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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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2 weeks ago I moved to Newcastle to start a new job which is fine but I'm living in my car (which is kinda fun tbh) but bills coming out my ears and I am down to mere £20 to last me 10 days and still bills to pay anyone know how I can make quick cash to tide me over? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely speaking to your employer would be the best place to start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we knew, we'd all be out doing it |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Speak to your employer, family and friends. Go and see Citizen's Advice and get help to prioritise the bills as £20 isn't going to cover paying anything if you need to eat.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely speaking to your employer would be the best place to start "
I tried but he said I have to wait till pay day |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Speak to your employer, family and friends. Go and see Citizen's Advice and get help to prioritise the bills as £20 isn't going to cover paying anything if you need to eat.
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I did and they said I need to get a second imcome |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
What happened to the flatmates?
Or are they living in the car too?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely speaking to your employer would be the best place to start
I tried but he said I have to wait till pay day "
When's pay day? |
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Nice boss ..  . no one at work help? try the * couch surfing app * .. may help |
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My advice would be chat to your work mates , they might over to help out maybe some might over to put you up for a few days . you will soon find out if your working for mates or assholes . don't go to easy cash as you will never get out of it and try the CAB . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My flatmates are were unused to live and 10 days till I get my final pay slip from last employer but that will only be about £100 my next full pay is the 12th next month |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must be a big car to have flat mates  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Come on guys be serious I don't need accommodation I just need a cash in hand deal but can't think of any |
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"2 weeks ago I moved to Newcastle to start a new job which is fine but I'm living in my car (which is kinda fun tbh) but bills coming out my ears and I am down to mere £20 to last me 10 days and still bills to pay anyone know how I can make quick cash to tide me over? "
sound like u boss is a arse. Why would u move to a job without securing accommodation. Try getting a job delivery like pitza or Indian or Chinese. Get paid and eat and u already in your car. So winwin
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rates are ridiculous but if your really stuck apply for a payday loan?
Bar selling your body, cant think of much else!
And what did happen to your flatmates? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go to an employment agency that send people out daily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bet your £20 on this being a bogus thread.
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Sell ya car and kip in the canteen  |
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What bills are you paying if living in a car?
Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What bills are you paying if living in a car?
Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc?"
and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"What bills are you paying if living in a car?
Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc? and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had"
You have sky in your car?? 
Flash bugger!
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"What bills are you paying if living in a car?
Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc?
and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had"
So these are bills that have built up or you're still technically living in a house somewhere? |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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Could ypu sublet the boot or take a lodger? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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*sigh* •_• |
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"What bills are you paying if living in a car?
Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc? and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had
You have sky in your car??
Flash bugger!
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where does he say he has sky in his car? I thought the "all from what I had" made it obvious  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is internet gold.
Find a sugar momma... I heard Cougars will pay big money for a fine young man like yourself.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Still technically living there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we knew, we'd all be out doing it "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So if you're technically living there. Go and actually live there if you're still paying |
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"What bills are you paying if living in a car?
Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc? and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had
You have sky in your car??
Flash bugger!
Awhere does he say he has sky in his car? I thought the "all from what I had" made it obvious "
I took that just as "all coming from my money", etc, but then again, I'm hungry and tired.
But seriously, speak to C.A.B and your bank. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So if you're technically living there. Go and actually live there if you're still paying "
its 70miles away..... |
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"So if you're technically living there. Go and actually live there if you're still paying "
House is probably too far from the new job if he's decided to live out of his car.
So what's the long term plan? Because this arrangement clearly isn't going to be able to last long. |
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Bar work.. auxiliary nurse . care home assistant massuer - there are obviously other things that could be suggested but not risking putting that on the page.
Lastly Parents !! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Still technically living there"
But if you're no longer living there - as you say you're in your car - then your priority financially should be food and fuel to get to work.
Worst case if you don't pay the sky/Internet/phone bills? They switch off the supply.
Which won't affect you as you're not there anymore.
Concentrate on the immediate priorities.
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"What bills are you paying if living in a car?
Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc? and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had
You have sky in your car??
Flash bugger!
Awhere does he say he has sky in his car? I thought the "all from what I had" made it obvious
I took that just as "all coming from my money", etc, but then again, I'm hungry and tired.
But seriously, speak to C.A.B and your bank."
maybe I'm reading the thread wrong but I thought it said he's not looking for accommodation but having to pay bills that have mounted up from where he lived before, does look like I'm in the minority though
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Temporary bank overdraft, credit card? There's always options |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"What bills are you paying if living in a car?
Or is it tax/insurance/petrol, etc? and sky and internet and phone bill..... All from what I had
You have sky in your car??
Flash bugger!
