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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
Setting their egos up for a hammering in many cases."
What if it's their cocks they want hammered?
I don't like the profiles that say "will fill in later". They never do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
Setting their egos up for a hammering in many cases.
What if it's their cocks they want hammered?
I don't like the profiles that say "will fill in later". They never do.
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The 'fill in later' just screams fake to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is."
I can't imagine a profile saying they are ugly with a tiny cock will get much attention .  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
Setting their egos up for a hammering in many cases.
What if it's their cocks they want hammered?
I don't like the profiles that say "will fill in later". They never do.
The 'fill in later' just screams fake to me."
I'm tempted to change my profile to 'will fill in later'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its about confidence!
There are alot of women who claim they are sexy but too some people they may not be considered that...
Its all in the eye of the beholder I suppose
And how you feel about yourself is your opinion but it must be true if it is validated by other people rather than yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The worst ones are from the women that demand everything a man should be but dont necessarily have the same qualities themselves!
That always has me wondering |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No sense of humour and taking themselves too seriously, drama llamas, no imagination..... These things usually mean we're not going to get along like a tent on fire, let alone a house. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"The worst ones are from the women that demand everything a man should be but dont necessarily have the same qualities themselves!
That always has me wondering"
I really don't have a cock. I insist on demanding one.
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
SHOUTY CAPITALS annoy me. As does too much punctuation. Or none at all. Or discrete when they mean discreet. Or defiantly when they mean definitely. None of these are deal breakers, but they do annoy me slightly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saw a classic the other day.
New user, her profile text consisted of one sentence which said 'No face pic or green tick don't bother' or words to that effect.
Guess what.
She had no profile pic, no public pics and wasn't cam, meet or photo verified and had been on the site for less than an hour.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
I can't imagine a profile saying they are ugly with a tiny cock will get much attention . "
Mine says that mine is average and I've always done alright... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
I can't imagine a profile saying they are ugly with a tiny cock will get much attention .
Mine says that mine is average and I've always done alright... "
yeah but doesnt say you dance like your dad and occasionally wear shoes :P |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
I can't imagine a profile saying they are ugly with a tiny cock will get much attention .
Mine says that mine is average and I've always done alright...
yeah but doesnt say you dance like your dad and occasionally wear shoes :P"
Has he worn the shoes more than once?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Demanding, miserable, up their own arses, no humour, no pictures... Names can be off-putting too..
Ie fatcumbucketcunt.. You get the drift
Oi that's my kik user name "
Oops! you don't look like you have a cumbucketcunt!!? Guess looks can be deceptive! , I'm off to unfab, your pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
I can't imagine a profile saying they are ugly with a tiny cock will get much attention .
Mine says that mine is average and I've always done alright...
yeah but doesnt say you dance like your dad and occasionally wear shoes :P
Has he worn the shoes more than once? "
I've worn them twice, I don't even know where they currently reside! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
Setting their egos up for a hammering in many cases.
What if it's their cocks they want hammered?
I don't like the profiles that say "will fill in later". They never do.
The 'fill in later' just screams fake to me.
I'm tempted to change my profile to 'will fill in later'. "
I had that for a while. No-one mailed me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a couple local to me that, in addition to their own individual profiles, have four profiles as a couple and the only verifications they have are from each account (although one of them has a webcam verification). That annoys me greatly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really don't like people who list quite rudely who they don't want to meet. For me particlarly, rude comments about larger ladies. I have some times blocked them. That'll save them the discomfort of having to look at my pictures. |
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"Ones that are really bossy!
Yes!! Giving a list of do's and don'ts. Does my bloody head in."
Yes, this. Lots and lots of women do this. So unappealing. Even if I could pass all their ridiculous demands and get a meet with such a goddess () I wouldn't want it. They're obviously so far up their own arses. Makes them sound like an absolute nightmare! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
Setting their egos up for a hammering in many cases.
What if it's their cocks they want hammered?
I don't like the profiles that say "will fill in later". They never do.
The 'fill in later' just screams fake to me.
I'm tempted to change my profile to 'will fill in later'.
I had that for a while. No-one mailed me. "
Try 'fill me in, later', see what that gets you! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Ones that are really bossy!
