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Falling in love with a meet
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has any one had regular meets with someone and those meets have turned in to something a lot more? Or has anyone a meet with someone a few times and meet has told them they loved you?
It hasn't happened to me but I'm interested as we're all on here for the same reason, whether we are with a partner who actively joins us or whether we are single we are on here to have our scratch itched. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has any one had regular meets with someone and those meets have turned in to something a lot more? Or has anyone a meet with someone a few times and meet has told them they loved you?
It hasn't happened to me but I'm interested as we're all on here for the same reason, whether we are with a partner who actively joins us or whether we are single we are on here to have our scratch itched. "
I think it's it's happened, a lot more than people care to admit. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not through this site but I met someone through swinging, were great friends for a year then realised we had fallen in love. Nine years and blissfully happy
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Brilliant!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope. Any whiff of anything other than friendship and all contact is severed. I'm not here for that and don't need emotional dramas in my life."
I've always had this approach from day 1 on here.
If i wanted to date. . I'd delete myself off fab.
(And I'm not a dating kind of guy)  |
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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago
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"Nope. Any whiff of anything other than friendship and all contact is severed. I'm not here for that and don't need emotional dramas in my life.
I've always had this approach from day 1 on here.
If i wanted to date. . I'd delete myself off fab.
(And I'm not a dating kind of guy) "
this! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met a guy once who was a single dad after a few meets he wanted to move himself and his daughter into my house  "
Well that sounds like he was looking for a home not a partner! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has any one had regular meets with someone and those meets have turned in to something a lot more? Or has anyone a meet with someone a few times and meet has told them they loved you?
It hasn't happened to me but I'm interested as we're all on here for the same reason, whether we are with a partner who actively joins us or whether we are single we are on here to have our scratch itched. "
Lust yes
But not love
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Well actually
I've met someone recently
Seen him 6 times so far
We are officially dating I suppose
He cares for me a lot
Who knows what will happen but I certainly asked for a certain type of man to date
And he's just that type
So yes it can and does happen
Even had a dozen red roses off him today
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"Well actually
I've met someone recently
Seen him 6 times so far
We are officially dating I suppose
He cares for me a lot
Who knows what will happen but I certainly asked for a certain type of man to date
And he's just that type
So yes it can and does happen
Even had a dozen red roses off him today
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Thats great good luck to you both xx |
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"Well actually
I've met someone recently
Seen him 6 times so far
We are officially dating I suppose
He cares for me a lot
Who knows what will happen but I certainly asked for a certain type of man to date
And he's just that type
So yes it can and does happen
Even had a dozen red roses off him today
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x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"5 years ago i got talking to Natalie in the chatrooms... Fast forward to now and i moved to Bolton from Sunderland and life couldn't be any better  "
That poor poor woman.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No feelings from me for anyone on here other than lust and physical. I have had men want an exclusive relationship or say I should have less men in my life. Funny isn't it. I don't care how many women they are fucking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fell in love with someone on here last year but kept it to myself until he said he'd fallen for me.
I was happy but also not over my ex so couldn't really handle it and asked him to back off, carried on seeing him until he left here in april.
Was nice knowing i could still have those feelings for someone but also confusing and complicated at the same time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened to me.....never ever again!
Although it is easier to tell a fellow swinger that you like him than tell someone you're dating that you're a swinger....
I think people on fab have a similar mindset to each other and that inevitably people will fall for each other.
I think swingers have much more honest and open relationships and if that's what you're looking for it's more likely to be found in this type of community than a conventional dating site. |
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I don't make myself available that way. Any hint that someone's moving in a different dimension to me and I'd close it. Yes, I get to develop feelings for people, especially such as my current eight year fb, but it's not love and romance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fall in love easy. Show me attention and I'm all yours. Give me an orgasm and well, we'll be inseparable. I LOVE YOU RIGHT HAND XXXXXXX ( and you lefty...you're sooo good with those balls mmmmmm) |
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"Happened to me.....never ever again!
Although it is easier to tell a fellow swinger that you like him than tell someone you're dating that you're a swinger....
I think people on fab have a similar mindset to each other and that inevitably people will fall for each other.
I think swingers have much more honest and open relationships and if that's what you're looking for it's more likely to be found in this type of community than a conventional dating site."
