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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It could be that they dont want to bother you again. There are a lot of complaints on here about guys continuing to message after a rebuff.
I do it for that reason. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Maybe they have seen the many threads from couples and females who say they block men after a rejection mail so they can't mail them again...so they have done the same thing.
Either way, is it really so bad? |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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You don't want to meet him, but you are upset he blocked you?
I block people who I have said no to, and also those who say no to me, so we don't show on each others searches, and I don't want to bother them in the future.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well at leastt you replied i dislike it when people cant even bother to do that good on you and his loss x"
His loss that they won't meet up with him cos they're too far away?
Ok..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I send a message to a gorgeous couple like yourselves and get turned down then I wouldn't want to be classed as a pest and men do so I block.
Nothing horrible in anyway.. no means no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people or a male in this case block you when you have sent a polite sorry your to far away nothing against the guy hes just to far away rant over ffs "
they block so they dont bother you again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You don't want to meet him, but you are upset he blocked you?
I block people who I have said no to, and also those who say no to me, so we don't show on each others searches, and I don't want to bother them in the future.
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Says it much better than I tried too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Find this to a ridiculous post if it was make saying that about couple or single male the response on here would be lot worse.
Why would the chap feel need to continue contact you were if i get a message saying too far away I usually block so as not to in future send another message and risk aggro. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Can't say we've ever been bothered by a block, even less so by someone we're never going to meet. At a guess, probably to eliminate you from the equation of a possible meet as there's no chance.
Him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So they don't re-email you. Simple. We do it to people we aren't interested in and those we say no thanks to. Easier than going through the search and having people who have said no to you getting annoyed with another email. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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this is why site supporters and the private notes are a great asset for me
I usually put something in there to warn me or phone numbers etc
but also if i say no i also put the reason why im saying no
if the persist i block
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"this is why site supporters and the private notes are a great asset for me
I usually put something in there to warn me or phone numbers etc
but also if i say no i also put the reason why im saying no
if the persist i block
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We use it in the exact same way, when you see that little blue box then click to open you soon recollect. A very good tool. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this is why site supporters and the private notes are a great asset for me
I usually put something in there to warn me or phone numbers etc
but also if i say no i also put the reason why im saying no
if the persist i block
We use it in the exact same way, when you see that little blue box then click to open you soon recollect. A very good tool. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you're upset because he didn't reply to your no thanks message? "
I think it would have been more standard for him to have had a hissy fit and sent an abusive message.
I know people do get upset if I don't do this after rejection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I message someone and they delete with out reading or read and then delete it's not a lot of difference but obviously they aren't interested so I just block so I don't write again "
the problem is, if im on myphone i can press delete all not delete all read occasionally we all do this |
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