Yes!! Giving a list of do's and don'ts. Does my bloody head in.
Yes, this. Lots and lots of women do this. So unappealing. Even if I could pass all their ridiculous demands and get a meet with such a goddess () I wouldn't want it. They're obviously so far up their own arses. Makes them sound like an absolute nightmare!"
Sorry, but have you tried being a woman on here? In Aberdeen especially with men continuously visiting on business? If my profile makes me sound like I am up my arse? So be it, I don't care, I just like to TRY and cut out the dross from contacting me on the basis they think I am a free prostitute! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We cannot stand the arrogant buggers who tell single guys to "Dooooooo one" - they have a right to be here. Would anyone want to meet such odorous people even if you are a female or couple? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sydney university/"legal disclaimer" bollocks, inability to spell discreet, whingey status, cock and socks, shouty or bossy, numbered lists of dos and don'ts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ones that are really bossy!
Yes!! Giving a list of do's and don'ts. Does my bloody head in.
Yes, this. Lots and lots of women do this. So unappealing. Even if I could pass all their ridiculous demands and get a meet with such a goddess () I wouldn't want it. They're obviously so far up their own arses. Makes them sound like an absolute nightmare!
Sorry, but have you tried being a woman on here? In Aberdeen especially with men continuously visiting on business? If my profile makes me sound like I am up my arse? So be it, I don't care, I just like to TRY and cut out the dross from contacting me on the basis they think I am a free prostitute! "
Do you think it works? (Genuine question). I've always been of the opinion that it doesn't deter the dross, but might deter the kind of bloke you might actually want to meet. I could be entirely wrong though. |
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"Ones that are really bossy!
Yes!! Giving a list of do's and don'ts. Does my bloody head in.
Yes, this. Lots and lots of women do this. So unappealing. Even if I could pass all their ridiculous demands and get a meet with such a goddess () I wouldn't want it. They're obviously so far up their own arses. Makes them sound like an absolute nightmare!
Sorry, but have you tried being a woman on here? In Aberdeen especially with men continuously visiting on business? If my profile makes me sound like I am up my arse? So be it, I don't care, I just like to TRY and cut out the dross from contacting me on the basis they think I am a free prostitute!
Do you think it works? (Genuine question). I've always been of the opinion that it doesn't deter the dross, but might deter the kind of bloke you might actually want to meet. I could be entirely wrong though. "
That's a very good point Anna. What sort of guy do you end up with at the end it all? That's assuming anyone ever does make it through such a Total Wipeout-style assault course of questions! As soon as most guys (including no doubt many decent guys) see the list they'll just click off without even reading it. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Ones that are really bossy!
Yes!! Giving a list of do's and don'ts. Does my bloody head in.
Yes, this. Lots and lots of women do this. So unappealing. Even if I could pass all their ridiculous demands and get a meet with such a goddess () I wouldn't want it. They're obviously so far up their own arses. Makes them sound like an absolute nightmare!
Sorry, but have you tried being a woman on here? In Aberdeen especially with men continuously visiting on business? If my profile makes me sound like I am up my arse? So be it, I don't care, I just like to TRY and cut out the dross from contacting me on the basis they think I am a free prostitute!
Do you think it works? (Genuine question). I've always been of the opinion that it doesn't deter the dross, but might deter the kind of bloke you might actually want to meet. I could be entirely wrong though. "
My profile isn't ranty, it does have do not contact me if.....
Does it work? Mostly, I have been told it/I can be a bit intimidating, if that is the case it just works as another filter, because I don't want to meet guys that are intimidated by me. I want to meet guys equal to me, if I miss out on some guys, then that is a risk I am willing to take. As they obviously weren't for me in the first place, just my way of thinking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
I can't imagine a profile saying they are ugly with a tiny cock will get much attention .
Mine says that mine is average and I've always done alright...
yeah but doesnt say you dance like your dad and occasionally wear shoes :P
Has he worn the shoes more than once?
I've worn them twice, I don't even know where they currently reside!"
Wear them i might meet u |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
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"Ones that are really bossy!
Yes!! Giving a list of do's and don'ts. Does my bloody head in.
