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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having a rant. Last week or so the amount of winks, friends requests and message I've had off guys is getting unbearable. I know I can block guys but do have male friends so damn if I do and damn if I don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In answer to your title, yea!
Lot of thirsty guys on fab!
Just block and move on mate. I changed my filters as got tired of politely declining offers... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think your male friends can still message you,even if you block messages from men....
cheers mate"
If either you or your friend have messaged before you'll still be able to talk after you set your filters to no single males to avoid unwanted attention  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm message from girl with an overly sexual name, ridiculously hot in pics (like why the fuck would you be messaging me kinda hot) profile is simply a Kik name, 3 months with no veris or photo veri.....
Yup definitely a dude.   |
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"Having a rant. Last week or so the amount of winks, friends requests and message I've had off guys is getting unbearable. I know I can block guys but do have male friends so damn if I do and damn if I don't"
Maybe their wives had asked them to contact you and you've stopped loads of potential meets.
If you're a "Dom", be more confident in yourself. So what if you get all these winks and fabs and friend requests? I find that people who actively look to see if they've had such contact tend to be quite emotionally needy and i avoid them like a plague of cliches.
Try not bothering to look. It might make your experience on this site a little less ranty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks
But why don't they use fabguys I say "
If they're bi though, they want to meet women too. They won't be on fab guys - unless I'm missing something.
I'd take it as a compliment. Plus like others have said, put filters on. You can still get messages off your friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have single guys blocked from mailing me since day one.
But I can honestly say I've never had a wink or friend request from a single male in the entire 2 years on here.
Make it clear on you're profile that you're straight and block single guys.
I've straight up never had a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks
But why don't they use fabguys I say
If they're bi though, they want to meet women too. They won't be on fab guys - unless I'm missing something.
I'd take it as a compliment. Plus like others have said, put filters on. You can still get messages off your friends. "
 it's such a male thing this. Straight women don't seem to feel so threatened by getting fabs, winks or messages from bi women! |
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By *ancadamMan
over a year ago
Stockport |
"Having a rant. Last week or so the amount of winks, friends requests and message I've had off guys is getting unbearable. I know I can block guys but do have male friends so damn if I do and damn if I don't
Maybe their wives had asked them to contact you and you've stopped loads of potential meets.
If you're a "Dom", be more confident in yourself. So what if you get all these winks and fabs and friend requests? I find that people who actively look to see if they've had such contact tend to be quite emotionally needy and i avoid them like a plague of cliches.
Try not bothering to look. It might make your experience on this site a little less ranty. "
. perfect reply.most men on this site would be flattered by a sign they appear to be attractive! its hardly a police matter if someone thinks you are attractive.I've lost count of the number of lurid offers I've had from men in a couples profile or single,stating they are 'straight' .why nice to know im not invisible!! use your filters Mr.or learn to enjoy appealing to people!! good luck.also some reflection on your over reaction might be helpful to you? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks
But why don't they use fabguys I say
Because this site is not just for straight people."
What?!! There are those gheys and bisexuamals here?!
I haven't been using a condom on my 'phone! OMG I may have caught the ghey! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks
But why don't they use fabguys I say
Because this site is not just for straight people.
What?!! There are those gheys and bisexuamals here?!
I haven't been using a condom on my 'phone! OMG I may have caught the ghey! "
Have you critised anyone's curtains? Have you ran your finger along a table and said "ooh, look at the muck in 'ere"?
If so, your a ghey....one of them!!!  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Thanks
But why don't they use fabguys I say
Because this site is not just for straight people.
What?!! There are those gheys and bisexuamals here?!
I haven't been using a condom on my 'phone! OMG I may have caught the ghey!
Have you critised anyone's curtains? Have you ran your finger along a table and said "ooh, look at the muck in 'ere"?
If so, your a ghey....one of them!!! "
That might make me ghey but it could mean I've become a mother-in-law |
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If you're a "Dom", be more confident in yourself. So what if you get all these winks and fabs and friend requests? I find that people who actively look to see if they've had such contact tend to be quite emotionally needy and i avoid them like a plague of cliches.
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tend to agree..
makes one wonder how people with such 'issues'go about their daily lives, socialising etc..
heaven forbid one may be looked at by another person and feel so vulnerable.. |
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Perhaps it'll give you a feel for female profiles are. Inundation of stuff from the clueless and those who care not to read your interests.
It's Fab life. Most of the fabguys users will be on here too but there's more choice here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Before people think I'm homophobic or anything like that.
I've got a gay brother. Been to two civil ceremonies( gay and a leabian) been on a hen do and got a lot of gay friends.
My profile clearly states no gay or bi please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Before people think I'm homophobic or anything like that.
I've got a gay brother. Been to two civil ceremonies( gay and a leabian) been on a hen do and got a lot of gay friends.
My profile clearly states no gay or bi please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a gay man text I laugh and don't bother me but it's the "straight" guys who pisses me off the most.
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They are never 'straight'...
It's the bi on the sly ones who do the messaging but at someone has already pointed out you can set your filters to no single men but your male friends can still message you.... As long as you have them listed as friends |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If a gay man text I laugh and don't bother me but it's the "straight" guys who pisses me off the most.
They are never 'straight'...
It's the bi on the sly ones who do the messaging but at someone has already pointed out you can set your filters to no single men but your male friends can still message you.... As long as you have them listed as friends"
"Bi on the sly" outstanding quote. That's a new one and made me laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the grand scheme of things it's hardly an earth shattering problem. Take it as a compliment and move on.
As others have said, filters are your friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You would also like to ask the question where in the fab induction did it say this site was only for straight people I must have missed that page?? In the interest of health and safety I feel that the site owners need to remedy this situation immediately?!
Oh wait there are couples looking for women and men dispatch them to back of beyond for breaching the straight etiquette of this site!!
Really this is not an issue to be raised I'm Bi, though not an active one at present, so it is my choice who I message but I've got the sense not to wink a straight guy!! I suggest you take the compliment as I do but just delete or not respond they don't usually come back again when I don't!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP wants to fuck me I bet. 
Of course he does. We all do. You're the stuff of which dreams are made. "
Bah lies, she's not marshmallow fluff and ice cream and she's definitely not some confusing thoughts about my old high school gym teacher that we'll just kindly stop discussing and leave for another day thank you very much! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP wants to fuck me I bet.
Of course he does. We all do. You're the stuff of which dreams are made.
Bah lies, she's not marshmallow fluff and ice cream and she's definitely not some confusing thoughts about my old high school gym teacher that we'll just kindly stop discussing and leave for another day thank you very much!"
Oh no. I think we need to here more about your gym teacher.  |
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