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By *inaTitz OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Not wishing to hijack Shygirl's thread, when you told people of your life style, what were their preconceptions of the swinging world?

Mine were:

From chappy friends: people actually want to fuck YOU?

From girls: I hope you are safe.

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By *an_WoodMan  over a year ago

Stafford

I haven't got the nerve to tell anyone

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By *inaTitz OP   TV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I haven't got the nerve to tell anyone "

What's the worst that can happen, short of them being jealous that you are doing something, rather than merely wishing you were?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Only really told one friend.

She just said it wasn't for her & as long as I was doing what I wanted to do at my own pace that was fine.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My friends: You're so bad.

My eldest child: Meh,whatever makes you happy.

Second eldest child: What if you meet an axe murderer! You might not come home tomorrow! My son in law even came out to talk to someone who picked me up one evening to tell him to look after me. Children can be so embarrassing

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By *oobsandballsMan  over a year ago

st andrews

My friends have all been curious about what we get up to. All find it interesting but not perhaps something they'd do themselves, no one has a problem with it

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By *empting Devil.Woman  over a year ago

Sheffield

One of my friends seems constantly surprised that I don't fuck everyone I encounter in the Swinging world!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No hijacked at all

Actually I always thought swinging was more sleazy than it really is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"One of my friends seems constantly surprised that I don't fuck everyone I encounter in the Swinging world! "

You Dont ?

Please ignore my fancy a Fuck messages then

Gimp

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"One of my friends seems constantly surprised that I don't fuck everyone I encounter in the Swinging world!

You Dont ?

Please ignore my fancy a Fuck messages then

Gimp"

We all do

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By *empting Devil.Woman  over a year ago

Sheffield


"One of my friends seems constantly surprised that I don't fuck everyone I encounter in the Swinging world!

You Dont ?

Please ignore my fancy a Fuck messages then

Gimp"

I'd be delighted to ignore them.

But you have to send me some first!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No hijacked at all

Actually I always thought swinging was more sleazy than it really is."

Then you're doing it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No hijacked at all

Actually I always thought swinging was more sleazy than it really is.

Then you're doing it wrong. "

I'll bear that in mind

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I live openly so people that I am on a site, meet people and go to clubs and parties. They know broadly what I do but not who I do.

They are most often surprised when I say that I had a great night at a club and didn't have sex with anyone. The reason they find this surprising is they go to ordinary night clubs and end up picking up someone for a one night stand.

The married friends always ask about the couples involved in the scene.

I have had a handful of comments that I am witty, intelligent and attractive enough so I shouldn't "need" to do this and that it must be because I don't respect myself enough. Those that were close to me during my 14 years of celibacy encourage me to keep this side of my life.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"No hijacked at all

Actually I always thought swinging was more sleazy than it really is.

Then you're doing it wrong. "

What do I need to do?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No hijacked at all

Actually I always thought swinging was more sleazy than it really is.

Then you're doing it wrong.

What do I need to do? "

Bi MMF.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"No hijacked at all

Actually I always thought swinging was more sleazy than it really is.

Then you're doing it wrong.

What do I need to do?

Bi MMF. "

Still trying.

I did get Luke to suck two cocks* at the same time on Saturday. Does that count?

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* Jelly sweet ones only though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When we meet newbies i often ask what they think a swingers club is like ..i hold my hands up and thought it was a free for all full on orgy before i knew otherwise

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By *o_added_sugarWoman  over a year ago

A club not so many miles away


"I live openly so people that I am on a site, meet people and go to clubs and parties. They know broadly what I do but not who I do.

They are most often surprised when I say that I had a great night at a club and didn't have sex with anyone. The reason they find this surprising is they go to ordinary night clubs and end up picking up someone for a one night stand.

The married friends always ask about the couples involved in the scene.

I have had a handful of comments that I am witty, intelligent and attractive enough so I shouldn't "need" to do this and that it must be because I don't respect myself enough. Those that were close to me during my 14 years of celibacy encourage me to keep this side of my life.

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this. Most of my vanilla friends that have met my fab friends have been surprised how 'normal' they are though. So as much as they say they are ok with it, their naivety about the scene and what actually goes on amuses me. It is still seen as seedy within society and will always have a stigma associated with it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No hijacked at all

Actually I always thought swinging was more sleazy than it really is.

Then you're doing it wrong.

What do I need to do?

Bi MMF.

Still trying.

I did get Luke to suck two cocks* at the same time on Saturday. Does that count?

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* Jelly sweet ones only though.

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Keep looking... It's much more fun than that....

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