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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are you interested in getting married if your not already married?
Do you regret getting married? (those who are)
If you have already been married and divorced, would you marry again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was married. Should never have got married to him. But at the time it was exciting... At the time both of my parents told me to walk away.
I'm not sure if I would again. Maybe if they were dead set on it. But I'd be quite happy not to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't regret getting married because I wouldn't have my son if I hadn't.
I have no intention of getting married again unless a very old billionaire with a dodgy heart proposed to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly I wouldn't want to chain anyone to me. Life up to this point has taught me that people generally don't want to hang around for eternity, so why bind them to try.
Well, they don't want to hang around me! |
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Lucy has been married before, Luke hasn't, we were planning to get married a year or so back, but a family member was poorly and another was out in afghan so we put it off! So we are now re planning for either this year or next |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was married years ago but it was a holiday romance that should have been left at just that. Wouldn't say I would never marry again but I would have to be absolutely sure he was the right one for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I married at 19 wish we would of waited.
If we got divorced I don't think I'd want to marry again
Why do you wish you had waited?"
He is 10 years older than me. I think I was too young & there's so much I could of done. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Was married years ago but it was a holiday romance that should have been left at just that. Wouldn't say I would never marry again but I would have to be absolutely sure he was the right one for me "
How can anyone be really sure? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lucy has been married before, Luke hasn't, we were planning to get married a year or so back, but a family member was poorly and another was out in afghan so we put it off! So we are now re planning for either this year or next "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't regret getting married because I wouldn't have my son if I hadn't.
I have no intention of getting married again unless a very old billionaire with a dodgy heart proposed to me."
Apply to be a play girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Married for 10 years, together for 20 years. I don't regret a thing. In fact, I can honestly say it's gets better year on year.
Not gloating, just being honest (and with any luck giving hope to someone else).
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was married years ago but it was a holiday romance that should have been left at just that. Wouldn't say I would never marry again but I would have to be absolutely sure he was the right one for me
How can anyone be really sure? "
They cant. Which is why I said never say never. The right relationship may just happen, but you dont know until you are in it and suddenly realise 'shit, this is real'. Dont believe Disney. They lie haha |
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Have been married 26 years in June, don't regret it most of the time and he hasn't been buried under the patio...... yet.
If I had to do it again I wouldn't have got married at 18, should have got a bit of life under my belt first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"was married now divorced will not marry again I've never had so much money "
Im better off an a monthly basis, but still paying for the debt she left me with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you interested in getting married if your not already married?
Do you regret getting married? (those who are)
If you have already been married and divorced, would you marry again? "
Not interested in being married. Don't believe that getting married is necessary to demonstrate that I care for someone. Government doesn't allow multiple married partners anyway, so wouldn't be able to choose just one of the people I date.
One of my partners has been married before. Didn't work out for him. He doesn't ever want to get married again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would it be odd if you married but didn't live together? "
I don't consider that odd. Lots of people date and live apart. What's different about marriage? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never been married, daughters dad did propose, twice, both times very d*unk and I told him to ask me again sober, he never did.
Guys seem to view me as a temporary convenience, and I wont introduce my daughter to a string of different bfs who wont stick around, hence being on here, dont wish to date again and will never marry. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never been married. Never want too. Never been one of these people that's dreamt of the big day and the dress and all that jazz. I'd rather spend all that cash going on a big piss up in Vegas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't really want to get married ad never wanted to tie myself to someone else in that way, but if a millionaire with no kids insisted then i'd have to. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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No neither of us have been married or wanted to.
We've been together for over 20 odd years but are perfectly happy as we are and living in sin.
