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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I went and broke the biggest no no of a fwb relationship and fell for him and after 13mths of going out, sleeping over at each other's place, visiting at work. Helping him out at work, the feelings are not reciprocated. So I've finished things.and camcelled our couples profile
It hurts like hell and I feel like shit . But I know it's the best thing for me
How many of you fab fabbers experienced this and how did you cope.xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be fair I can see where/how/why the lines could have become blurred as from what you wrote you actually sound like bf and gf rather fwb."
. Sometimes I think it was more gf/bf. But as he didn't have the same feelings he had to go,,,
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I started seeing someone before joining here he sent roses at valentines and was more about cuddles than sex I was in a vulnerable position so fell for him even tho I knew would never work. It does hurt to walk away but you did the right thing you definately have respect for yourself iy does get easier ive not spoke to mine for two months now. If he cant see how amazing you are then his loss |
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"I started seeing someone before joining here he sent roses at valentines and was more about cuddles than sex I was in a vulnerable position so fell for him even tho I knew would never work. It does hurt to walk away but you did the right thing you definately have respect for yourself iy does get easier ive not spoke to mine for two months now. If he cant see how amazing you are then his loss"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm happy for you that you too the plunge and did it , I have done it before and yes it does hurt but time is a healer.
I don't agree with the it's his loss bit as he obviously didn't feel the same so won't be feeling as it's his loss at at I would think. |
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"To be fair I can see where/how/why the lines could have become blurred as from what you wrote you actually sound like bf and gf rather fwb.. Sometimes I think it was more gf/bf. But as he didn't have the same feelings he had to go,,, "
That's how it goes sometimes, have no regrets, and one day you'll find what/who your looking for.
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I feel your pain going through a recent split myself with someone that I met off here. Slightly different circumstances but i wish I'd had your courage and got out when things started to go wrong.
As much as it hurts I firmly believe what don't kill us makes us stronger. Things get easier as they say xx |
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