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Problems with being youthful on FAB
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is age discriminated against so much on FAB. Surely enjoying sex and experimentation doesn't require you to be a certain age.(obviously a legal age). Any views? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Eh? What do you mean by discrimination? I just see it as being attracted to someone. I, for example, have my age filters set to 25-40, but that's because I'm attracted to people my age & older people. That's preference, not discrimination. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Eh? What do you mean by discrimination? I just see it as being attracted to someone. I, for example, have my age filters set to 25-40, but that's because I'm attracted to people my age & older people. That's preference, not discrimination."
I agree with that but I mean I've spoken to any women who when it comes to the crunch will say "you're too young". So that to me tell me they are attracted but it's just an age think.
Do you see what I mean now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would hazard a guess that there are a lot more young men on here compared to women. Some older women enjoy the company of young men but some don't. I would suggest you look for ones whose age range you fit into. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Our filters are quite low but tbh honest it all depends upon how you come across. If it's a mature attitude then we'll be likely to listen to what you have to say and offer, chances are we'd get on well if you like what we have to say also. Immaturity on here is a big turn off for us regardless of age. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Eh? What do you mean by discrimination? I just see it as being attracted to someone. I, for example, have my age filters set to 25-40, but that's because I'm attracted to people my age & older people. That's preference, not discrimination.
I agree with that but I mean I've spoken to any women who when it comes to the crunch will say "you're too young". So that to me tell me they are attracted but it's just an age think.
Do you see what I mean now? "
Well I'd guess they mean 'you're too young" or its an easy way of them saying "you're not for me.. "
Move on to someone that is interested.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would hazard a guess that there are a lot more young men on here compared to women. Some older women enjoy the company of young men but some don't. I would suggest you look for ones whose age range you fit into. "
That makes sense. Only issue is women around that age on here tend to act like they're here for attention than actual meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is age discriminated against so much on FAB. Surely enjoying sex and experimentation doesn't require you to be a certain age.(obviously a legal age). Any views? "
It's not discrimination  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is age discriminated against so much on FAB. Surely enjoying sex and experimentation doesn't require you to be a certain age.(obviously a legal age). Any views? "
It's not discrimination |
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"I would hazard a guess that there are a lot more young men on here compared to women. Some older women enjoy the company of young men but some don't. I would suggest you look for ones whose age range you fit into.
That makes sense. Only issue is women around that age on here tend to act like they're here for attention than actual meets. "
Be very careful or you risk blowing any chance that you might have had by showing your immaturity, with comments like that.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Eh? What do you mean by discrimination? I just see it as being attracted to someone. I, for example, have my age filters set to 25-40, but that's because I'm attracted to people my age & older people. That's preference, not discrimination.
I agree with that but I mean I've spoken to any women who when it comes to the crunch will say "you're too young". So that to me tell me they are attracted but it's just an age think.
Do you see what I mean now?
Well I'd guess they mean 'you're too young" or its an easy way of them saying "you're not for me.. "
Move on to someone that is interested. "
Yeah that makes sense that it would he a polite way of saying "sorry not interested" but this was back and forty conversation for a while |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Our filters are quite low but tbh honest it all depends upon how you come across. If it's a mature attitude then we'll be likely to listen to what you have to say and offer, chances are we'd get on well if you like what we have to say also. Immaturity on here is a big turn off for us regardless of age."
Yes that's completely understandable. If you Amy commect with someone mentally then it would be hard to find the motivation to connect with them physically |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer younger men for their bodies and their fun loving attitudes if I'm honest. But a lot of younger guys seem to like older women, so what can you do really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Age is important to a lot of people, and a lot of women like experience that the may feel they won't get with a younger person. It's not discrimination, it's just preference.
I set my searches so it only shows people that my age fits with their preferences. Therefore when they reject me I know it's because I'm fugly rather than the wrong age  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP are you discriminating against 41 year olds? Or is a preference only an issue when it excludes you rather than one that you express yourself?"
No I only put that age because I didn't think anybody over that age limit would be interested in me so I thought it would just save time. Plus I didn't my profile to seem like I was just here desperate for sex by portraying that I have no limit. Not saying that people who don't have a limit are desperate for sex before people think that I just thought because of my age people's get think that of me.
I should have explained this better. I didn't mean this im reference to te age settings on FAB I meant for example :- two people have connected and are stimulated both by physical attraction and with personality but one turns the other down just simply for age. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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'Crystal wheels' I think you're getting a bit aggressive. This was only a post to hear people's point of view and a topic to talk about. Not to have an argument and be personal. Sorry if it's offended you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Our filters are quite low but tbh honest it all depends upon how you come across. If it's a mature attitude then we'll be likely to listen to what you have to say and offer, chances are we'd get on well if you like what we have to say also. Immaturity on here is a big turn off for us regardltess of age."
I totally agree with this. I tend to find that people my own age display immature attitudes *in general* whereas I get on quite well with those oldder than me. That's true more often than not but not always. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I prefer younger men for their bodies and their fun loving attitudes if I'm honest. But a lot of younger guys seem to like older women, so what can you do really "
That makes sense. Would you say you make an effort to contact younger males or let them contact you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me would depend on if they look and act much younger. Some younger men look mannly to me and others don't. Some younger guys do act older than myself at times. Having said that I won't go as young as my nieces age or as old as my dad. Goes both ways with the age thing.
Try looking for people who are looking for your age range that are within yours. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me would depend on if they look and act much younger. Some younger men look mannly to me and others don't. Some younger guys do act older than myself at times. Having said that I won't go as young as my nieces age or as old as my dad. Goes both ways with the age thing.
Try looking for people who are looking for your age range that are within yours."
Really appreciate that comment, useful advice. Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP are you discriminating against 41 year olds? Or is a preference only an issue when it excludes you rather than one that you express yourself?
No I only put that age because I didn't think anybody over that age limit would be interested in me so I thought it would just save time. Plus I didn't my profile to seem like I was just here desperate for sex by portraying that I have no limit. Not saying that people who don't have a limit are desperate for sex before people think that I just thought because of my age people's get think that of me.
I should have explained this better. I didn't mean this im reference to te age settings on FAB I meant for example :- two people have connected and are stimulated both by physical attraction and with personality but one turns the other down just simply for age. "
The point I was making is that everyone (including yourself) has preferences. Focus on those who's preferences include you is far more beneficial. |
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