All am saying is that some guys are making things a lot more difficult than it can be,
creating a stigma for single guys
(1) Desperation is never attractive!
(2) Wierd approaches an dodgy messages aint going to get you no where guys!
(3) Guys READ profiles first before messaging makes life way easier.
(4) Personal Apologies if I have offend anyone
Be yourselves!
Respect the ladies!
An whats with straight guys sending other straight guys friend request. |
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This entire site feels like job interview after job interview.
Send a message, it gets deleted, move onto the next one.
Are some areas more entitled than others? |
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Oh you do get lots of funny ones.. Hubby and I giggle no end.. Spent a say posting pix of various stages of me as a gun totting assassin.. Also bound tied and gagged.. And we get lots of messages saying.'hi, what have you been doing today '.. No exclamation marks.. Just the same as always. We then bore them silly with stories of Tescos , doing polishing and of course our beryl having such bad variocous veins lately.. And they still message away! |
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Whilst I appreciate where you're coming from OP, I seem to remember someone once saying that such comments are akin to blaming others for your own lack of success.
I suppose it all depends on how you look at things.
Some might say that you are in control of your own destiny. When you send someone a message, it is your message and your profile that they see. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"All am saying is that some guys are making things a lot more difficult than it can be,
creating a stigma for single guys
(1) Desperation is never attractive!
(2) Wierd approaches an dodgy messages aint going to get you no where guys!
(3) Guys READ profiles first before messaging makes life way easier.
(4) Personal Apologies if I have offend anyone
Be yourselves!
Respect the ladies!
An whats with straight guys sending other straight guys friend request."
A stigma?
Nobody affects anyone else on here - that's the urban myth and cop out excuse of many a guy as it deflects any issues or lack of success from themselves into others.
It's each to their own on here and any other site. You reap what you sow. Effort in = positive results out. You are the master of your own fate. And there's plenty more similar truths I can't be arsed to list.
Your life on here, your profile, your messages, your meets, your choice of username etc - they're all down to you.
Nobody else.
And never will be.
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"Oh you do get lots of funny ones.. Hubby and I giggle no end.. Spent a say posting pix of various stages of me as a gun totting assassin.. Also bound tied and gagged.. And we get lots of messages saying.'hi, what have you been doing today '.. No exclamation marks.. Just the same as always. We then bore them silly with stories of Tescos , doing polishing and of course our beryl having such bad variocous veins lately.. And they still message away! "
( ) i do similar i waffle on like some crazy woman to see how much they can take some just stop mailing but a lot stick with it a lot of the time it ends up being a good laugh when the guy is on our wave length
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"Oh you do get lots of funny ones.. Hubby and I giggle no end.. Spent a say posting pix of various stages of me as a gun totting assassin.. Also bound tied and gagged.. And we get lots of messages saying.'hi, what have you been doing today '.. No exclamation marks.. Just the same as always. We then bore them silly with stories of Tescos , doing polishing and of course our beryl having such bad variocous veins lately.. And they still message away!
() i do similar i waffle on like some crazy woman to see how much they can take some just stop mailing but a lot stick with it a lot of the time it ends up being a good laugh when the guy is on our wave length
Her
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It's great.. Especially if they get it.. But if they don't.. Its awesome. I wrote a post on here today about ear sex.. Go read it... He still messages us so turned on about ear sex . He's not very bright but adorable non the less xx |
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"Oh you do get lots of funny ones.. Hubby and I giggle no end.. Spent a say posting pix of various stages of me as a gun totting assassin.. Also bound tied and gagged.. And we get lots of messages saying.'hi, what have you been doing today '.. No exclamation marks.. Just the same as always. We then bore them silly with stories of Tescos , doing polishing and of course our beryl having such bad variocous veins lately.. And they still message away!
() i do similar i waffle on like some crazy woman to see how much they can take some just stop mailing but a lot stick with it a lot of the time it ends up being a good laugh when the guy is on our wave length
Her
It's great.. Especially if they get it.. But if they don't.. Its awesome. I wrote a post on here today about ear sex.. Go read it... He still messages us so turned on about ear sex . He's not very bright but adorable non the less xx"
Lol some do say every hole is a goal
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