Yes, this. Lots and lots of women do this. So unappealing. Even if I could pass all their ridiculous demands and get a meet with such a goddess () I wouldn't want it. They're obviously so far up their own arses. Makes them sound like an absolute nightmare!
Sorry, but have you tried being a woman on here? In Aberdeen especially with men continuously visiting on business? If my profile makes me sound like I am up my arse? So be it, I don't care, I just like to TRY and cut out the dross from contacting me on the basis they think I am a free prostitute!
Do you think it works? (Genuine question). I've always been of the opinion that it doesn't deter the dross, but might deter the kind of bloke you might actually want to meet. I could be entirely wrong though.
That's a very good point Anna. What sort of guy do you end up with at the end it all? That's assuming anyone ever does make it through such a Total Wipeout-style assault course of questions! As soon as most guys (including no doubt many decent guys) see the list they'll just click off without even reading it."
I always read a list i think everyone should have them. They give the reader an idea if they have a chance of not or what the person is into which can turn some reader on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ones that are really bossy!
Yes!! Giving a list of do's and don'ts. Does my bloody head in.
Yes, this. Lots and lots of women do this. So unappealing. Even if I could pass all their ridiculous demands and get a meet with such a goddess () I wouldn't want it. They're obviously so far up their own arses. Makes them sound like an absolute nightmare!
Sorry, but have you tried being a woman on here? In Aberdeen especially with men continuously visiting on business? If my profile makes me sound like I am up my arse? So be it, I don't care, I just like to TRY and cut out the dross from contacting me on the basis they think I am a free prostitute!
Do you think it works? (Genuine question). I've always been of the opinion that it doesn't deter the dross, but might deter the kind of bloke you might actually want to meet. I could be entirely wrong though.
My profile isn't ranty, it does have do not contact me if.....
Does it work? Mostly, I have been told it/I can be a bit intimidating, if that is the case it just works as another filter, because I don't want to meet guys that are intimidated by me. I want to meet guys equal to me, if I miss out on some guys, then that is a risk I am willing to take. As they obviously weren't for me in the first place, just my way of thinking."
(I hadn't actually read it, was just going by your reaction to the post you were replying to). Intimidating may be a different thing to ranty - I can totally understand not wanting to meet wimpy or easily intimidated men. I just know if I was a man, and I'd want to hope I wasn't completely desperate, if a profile gave me even a hint of having to jump through hoops or being at a disadvantage from the start, I wouldn't even bother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
I can't imagine a profile saying they are ugly with a tiny cock will get much attention .
Mine says that mine is average and I've always done alright...
yeah but doesnt say you dance like your dad and occasionally wear shoes :P
Has he worn the shoes more than once?
I've worn them twice, I don't even know where they currently reside!
Wear them i might meet u "
That means I'll be spending tomorrow clearing out my wardrobe (2 second job) or the loft (massive undertaking!). I'll let you know in due course!... |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Boobies!
But boobies are awesome!
You don't like mine 
Can't like everything..."
What if you're exposed to them on a regular basis, building up your tolerance and then making you dependent on them?
I'll start with a bra shot and see how you get on with that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
I can't imagine a profile saying they are ugly with a tiny cock will get much attention .
Mine says that mine is average and I've always done alright...
yeah but doesnt say you dance like your dad and occasionally wear shoes :P
Has he worn the shoes more than once?
I've worn them twice, I don't even know where they currently reside!
Wear them i might meet u
That means I'll be spending tomorrow clearing out my wardrobe (2 second job) or the loft (massive undertaking!). I'll let you know in due course!... "
Lol shame its the disobey tomorrow  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always read a list i think everyone should have them. They give the reader an idea if they have a chance of not or what the person is into which can turn some reader on."
I would hate to have a list. I have a few things I'm not into that I specify, but I won't put a detailed list of criteria on there, because then I feel you run the risk of people telling you exactly what they think you want to hear, rather than approaching you as themselves, with honesty about their situation or likes/dislikes.
Anyway my profile with its lack of lists works well for me, even in Newcastle, the stag do "I'm just in town on Saturday night" capital of the country. |
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"People who post that stupid Sydney University disclaimer. "
The legal disclaimer does have a purpose.