Awhere does he say he has sky in his car? I thought the "all from what I had" made it obvious "
It was a joke! 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As soon as I get paid nxt month get into accommodation go from there |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
Do you have anything you can pawn or sell? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I am guessing people missed the bit where he said he has moved area and why he is in a car. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Other than myself no not in my car anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So wank banks pay? |
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If you ring sky and phone people and explain the situation and youve been a reliable customer before they will suspend your account for a while. I know a lot of people who have done that when out of work or off sick for a while and struggled to pay bills. Or ask them how much it will be to buy out of your contract , get cut off then dodge the payment for a bit till you get on your feet. |
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"Still technically living there
But if you're no longer living there - as you say you're in your car - then your priority financially should be food and fuel to get to work.
Worst case if you don't pay the sky/Internet/phone bills? They switch off the supply.
Which won't affect you as you're not there anymore.
Concentrate on the immediate priorities.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sell the car ... simples"
the where do I sleep?...
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"Do you have anything you can pawn or sell?"
Desperate times, desperate measures. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Still technically living there
But if you're no longer living there - as you say you're in your car - then your priority financially should be food and fuel to get to work.
Worst case if you don't pay the sky/Internet/phone bills? They switch off the supply.
Which won't affect you as you're not there anymore.
Concentrate on the immediate priorities.
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They won't be able to chase you immediately.
This all reminds me of a travelling poster who ended up in Devon.
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Sell sperm, apparently there's a shortage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can you clarify why you would move to another area and job without sorting place to stay first makes no sense at all naieve or stupid or both? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
I think there are companies that loan money against your car but you need to be very careful you can pay it back or they will take your car away.
You need to ask your parents or family to help you out for a week or two....good luck xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Still technically living there
But if you're no longer living there - as you say you're in your car - then your priority financially should be food and fuel to get to work.
Worst case if you don't pay the sky/Internet/phone bills? They switch off the supply.
Which won't affect you as you're not there anymore.
Concentrate on the immediate priorities.
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They won't be able to chase you immediately.
This all reminds me of a travelling poster who ended up in Devon.
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Will do cheers |
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"Can you clarify why you would move to another area and job without sorting place to stay first makes no sense at all naieve or stupid or both?"
With the jobs market the way it is, some people have to do what they can and go where the work is. Plus, what if he paid out, sorted accomodation and moved only for the job to fall through?
I once moved 300 miles away for a job but was lucky enough to be able to stay with friends until I got accomodation sorted. |
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"Sell the car ... simples the where do I sleep?..."
In the canteen. re my post earlier |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think there are companies that loan money against your car but you need to be very careful you can pay it back or they will take your car away.
You need to ask your parents or family to help you out for a week or two....good luck xx"
No family unfortunately |
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"Can you clarify why you would move to another area and job without sorting place to stay first makes no sense at all naieve or stupid or both?"
was you never 20? I did far stupider things
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Another reason I was hoping for meets to relieve some stress haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another reason I was hoping for meets to relieve some stress haha"
How could you think about sex at a time like this?
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"I think there are companies that loan money against your car but you need to be very careful you can pay it back or they will take your car away.
You need to ask your parents or family to help you out for a week or two....good luck xx
No family unfortunately "
How about an emergency loan from DWP given that you have just started a new job they should be willing to help you out? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps spending a fiver to become a site supporter wasn't the best life choice! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What happened to the flatmates
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I thought this |
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As a poster mentioned earlier, contact all the people you owe money to and explain that you are in between jobs, with a break in your income. Tell them you are suspending making any further payments until your new salary commences, when you will put a payment plan in place to clear any arrears. So long as you communicate with these companies you should be ok. But if you stop paying and stop communicating it will harm your credit rating. |
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Try for some cash in hand jobs.. like labourer for a builder... or bar work.. or washer upper... how about car valeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another reason I was hoping for meets to relieve some stress haha
How could you think about sex at a time like this?
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Free bed for the night maybe |
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"As a poster mentioned earlier, contact all the people you owe money to and explain that you are in between jobs, with a break in your income. Tell them you are suspending making any further payments until your new salary commences, when you will put a payment plan in place to clear any arrears. So long as you communicate with these companies you should be ok. But if you stop paying and stop communicating it will harm your credit rating."
This, and do you have any friends who could lend you money for food and fuel until you get sorted? |
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I could of adopted you but I don't live in newcastle |
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Sorry OP but this whole thread just does not read true to me. What's really going on? What do you really want? |
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By *ricerMan
over a year ago
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"I think there are companies that loan money against your car but you need to be very careful you can pay it back or they will take your car away.
You need to ask your parents or family to help you out for a week or two....good luck xx
No family unfortunately
How about an emergency loan from DWP given that you have just started a new job they should be willing to help you out?"
