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Trying To Have My Cake And Eat It
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"Well I am in a relationship I'm not getting in to the ins and outs is this for any of the women or couples on here"
Nothing wrong with that but equally nothing wrong with who are judgemental about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well I am in a relationship I'm not getting in to the ins and outs is this for any of the women or couples on here
Nothing wrong with that but equally nothing wrong with who are judgemental about it."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.
Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters."
I totaly understand that I have been getting that alot but I would rather say I'm in a relationship now then on a meet or something |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.
Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters. I totaly understand that I have been getting that alot but I would rather say I'm in a relationship now then on a meet or something "
Best to be up front and honest from the start .
How's it working our for you so far ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.
Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters. I totaly understand that I have been getting that alot but I would rather say I'm in a relationship now then on a meet or something
Best to be up front and honest from the start .
How's it working our for you so far ?"
Have a few I chat too but nothing to brag about lol  |
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Not for me. Plenty of single guys on here. And I wouldn't appreciate being cheated on so won't knowingly do it to someone else.
But IMHO you are doing the right thing being up front about it so people can make an informed choice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not for me. Plenty of single guys on here. And I wouldn't appreciate being cheated on so won't knowingly do it to someone else.
But IMHO you are doing the right thing being up front about it so people can make an informed choice"
Thanks
I had a foot think and I could of said I was anyone on here but it's not worth it so fort would put it out there |
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I currently play with 2 married/taken guys and they have their reasons for being on here (which they have told me, truth or not I don't know!). Some will be ok with it and others will find it wrong! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honesty on a profile is a good thing and its good to read see photos then the person you are messaging, can make up there own mind to see if they want to continue chatting or not!
I know if i was looking to meet an attached person i would like to speak to the other person 1st so i know they are ok with that! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I currently play with 2 married/taken guys and they have their reasons for being on here (which they have told me, truth or not I don't know!). Some will be ok with it and others will find it wrong! "
I have mine witch I will get into once I start to know someone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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sometimes life is too short to judge and make opinions on people
We all arent perfect and we all make mistakes in life even if we are thinking at the time it was the right one to make
good luck to you Op x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"sometimes life is too short to judge and make opinions on people
We all arent perfect and we all make mistakes in life even if we are thinking at the time it was the right one to make
good luck to you Op x "
Thanks lovely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can i ask what would happen if you found out your gf was on here?just curious  "
Maybe if he found out his girl friend was on here, he would be getting from his gf all ready |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is the second time today I've had deja vu about users starting the same subject in a thread more than once
I avoid men in relationships,if their OH suddenly decides she wants to go out or do something when they're meant to be meeting me i'll get dropped like a ton of shit,they are edgy on meets,they're paranoid they'll be left with unintentional marks of passion and they are always on a time limit
Not my idea of fun at all
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is the second time today I've had deja vu about users starting the same subject in a thread more than once
I avoid men in relationships,if their OH suddenly decides she wants to go out or do something when they're meant to be meeting me i'll get dropped like a ton of shit,they are edgy on meets,they're paranoid they'll be left with unintentional marks of passion and they are always on a time limit
Not my idea of fun at all
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Not me atall phone off so no calls and I won't be bothered about scratches  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is the second time today I've had deja vu about users starting the same subject in a thread more than once
I avoid men in relationships,if their OH suddenly decides she wants to go out or do something when they're meant to be meeting me i'll get dropped like a ton of shit,they are edgy on meets,they're paranoid they'll be left with unintentional marks of passion and they are always on a time limit
Not my idea of fun at all
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This is my view too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.
Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters. I totaly understand that I have been getting that alot but I would rather say I'm in a relationship now then on a meet or something "
At least you are being honest about it up front.... Which also probably why you aren't getting any..... Cake that is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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7 years ago i was in a open relationship.
I met an attached man (didnt know at the time)
I believed he had a flatmate until one night i was invited to his.
One bedroom flat.
By then we was fuck buddies and it continued for a while until one day a friend (vanilla) asked how would u like it if it happened to myself
I ended the friendship the next night
Honesty is great on a profile but be honest to your partner too
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"Honesty is great on a profile but be honest to your partner too
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Technically, if he were honest, the title would be
"Having my cake and licking the icing off someone else's."
(And maybe nibbling the marzipan too)
Either way I'm hungry now
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honesty is great on a profile but be honest to your partner too
Technically, if he were honest, the title would be
"Having my cake and licking the icing off someone else's."
(And maybe nibbling the marzipan too)
Either way I'm hungry now
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"This is the second time today I've had deja vu about users starting the same subject in a thread more than once
I avoid men in relationships,if their OH suddenly decides she wants to go out or do something when they're meant to be meeting me i'll get dropped like a ton of shit,they are edgy on meets,they're paranoid they'll be left with unintentional marks of passion and they are always on a time limit
Not my idea of fun at all
Not me atall phone off so no calls and I won't be bothered about scratches "
I don't meet attached guys on fab, but if I did, that attitude would put me off - what kind of respect does that show your gf? Do you not care about her feelings, or are you looking for a way out? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is the second time today I've had deja vu about users starting the same subject in a thread more than once
I avoid men in relationships,if their OH suddenly decides she wants to go out or do something when they're meant to be meeting me i'll get dropped like a ton of shit,they are edgy on meets,they're paranoid they'll be left with unintentional marks of passion and they are always on a time limit
Not my idea of fun at all
Not me atall phone off so no calls and I won't be bothered about scratches
I don't meet attached guys on fab, but if I did, that attitude would put me off - what kind of respect does that show your gf? Do you not care about her feelings, or are you looking for a way out?"
Yes I do and not looking for a way out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.
Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters. I totaly understand that I have been getting that alot but I would rather say I'm in a relationship now then on a meet or something "
So you are saying you would rather be honest from the beginning.
One question though.
Why not show your partner the same honesty, doesn't she deserve that or you just not that honest? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It'll not bother some, it'll bother others.
Just be prepared for a lot of deletes and flak from those vehemently opposed to the cheaters. I totaly understand that I have been getting that alot but I would rather say I'm in a relationship now then on a meet or something
So you are saying you would rather be honest from the beginning.
One question though.
Why not show your partner the same honesty, doesn't she deserve that or you just not that honest?"
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