It's probably more effective in the states, but...
If a lawyer decides to contact you to be part of a class action for $200M, it would destroy almost any institution...
This happens all the time.
After 5 years living back in the UK I still get emails saying I am in a class action for 100s of millions of dollars.... My "reward" would be about $17, but the whole thing is huge.
And the lawyers make huge amounts doing this.
Here, I don't know?
But still... Annoy you?
Being annoyed by someone's profile is like being annoyed by the ingredients of Coca-Cola. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
I can't imagine a profile saying they are ugly with a tiny cock will get much attention .
Mine says that mine is average and I've always done alright...
yeah but doesnt say you dance like your dad and occasionally wear shoes :P
Has he worn the shoes more than once?
I've worn them twice, I don't even know where they currently reside!
Wear them i might meet u
That means I'll be spending tomorrow clearing out my wardrobe (2 second job) or the loft (massive undertaking!). I'll let you know in due course!...
Lol shame its the disobey tomorrow "
If they're in the loft it'll be Wednesday before I find them anyway! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
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Sorry, but have you tried being a woman on here? In Aberdeen especially with men continuously visiting on business? If my profile makes me sound like I am up my arse? So be it, I don't care, I just like to TRY and cut out the dross from contacting me on the basis they think I am a free prostitute!
Do you think it works? (Genuine question). I've always been of the opinion that it doesn't deter the dross, but might deter the kind of bloke you might actually want to meet. I could be entirely wrong though.
My profile isn't ranty, it does have do not contact me if.....
Does it work? Mostly, I have been told it/I can be a bit intimidating, if that is the case it just works as another filter, because I don't want to meet guys that are intimidated by me. I want to meet guys equal to me, if I miss out on some guys, then that is a risk I am willing to take. As they obviously weren't for me in the first place, just my way of thinking.
(I hadn't actually read it, was just going by your reaction to the post you were replying to). Intimidating may be a different thing to ranty - I can totally understand not wanting to meet wimpy or easily intimidated men. I just know if I was a man, and I'd want to hope I wasn't completely desperate, if a profile gave me even a hint of having to jump through hoops or being at a disadvantage from the start, I wouldn't even bother. "
If I was a bloke I wouldn't be jumping through hoops either! My reaction was in a way a comment to the 'up their own arse'
I have been told by friends that, that is what they initially thought before getting to know me, so just my way of trying to cut down my messages rather than increasing them by coming across all warm and fuzzy and up for anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
I can't imagine a profile saying they are ugly with a tiny cock will get much attention .
Mine says that mine is average and I've always done alright...
yeah but doesnt say you dance like your dad and occasionally wear shoes :P
Has he worn the shoes more than once?
I've worn them twice, I don't even know where they currently reside!
Wear them i might meet u
That means I'll be spending tomorrow clearing out my wardrobe (2 second job) or the loft (massive undertaking!). I'll let you know in due course!...
Lol shame its the disobey tomorrow
If they're in the loft it'll be Wednesday before I find them anyway! "
Useless u are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Boobies!
But boobies are awesome!
Yeah but if a profile has boobies I ain't interested "
I don't have that problem. Yours are definitely worthy of interest.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Saying they are good looking.
Mentioning how big their cock is.
I can't imagine a profile saying they are ugly with a tiny cock will get much attention .
Mine says that mine is average and I've always done alright...
yeah but doesnt say you dance like your dad and occasionally wear shoes :P
Has he worn the shoes more than once?
I've worn them twice, I don't even know where they currently reside!
Wear them i might meet u
That means I'll be spending tomorrow clearing out my wardrobe (2 second job) or the loft (massive undertaking!). I'll let you know in due course!...
Lol shame its the disobey tomorrow
If they're in the loft it'll be Wednesday before I find them anyway!
Useless u are "
What's wrong with Adidas Samba's?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry, but have you tried being a woman on here? In Aberdeen especially with men continuously visiting on business? If my profile makes me sound like I am up my arse? So be it, I don't care, I just like to TRY and cut out the dross from contacting me on the basis they think I am a free prostitute!
Do you think it works? (Genuine question). I've always been of the opinion that it doesn't deter the dross, but might deter the kind of bloke you might actually want to meet. I could be entirely wrong though.
