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Ladies / Girls : Before you meet a guy for fun, do you want to know how big his willy is?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Am I the only one who wants to know what i am going to be test driving lol. Do you ask how big a guys willy is before you meet?
And men do you expect to be asked this at some point? |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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When I had a solo profile I never got asked.
There were a few pics to give an indication but never a reference in text to size or measurements.
If you can visually get an idea of someone I suppose you don't really need to ask. But if all you have to go on are close ups from cleverly taken angles then you could end up disappointed.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" But if all you have to go on are close ups from cleverly taken angles then you could end up disappointed."
 hahahahaha the good ol' close up are a bad sign lool |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"When I had a solo profile I never got asked.
There were a few pics to give an indication but never a reference in text to size or measurements.
If you can visually get an idea of someone I suppose you don't really need to ask. But if all you have to go on are close ups from cleverly taken angles then you could end up disappointed.
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I've seen your pictures. I've never seen the actuality of it but I have measured it and can verify that your pictures are not misleading (well, they might be as it could be green).
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always ask for a pic cause as all the ladies know guys have not yet worked out how to use a ruler. "
God the amount of times a guy has told me he is 8 inches be in reality is 5 inches 
I do think the most important thing is a sexual confident man who is passionate |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I've never ever thought of asking that. It's good to have a surprise when you unwrap a gift.
I agree. As long as it isn't micro I don't mind  "
As a gay friend of my once said, you can do something with small and you can do something with thin but small and thin is more of challenge.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would give out a magnifying glass to all my meets, so they could see it at whichever size they wanted. It would have to be a powerful lens to start with though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and I think that's where I've been going wrong the last 6 years of dating.
I need to get it out of my head that penis size is the be all and end all, I'm 32 next month for fuck sake, time isn't on my side and my looks will fade.
Whenever I've met a guy to date off a dating site I'll request a penis picture and that automatically sets the tone. They then see me as someone who's only interested in shagging and therefore put me in the chuck and fuck category.
I desperately want a boyfriend, I'm fulfilled and lucky to have lots of friends and good family but a boyfriend would fill a different void.
I seriously seriously have a problem. I can't just date a guy and get to know him and develop bonds and feelings, I have it in my head that he MUST HAVE a good looking face MUST be over 6ft MUST have a penis bigger than 7" with decent girth. Without those things and without seeing that he has those things I won't even consider meeting then or dating them.
How do I stop being like this it's pathetic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not a necessity for me and I've had a couple of shocks where I have gulped and thought I'm not going to handle it. We did ok though. I've found that some men will say they are a bit big or small beforehand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course we want to have an idea of what's on offer .
A small dick isn't gonna be any use at all , other than possibly from a novelty value .
No matter what's attached to it , we are on here to enjoy sexual encounters which satisfy both parties , and without the right equipment that's not going to happen is it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want to know as well. I was left disappointed by a small guy because i have a cock fetish, even though he made me cum i wasn't fully happy with the experience. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes and I think that's where I've been going wrong the last 6 years of dating.
I need to get it out of my head that penis size is the be all and end all, I'm 32 next month for fuck sake, time isn't on my side and my looks will fade.
Whenever I've met a guy to date off a dating site I'll request a penis picture and that automatically sets the tone. They then see me as someone who's only interested in shagging and therefore put me in the chuck and fuck category.
I desperately want a boyfriend, I'm fulfilled and lucky to have lots of friends and good family but a boyfriend would fill a different void.
I seriously seriously have a problem. I can't just date a guy and get to know him and develop bonds and feelings, I have it in my head that he MUST HAVE a good looking face MUST be over 6ft MUST have a penis bigger than 7" with decent girth. Without those things and without seeing that he has those things I won't even consider meeting then or dating them.
How do I stop being like this it's pathetic. "
That's a lot of MUST HAVE's without any of them being about personality, kindness or even compatibility with you.
I once fell for someone just on their voice. This was in the days before you were born and we didn't have the internet or mobiles. We used to speak on the phone and developed a connection. When we met he could easily have won the competition to be Quasimodo's twin brother but we had a connection. We also had fantastic fun, fabulous sex and two years of good times together.
Open yourself up to meeting a person and not a cock with a good face.
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