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over a year ago
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I'd normally say I can be quite shallow and have a good old perv over the guys that are all muscles even better with tattoos as well but the last person I met was the complete opposite but we got on so well that I was already attracted to him anyway before we properly met so then it didn't matter to me no. |
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over a year ago
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"I'd say looks are the main thing for the ladies of fab. Always seeing profiles etc with fit/hot guys only"
I can fancy someone who isn't fit or hot by societal standards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks are going to be the first thing that attracts me on here,but that's human nature and the nature of this site,it's all fantasy
If personality doesn't match then it's not going to happen even if they're drop dead gorgeous  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say looks are the main thing for the ladies of fab. Always seeing profiles etc with fit/hot guys only
I can fancy someone who isn't fit or hot by societal standards. "
Same! I love me a big fella! L |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say looks are the main thing for the ladies of fab. Always seeing profiles etc with fit/hot guys only
I can fancy someone who isn't fit or hot by societal standards. "
The men I fancy wouldn't be classed as fit or hot necessarily but they do something for me. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I have to buck the trend here. I go by personality first and foremost. If I find that attractive, I find the person attractive. That doesn't mean I don't perve visually attractive men and women with the best of them however. |
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"I have to buck the trend here. I go by personality first and foremost. If I find that attractive, I find the person attractive. That doesn't mean I don't perve visually attractive men and women with the best of them however."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think women have to have a physical & mental connection with a man to have sex with them.
I don't think all men need this, which is why men can fuck a prostitute. They don't care what they look like.
Not all men are like this of course, just some. |
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I need a bit of both. If you're hot but I can't talk to you or you are up your own arse then I'm not interested. If you're a pleasant person & good company but I'm not physically attracted I'm not likely to get hard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I need a bit of both. If you're hot but I can't talk to you or you are up your own arse then I'm not interested. If you're a pleasant person & good company but I'm not physically attracted I'm not likely to get hard."
I'll make you hard, goddamn you  |
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Seams to change with different types. I think now im free from all those control freaks and the ppl. I thought in all honesty haven't a clue how to diagnose sombody with a personality 1s you got your head round all your homework. Right I'm going home need to do a favour some numb cunt I no |
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"I need a bit of both. If you're hot but I can't talk to you or you are up your own arse then I'm not interested. If you're a pleasant person & good company but I'm not physically attracted I'm not likely to get hard.
I'll make you hard, goddamn you "
Is that a threat or a promise?!  |
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over a year ago
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"I need a bit of both. If you're hot but I can't talk to you or you are up your own arse then I'm not interested. If you're a pleasant person & good company but I'm not physically attracted I'm not likely to get hard.
I'll make you hard, goddamn you
Is that a threat or a promise?! "
Bit of both   |
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"I need a bit of both. If you're hot but I can't talk to you or you are up your own arse then I'm not interested. If you're a pleasant person & good company but I'm not physically attracted I'm not likely to get hard.
I'll make you hard, goddamn you
Is that a threat or a promise?!
Bit of both "
Zoiks!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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being particularly blessed on all fronts means I have such a big list to get through..I have to bulk delete alot of mail on an hourly basis.I feel sorry for those who lose out. |
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"being particularly blessed on all fronts means I have such a big list to get through..I have to bulk delete alot of mail on an hourly basis.I feel sorry for those who lose out."
Good thing you don't have your Super Bomberman skills on your profile or you'd have even more mail!! |
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over a year ago
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"being particularly blessed on all fronts means I have such a big list to get through..I have to bulk delete alot of mail on an hourly basis.I feel sorry for those who lose out.
Good thing you don't have your Super Bomberman skills on your profile or you'd have even more mail!! "
hands off my joystick bitch |
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"being particularly blessed on all fronts means I have such a big list to get through..I have to bulk delete alot of mail on an hourly basis.I feel sorry for those who lose out.
Good thing you don't have your Super Bomberman skills on your profile or you'd have even more mail!!
hands off my joystick bitch "
Dude your joystick is all fleshy.....oh I see!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely 100%"
"Definitely 100%"
I'm not a trumpet blower but I'm quite good looking,(get your winks in girls)
I'm not an ugly or weird person that's for sure.
There's probably plenty of nutcases on here but
Ive got a good personallity and Am up for a laugh.. drop me a bit of chat... I'll sent you some face pics xx |
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over a year ago
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"Definitely 100%
Definitely 100%
I'm not a trumpet blower but I'm quite good looking,(get your winks in girls)
I'm not an ugly or weird person that's for sure.
There's probably plenty of nutcases on here but
Ive got a good personallity and Am up for a laugh.. drop me a bit of chat... I'll sent you some face pics xx"
But not good looking enough to show your face on here!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet?"
Not so much physical looks, but there has to be a physical ATTRACTION...or else why would people want to meet?
Personality is also a massive factor in deciding to want to meet or not as well...and that, as far as I'm concerned, CAN be a deal-breaker. It's not just a case of 'fancy a fuck?'...the social aspect of a meet is important to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely 100%
Definitely 100%
I'm not a trumpet blower but I'm quite good looking,(get your winks in girls)
I'm not an ugly or weird person that's for sure.