My profile isn't ranty, it does have do not contact me if.....
Does it work? Mostly, I have been told it/I can be a bit intimidating, if that is the case it just works as another filter, because I don't want to meet guys that are intimidated by me. I want to meet guys equal to me, if I miss out on some guys, then that is a risk I am willing to take. As they obviously weren't for me in the first place, just my way of thinking.
(I hadn't actually read it, was just going by your reaction to the post you were replying to). Intimidating may be a different thing to ranty - I can totally understand not wanting to meet wimpy or easily intimidated men. I just know if I was a man, and I'd want to hope I wasn't completely desperate, if a profile gave me even a hint of having to jump through hoops or being at a disadvantage from the start, I wouldn't even bother.
If I was a bloke I wouldn't be jumping through hoops either! My reaction was in a way a comment to the 'up their own arse'
I have been told by friends that, that is what they initially thought before getting to know me, so just my way of trying to cut down my messages rather than increasing them by coming across all warm and fuzzy and up for anything."
 if it works, that's great. I don't think it's an either/or - there can be a happy medium. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Ones that are really bossy!
Yes!! Giving a list of do's and don'ts. Does my bloody head in.
Yes, this. Lots and lots of women do this. So unappealing. Even if I could pass all their ridiculous demands and get a meet with such a goddess () I wouldn't want it. They're obviously so far up their own arses. Makes them sound like an absolute nightmare!
Sorry, but have you tried being a woman on here? In Aberdeen especially with men continuously visiting on business? If my profile makes me sound like I am up my arse? So be it, I don't care, I just like to TRY and cut out the dross from contacting me on the basis they think I am a free prostitute!
Do you think it works? (Genuine question). I've always been of the opinion that it doesn't deter the dross, but might deter the kind of bloke you might actually want to meet. I could be entirely wrong though.
That's a very good point Anna. What sort of guy do you end up with at the end it all? That's assuming anyone ever does make it through such a Total Wipeout-style assault course of questions! As soon as most guys (including no doubt many decent guys) see the list they'll just click off without even reading it."
Perhaps the 'rules' of Open Space apply?
The Host (or profile writer here) announces and convenes a conversation (their profile).
The Participant (reader of the profile) participates in the conversation.
The Bumble Bee (another reader) moves between the conversations and cross pollinates (perhaps they are the party organisers here).
The Butterfly (yet another reader) takes time out and reflects (and decides not to engage at all).
The principles of open space are that:
* whoever comes are the right people
* whatever happens is the only thing that could have happened (with that particular combination of interactions)
* when it starts it starts
* when it's over, it's over - the law of two feet (if you don't like it walk away).
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
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Sorry, but have you tried being a woman on here? In Aberdeen especially with men continuously visiting on business? If my profile makes me sound like I am up my arse? So be it, I don't care, I just like to TRY and cut out the dross from contacting me on the basis they think I am a free prostitute!
Do you think it works? (Genuine question). I've always been of the opinion that it doesn't deter the dross, but might deter the kind of bloke you might actually want to meet. I could be entirely wrong though.
My profile isn't ranty, it does have do not contact me if.....
Does it work? Mostly, I have been told it/I can be a bit intimidating, if that is the case it just works as another filter, because I don't want to meet guys that are intimidated by me. I want to meet guys equal to me, if I miss out on some guys, then that is a risk I am willing to take. As they obviously weren't for me in the first place, just my way of thinking.
(I hadn't actually read it, was just going by your reaction to the post you were replying to). Intimidating may be a different thing to ranty - I can totally understand not wanting to meet wimpy or easily intimidated men. I just know if I was a man, and I'd want to hope I wasn't completely desperate, if a profile gave me even a hint of having to jump through hoops or being at a disadvantage from the start, I wouldn't even bother.
If I was a bloke I wouldn't be jumping through hoops either! My reaction was in a way a comment to the 'up their own arse'
I have been told by friends that, that is what they initially thought before getting to know me, so just my way of trying to cut down my messages rather than increasing them by coming across all warm and fuzzy and up for anything.
if it works, that's great. I don't think it's an either/or - there can be a happy medium. "
i think the hardest thing to do when writing a profile is to state what you like without sounding agresive. That's the problem i had with my original profile. |
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"Ones that are really bossy!
