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Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?
My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same  |
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over a year ago
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No.....definitely not healthy.
Nothing wrong with an occasional wank....but in preference to sex....that is soooooo wrong.
He needs counselling/professional help? |
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over a year ago
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well I don't want to sound judgemental or generalizing but if the women have let themselves go,(and half the women in the UK now over weight) then what can they expect. Personally I love a good wank, I can be anywhere, with anyone, do anything. Maybe its an age thing with me, when I was younger I was fucking everything, all night long, but not anymore |
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"Well girls can answer too!
Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?
My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same "
I get nothing from a sad, lonely wank on my own. 
If I loved it I would never leave the house! |
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"well I don't want to sound judgemental or generalizing but if the women have let themselves go,(and half the women in the UK now over weight) then what can they expect. Personally I love a good wank, I can be anywhere, with anyone, do anything. Maybe its an age thing with me, when I was younger I was fucking everything, all night long, but not anymore "
You do sound judgemental and you have generalised  |
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"Well girls can answer too!
Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?
My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! "
To physically leave the room and wank rather than have sex with her is odd.
Wanking in the presence of her on tits, face etc etc.
Well that's normal.
I like penetrative sex but its overrated imo.
I prefer loads of foreplay and filth.
You're not giving enough info though....
Are you saying he won't engage with her at all?... |
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"well I don't want to sound judgemental or generalizing but if the women have let themselves go,(and half the women in the UK now over weight) then what can they expect. Personally I love a good wank, I can be anywhere, with anyone, do anything. Maybe its an age thing with me, when I was younger I was fucking everything, all night long, but not anymore
You do sound judgemental and you have generalised "
I was just thinking that |
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"well I don't want to sound judgemental or generalizing but if the women have let themselves go,(and half the women in the UK now over weight) then what can they expect. Personally I love a good wank, I can be anywhere, with anyone, do anything. Maybe its an age thing with me, when I was younger I was fucking everything, all night long, but not anymore "
67% of men and 57% of women are overweight or obese in the UK. By your logic, perhaps the OP's friends and his mates are the ones who are too fat to fuck. |
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"well I don't want to sound judgemental or generalizing but if the women have let themselves go,(and half the women in the UK now over weight) then what can they expect. Personally I love a good wank, I can be anywhere, with anyone, do anything. Maybe its an age thing with me, when I was younger I was fucking everything, all night long, but not anymore
67% of men and 57% of women are overweight or obese in the UK. By your logic, perhaps the OP's friends and his mates are the ones who are too fat to fuck. "
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"Men like a wank. Nothing wrong with that, but a guy should always be preferring sex I think. Wanting to be with a woman should be the number one thing on any man's list."
Unless he's gay |
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"well I don't want to sound judgemental or generalizing but if the women have let themselves go,(and half the women in the UK now over weight) then what can they expect. Personally I love a good wank, I can be anywhere, with anyone, do anything. Maybe its an age thing with me, when I was younger I was fucking everything, all night long, but not anymore
67% of men and 57% of women are overweight or obese in the UK. By your logic, perhaps the OP's friends and his mates are the ones who are too fat to fuck. "
Ooh I like it!!! |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"well I don't want to sound judgemental or generalizing but if the women have let themselves go,(and half the women in the UK now over weight) then what can they expect. Personally I love a good wank, I can be anywhere, with anyone, do anything. Maybe its an age thing with me, when I was younger I was fucking everything, all night long, but not anymore
67% of men and 57% of women are overweight or obese in the UK. By your logic, perhaps the OP's friends and his mates are the ones who are too fat to fuck. "
Well pointed out!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well girls can answer too!
Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?
My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same "
must be mayhem at bed time having hubby and his wankin in ya toilet  |
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"well I don't want to sound judgemental or generalizing but if the women have let themselves go,(and half the women in the UK now over weight) then what can they expect. Personally I love a good wank, I can be anywhere, with anyone, do anything. Maybe its an age thing with me, when I was younger I was fucking everything, all night long, but not anymore
67% of men and 57% of women are overweight or obese in the UK. By your logic, perhaps the OP's friends and his mates are the ones who are too fat to fuck.
