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over a year ago
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No i dont believe they should
just because their not verified doesnt actually mean theyve not met anyone.
Maybe they dont believe verifications. When i was last on here as luv3sum i didnt always verify after a meet and vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loads comes into play and the most reason is cos here aint enough women on the site for the men so it wouldn't work and yes as some said many do meet but don't give veris or don't want them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im open to debate here...
My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?"
Some people join fab just for some horny chat, cham and forums and are not actually interested in meeting....  |
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No. Not everyone cares about being verified: some people actually meet and fuck without announcing it to the world.
Some people are in the armed forces.
Some just want to cam/chat.
I concentrate on my fab experience and leave others to theirs!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep the guys I want to meet regularly to myself...so neither of us leaves a verification every time we meet...what is the point in someone verifying each time? |
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"Like i said im open to debate but i personally dont see the point of coming on fab if your nevee going to meet anyone"
Sigh...just...because...not...everyone...cares...about...verifications...doesn't...mean...they...don't...meet!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If inactive yes might free up some of those user names otherwise no. Just because someone isn't verified doesn't mean that their not using the site properly. It's a site for meeting like minded people into the world of swinging not a sex site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If inactive yes might free up some of those user names otherwise no. Just because someone isn't verified doesn't mean that their not using the site properly. It's a site for meeting like minded people into the world of swinging not a sex site."
So swingers don't have sex? lol.
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I don't see the harm or bother that they're causing. If they broke site rules, they would be.
If they find getting meets harder, then it helps others. Maybe they were once part of a couple and now like the social side?
Not everyone wants lots of meets and they may be getting what they need. Not all users are as clued up as most forum users, so it seems harsh to penalize them.
Even Shag, noted above, often tells us of his hardships in getting meets. Imagine someone without his six pack, in a remote area. Plus many overseas users, where less is going on.
Lots of reasons. We're diverse, keep it as it is. |
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"If inactive yes might free up some of those user names otherwise no. Just because someone isn't verified doesn't mean that their not using the site properly. It's a site for meeting like minded people into the world of swinging not a sex site."
It's a sex site for me: I meet alone and with ny other half for sex, not bridge. |
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Another one of those topics that come up time and time again.
Not everyone accepts or leaves veris - how do you know that they don't meet?
Even if they don't meet, that's up to them. Who are you to dictate how people use the site as long as it's within the AUP?
You are of course free to leave and start your own site, with your own rules. Good luck with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If inactive yes might free up some of those user names otherwise no. Just because someone isn't verified doesn't mean that their not using the site properly. It's a site for meeting like minded people into the world of swinging not a sex site."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see the harm or bother that they're causing. If they broke site rules, they would be.
If they find getting meets harder, then it helps others. Maybe they were once part of a couple and now like the social side?
Not everyone wants lots of meets and they may be getting what they need. Not all users are as clued up as most forum users, so it seems harsh to penalize them.
Even Shag, noted above, often tells us of his hardships in getting meets. Imagine someone without his six pack, in a remote area. Plus many overseas users, where less is going on.
Lots of reasons. We're diverse, keep it as it is."
Shag is not a swinger though.... |
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over a year ago
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"I don't see the harm or bother that they're causing. If they broke site rules, they would be.
If they find getting meets harder, then it helps others. Maybe they were once part of a couple and now like the social side?
Not everyone wants lots of meets and they may be getting what they need. Not all users are as clued up as most forum users, so it seems harsh to penalize them.
Even Shag, noted above, often tells us of his hardships in getting meets. Imagine someone without his six pack, in a remote area. Plus many overseas users, where less is going on.
Lots of reasons. We're diverse, keep it as it is.
Shag is not a swinger though...."
tecknically no singles r swingers tho . |
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over a year ago
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"I don't see the harm or bother that they're causing. If they broke site rules, they would be.
If they find getting meets harder, then it helps others. Maybe they were once part of a couple and now like the social side?
Not everyone wants lots of meets and they may be getting what they need. Not all users are as clued up as most forum users, so it seems harsh to penalize them.
Even Shag, noted above, often tells us of his hardships in getting meets. Imagine someone without his six pack, in a remote area. Plus many overseas users, where less is going on.
Lots of reasons. We're diverse, keep it as it is."
Yes thats right penge is like isle of man lol and as well demographics plays a big role as well. |
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What if they're meeting lots of people but none of them are verified?
What about those who are here to chat and who use the chatrooms?
What if they just like sharing naughty pics and use their profile as their display space?
What if they'd love to be verified but can't get to a club or social and aren't having any joy arranging meets with verified people?
What about those in the forces or who work abroad who are away for whole swathes of time?
What about simply setting your filters to stop the unverified from messaging you and stop worrying about other people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as they make it clear that they are not interested in meeting , no problem .
If they constantly arrange meets and don't turn up , then that's different . They should be removed .
And this is a sex site for some of us , we arrange sexual hook ups on here , and it works really well .
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"Im open to debate here...
My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?
