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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I imagine sex rarely complicates things on fab, but me and a friend (non fabber) have been indulging in some very hot and steamy benefits, its was bound to happen but both of us began to "catch feelings" so i've the brakes on and we're trying to have a totally platonic relationship.
Is this possible, or will sex always be the elephant in the room? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think sex is ever the problem, the feelings are though.
I'm still friends with people i've fucked, but it's hard when you still have feelings for them. Otherwise it works, and these feelings do go eventually and change into something less but just as bonding. Yours might get stronger though, or never fade, idk? I'd go with the feelings myself, but that's just me. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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The ex and I are platonic. We still go to clubs together and are affectionate with each other.
I had a fling with a neighbour many years ago (I know, shit and doorsteps) but twenty years on we're still friends.
It takes time and having an adult approach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being honest I think older people 40+ get a lot more attached than younger people do.
I see it on here all the time.
That's so funny Ben. The OP is a young 'un.
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Yeah.
He wanted to keep it platonic.
No idea how old his partner was.
It's not him getting attached.
That's how I read it.  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Being honest I think older people 40+ get a lot more attached than younger people do.
I see it on here all the time.
That's so funny Ben. The OP is a young 'un.
Yeah.
He wanted to keep it platonic.
No idea how old his partner was.
It's not him getting attached.
That's how I read it. "
I read it as both getting feelings but he's put the brakes on. Only they know. We're just shooting the breeze.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I've often wondered wher Plato fits into things, a complete genius, and one of my idols, do you think his relationships were all vanilla? "
Nah, but he put the brakes on lots of relationships and had to find a way of making it ok.
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