quiet boxing day night at work we got talking and haven't looked back since 12 years and even stronger he's by no means perfect but neither am I, all I know is he's my best friend, a fantastic father and step father to my children and I could never imagine life without out him |
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I'm not the marrying kind.
But the woman I'm with, we got together for the sex and, turns out, some years and a child later, we quite like each other.
If you'da told me then that we'd still be together, I'd've laughed in your face.
'Tis a funny old world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never met anyone I've wanted to marry so no
I have been married but even on my wedding day I knew I was doing the wrong thing, i never loved him, they were not tears of joy  |
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Got engaged after 3 months going out, married 18 months later. Yes I knew he was right and we lasted 13 years. Four years later married someone else, divorced after 12 years. Won't be doing it again. My first husband is the one I should still be with but we were young, stupid and didn't try hard enough to work it out.
Wise with hindsight.
Lily xx
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"Nope. Married a guy who kills pirates for a living and climbs El Capitan at Yosemite in his spare time...
Can say pretty much that he has set the bar very high, and even though we aren't together anymore, I think finding a man as cultured, capable and with such a strong sense of character will be very hard.
But He also taught me to not put up with lies and games by his questionable behavior! Lol he was a very impressive knob! Lol "
Haha, yes I married one of those - huge long name, public school, Royal Marine Commando officer, rugby captain and Mensa member - total knob!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. Married a guy who kills pirates for a living and climbs El Capitan at Yosemite in his spare time...
Can say pretty much that he has set the bar very high, and even though we aren't together anymore, I think finding a man as cultured, capable and with such a strong sense of character will be very hard.
But He also taught me to not put up with lies and games by his questionable behavior! Lol he was a very impressive knob! Lol
Haha, yes I married one of those - huge long name, public school, Royal Marine Commando officer, rugby captain and Mensa member - total knob!! "
but fuck me they can carry themselves well don't they?!... He definitely has a presence when he walks into a room. Everyone wants to talk to him... Girls fling themselves all over him. That's probably why I'm extremely fussy about meeting singles on here and very very rarely do. I cannot stand the inevitable pissing contest and have to walk away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"never met anyone I've wanted to marry so no
I have been married but even on my wedding day I knew I was doing the wrong thing, i never loved him, they were not tears of joy "
Wow
AND I can sympathise.... X
Was married 25 years..... Having fun now but wouldn't change it due to having 3 wonderful sons...
We were never compatible, I realise that now
Forwards now |
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"Nope. Married a guy who kills pirates for a living and climbs El Capitan at Yosemite in his spare time...
Can say pretty much that he has set the bar very high, and even though we aren't together anymore, I think finding a man as cultured, capable and with such a strong sense of character will be very hard.
But He also taught me to not put up with lies and games by his questionable behavior! Lol he was a very impressive knob! Lol
Haha, yes I married one of those - huge long name, public school, Royal Marine Commando officer, rugby captain and Mensa member - total knob!! "
Lmao me too! |
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"Nope. Married a guy who kills pirates for a living and climbs El Capitan at Yosemite in his spare time...
Can say pretty much that he has set the bar very high, and even though we aren't together anymore, I think finding a man as cultured, capable and with such a strong sense of character will be very hard.
But He also taught me to not put up with lies and games by his questionable behavior! Lol he was a very impressive knob! Lol
Haha, yes I married one of those - huge long name, public school, Royal Marine Commando officer, rugby captain and Mensa member - total knob!! but fuck me they can carry themselves well don't they?!... He definitely has a presence when he walks into a room. Everyone wants to talk to him... Girls fling themselves all over him. That's probably why I'm extremely fussy about meeting singles on here and very very rarely do. I cannot stand the inevitable pissing contest and have to walk away. "
Yea, would've made a good cult leader I always said lol! ! Great in a crisis, very impressive, no good at normal life!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. Married a guy who kills pirates for a living and climbs El Capitan at Yosemite in his spare time...
Can say pretty much that he has set the bar very high, and even though we aren't together anymore, I think finding a man as cultured, capable and with such a strong sense of character will be very hard.
But He also taught me to not put up with lies and games by his questionable behavior! Lol he was a very impressive knob! Lol
Haha, yes I married one of those - huge long name, public school, Royal Marine Commando officer, rugby captain and Mensa member - total knob!! but fuck me they can carry themselves well don't they?!... He definitely has a presence when he walks into a room. Everyone wants to talk to him... Girls fling themselves all over him. That's probably why I'm extremely fussy about meeting singles on here and very very rarely do. I cannot stand the inevitable pissing contest and have to walk away.
Yea, would've made a good cult leader I always said lol! ! Great in a crisis, very impressive, no good at normal life! "
haha so true!!! Definitely cult leader hehehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, I haven't met her yet (or maybe I did way back when I was 18), hence, I'm still not married.
I'm not very good at compromise..  "
how the hell hasn't anyone bagged you?! This world is mad |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"Nope, I haven't met her yet (or maybe I did way back when I was 18), hence, I'm still not married.
I'm not very good at compromise.. how the hell hasn't anyone bagged you?! This world is mad "
Cause I'm a wiley fox...not easy to keep me in that bag.. |
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