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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I don't have many filters but have my looking for turned off so I don't appear in any local updates. I turned it on on Tuesday and lasted less than 24 hours. It was an interesting experiment but I got far too many messages to comfortably deal with and got way more fabs and winks than normal. I even made the top fabbed pages, which is a rarity. But it did result in bringing a few people I might be interested in at a later date to my attention so I may do it occasionally in future. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Out of curiosity I've lifted all filters and age range. Be interesting to see who, if anyone, mails and what they offer! This is just for today! 
It is also not an oooh look at me thread as I'm comfortable in my own skin and confident with it! |
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I only occasionally set filters when I add a new pic to stop a ton of mail. I'm not meeting currently so it's pointless people sending me messages but I don't have them set all the time as I get mails re forum posts and things sometimes and don't want to prevent that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm curious as I get a lit of tv/ts and men viewing me! It's not an issue and am flattered.
Hottiebottie you're...hot 
Why thank you kind sir x"
Quite welcome you fine filly |
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We only have single men blocked. Removing said blockage would not enhance our fab experience, just for the possibility of actually receiving a few messages.....besides, i think angel would faint if she saw a well thought out and written message in our box  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are something which most single guys don't find necessary on here!"
And many single women don't either. .....we aren't all like shit to a fly ....i could have put that more eloquently, but it's early and I have yet to consume coffee. ..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"They are something which most single guys don't find necessary on here!
And many single women don't either. .....we aren't all like shit to a fly ....i could have put that more eloquently, but it's early and I have yet to consume coffee. ....."
Kettles on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are something which most single guys don't find necessary on here!
And many single women don't either. .....we aren't all like shit to a fly ....i could have put that more eloquently, but it's early and I have yet to consume coffee. ....."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are something which most single guys don't find necessary on here!
And many single women don't either. .....we aren't all like shit to a fly ....i could have put that more eloquently, but it's early and I have yet to consume coffee. .....
Kettles on "
I hope it's not instant. ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are something which most single guys don't find necessary on here!
And many single women don't either. .....we aren't all like shit to a fly ....i could have put that more eloquently, but it's early and I have yet to consume coffee. ....."
Nah, I get you. Ill fire up the Dulait?
Latte? Americano? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are something which most single guys don't find necessary on here!
And many single women don't either. .....we aren't all like shit to a fly ....i could have put that more eloquently, but it's early and I have yet to consume coffee. ....."
I think that's sums it up perfectly!!
Where's the crap emoji when you need it.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are something which most single guys don't find necessary on here!
And many single women don't either. .....we aren't all like shit to a fly ....i could have put that more eloquently, but it's early and I have yet to consume coffee. .....
Kettles on
I hope it's not instant. ... "
As its you, I'll use the coffeemaker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are something which most single guys don't find necessary on here!
And many single women don't either. .....we aren't all like shit to a fly ....i could have put that more eloquently, but it's early and I have yet to consume coffee. .....
Nah, I get you. Ill fire up the Dulait?
Latte? Americano?"
All these offers for coffee on the forum. ...i must have woken up in a parallel universe
Thanks. ..mines an Americano. Straight black and strong. No messing about ...just how I like my men too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are something which most single guys don't find necessary on here!
And many single women don't either. .....we aren't all like shit to a fly ....i could have put that more eloquently, but it's early and I have yet to consume coffee. .....
Nah, I get you. Ill fire up the Dulait?
Latte? Americano?
All these offers for coffee on the forum. ...i must have woken up in a parallel universe
Thanks. ..mines an Americano. Straight black and strong. No messing about ...just how I like my men too "
Ah well, two out of three aint bad....
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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I am always happy to receive messages from anyone who fancies getting in touch. If a woman or couple isn't for me then a polite 'thanks but no thanks' type of reply takes no effort. At the end of the day all and any attention is flattering even if the attraction isn't mutual. Occasionally I also receive polite messages from guys asking for advice on something. I have no problem with answering those either. I do of course realize that as a guy on here, the volume of messages I receive is tiny in comparison to women or couples, especially if they don't employ filters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think filters and coffee go well together in a thread. "
I love a proper coffee.
OP- I have only just twigged from this thread, that by unticking looking for, it is an effective filter! So thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They are something which most single guys don't find necessary on here!
And many single women don't either. .....we aren't all like shit to a fly ....i could have put that more eloquently, but it's early and I have yet to consume coffee. ....."
but we all know exactly what you meant |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"They are something which most single guys don't find necessary on here!
And many single women don't either. .....we aren't all like shit to a fly ....i could have put that more eloquently, but it's early and I have yet to consume coffee. .....
but we all know exactly what you meant"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have removed them all lots of times and then put them back on
Its pointless because im wasting peoples time messaging me and it just creates a messy inbox |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"I have removed them all lots of times and then put them back on
Its pointless because im wasting peoples time messaging me and it just creates a messy inbox "
As I've said before, there is nothing worse than a messy box  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have removed them all lots of times and then put them back on
Its pointless because im wasting peoples time messaging me and it just creates a messy inbox "
I'd like to make a mess of your inbox |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tally so far...
9 guys and 3 couples! Maybe more in stealth mode
1 wink
1 message
What have you inferred from the results of your experiment?"
So far, that for some reason single men are drawn to my profile, which I kind of knew any way.
Full analysis will be concluded later this evening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got most of my filters off at the moment because of the big party that's happening soon. However my bullshit filter is firmly in place so the crap that the filters would usually capture is just ignored. If it wasn't for filters I would of left along time ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have removed them all lots of times and then put them back on
Its pointless because im wasting peoples time messaging me and it just creates a messy inbox
I'd like to make a mess of your inbox "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have removed them all lots of times and then put them back on
Its pointless because im wasting peoples time messaging me and it just creates a messy inbox
As I've said before, there is nothing worse than a messy box "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have removed them all lots of times and then put them back on
Its pointless because im wasting peoples time messaging me and it just creates a messy inbox
As I've said before, there is nothing worse than a messy box "
I disagree. .....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have removed them all lots of times and then put them back on
Its pointless because im wasting peoples time messaging me and it just creates a messy inbox
As I've said before, there is nothing worse than a messy box
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I'd help tidy it |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"I have removed them all lots of times and then put them back on
Its pointless because im wasting peoples time messaging me and it just creates a messy inbox
As I've said before, there is nothing worse than a messy box
I disagree. ..... "
Depends what kind of 'mess' we are talking about...and whose..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I could lift all restrictions and still get no messages, to think i nearly paid to be a site supporter, to old , to fat, cock not big enough!"
Having just read your profile and headline I can see why! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could lift all restrictions and still get no messages, to think i nearly paid to be a site supporter, to old , to fat, cock not big enough!
Having just read your profile and headline I can see why! "
 To think i nearly missed a charmer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just have the newbies and no photos filters on. Cuts down roughly 75% of my messages and works just fine for me.
If I took those off, I'd leave the mailbox for an hour and come back to a load of messages from men who had already gone UNLOS by the time I read it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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14 men
2 couples
2 tv/ts
and one single woman have viewed!
1 couple message!
So I guess for some reason I attract males and Tv/s maybe because I am in touch,but Dominant!?! Who knows? |
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