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Relationships and you. Yes, you!
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By *L Rogue OP Man
over a year ago
London |
Seen a lot of heartache and confusion on some of these threads.
People here for fun and catching feelings and then wanting more or meeting in the hope that things will just head that way.
So what do we want and are we being honest with ourselves?
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
From fab - its to fill a very physical need - I have a high sex drive, and a lover who lives 3 hours away, who I can't see that often.
I also like the friendship side of things from fab... and its easier to find like minded women and couples on here than on a night out |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
Northampton |
Just what is it that you want to do?
We wanna be free
We wanna be free to do what we wanna do
And we wanna get loaded
And we wanna have a good time
That's what we're gonna do
(No way baby let's go)
We're gonna have a good time
We're gonna have a party |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can't help bond with people, it's part of how we're chemically made up. I think you have to be hard hearted or can go with how you feel, depends on who it's with and how they feel about you.
I'm only looking for NSA on here myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From fab - its to fill a very physical need - I have a high sex drive, and a lover who lives 3 hours away, who I can't see that often.
I also like the friendship side of things from fab... and its easier to find like minded women and couples on here than on a night out"
This minus the lover  |
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Not looking for a relationship full stop as I genuinely don't know how I would fit one in my life.
If it happens on here or in the real world then I would give it a chance but I am careful to watch my feelings when I meet off here and remember that it's just NSA.
Difficult when it's someone you can see yourself with though. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I'm honest about being open to a relationship but I find it harder to "catch feelings" these days.
I don't meet that many new people these days and just keep the friendships I have and value augmented with trips to clubs. I like sharing my sexual friends.
The non-sexual friendships on here are important to me too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From fab.....I'm looking for hot steamy sex with a/some hot steamy guys. Those that understand the relationship I have with my husband are more desirable. Those that are capable of being able to separate feelings and emotion from fantastic sex are at the top of my list. Those that can do that on a fairly regular basis are very rare, but there are one or 2 i can rely on. I don't want needy emotional guys. I get all the emotional relationship bits from my husband. Yes I think I am completely honest about what I want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want to have fun. in and out the bedroom, I love the social side and chatting with ppl, but I want more than just sex, but I dont intend to date again, as have a mini me, and having had a failed relationship where she had got attatched to him and his kids Im not doing that again. Iv found what I want, an fwb.suits us both, and both free to see others for meets.x  |
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"Seen a lot of heartache and confusion on some of these threads.
People here for fun and catching feelings and then wanting more or meeting in the hope that things will just head that way.
So what do we want and are we being honest with ourselves?
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I was looking for nsa sexual encounters. Seven years of fun, met a man with a find em, fuck em and forget them attitude...eight months later he moved in, ten months on he's still here! |
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For me its finding and making new friends, being social with others and pure physical contact that we all need from time to time. If i meet a woman through here and we become more than friends then i wont push her away. xx |
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By *L Rogue OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"I'm honest about being open to a relationship but I find it harder to "catch feelings" these days.
I don't meet that many new people these days and just keep the friendships I have and value augmented with trips to clubs. I like sharing my sexual friends.
The non-sexual friendships on here are important to me too.
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By *L Rogue OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Seen a lot of heartache and confusion on some of these threads.
People here for fun and catching feelings and then wanting more or meeting in the hope that things will just head that way.
So what do we want and are we being honest with ourselves?
I was looking for nsa sexual encounters. Seven years of fun, met a man with a find em, fuck em and forget them attitude...eight months later he moved in, ten months on he's still here! "
I feel bad for people when it doesn't work out but love it when it does.  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I've been single now for so long and can't see it changing anytime soon, I think I will just stay for the fun, though I do have the never say never attitude, nobody knows what is round the corner.  |
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Was looking to fab to help me get nsa and not the feelings but then my bf happened and we are strong together. We meet together as well as alone, are completely honest with each other and love what we have - the emotional bits as well as the sex. I think it comes when you are not looking. |
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"Was looking to fab to help me get nsa and not the feelings but then my bf happened and we are strong together. We meet together as well as alone, are completely honest with each other and love what we have - the emotional bits as well as the sex. I think it comes when you are not looking. "
They say the best and strongest relationships happen when you stop looking and let things happen wish you both well. |
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By *irceWoman
over a year ago
Gloucester |
Joined FaB going from dogging to here, did not expect to have emotions kick in..but they have, now i face new emotions very raw and real, players come and go but the few who stay have given alot in the heart dept.
Where this goes i do not know, just go with the flow.x |
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"Joined FaB going from dogging to here, did not expect to have emotions kick in..but they have, now i face new emotions very raw and real, players come and go but the few who stay have given alot in the heart dept.
Where this goes i do not know, just go with the flow.x"
Same for me really amazing place this and some truly amazing folks on here xx |
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I cant imagine Id meet my partner here and I organise things to be no strings only. But i understand how it can happen, if you suddenly meet with and recognise someone youre feeling well matched with and heavily attracted to, whilst sharing very intimate fun together.
Mostly its just lust that can be manAged. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Seen a lot of heartache and confusion on some of these threads.
People here for fun and catching feelings and then wanting more or meeting in the hope that things will just head that way.
So what do we want and are we being honest with ourselves?
I was looking for nsa sexual encounters. Seven years of fun, met a man with a find em, fuck em and forget them attitude...eight months later he moved in, ten months on he's still here!
I feel bad for people when it doesn't work out but love it when it does. "
This.
Except I don't really feel bad, so long as all parties end things in a civilised manner. Like any relationship started anywhere - if it's not meant to be it's not meant to be. Fab is no different.
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By *L Rogue OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Seen a lot of heartache and confusion on some of these threads.
People here for fun and catching feelings and then wanting more or meeting in the hope that things will just head that way.
So what do we want and are we being honest with ourselves?
I was looking for nsa sexual encounters. Seven years of fun, met a man with a find em, fuck em and forget them attitude...eight months later he moved in, ten months on he's still here!
I feel bad for people when it doesn't work out but love it when it does.
This.
Except I don't really feel bad, so long as all parties end things in a civilised manner. Like any relationship started anywhere - if it's not meant to be it's not meant to be. Fab is no different.
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