Its other people that badger us and tell us that we should do the 'right thing'.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't regret not being married but I would of loved to had children, Not going to meet many Women my age who want children so I would have to meet someone in their late 20s or early 30s to start a family with |
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I've been divorced for over 30 years now and I don't intend to get married again.I have a 22 year old son and his mother and never even discussed marriage so I'm pretty certain that I will remain single.I love my freedom and the life I have. |
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By *ldmaleMan
over a year ago
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"was married now divorced will not marry again I've never had so much money
Im better off an a monthly basis, but still paying for the debt she left me with"
im lucky enough to have paid off all the debt she left me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never been married. Never want too. Never been one of these people that's dreamt of the big day and the dress and all that jazz. I'd rather spend all that cash going on a big piss up in Vegas. "
Can I come. Been ages since ive been to vegas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"was married now divorced will not marry again I've never had so much money
Im better off an a monthly basis, but still paying for the debt she left me with
im lucky enough to have paid off all the debt she left me "
without a lotto win it's going to take me another 5 years. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Would it be odd if you married but didn't live together?
I don't consider that odd. Lots of people date and live apart. What's different about marriage?"
It's what I'd like to do IF I got married.. I guess the older generation would find it weird, but in today's world I think it's acceptable |
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I don't regret getting married, but I do regret doing it so young... We are two completely different people now.
I was naive and assumed that if you married someone you wanted to be with them for the foreseeable future - not have an affair after 18 months. I no longer believe in the sanctity of marriage.
I am however a hopeless romantic, and love being a wife, so will probably end up doing it all again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We've been married 30 years now wouldn't know what it's like not to be married . We still love each other loads and don't like being apart but doing like swinging together , just a bit of spice |
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"Are you interested in getting married if your not already married?
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No, not currently
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Do you regret getting married? (those who are [edit: or were])
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Definitely not, Some of the best times of my life.
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If you have already been married and divorced, would you marry again? "
Probably not. You can't fix a shattered glass. |
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"Never been married.
Doubt I ever will.
Never say never though?!
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Yeah never say never for myself though id like to be in a relationship for a few years first and only marry if she felt the same most folks dont bother or wait at least 10 years before the do so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People get married for the wrong reasons at times.
They've been together for a long time, things aren't going too well so they think getting married will change things.
Or they have children so get married.
At least people getting divorced keeps me in a job |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never been married.
Doubt I ever will.
Never say never though?!
Yeah never say never for myself though id like to be in a relationship for a few years first and only marry if she felt the same most folks dont bother or wait at least 10 years before the do so."
Personally I wouldn't wait 10 years to get married. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been married, divorced and about to marry again even though I said I wouldn't after the first time... Feels so much better this time, can't think why |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We've been married 30 years now wouldn't know what it's like not to be married . We still love each other loads and don't like being apart but doing like swinging together , just a bit of spice "
My parents have been married 50 years, they have had they're problems but worked through them. They would never be with out each other unless death occurred (then they would join each other up there) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We got married 2 days ago, currently enjoying a few days honeymoon in a lovely place with it's own private hot tub
Would we do it again? Absolutely!"
I will ask again in 7 years time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People get married for the wrong reasons at times.
They've been together for a long time, things aren't going too well so they think getting married will change things.
Or they have children so get married.
At least people getting divorced keeps me in a job "
I see so many HAVE kids to keep they're marriage going! |
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I was married at 21, divorced at 26 and as far as I'm concerned, that might as well be a different life in a different universe.
I've been single ever since simply because that's what life has given me and I'll continue to live it until something changes.
Just like my motto for Fab and Fet, never say never. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I was married at 21, divorced at 26 and as far as I'm concerned, that might as well be a different life in a different universe.
I've been single ever since simply because that's what life has given me and I'll continue to live it until something changes.
Just like my motto for Fab and Fet, never say never. "
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"We got married 2 days ago, currently enjoying a few days honeymoon in a lovely place with it's own private hot tub
Would we do it again? Absolutely!"
Congratulations It can be the most marvellous think in the world. All my best wishes to you both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People get married for the wrong reasons at times.
They've been together for a long time, things aren't going too well so they think getting married will change things.
Or they have children so get married.
At least people getting divorced keeps me in a job
I see so many HAVE kids to keep they're marriage going!"
Those who have kids to keep their marriage going end up getting divorced usually. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We got married 2 days ago, currently enjoying a few days honeymoon in a lovely place with it's own private hot tub
Would we do it again? Absolutely!
