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unwanted attenion

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

hi, getting unwanted attenion when my partner goes out, shes been noticed where she drinks from another fab member, he trys to touch ect ,cut a long story short he says she asks for everthing shes gets because shes a swinger and shouldnt put pics on our profile if shes not up for it, we love swinging but can do without the pricks

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"hi, getting unwanted attenion when my partner goes out, shes been noticed where she drinks from another fab member, he trys to touch ect ,cut a long story short he says she asks for everthing shes gets because shes a swinger and shouldnt put pics on our profile if shes not up for it, we love swinging but can do without the pricks"
so let me get this straight...he tries it on when you arent around when not in a meet situation?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yes, even when shes out with her friends who dont know what we do,

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By *hyMeCouple over a year ago

wirral

Is he saying she should play with anyone who wants her just because she has pics on her profile?

Can you report him or don't you know his on site profile?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The Police don't need his profile name to deal with him

sexual assault is sexual assault

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is he a single guy on here? Not that it matters I suppose. I would recommend not making a fuss of it, people like that usually perform when they have an audience so don't add fuel to the flame so to speak. He'll go away when he gets bored but still, a polite request to please respect you're partners space may be needed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yes , hes saying because she is a swinger .she diserves everything she gets and should not put pics up ect if shes not up for it,

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By *ig badMan over a year ago

Up North :-)

"yes, even when shes out with her friends who dont know what we do,"

I know what i'd do to him!

Alas you get assholes who haven't a clue what mutual respect is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

he will not take no for an answer,

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

tried telling her to go to the police, but she think because what we do they will not believe her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Block him on FAB and ask your mobile networks to block his number?

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By *eaboMan over a year ago

marden

i think the police too. maybe a warning first as most of the 'single' guys on here have wives, but swingers or not this is still a sexual assault and this guy is well out of order

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By *hyMeCouple over a year ago

wirral

And how many steps from that attitude is the one that a woman deserves what she gets if she dresses sexily? Sounds like a real wierdo, and if he has actually touched her then the police might not be such a bad idea.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

sounds like he needs "a talking to"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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I would tell him that if he came near me again or tried to touch me I will phone the police and after that get a restraining order out on him

Have you spoken to him about it? I know that my other half would have had a very large word with him by now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if you can't sort it yourself, report him to the police for harrassment.

They will pay him a visit.

Swinging is not illegal, harrassment is

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yep i know what you mean, and might after go through that channel to sort it

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By *hyMeCouple over a year ago

wirral

And bear in mind that swinging is about mutual agreement, no means no, and the police should realse that. Am sure there will be a few on this site!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yeah i know what you mean, but its hard convicing her to do it, its a shame we cant name and shame on here

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By *ig badMan over a year ago

Up North :-)

"yep i know what you mean, and might after go through that channel to sort it"

What is he like when your both around? What is his attitude then?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

As everyone else has advised you are best going to the relevant Authorities to deal with this.

If he is harrasing you on the site too then REPORT him here too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yes we know his profile, but if shes out and im not there they could be a problem

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