Well pointed out!! "
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"Well girls can answer too!
Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?
My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same "
Has she gotten morbidly obease since they got together? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex with the same person can get boring after a time. It could be his fault or her fault But if he prefers wanking , and obviously letting her know about it, than having sex with her then something is missing between them.
If it's just the occasional time then I'd think nothing was wrong , if it was every time and they no longer have sex then there's obviously a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well girls can answer too!
Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?
My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same
Has she gotten morbidly obease since they got together?"
I don't get the suggestion that it is her fault. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well girls can answer too!
Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?
My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same
Has she gotten morbidly obease since they got together?
I don't get the suggestion that it is her fault. "
Because we always assume if a man doesn't want sex, it must be the woman's fault because all men are supposed to want sex all of the time and if they don't then the Mrs must be to blame. Funnily enough, if a woman doesn't want sex, it's also her fault. |
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"Well girls can answer too!
Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?
My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same
Has she gotten morbidly obease since they got together?
I don't get the suggestion that it is her fault.
Because we always assume if a man doesn't want sex, it must be the woman's fault because all men are supposed to want sex all of the time and if they don't then the Mrs must be to blame. Funnily enough, if a woman doesn't want sex, it's also her fault. "
I find that works in all aspects of life. If in doubt, blame the woman! |
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"Well girls can answer too!
Is it normal for guys to prefer wanking over sex?
My friends fella rather wank and often goes to the toilet and has a wank before bed rather that get it on with her! I've tried to say that's not normal but she says his are mates are the same
Has she gotten morbidly obease since they got together?
I don't get the suggestion that it is her fault. "
It's not possible cause you said in your previous post it could be her fault or his and implied that it was because the sex is "boring".
Usually it's something more than boredom either emotional or physical. As a wank is still pretty routine but people don't stop doing it because they get bored. |
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"well I don't want to sound judgemental or generalizing but if the women have let themselves go,(and half the women in the UK now over weight) then what can they expect. Personally I love a good wank, I can be anywhere, with anyone, do anything. Maybe its an age thing with me, when I was younger I was fucking everything, all night long, but not anymore "
Good point - but aren't almost half the men in the UK overweight too?? |
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"I thought every man would rather have sex than wank  "
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True..but it does depends on with whom is he having sex with.
Sometimes it's not so fun (for anybody) when it's a chore ..
It can be normal for an individual (man or woman) but i don't think it's normal for the relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck no lmao I'd rather have sex any day no better feeling that inside a nice wet pussy lol how can a hand be better than that obv he's too used to wanking off to enjoy pussy or something else going lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was a blow job rather than sex I could understand. He might be a lazy fucker and just want a quick release so he can sleep. Sex is too energetic for some men. Does he have a demanding job? Does he still kiss and cuddle her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't think of anything more degrading to a woman's confidence than her husband or partner favouring a wank in the toilet over playing with her  "
Maybe this is why loads of guys on here have pics with there dick over the toilet  |
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"well I don't want to sound judgemental or generalizing but if the women have let themselves go,(and half the women in the UK now over weight) then what can they expect. Personally I love a good wank, I can be anywhere, with anyone, do anything. Maybe its an age thing with me, when I was younger I was fucking everything, all night long, but not anymore
Good point - but aren't almost half the men in the UK overweight too?? "
Too true, most are too fat to fuck with the light on, your not though   |
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I don't think it's normal but I've been there too. My ex used to wank in bed watching porn on the laptop whilst I was asleep next to him. Caught him several times and he was always 'really sorry and won't do it again'  I found it very hurtful. Most of the time we did have an interesting and varied sex life and as for being 'too fat to fuck', I was my biggest when we met and I lost weight during our relationship.
He was also rubbish at hiding the fact he'd had a sneaky wank as I'd find tissues and loo roll next to the bed and on the computer desk!
One of many reasons I ultimately had enough and called it a day. |
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"Usually it's something more than boredom either emotional or physical. As a wank is still pretty routine but people don't stop doing it because they get bored."