Congratulations It can be the most marvellous think in the world. All my best wishes to you both."
Yes congrats!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes married 28yrs now, regrets yes several,would I do it again knowing what know now? Perhaps or perhaps not. Happy sometimes! Most of the time it's just same old same old. But times have changed and living together is not frowned upon as it used to be, would probably go that way if I had my time over. But hey I have two great kids so from that prospective I'm delighted and very proud. |
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Never been married nothing really that fussed about getting married.
I always figured if I was with someone in the long haul already and years down the line we wanted to get married then sure why not.
I'd rather wait and get married once than end up with a divorce. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Married and wouldn't change a thing! He is my first and only love,my best friend and my soul mate ..We were engaged within a couple of months of meeting, married after 13 years together, this year we have been together 22 years. We only married so I had the same surname as the kids and because I hated my maiden name. We'd still be together if we weren't married. It never changed our relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been married and divorced.
I have thought along the lines of others, if I did ever marry again - I'd be happy living separately to my other half. I know a few relationships like that and they work well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been together 29 year's.
Was engaged for 12( we were being cautious )
Can't imagine being apart, only death will separate us.
Would I marry again?
Only if I could marry jools again, yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Turned down 3 marriage proposals. "
What did they say?....
What was their response?...
If someone proposed to me I'd feel like a horrible bastard to say no.
I'd say yes just to be nice, but they'd never hear from me again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Never been married. Never want too. Never been one of these people that's dreamt of the big day and the dress and all that jazz. I'd rather spend all that cash going on a big piss up in Vegas. "
that is exactly what Hubby and I did...and got married!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you interested in getting married if your not already married?
Do you regret getting married? (those who are)
If you have already been married and divorced, would you marry again? "
Would love to have a wife but need a girlfriend first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people in long marriages that I know say that "they have had to work at it". I think that is a euphemism for make lots of compromises which is why it is not for me. |
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Marriage has never crossed my mind. I can't say I'll never get married. Certainly if the right woman came along I would seriously consider it I'm sure. I'm still waiting for that woman to come along. I have a hard time understanding what the whole point of it is if I'm honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been married. Did not regret getting married got 2 lovely kids out of it. Would I marry again ? No x
Tosh, you asked me to marry you last night! " did yer tell me to fuk off ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Been married. Did not regret getting married got 2 lovely kids out of it. Would I marry again ? No x
Tosh, you asked me to marry you last night! did yer tell me to fuk off ? "
No! We planned on getting married next week! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Marriage has never crossed my mind. I can't say I'll never get married. Certainly if the right woman came along I would seriously consider it I'm sure. I'm still waiting for that woman to come along. I have a hard time understanding what the whole point of it is if I'm honest."
Wait no longer!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been married. Did not regret getting married got 2 lovely kids out of it. Would I marry again ? No x
Tosh, you asked me to marry you last night! "
Yay can I get the confetti out? |
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"Marriage has never crossed my mind. I can't say I'll never get married. Certainly if the right woman came along I would seriously consider it I'm sure. I'm still waiting for that woman to come along. I have a hard time understanding what the whole point of it is if I'm honest.
Wait no longer!! "
You're on!! |
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"Been married. Did not regret getting married got 2 lovely kids out of it. Would I marry again ? No x
Tosh, you asked me to marry you last night!
Yay can I get the confetti out? "
Can I be a bridesmaid! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Been married. Did not regret getting married got 2 lovely kids out of it. Would I marry again ? No x
Tosh, you asked me to marry you last night!
Yay can I get the confetti out?
Can I be a bridesmaid! "
Long legs can be tosh best man and Howi you can be my best man |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been married. Did not regret getting married got 2 lovely kids out of it. Would I marry again ? No x
Tosh, you asked me to marry you last night!
Yay can I get the confetti out?
Can I be a bridesmaid!
Long legs can be tosh best man and Howi you can be my best man "
Howard would look lovely as a bridesmaid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well taking that J is sat next to me planning our wedding I'm assuming our wedding is very very firmly on the cards!! Glad she's not going all traditional for it though it'll be much more interesting our way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never been married and never expect to be now. I would only marry if we kept separate homes.
