I want this bloke i have a crush on...
We arrange to meet he cancels & makes an excuse...
Ive told him if he wants me to leave him alone i will but he says he still wants me. He says he wants fun but never has time to meet. How can i seduce him lol 
This has been going on for 5months, i have met him 3 times but we have only kissed x |
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"I do feel like hes using me, but is it bad that i just wanna sleep with him 
I think i like the chase more x"
I think you're right, and no, it is not bad that you want to sleep with him. It just might not be the best thing for you in the long run. |
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"I do feel like hes using me, but is it bad that i just wanna sleep with him
I think i like the chase more x"
No its not bad you desire him but why settle for it,
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If you just want to sleep with him, then do so if the opportunity arises. Meet with him if you want to, and if it's convenient for you - fuck him if you want to if and when it happens. Just don't waste your life waiting. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"He doesn't want you.
I'm not so sure.
It sounds more like a married man who does want to sleep with her, but can't handle the guilt of cheating."
There seems to be a growing trend lately that if a man doesn't want to do something he must be married.
He may just not want her and is not man enough to say so as he knows she has a crush. |
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"If you just want to sleep with him, then do so if the opportunity arises. Meet with him if you want to, and if it's convenient for you - fuck him if you want to if and when it happens. Just don't waste your life waiting."
Good advice |
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"He doesn't want you.
I'm not so sure.
It sounds more like a married man who does want to sleep with her, but can't handle the guilt of cheating.
There seems to be a growing trend lately that if a man doesn't want to do something he must be married.
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I thought this too |
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There seems to be a growing trend lately that if a man doesn't want to do something he must be married.
He may just not want her and is not man enough to say so as he knows she has a crush."
Possibly, just putting forward my ha'pennysworth
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Hes not married, but spilt from a long term relationship. He keeps telling me its been 10months since he's been with someone. Its like he's scared but I do think he is fobbing me off. Every time I walk away he still messages me. |
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"He doesn't want you.
I'm not so sure.
It sounds more like a married man who does want to sleep with her, but can't handle the guilt of cheating.
There seems to be a growing trend lately that if a man doesn't want to do something he must be married.
He may just not want her and is not man enough to say so as he knows she has a crush."
Kind of the swingers equivalent of "she's a lesbo" |
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"Hes not married, but spilt from a long term relationship. He keeps telling me its been 10months since he's been with someone. Its like he's scared but I do think he is fobbing me off. Every time I walk away he still messages me. "
Either way I would say he is not being totally honest with you, so you must look out for yourself. You owe yourself that.
Sorry I can't be of more help, but I know when to back out gracefully... |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"I want this bloke i have a crush on...
We arrange to meet he cancels & makes an excuse...
Ive told him if he wants me to leave him alone i will but he says he still wants me. He says he wants fun but never has time to meet. How can i seduce him lol
This has been going on for 5months, i have met him 3 times but we have only kissed x"
5 months? I wouldn't give him 5 minutes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Pause. Take a deep breath.
Don't let yourself get caught up in his games, unless you want to be.
It's either a knowing game, playing you coz he knows you have a crush on him. It could be a subconscious reliance on you for the same reason or because you are a good listener. Or else he knows you are in the bag and doesn't have to make an effort!
Whatever it is it's a game!
Play along if you are happy to but do it with your eyes open.
Otherwise start to step back from him. Take longer times to answer his messages. Don't always be available when he wants to meet.
If you want to, tell him that you are fed of messing around.
Be prepared to lose him but at least you'll know where you'll stand |
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"I am starting to think that  "
He is playing you keeping his options open , in case one Friday or Saturday night he can't find anyone better
I know as I do the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I want this bloke i have a crush on...
We arrange to meet he cancels & makes an excuse...
Ive told him if he wants me to leave him alone i will but he says he still wants me. He says he wants fun but never has time to meet. How can i seduce him lol
This has been going on for
5months, i have met him 3 times but we have only kissed x"
Weird but maybe he's shy or not sure how much u like him? |
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This is pretty normal for a "Normal" non swing relationship. I take things slow and steady with people.
I don't expect them to wait, but when they shack up with someone 4 months later I always think I did the right thing going slow.
I go slow when I am swinging too, seen too many people shack up with someone they didnt know and regret it. I have no regrets.
Anyway if you move fast and just want sex then hes not a match. |
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Is he married?
I wouldn't chase him if he wasn't interested and meeting 3 times in 5 months is insane.
Sounds like he is married and/or maybe just wants to be your friend only. |
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If he is a messer,why even bother... He has plenty of time,loads chances...Your more into him then he is into you so,free yourself ,your time,etc and crack on with meeting guys who CAN deliver..
He has just wasted your time thus far
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