Sounds ideal, but Dwp take the piss - an emergency loan is £7 - be better off staying in the car!! Looking round the bars for a casual job is probably the best bet until you can get sorted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get down the docks and turn some tricks for the sailors. Worked for Blackadder when he had the Bishop of Bath and Wells on his case |
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"Another reason I was hoping for meets to relieve some stress haha"
Where are you showering?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A gym |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Sorry OP but this whole thread just does not read true to me. What's really going on? What do you really want?"
A zigazig ha ?  
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"Sorry OP but this whole thread just does not read true to me. What's really going on? What do you really want?
A zigazig ha ?
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Medical trials.
Some range from £100 to £1000. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A gym"
So u can afford a gym subscription yet asking to survive on 20 quid.
This is getting more suss |
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All these jobs that people are suggesting, do any of them really pay cash in hand on a daily basis? Because it sounds like that's what he's asking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sell stuff, pawn stuff, car boot sale stuff, eBay. There's ways to make a bit of cash if you're as desperate as you claim.
Been there done it. |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
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"This is internet gold.
Find a sugar momma... I heard Cougars will pay big money for a fine young man like yourself. "
LooooooooooooL
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Look guys before commenting READ THIS I decided to stay in car incase job fell through out of the money I had I secured a few necessary minimums eg washing of clothes and shower and I am ask for help as I'm down to £20 and can't make it stretch you don't think it is humiliating enough to have no money or food that I have to ask people on a sex website for help..... thank you to everyone who has helped me I will contact the company's tomorrow |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look guys before commenting READ THIS I decided to stay in car incase job fell through out of the money I had I secured a few necessary minimums eg washing of clothes and shower and I am ask for help as I'm down to £20 and can't make it stretch you don't think it is humiliating enough to have no money or food that I have to ask people on a sex website for help..... thank you to everyone who has helped me I will contact the company's tomorrow "
Find a local soup kitchen or food bank. They will help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sub let the room in your flat?
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"Look guys before commenting READ THIS I decided to stay in car incase job fell through out of the money I had I secured a few necessary minimums eg washing of clothes and shower and I am ask for help as I'm down to £20 and can't make it stretch you don't think it is humiliating enough to have no money or food that I have to ask people on a sex website for help..... thank you to everyone who has helped me I will contact the company's tomorrow
Find a local soup kitchen or food bank. They will help. "
The food bank will only give food if you have a voucher from a doctor, social worker etc. See a gp and explain your situation they can give you a food bank voucher, once at the food bank explain that you have no cooking facilities and they will try and give you three days worth of food that can be eaten without being cooked. If you don't have a tin opener tell them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sub let the room in your flat?
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He hasnt got a flat. Hes living in a car |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Other than myself no not in my car anyway"
I would sell My car.
Use that money for accommodation until I got my next decent wage slip.
Then I'd rely on public transport as long as i could live and eat.
Get a new job and buy a car again.
Maybe I'm being fucking thick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look guys before commenting READ THIS I decided to stay in car incase job fell through out of the money I had I secured a few necessary minimums eg washing of clothes and shower and I am ask for help as I'm down to £20 and can't make it stretch you don't think it is humiliating enough to have no money or food that I have to ask people on a sex website for help..... thank you to everyone who has helped me I will contact the company's tomorrow
Find a local soup kitchen or food bank. They will help.
The food bank will only give food if you have a voucher from a doctor, social worker etc. See a gp and explain your situation they can give you a food bank voucher, once at the food bank explain that you have no cooking facilities and they will try and give you three days worth of food that can be eaten without being cooked. If you don't have a tin opener tell them."
Never knew that. And thanks for explaining x |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"As a poster mentioned earlier, contact all the people you owe money to and explain that you are in between jobs, with a break in your income. Tell them you are suspending making any further payments until your new salary commences, when you will put a payment plan in place to clear any arrears. So long as you communicate with these companies you should be ok. But if you stop paying and stop communicating it will harm your credit rating."
In addition to the above advice, if you are making the payments by direct debit stop the direct debates otherwise you bank will add failed payment charges to your account.
Main thing is talk to the people you owe money to.
Most will try to help. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Other than myself no not in my car anyway
I would sell My car.
Use that money for accommodation until I got my next decent wage slip.
Then I'd rely on public transport as long as i could live and eat.
Get a new job and buy a car again.
Maybe I'm being fucking thick. "
The car is NOT for sale for reason I don't have to explain on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What are you actually after op
People have gave you some great information on this thread
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Other than myself no not in my car anyway
I would sell My car.
Use that money for accommodation until I got my next decent wage slip.
Then I'd rely on public transport as long as i could live and eat.
Get a new job and buy a car again.
Maybe I'm being fucking thick.
The car is NOT for sale for reason I don't have to explain on here"
Dude.
If I was THAT desperate, I would sell my car in a heartbeat.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"Other than myself no not in my car anyway
I would sell My car.
Use that money for accommodation until I got my next decent wage slip.
Then I'd rely on public transport as long as i could live and eat.
Get a new job and buy a car again.