Some people join fab just for some horny chat, cham and forums and are not actually interested in meeting.... "
Yep....and we are clear about this in our profile so that no one wastes their time......as long as they read our profile of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im open to debate here...
My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?"
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What would that cure?.
They would be free to rejoin, you would just end up with alot of 3 month old profiles instead of 15 month old profiles |
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"Like i said im open to debate but i personally dont see the point of coming on fab if your nevee going to meet anyone"
The word personally is key here. You behave in a way that's right for you personally and other people will do th same. There are much more important things to worry about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have met a few that havent verified - one couple we have met many times and are great friends but dont need the veri to show that -
maybe unverified and not been online for a year might get rid of a lot - especially those that joined one day and not been on since |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Im open to debate here...
My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?"
No because the site rules do not require members to be verified within a year.
What others do is no business of yours or mine, as long as they comply with the rules of the site they can do as they wish |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thats my point though...its about meeting swingers...if you dont meet anyone should you really be allowed so long on the site"
What harm is it causing you? |
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So now we're forcing people to meet?
Wow.  .
Like it was mentioned earlier, people should be allowed to do things at their own pace. It's a big step for some people and it will take some longer than others. Plus, not every meet is verified. Such suggestions are insensitive towards people's safety and enjoyment of site. |
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"As long as they make it clear that they are not interested in meeting , no problem .
If they constantly arrange meets and don't turn up , then that's different . They should be removed .
And this is a sex site for some of us , we arrange sexual hook ups on here , and it works really well .
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I agree with gloucsswingers comments |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like i said im open to debate but i personally dont see the point of coming on fab if your nevee going to meet anyone"
Huh?
How do you know that?
Some people don't like verifications. |
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"Read what glosswingers put above
Thats my point put better by them lol"
That wasn't what you said though.
I agree with them that if people keep arranging meets then don't go through with them that they should be removed from site no matter how long they have been on here (which is the case anyway I believe) and that as long as people make it clear on their peofiles what they are looking for it's not a problem.
But I disagree with your op that people with no veri's should be removed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just your luck, you have been here over a year and in all that time, the only people you get to meet are newbies who haven't been veri'd yet.
Then the verification gestapo come along and kick you off because you haven't got a tick in the right box  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No ! It's there profile and if they don't want to have it verified it's up to them in much the same way as it's up to you whether you make contact with a non-verified member.
I think that's fair enough don't you ? |
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over a year ago
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"No ! It's there profile and if they don't want to have it verified it's up to them in much the same way as it's up to you whether you make contact with a non-verified member.
I think that's fair enough don't you ?"
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see the harm or bother that they're causing. If they broke site rules, they would be.
If they find getting meets harder, then it helps others. Maybe they were once part of a couple and now like the social side?
Not everyone wants lots of meets and they may be getting what they need. Not all users are as clued up as most forum users, so it seems harsh to penalize them.
Even Shag, noted above, often tells us of his hardships in getting meets. Imagine someone without his six pack, in a remote area. Plus many overseas users, where less is going on.
Lots of reasons. We're diverse, keep it as it is.
Shag is not a swinger though....tecknically no singles r swingers tho ."
Depends how you got into it...if you joined here just for a shag then you are not a swinger....if you joined here having already swung as a couple,then you are a swinger.....Swinging is a lifestyle.... |
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over a year ago
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"I don't see the harm or bother that they're causing. If they broke site rules, they would be.
If they find getting meets harder, then it helps others. Maybe they were once part of a couple and now like the social side?
Not everyone wants lots of meets and they may be getting what they need. Not all users are as clued up as most forum users, so it seems harsh to penalize them.
Even Shag, noted above, often tells us of his hardships in getting meets. Imagine someone without his six pack, in a remote area. Plus many overseas users, where less is going on.
Lots of reasons. We're diverse, keep it as it is.
Shag is not a swinger though....tecknically no singles r swingers tho .
Depends how you got into it...if you joined here just for a shag then you are not a swinger....if you joined here having already swung as a couple,then you are a swinger.....Swinging is a lifestyle.... "
And swinging is exclusively a couple thing is it? Or is it just couples and single women?  |
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"Im open to debate here...
My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?"
No...obviously not! |
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"Im open to debate here...
My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?"
Don't agree about the veris, but I would take a different approach, automatically delete those profiles that have not logged in for 12 months. Can't see the point of inactive profiles on here. If they've not logged in for 12 months are they likely to come back again? |
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"No. Not everyone cares about being verified: some people actually meet and fuck without announcing it to the world.
Some people are in the armed forces.
Some just want to cam/chat.
I concentrate on my fab experience and leave others to theirs!
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this..
and OP this has been asked before by the way..
so maybe there should be a ban on repeating posts..?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im open to debate here...
My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?"
Make it 7 months, the lazy fucks, obviously they're not real people, probably on benefits too, scum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like i said im open to debate but i personally dont see the point of coming on fab if your nevee going to meet anyone"
Maybe they just come on to use the chat rooms, maybe they just like going on cam or just like viewing cams and have no intentions of meeting, there is nothing in the rules that says this is not allowed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. Not everyone cares about being verified: some people actually meet and fuck without announcing it to the world.