I don't. I find it boring because there's no mental aspect or another person.
I'd love to be able to express this part of myself more.
I just simply enjoy those aspects as much as the physical. |
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"I don't think it's normal but I've been there too. My ex used to wank in bed watching porn on the laptop whilst I was asleep next to him. Caught him several times and he was always 'really sorry and won't do it again' I found it very hurtful. Most of the time we did have an interesting and varied sex life and as for being 'too fat to fuck', I was my biggest when we met and I lost weight during our relationship.
He was also rubbish at hiding the fact he'd had a sneaky wank as I'd find tissues and loo roll next to the bed and on the computer desk!
One of many reasons I ultimately had enough and called it a day. "
So you'd have been happier if we woke you up? |
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"Usually it's something more than boredom either emotional or physical. As a wank is still pretty routine but people don't stop doing it because they get bored.
I don't. I find it boring because there's no mental aspect or another person.
I'd love to be able to express this part of myself more.
I just simply enjoy those aspects as much as the physical. "
Then go talk to your wife. |
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"Usually it's something more than boredom either emotional or physical. As a wank is still pretty routine but people don't stop doing it because they get bored.
I don't. I find it boring because there's no mental aspect or another person.
I'd love to be able to express this part of myself more.
I just simply enjoy those aspects as much as the physical.
Then go talk to your wife."
Oh why didn't he think of that? Of course, it's always that simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Usually it's something more than boredom either emotional or physical. As a wank is still pretty routine but people don't stop doing it because they get bored.
I don't. I find it boring because there's no mental aspect or another person.
I'd love to be able to express this part of myself more.
I just simply enjoy those aspects as much as the physical.
Then go talk to your wife.
Oh why didn't he think of that? Of course, it's always that simple. "
Leading a long term series of affairs is easier than talking to your partner? |
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"Usually it's something more than boredom either emotional or physical. As a wank is still pretty routine but people don't stop doing it because they get bored.
I don't. I find it boring because there's no mental aspect or another person.
I'd love to be able to express this part of myself more.
I just simply enjoy those aspects as much as the physical.
Then go talk to your wife.
Oh why didn't he think of that? Of course, it's always that simple.
Leading a long term series of affairs is easier than talking to your partner?"
In some cases it probably is. In others the talking may have already taken place. Point is, you don't know and I don't know, so why the need to pop up spouting ill-informed and not-asked-for "advice" to all and sundry? |
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"I don't think it's normal but I've been there too. My ex used to wank in bed watching porn on the laptop whilst I was asleep next to him. Caught him several times and he was always 'really sorry and won't do it again' I found it very hurtful. Most of the time we did have an interesting and varied sex life and as for being 'too fat to fuck', I was my biggest when we met and I lost weight during our relationship.
He was also rubbish at hiding the fact he'd had a sneaky wank as I'd find tissues and loo roll next to the bed and on the computer desk!
One of many reasons I ultimately had enough and called it a day.
So you'd have been happier if we woke you up?"
Yes I actually told him on the first occasion or two that I'd rather he woke me for sex if he was horny! |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"I can't think of anything more degrading to a woman's confidence than her husband or partner favouring a wank in the toilet over playing with her "
Well said.
Mr _d40 says you dont keep a dog & bark yourself. Total wanker.
But seriously masturbation is for when you have been knocked back, not when the mrs is in bed! Bad boy get on the naughty step!
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe he feels his wife is stressed and tired with the pressures of being a mum/housewife holding down a day job etc etc. Rather than adding to that stress by her husband wanting sex when all she wants is some rest, he decided to masturbate rather than have an affair or harbour resentment about an unsatisfactory sex life... |
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By *eithoWoman
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My ex was like this. He'd knock one out before I got back from work, knowing full well I'd possibly be wanting sex later on. The when I tried to initiate something he'd tell me he had a low sex drive.
A counsellor friend said he may have had a problem with porn use. When I challenged him he said he didn't have the energy for sex. Even so, it made me feel like crap. Constant rejection isn't fun. |
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