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Don't know if any other straight guys get this but just lately been getting lots of mail from bi guys and also gay guys if when I am totally straight.
It's now becoming annoying and when I get a email saying someone contacted you on fab then see its a guy asking if I want my c@#k sucked by him. It frustration as they haven't read my profile clearly. They end up on my block list and mail deleted.
Just a moan as its becoming an issue now.
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"Filters are on but they still get through!!!"
Well in that case, just embrace it and brace yourself when you meet them. It may smart a bit the first time   |
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I've not had as much of a problem with guys contacting and mailing me, though have had a few.
My issue is just recently, literally hundreds of guys per week are looking at my profile and has just started all of a sudden.
Despite profile saying not interested in men and posting numerous status updates of the same, they still coming to _iew, just find it strange is all |
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"Filters are on but they still get through!!!
Well in that case, just embrace it and brace yourself when you meet them. It may smart a bit the first time "
That's naughty |
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"I've not had as much of a problem with guys contacting and mailing me, though have had a few.
My issue is just recently, literally hundreds of guys per week are looking at my profile and has just started all of a sudden.
Despite profile saying not interested in men and posting numerous status updates of the same, they still coming to _iew, just find it strange is all"
But they don't know you're not interested in men without looking, because they can't see your profile until they _iew it. If they're looking and not contacting you, then presumably it's working!  |
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"Don't know if any other straight guys get this but just lately been getting lots of mail from bi guys and also gay guys if when I am totally straight.
It's now becoming annoying and when I get a email saying someone contacted you on fab then see its a guy asking if I want my c@#k sucked by him. It frustration as they haven't read my profile clearly. They end up on my block list and mail deleted.
Just a moan as its becoming an issue now.
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You do look like you would enjoy the D though.... |
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OP your a bloke and surely your aware that some blokes would fuck the crack of dawn if it had hairs around it (or not with today's balder than a bald thing preferences)
so some blokes be they 'straight', bi or gay will have a shuftie err i mean a glance at other blokes profiles also..
its no biggie, take it as a positive maybe.. |
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It frustration as they haven't read my profile clearly. They end up on my block list and mail deleted.
Just a moan as its becoming an issue now.
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They can't read your profile until they look at it,so moaning about bi/gay men looking at your profile is pointless.
Moaning about peeps contacting you without reading your profile is a whole different gripe and one most couples and single ladies on this site can sympathise with. |
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It frustration as they haven't read my profile clearly. They end up on my block list and mail deleted.
Just a moan as its becoming an issue now.
They can't read your profile until they look at it,so moaning about bi/gay men looking at your profile is pointless.
Moaning about peeps contacting you without reading your profile is a whole different gripe and one most couples and single ladies on this site can sympathise with."
 I get loads of men _iewing my profile, far outnumbering women and couples (well those not in stealth mode anyway  ) and you're right, how do they know you're straight until they read the profile?
I get the odd message from guys now and then offering to suck my cock, I do t have filters up as I'm happy to talk to anyone, I always politely respond and clarify I am genuinely straight and almost without exception most take that in gracious spirit and there's no issue.
Unless you're bombarded or they don't take no as an answer I'm not really sure what the issue is as a little bit of polite communication usually works a treat! |
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What Anon said really. They won't know until they have a look, then once they know they have a decision to make.
There are a lot of chancers on here, but most people don't have bad intentions. Just block anyone who goes OTT and make the most of your time on the site |
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"Filters are on but they still get through!!!"
They can't get through if you block all single guys from mailing, i had similar problem with unwanted attention from men, since i put the filters on not had a problem and no mail from men. |
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When i first joined I'd get excited about a message then see it was from a man I'd be disappointed ! but i would read it and be polite and even sometimes reply and explain "Sorry I'm not into men" but as it got to the point where some where being a little too much the filters went on ! |
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"Don't know if any other straight guys get this but just lately been getting lots of mail from bi guys and also gay guys if when I am totally straight.
It's now becoming annoying and when I get a email saying someone contacted you on fab then see its a guy asking if I want my c@#k sucked by him. It frustration as they haven't read my profile clearly. They end up on my block list and mail deleted.
Just a moan as its becoming an issue now.
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I'd like to think that when you're blocking you say, " Bye, Bi." |
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"When i first joined I'd get excited about a message then see it was from a man I'd be disappointed ! but i would read it and be polite and even sometimes reply and explain "Sorry I'm not into men" but as it got to the point where some where being a little too much the filters went on ! "
couldn't have put it better myself still get pestered now and then but most times I take it as a compliment if the blokes think I'm hot surely some of the woman must  |
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"Don't know if any other straight guys get this but just lately been getting lots of mail from bi guys and also gay guys if when I am totally straight.
It's now becoming annoying and when I get a email saying someone contacted you on fab then see its a guy asking if I want my c@#k sucked by him. It frustration as they haven't read my profile clearly. They end up on my block list and mail deleted.
Just a moan as its becoming an issue now.
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I cannot lie. I looked at your profile.
Streisand effect FTW!  |
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