Never ever..  you mean except with me obviously  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not happened to me but I've had chats with guys on here that say they could never get in a relationship with someone off here cos they're not the type of women they'd want to be with! I hate that they judge like that cos just cos were on a sex site it doesn't make us easy or not worthy of a relationship. I must admit tho if it were to happy to me I think they'd be a bit of be worrying that they were on here stagging about |
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Myself and my bf met on here and I know he is not shagging about because he does not need to. He has my support to meet who he wants to and part of hype fun is knowing what each other is doing, if indeed you chose to do tot. I think anyone ca cheat on anyone, they don't need to be on Fabs to do it. I also think that any man who could not see himself having a relationship with a woman on here is maybe scared of a woman's sexuality, or does not understand it. Poor them, I would say .... But just my opinion, of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once met a scaffolder off a hook up website. He was one of the roughest fucks id ever had. Met him a few more times before he told me he didn't want me seeing other men. He was very dominant and possessive and staked his claim there and then. I agreed and we had a very intense relationship. Crazy good sex. Ultimately didn't last but we had fun with it and definitely enjoyed each other. I was completely monogamous to him. We still meet up for fun occasionally and will always care for him.
I've also met a few men who fell for me even though I told them I was only looking for no strings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Myself and my bf met on here and I know he is not shagging about because he does not need to. He has my support to meet who he wants to and part of hype fun is knowing what each other is doing, if indeed you chose to do tot. I think anyone ca cheat on anyone, they don't need to be on Fabs to do it. I also think that any man who could not see himself having a relationship with a woman on here is maybe scared of a woman's sexuality, or does not understand it. Poor them, I would say .... But just my opinion, of course."
Good point about being scared |
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yes we had to stop meeting a couple year,s ago got to friendly started to go out every weekend with them. She wanted Paul to meet her on his own with out me and her husband knowing. She even suggested separate holidays with each other,s partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes we had to stop meeting a couple year,s ago got to friendly started to go out every weekend with them. She wanted Paul to meet her on his own with out me and her husband knowing. She even suggested separate holidays with each other,s partner "
That's not on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In 2011 I found a guy on here who lived in hull, used to watch him in cam then exchanged numbers, then chatted for about 4 months everyday and I finally decides to get the train up to hull and meet him. Following weekend he arrived at my house on a Friday and left on the Sunday, this continues for about 13 months, him coming down for full weekends and bank holidays and me catching the train up there. I said I couldn't handle the distance anymore and said he'd have to move here (I couldn't cos I have a child) He said he couldn't leave his job and friends so I said let's call it day then. 6 weeks later he gets back in touch saying he'd move here blah blah blah, I let him come down one weekend but by that time I didn't like him in the same way. Thinking back it was the train ride and the packed lunch that I enjoyed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Happened to me.....never ever again!
Although it is easier to tell a fellow swinger that you like him than tell someone you're dating that you're a swinger....
I think people on fab have a similar mindset to each other and that inevitably people will fall for each other.
I think swingers have much more honest and open relationships and if that's what you're looking for it's more likely to be found in this type of community than a conventional dating site.
Never ever.. you mean except with me obviously "
Of course xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know RG fell in love with her previous guys technique and cock, wether feelings were involved I doubt it but with time I think yes. They used to make love instead of fuck so it's only a matter of time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think im a little infatuiated with my fb..
I dont want to be
But I am
Not what I planned on fabs
This is not going to end well
Maybe im a masochist !!! |
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I met someone last November from FAB and he fell in love with me
I told him from the start it was just fun
he used to get annoyed all the time when I didn't feel the same about him,when I didn't put kisses in my messages... when I just wanted fun... caused alot of arguments
then I just ended it I was so frustrated with his pressure.
Now after not being in touch 3 4 months we send the odd texts here and there but he still tells me he loves me.
not what I wanted |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Not here for any of that, however, a meeting of minds and feeling of like mindedness (for us) is a must for sparks to fly but strictly for the meet circumstances. Meets and real life, again, for us, are not to be blurred. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not here for any of that, however, a meeting of minds and feeling of like mindedness (for us) is a must for sparks to fly but strictly for the meet circumstances. Meets and real life, again, for us, are not to be blurred. "
Wowser, I think I'm in love... Oh wait, damn it! |
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