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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Out of curiosity... Does anyone have a secret crush on another forum user, that you haven't acted on? Whether they're out of your age range or any other reason. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position."
Having a crush = attraction.
So... You shouldn't find people attractive on a site where you essentially meet to have sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position.
Having a crush = attraction.
So... You shouldn't find people attractive on a site where you essentially meet to have sex?"
Why would you not just tell them? As you pointed out, it's a site to meet people for sex.
And in answer to the op, no. I message anyone that takes my fancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a crush on someone that lives to far away therefore I can do nothing about.
Her profile actually only requests women so that might be another stumbling block.
Still see is gorgeous and great to chat to |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position.
Having a crush = attraction.
So... You shouldn't find people attractive on a site where you essentially meet to have sex?
Why would you not just tell them? As you pointed out, it's a site to meet people for sex.
And in answer to the op, no. I message anyone that takes my fancy. "
Age ranges, distance, not being what or who that person's looking for at the present time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a secret crush when i was 12. It was only a secret because i couldnt tell Kate Bush in person. Now if i fancy someone on here i tell them. As i am an adult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position."
Yep, not everyone likes to mess around playing silly games on here - if you fancy someone, make some sort of attempt to attract and meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position.
Having a crush = attraction.
So... You shouldn't find people attractive on a site where you essentially meet to have sex?
Why would you not just tell them? As you pointed out, it's a site to meet people for sex.
And in answer to the op, no. I message anyone that takes my fancy.
Age ranges, distance, not being what or who that person's looking for at the present time?"
No. I concentrate my efforts on people that I'm likely to meet to be honest. Whilst I might see someone and think they are attractive, I wouldn't develop a crush. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know if I'd say "crush" but there's one or two I would but I know I'm not their thing so there's no point telling them. "
You never know unless you tell them. If you don't ask you don't get x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep I've got a bit of a crush on one female on here. Probably never meet her though!!!
If it remains a secret i guarantee. That you never Will."
I know my friend. But if I admit it she might hit the block button!!!! |
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"I don't know if I'd say "crush" but there's one or two I would but I know I'm not their thing so there's no point telling them. "
unless they're looking for males or couples =- or very specifically say 'we only want X' which isn't you- why not say hello.
I've had a couple of meets over the years where i might not have noticed them, but they sent a nice message, we got chatting, got on well and there was something there that resulted in a fine old evening of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Out of curiosity... Does anyone have a secret crush on another forum user, that you haven't acted on? Whether they're out of your age range or any other reason."
I want to smash Ruggers back doors in. Does that count? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep a few. Would I make contact first? Probably not. Guess it's maybe a confidence thing... Or just because I like to know I'm desired before putting myself on a platter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure if crush is the right word but definitely a handful of people from the forums that I would most definitely love to meet, even just for a social but alas, I'm sure the feeling isn't reciprocated.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Out of curiosity... Does anyone have a secret crush on another forum user, that you haven't acted on? Whether they're out of your age range or any other reason.
I want to smash Ruggers back doors in. Does that count? " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know if I'd say "crush" but there's one or two I would but I know I'm not their thing so there's no point telling them.
unless they're looking for males or couples =- or very specifically say 'we only want X' which isn't you- why not say hello.
I've had a couple of meets over the years where i might not have noticed them, but they sent a nice message, we got chatting, got on well and there was something there that resulted in a fine old evening of fun "
Nah, there's enough others I like who also like me that I don't need to bother worrying about the ones I like who might not like me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position."
If you mean this as... if you're keeping a secret about a crush... I'd have to agree... this is a totally safe place to let it all hang out so message away...
However... if you meant it as... you shouldn't have a crush on a site like this... I'd have to say that's the whole point about swinging... it's to feel the little tingles again imo. Tingles are different from love. They are the merry go round that we enjoy when we explore someone new. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position.
If you mean this as... if you're keeping a secret about a crush... I'd have to agree... this is a totally safe place to let it all hang out so message away...
However... if you meant it as... you shouldn't have a crush on a site like this... I'd have to say that's the whole point about swinging... it's to feel the little tingles again imo. Tingles are different from love. They are the merry go round that we enjoy when we explore someone new. "
The former. "Secret crush" sounds rather primary school IMO. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would suggest that if you have a secret crush on a swinging site then you should reevaluate your position.
If you mean this as... if you're keeping a secret about a crush... I'd have to agree... this is a totally safe place to let it all hang out so message away...
However... if you meant it as... you shouldn't have a crush on a site like this... I'd have to say that's the whole point about swinging... it's to feel the little tingles again imo. Tingles are different from love. They are the merry go round that we enjoy when we explore someone new.
The former. "Secret crush" sounds rather primary school IMO."
