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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have this male friend, I have some horrid deep feelings for him. I'm kind of throwing myself a little bit into the Fab scene at the moment to distract myself a bit, and even though I'm having fun I can't help but think of him. I had a social the other night, had a brilliant time, but when I got home at the end of the night all I wanted to do was to talk to him, all tipsy and a little emotional.
Sorry, just needed a little rant... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It won't work. I had my ex moithering me (got deep feelings for him too) and i found i went off fucking other guys because of the feelings, i think it's natural. Just asked him tonight not to contact me again because i wanna forget about him.
I'd say tell him how you feel and work on something dependent on his answer to that. Good luck, is hard work having feelings. Wish i was an emotional zombie sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It won't work. I had my ex moithering me (got deep feelings for him too) and i found i went off fucking other guys because of the feelings, i think it's natural. Just asked him tonight not to contact me again because i wanna forget about him.
I'd say tell him how you feel and work on something dependent on his answer to that. Good luck, is hard work having feelings. Wish i was an emotional zombie sometimes."
Yeah, I don't think throwing myself at other people is gonna work! It's tricky, we had something casual when he was single, I've joined him and his gf a couple of times but she's put a stop to it cos she can see we're too into each other.
Just under a year now I think, since we became proper friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It won't work. I had my ex moithering me (got deep feelings for him too) and i found i went off fucking other guys because of the feelings, i think it's natural. Just asked him tonight not to contact me again because i wanna forget about him.
I'd say tell him how you feel and work on something dependent on his answer to that. Good luck, is hard work having feelings. Wish i was an emotional zombie sometimes.
Yeah, I don't think throwing myself at other people is gonna work! It's tricky, we had something casual when he was single, I've joined him and his gf a couple of times but she's put a stop to it cos she can see we're too into each other.
Just under a year now I think, since we became proper friends."
Might honestly be better to break it off with him completely. I'm friends with some of my exes but finding it too hard being friends with this one, and it is down to having feelings for him. I just need to forget about him and get on with my life, which i was doing until he contacted me 5 weeks ago.
I know you haven't done anything with your guy but i figure you probably feel the same way i do about him as i do my ex. Only thing that'll work for me is cutting him dead, so the feelings don't return. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It won't work. I had my ex moithering me (got deep feelings for him too) and i found i went off fucking other guys because of the feelings, i think it's natural. Just asked him tonight not to contact me again because i wanna forget about him.
I'd say tell him how you feel and work on something dependent on his answer to that. Good luck, is hard work having feelings. Wish i was an emotional zombie sometimes.
Yeah, I don't think throwing myself at other people is gonna work! It's tricky, we had something casual when he was single, I've joined him and his gf a couple of times but she's put a stop to it cos she can see we're too into each other.
Just under a year now I think, since we became proper friends."
He's not into you or he would be with you.
Stop dreaming about what ' could be ' and move on find your own man. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"why not tell him how you feel..?
He's not single
Then he's no go end off.
It's a crush we all get them and it will pass. x"
I know, I'm not willing to screw up another's relationship x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It won't work. I had my ex moithering me (got deep feelings for him too) and i found i went off fucking other guys because of the feelings, i think it's natural. Just asked him tonight not to contact me again because i wanna forget about him.
I'd say tell him how you feel and work on something dependent on his answer to that. Good luck, is hard work having feelings. Wish i was an emotional zombie sometimes.
Yeah, I don't think throwing myself at other people is gonna work! It's tricky, we had something casual when he was single, I've joined him and his gf a couple of times but she's put a stop to it cos she can see we're too into each other.
Just under a year now I think, since we became proper friends.
He's not into you or he would be with you.
Stop dreaming about what ' could be ' and move on find your own man. "
I love that! Thank you for the lack of mollycoddling  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know just how you feel.
When you find someone that satisfies all five Senses. ( so rear ) Its hard to get over it.
Really hard.. Doesn't help that I'm stubborn & find it hard to make the first move after a misunderstanding.
You try others hoping it will help.. But it doesn't really.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aww bless you hun. I know that feeling all too well but thankfully im well over it but there will always be that little regret deep down.
It wont be easy tho. If you were like me it took years to be completely over him.
Big hug from me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Aww bless you hun. I know that feeling all too well but thankfully im well over it but there will always be that little regret deep down.
It wont be easy tho. If you were like me it took years to be completely over him.
Big hug from me."
Thanks for the hug guess I'm just gonna have to push on and get on with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aww bless you hun. I know that feeling all too well but thankfully im well over it but there will always be that little regret deep down.
It wont be easy tho. If you were like me it took years to be completely over him.
Big hug from me.
Thanks for the hug guess I'm just gonna have to push on and get on with it."
I know its a ball ache but just do what you need to do.
For me it was listening to depressing music. Which probably made it worse tbh. |
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By *exyLilMinxWoman
over a year ago
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It looks s though, if you had something casual before he met his girlfriend, and now he is with her,that he chose her to be in a relationship with, so best to move on or you'll get hurt. Maybe the "best way to get over a man is to get under another another man" concept is not for you, as you have suggested in your post. Moving on doesnt necessarily (I spelt that wrong) going with other men, as it isn't in your heart right now to do that. Just try to focus on other things, spend time with friends, focus on hobbies or work, but foget him |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It looks s though, if you had something casual before he met his girlfriend, and now he is with her,that he chose her to be in a relationship with, so best to move on or you'll get hurt. Maybe the "best way to get over a man is to get under another another man" concept is not for you, as you have suggested in your post. Moving on doesnt necessarily (I spelt that wrong) going with other men, as it isn't in your heart right now to do that. Just try to focus on other things, spend time with friends, focus on hobbies or work, but foget him "
Yeah, they were in a casual thing at the time, but if he wants to be with her it's his choice. Yeah, really atm I'm working on the social friend making side of Fab |
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