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Same here as I wouldn't want to pay him half of what I have worked hard for when we divorce. Toya Willcox and her husband have lived in separate houses since they married |
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"Been married. Did not regret getting married got 2 lovely kids out of it. Would I marry again ? No x
Tosh, you asked me to marry you last night!
Yay can I get the confetti out?
Can I be a bridesmaid!
Long legs can be tosh best man and Howi you can be my best man
Howard would look lovely as a bridesmaid "
Exactly Miss Innocent. I'm glad you agree. I've got the perfect schoolgirl figure for it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Marriage has never crossed my mind. I can't say I'll never get married. Certainly if the right woman came along I would seriously consider it I'm sure. I'm still waiting for that woman to come along. I have a hard time understanding what the whole point of it is if I'm honest."
I agree with your last line, quite happy on my own just need some companionship and sex now and again but couldn't be bothered with all that living together and sharing everything |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Been married. Did not regret getting married got 2 lovely kids out of it. Would I marry again ? No x
Tosh, you asked me to marry you last night!
Yay can I get the confetti out?
Can I be a bridesmaid!
Long legs can be tosh best man and Howi you can be my best man
Howard would look lovely as a bridesmaid
Exactly Miss Innocent. I'm glad you agree. I've got the perfect schoolgirl figure for it! "
Howi it's not allowed that you look better than the bride! |
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I agree with your last line, quite happy on my own just need some companionship and sex now and again but couldn't be bothered with all that living together and sharing everything"
Ah that's the bit I love best! |
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"Been married. Did not regret getting married got 2 lovely kids out of it. Would I marry again ? No x
Tosh, you asked me to marry you last night!
Yay can I get the confetti out?
Can I be a bridesmaid!
Long legs can be tosh best man and Howi you can be my best man
Howard would look lovely as a bridesmaid
Exactly Miss Innocent. I'm glad you agree. I've got the perfect schoolgirl figure for it!
Howi it's not allowed that you look better than the bride! "
Now you know that's not even remotely possible! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm a free spirit, always have been..... it would take one hell of a woman to make me settle down...... She would have to be armed with a tranquilliser gun to catch me lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Been married. Did not regret getting married got 2 lovely kids out of it. Would I marry again ? No x
Tosh, you asked me to marry you last night!
Yay can I get the confetti out?
Can I be a bridesmaid!
Long legs can be tosh best man and Howi you can be my best man
Howard would look lovely as a bridesmaid
Exactly Miss Innocent. I'm glad you agree. I've got the perfect schoolgirl figure for it!
Howi it's not allowed that you look better than the bride!
Now you know that's not even remotely possible! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been married. Did not regret getting married got 2 lovely kids out of it. Would I marry again ? No x
Tosh, you asked me to marry you last night!
Yay can I get the confetti out?
Can I be a bridesmaid!
Long legs can be tosh best man and Howi you can be my best man
Howard would look lovely as a bridesmaid
Exactly Miss Innocent. I'm glad you agree. I've got the perfect schoolgirl figure for it!
Howi it's not allowed that you look better than the bride!
Now you know that's not even remotely possible! "
Howard. I reckon you and me should swap?? |
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"Been married. Did not regret getting married got 2 lovely kids out of it. Would I marry again ? No x
Tosh, you asked me to marry you last night!
Yay can I get the confetti out?
Can I be a bridesmaid!
Long legs can be tosh best man and Howi you can be my best man
Howard would look lovely as a bridesmaid
Exactly Miss Innocent. I'm glad you agree. I've got the perfect schoolgirl figure for it!
Howi it's not allowed that you look better than the bride!
Now you know that's not even remotely possible!
Howard. I reckon you and me should swap?? "
That's a great idea. Why didn't I think of that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Getting married once we have money for the wedding we want, family and a few close friends, beautiful open garden on a warm summers day, my baby boy by my side, sisters as my bridesmaid and maid of honour, and a gorgeous light summer dress either a very light blue or a pale purple. Not that I've thought about it haha. |
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