Which is your opinion and I respect your opinion - they're like arseholes, everyone has one, and they all stink. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some I admire from afar but wouldn't do anything about it. They either live to far away or I'm not their type "
I'll second that. Several "crushes" but not likely to happen. Most of my crushes occur offline. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There are a couple of people who I think are hot but won't get to shag. Is that what you mean? "
Yeah, that. And being attracted to the personality that they give off too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And being attracted to the personality that they give off too.
Oh, in that case definitely not. "
Do you not think there's any pleasant personalities in here? |
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"Out of curiosity... Does anyone have a secret crush on another forum user, that you haven't acted on? Whether they're out of your age range or any other reason."
There's this lovely girl from Brid, however she's only interested in those under 40. |
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Yes, there any few woman I find extremely attractive buttons I don't drive and nobody likes dreamers so distance has prevented meet messaging them.
Also no sympathy vote but I'm aware I'm not the most attractive guy, I'm not in the best shape and my cock is nothing to boast about so I consider a few outside of me league. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And being attracted to the personality that they give off too.
Oh, in that case definitely not.
Do you not think there's any pleasant personalities in here? "
Nah, I jest - there are a few who are alreet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some nice looking women on here, but wouldn't say I had a crush per say.
I only talk to one forumer but if someone took my eye I'd tell them if I felt like it was worthwhile or there was a potential meet in it.
Rejection is part of like, so no reason to shy away from it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I don't have any secret crushes, I usually make it pretty clear that I'm interested from the start.
Whether they reciprocate or not is upto them, I don't keep tabs on people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Secret? No.
I learnt long ago that being comfortable in your own skin is the most important thing.
When you are - there's no reason to not let someone know |
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"Out of curiosity... Does anyone have a secret crush on another forum user, that you haven't acted on? Whether they're out of your age range or any other reason."
I'm sure everyone has a secret crush on you HarleyQuim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh yes
Well not sure I would call it a crush but there is a guy on here I've had on my hot list for about a year but I've never had the balls to mail him simply because I doubt he would be interested |
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"Oh yes
Well not sure I would call it a crush but there is a guy on here I've had on my hot list for about a year but I've never had the balls to mail him simply because I doubt he would be interested "
Go on....mail him. You are no shrinking Violet!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had someone on my hot list for ages....but don't wanna message coz I no I won't be to her liking, she's even commented in this thread....but she would never guess it's her in a million years |
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"No I don't have any secret crushes, I usually make it pretty clear that I'm interested from the start.
Whether they reciprocate or not is upto them, I don't keep tabs on people. " ooooh my new crush if that the right word |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do. They are on my hotlist so I can see any new pics they post. I wouldn't contact them as they are too far away. I need someone local to shag as well as perv over "
Name em hunny.... Lol |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"I do. They are on my hotlist so I can see any new pics they post. I wouldn't contact them as they are too far away. I need someone local to shag as well as perv over
Name em hunny.... Lol "
A lady never tells |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we're lucky on the forums because it's so easy to get to know know people a little, have a bit of a conversation on a thread, then continue chatting via PM.
So no-one here should worry about contacting another forum member. Unless your opening gambit is a bit full-on, such as FILL ME WITH YOUR BABIES...
But the bareback police would then get you first anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we're lucky on the forums because it's so easy to get to know know people a little, have a bit of a conversation on a thread, then continue chatting via PM.
So no-one here should worry about contacting another forum member. Unless your opening gambit is a bit full-on, such as FILL ME WITH YOUR BABIES...
But the bareback police would then get you first anyway "
It would be a fucking miracle if anyone could fill me with their babies at my age |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do. They are on my hotlist so I can see any new pics they post. I wouldn't contact them as they are too far away. I need someone local to shag as well as perv over
Name em hunny.... Lol
A lady never tells "
It's just funny knowing a guy could read your post but have no idea he's on your hotlist lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I don't have any secret crushes, I usually make it pretty clear that I'm interested from the start.
Whether they reciprocate or not is upto them, I don't keep tabs on people. ooooh my new crush if that the right word"
Ooooh errrr |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we're lucky on the forums because it's so easy to get to know know people a little, have a bit of a conversation on a thread, then continue chatting via PM.
So no-one here should worry about contacting another forum member. Unless your opening gambit is a bit full-on, such as FILL ME WITH YOUR BABIES...
But the bareback police would then get you first anyway " sod.that I've had enough babies ... I.just want sex now |
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"Out of curiosity... Does anyone have a secret crush on another forum user, that you haven't acted on? Whether they're out of your age range or any other reason."
i dont let age range, or barriers stand in my way nor let it end up in a crush. Just let them know you fancy them and if they up for it you have sex and if they not up for it you move on to the next |
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