Maybe I'm being fucking thick.
The car is NOT for sale for reason I don't have to explain on here
Dude.
If I was THAT desperate, I would sell my car in a heartbeat.
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But not possible if you don't actually own the car...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And I'm taking that advice |
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Are you asking for advice or are you asking for money? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've had plenty of suggestions but seem to be shooting them down...........not much point in asking for help only to dismiss advice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Other than myself no not in my car anyway
I would sell My car.
Use that money for accommodation until I got my next decent wage slip.
Then I'd rely on public transport as long as i could live and eat.
Get a new job and buy a car again.
Maybe I'm being fucking thick.
The car is NOT for sale for reason I don't have to explain on here
Dude.
If I was THAT desperate, I would sell my car in a heartbeat.
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But not possible if you don't actually own the car...
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Well unless I'm blind or can't read he said it's his car.
In any case.
He has options. |
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Cash in hand jobs, let's think,
Bar work possibly, early morning cleaning, check out the take away outlets round you, do they require leaflets to be door dropped? Also ask if they need delivery drivers.
As its been mentioned on the thread already, contacting your debtors and explaining your situation could possibly delay any further DDs until your in a position to start paying again.
Good luck OP  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not im walking round town trying to find cash in hand job and tomorrow I am speaking to bank how is this dismissing advice? |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Other than myself no not in my car anyway
I would sell My car.
Use that money for accommodation until I got my next decent wage slip.
Then I'd rely on public transport as long as i could live and eat.
Get a new job and buy a car again.
Maybe I'm being fucking thick.
The car is NOT for sale for reason I don't have to explain on here
Dude.
If I was THAT desperate, I would sell my car in a heartbeat.
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But not possible if you don't actually own the car...
Well unless I'm blind or can't read he said it's his car.
In any case.
He has options. "
He does, if he can see them.
I say my car is mine but it in, in fact, leased. I can't sell it.
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"You've had plenty of suggestions but seem to be shooting them down...........not much point in asking for help only to dismiss advice"
He has thanked those that have given good suggestions, don't think he has shot down all of them. |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Are you asking for advice or are you asking for money? "
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"Look guys before commenting READ THIS I decided to stay in car incase job fell through out of the money I had I secured a few necessary minimums eg washing of clothes and shower and I am ask for help as I'm down to £20 and can't make it stretch you don't think it is humiliating enough to have no money or food that I have to ask people on a sex website for help..... thank you to everyone who has helped me I will contact the company's tomorrow
Find a local soup kitchen or food bank. They will help.
The food bank will only give food if you have a voucher from a doctor, social worker etc. See a gp and explain your situation they can give you a food bank voucher, once at the food bank explain that you have no cooking facilities and they will try and give you three days worth of food that can be eaten without being cooked. If you don't have a tin opener tell them.
Never knew that. And thanks for explaining x"
Lots of people think you just turn up and they dish out food, it isn't so. I was explaining for the op really but glad you found it informative |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Street corner...red light? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look guys before commenting READ THIS I decided to stay in car incase job fell through out of the money I had I secured a few necessary minimums eg washing of clothes and shower and I am ask for help as I'm down to £20 and can't make it stretch you don't think it is humiliating enough to have no money or food that I have to ask people on a sex website for help..... thank you to everyone who has helped me I will contact the company's tomorrow
Find a local soup kitchen or food bank. They will help.
The food bank will only give food if you have a voucher from a doctor, social worker etc. See a gp and explain your situation they can give you a food bank voucher, once at the food bank explain that you have no cooking facilities and they will try and give you three days worth of food that can be eaten without being cooked. If you don't have a tin opener tell them.
Never knew that. And thanks for explaining x
Lots of people think you just turn up and they dish out food, it isn't so. I was explaining for the op really but glad you found it informative "
I gave bad advice now i know the truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've had plenty of suggestions but seem to be shooting them down...........not much point in asking for help only to dismiss advice
He has thanked those that have given good suggestions, don't think he has shot down all of them. "
I'm just thinking that if I were as desperate as things are being described. If consider all options available. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You've had plenty of suggestions but seem to be shooting them down...........not much point in asking for help only to dismiss advice
He has thanked those that have given good suggestions, don't think he has shot down all of them.
I'm just thinking that if I were as desperate as things are being described. If consider all options available. "
I would be too |
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"You've had plenty of suggestions but seem to be shooting them down...........not much point in asking for help only to dismiss advice
He has thanked those that have given good suggestions, don't think he has shot down all of them.
I'm just thinking that if I were as desperate as things are being described. If consider all options available. "
And he says he's taking steps, he's walking around town looking for cash in hand jobs, going to see his bank tomorrow, he's already spoke to his employer, he can't sell his car as he's living in it!
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
You keep mentioning something that isn't allowed on the site even though I keep taking them off so I am going to shut this now. |
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