Yes!! Giving a list of do's and don'ts. Does my bloody head in.
Yes, this. Lots and lots of women do this. So unappealing. Even if I could pass all their ridiculous demands and get a meet with such a goddess () I wouldn't want it. They're obviously so far up their own arses. Makes them sound like an absolute nightmare!
Sorry, but have you tried being a woman on here? In Aberdeen especially with men continuously visiting on business? If my profile makes me sound like I am up my arse? So be it, I don't care, I just like to TRY and cut out the dross from contacting me on the basis they think I am a free prostitute!
Do you think it works? (Genuine question). I've always been of the opinion that it doesn't deter the dross, but might deter the kind of bloke you might actually want to meet. I could be entirely wrong though.
My profile isn't ranty, it does have do not contact me if.....
Does it work? Mostly, I have been told it/I can be a bit intimidating, if that is the case it just works as another filter, because I don't want to meet guys that are intimidated by me. I want to meet guys equal to me, if I miss out on some guys, then that is a risk I am willing to take. As they obviously weren't for me in the first place, just my way of thinking."
I've seen far worse. Starts off with the usual negativity that I've come to expect. I got about a third of the way down and saw the second o that's me out then. The first being I'm out of your age range. Carried on reading anyway and I actually think it's a good read. I wouldn't say it was intimidating at all. |
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"Profiles that state they don't reply to profiles without pics...yet they don't have any public ones themselves. That winds me up!"
O god yes. Instant next! |
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"We cannot stand the arrogant buggers who tell single guys to "Dooooooo one" - they have a right to be here. Would anyone want to meet such odorous people even if you are a female or couple? "
Jog on.... That expression screams arrogance. Hate it. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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" My profile isn't ranty, it does have do not contact me if.....
Does it work? Mostly, I have been told it/I can be a bit intimidating, if that is the case it just works as another filter, because I don't want to meet guys that are intimidated by me. I want to meet guys equal to me, if I miss out on some guys, then that is a risk I am willing to take. As they obviously weren't for me in the first place, just my way of thinking.
I've seen far worse. Starts off with the usual negativity that I've come to expect. I got about a third of the way down and saw the second o that's me out then. The first being I'm out of your age range. Carried on reading anyway and I actually think it's a good read. I wouldn't say it was intimidating at all."
Thank you I don't think it is either, just what I've been told, but I will continue with it for now  |
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" My profile isn't ranty, it does have do not contact me if.....
Does it work? Mostly, I have been told it/I can be a bit intimidating, if that is the case it just works as another filter, because I don't want to meet guys that are intimidated by me. I want to meet guys equal to me, if I miss out on some guys, then that is a risk I am willing to take. As they obviously weren't for me in the first place, just my way of thinking.
I've seen far worse. Starts off with the usual negativity that I've come to expect. I got about a third of the way down and saw the second o that's me out then. The first being I'm out of your age range. Carried on reading anyway and I actually think it's a good read. I wouldn't say it was intimidating at all.
Thank you I don't think it is either, just what I've been told, but I will continue with it for now "
Fussy pants!! |
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" My profile isn't ranty, it does have do not contact me if.....
Does it work? Mostly, I have been told it/I can be a bit intimidating, if that is the case it just works as another filter, because I don't want to meet guys that are intimidated by me. I want to meet guys equal to me, if I miss out on some guys, then that is a risk I am willing to take. As they obviously weren't for me in the first place, just my way of thinking.
I've seen far worse. Starts off with the usual negativity that I've come to expect. I got about a third of the way down and saw the second o that's me out then. The first being I'm out of your age range. Carried on reading anyway and I actually think it's a good read. I wouldn't say it was intimidating at all.
Thank you I don't think it is either, just what I've been told, but I will continue with it for now
Fussy pants!! "
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Any sort of diatribe against (usually) single males.I understand that lots of males don't read profiles or send crappy messages,but more often than not I won't engage with those couples/females.
Up their own arse profiles,bad spelling and grammar...
Not much really |
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