Some people are in the armed forces.
Some just want to cam/chat.
I concentrate on my fab experience and leave others to theirs!
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"Im open to debate here...
My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?
Don't agree about the veris, but I would take a different approach, automatically delete those profiles that have not logged in for 12 months. Can't see the point of inactive profiles on here. If they've not logged in for 12 months are they likely to come back again? "
Now that's an interesting concept. Do what you like, as long as you visit the site. |
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over a year ago
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"Like i said im open to debate but i personally dont see the point of coming on fab if your nevee going to meet anyone
Maybe they just come on to use the chat rooms, maybe they just like going on cam or just like viewing cams and have no intentions of meeting, there is nothing in the rules that says this is not allowed "
or some might just come on here to perv at the pics..?  |
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over a year ago
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"Like i said im open to debate but i personally dont see the point of coming on fab if your nevee going to meet anyone
Maybe they just come on to use the chat rooms, maybe they just like going on cam or just like viewing cams and have no intentions of meeting, there is nothing in the rules that says this is not allowed
or some might just come on here to perv at the pics..? "
I do that often
What about people who's last veri was in 2011 should they get banned too? |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Interesting points and would probably agree that the inactive accounts (those that have not logged in for over a year) should be deleted but if we were just on here to perv pictures and our account was deleted due to not meeting then all we would do is open another one so what is the point after all its a free site so there is no loss financially. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know the UK is becoming a bit like George orwells 1984..but isn't banning people on a swingers site going a bit too far just because they haven't a meet for some reason or the other..? |
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"Im open to debate here...
My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?"
. Some members seem a bit obsessed with verifications . If you have had an enjoyable meet , why would you post it on the site for everyone to see ? Why should other site members need to know if you have had any meets if not . In addition some members are only hear to chat , but make a significant contribution to the foeum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why ban them clearly if they been on year without meet they probs won't so don't arrange a meet with them let them do whatever they do"
How do you know they haven't had a meet , for all anyone knows they may be out every night on a meet but chose not to advertise it.
I agree that maybe those that haven't logged in for over a year should maybe be deleted but those that do should be left alone to use site however the want. |
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"If youve never met after a year on here how can you be a swinger?"
Just because someone hasn't been verified doesn't Mean they haven't met anyone. They could ask not to get them for discretion, maybe they use the site to find out about social/clubs and parties and have met loads of people but just not been verified.. There's plenty of reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If youve never met after a year on here how can you be a swinger?"
We've had half a dozen meets this year and none were from this site. Are we not swingers according to your swingometer ? |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"No. Not everyone cares about being verified: some people actually meet and fuck without announcing it to the world.
Some people are in the armed forces.
Some just want to cam/chat.
I concentrate on my fab experience and leave others to theirs!
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This
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"If youve never met after a year on here how can you be a swinger?
We've had half a dozen meets this year and none were from this site. Are we not swingers according to your swingometer ? "
this..
as good as the site can be its not the only avenue.. |
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over a year ago
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"If youve never met after a year on here how can you be a swinger?
We've had half a dozen meets this year and none were from this site. Are we not swingers according to your swingometer ? "
All your meets should be verified via Fab or else they don't count towards your Swingers Lifestyle membership card. |
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over a year ago
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"If youve never met after a year on here how can you be a swinger?
We've had half a dozen meets this year and none were from this site. Are we not swingers according to your swingometer ?
All your meets should be verified via Fab or else they don't count towards your Swingers Lifestyle membership card. "
I'll get them to join then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im open to debate here...
My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?"
I agree with you. Ban them!  |
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over a year ago
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"Im open to debate here...
My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?
I agree with you. Ban them! "
Why?
How do you know they've not been meeting and 'choose' not be verified. Why not just let others enjoy fab how they like and you enjoy yours. |
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"If they aren't verified then they are probably aliens trying to kidnap you for an anal probe.
Don't fall for it folks
That's what turned me Vicci Boy, I was straight as a die before, honest  "
I always thought there was a bit of a Tarsus Prime look about you...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I've made sure we got one veri as people seem so manic about them. But I can assure you, we have had lots of fun. I don't want veris on my profile. They just seem too fake to me. |
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over a year ago
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"As long as they make it clear that they are not interested in meeting , no problem .
If they constantly arrange meets and don't turn up , then that's different . They should be removed .
And this is a sex site for some of us , we arrange sexual hook ups on here , and it works really well .
I agree with gloucsswingers comments"
I see you have changed your opinion slightly, maybe you just realised what a a shite hawk your being!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of curiosity why do you care you can set your filters for messages and set your search filters and bang in two easy clicks all these people are removed from the site for you.
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"Im open to debate here...
My question is if someone had a profile on here for over 12 months and not been verified do you think their account should be automatically deleted?"
No why? |
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