There's probably plenty of nutcases on here but
Ive got a good personallity and Am up for a laugh.. drop me a bit of chat... I'll sent you some face pics xx
But not good looking enough to show your face on here!!"
Fair point but some ppl like myself have a right to be a bit discreet.. I'm not ashamed or worried what I look like you can trust me on that.. if a girls varifyed I'll send em a few pics no trouble. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"being particularly blessed on all fronts means I have such a big list to get through..I have to bulk delete alot of mail on an hourly basis.I feel sorry for those who lose out."
I read "on all fronts" as "on all fours." Sorry for my filthy mind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not so much about looks because what is good looking to one person is not to another. If there is no attraction then I won't meet. There has to be chemistry and fancying someone is a part of that! For me it is anyway... |
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet?"
Yes, as I can't play with someone I'm not attracted to, but that doesn't mean they have to have matinee idol looks. For example I prefer Alan Rickman to David Gandy, Tommy Lee Jones to David Beckham and Idris Elba to Denzel Washington.
Looks are subjective! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be a mate i dont give a shit if you have 3 heads a split personality and manners of a goat ..but to have sex with yeah im choosy .l often look around at a club and think you know what there is only a very few id go with ..ive often wondered if im too fussy and chat to him and others ..all say no youre right to be this way ...i know i prefer to not have sex than go with someone there isnt an attraction to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I find someone making me laugh more attractive, i have been in some very good looking male company, they thought they were casanovas
Her"
THIS!
If I can laugh with someone then that goes a long way to the all important attraction. I find an early phone call goes a long way to starting that. If there's no chemistry, it's not heppening. |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
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"I'd say looks are the main thing for the ladies of fab. Always seeing profiles etc with fit/hot guys only
I can fancy someone who isn't fit or hot by societal standards.
The men I fancy wouldn't be classed as fit or hot necessarily but they do something for me."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course attractiveness is important, but that's not just down to physical looks. Someone can be average looking but hugely attractive through a blend of personality, a glint in the eye, intelligence etc
And as others have said, one persons beauty is another's ugly.
Anyone who's had the misfortune of corresponding or Face pic Friday'ing with me will know I'm visually challenged (i.e. a right ugly minger) so I'm always gonna struggle with those that seek conventional beauty  |
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over a year ago
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"Of course attractiveness is important, but that's not just down to physical looks. Someone can be average looking but hugely attractive through a blend of personality, a glint in the eye, intelligence etc
And as others have said, one persons beauty is another's ugly.
Anyone who's had the misfortune of corresponding or Face pic Friday'ing with me will know I'm visually challenged (i.e. a right ugly minger) so I'm always gonna struggle with those that seek conventional beauty "
Tut. Sigh.
Put a sock in it.
You're not getting sympathy shags for that statement.
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over a year ago
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"Of course attractiveness is important, but that's not just down to physical looks. Someone can be average looking but hugely attractive through a blend of personality, a glint in the eye, intelligence etc
And as others have said, one persons beauty is another's ugly.
Anyone who's had the misfortune of corresponding or Face pic Friday'ing with me will know I'm visually challenged (i.e. a right ugly minger) so I'm always gonna struggle with those that seek conventional beauty
Tut. Sigh.
Put a sock in it.
You're not getting sympathy shags for that statement.
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Oh damn - that transparent hey?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people I want to eat are on the forum so I have a reasonable idea of their personality. Looks can be secondary.
There are some attractive people that post on here that I have seen at socials that I wouldn't want to meet with and vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No it don't as its casual sex.
And this proves what for you then as you've had no meets...?"
I'd love to know why you think he's had no meets? My understanding is that he does pretty well on here! |
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By *educedWoman
over a year ago
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I have found that I am not as shallow as I once believed I was. For me, the attraction starts with a conversation. I have found myself being attracted to people who I wouldn't look twice at in the street. Conversing with someone online is very different to chatting with someone you meet in a vanilla setting. You are more open, frank and honest (mostly) and I find that appealing. Occasionally, they have sent through a face pic after a while and my heart sinks (if that's the right expression) and I know it won't go any further sexually.
However, having said that what I find attractive others won't.
I am sure people feel the same way about me. |
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over a year ago
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"I have found that I am not as shallow as I once believed I was. For me, the attraction starts with a conversation. I have found myself being attracted to people who I wouldn't look twice at in the street. Conversing with someone online is very different to chatting with someone you meet in a vanilla setting. You are more open, frank and honest (mostly) and I find that appealing. Occasionally, they have sent through a face pic after a while and my heart sinks (if that's the right expression) and I know it won't go any further sexually.
However, having said that what I find attractive others won't.
I am sure people feel the same way about me. "
Yeah, I've had that too. Conversation is going really well, they make me laugh but I just know on seeing a face pic that I would never want to have sex with them. |
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over a year ago
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"Good looks are a bonus, but have you ever been with a really good looking woman who is terrible in the sack?
Criminal"
It happens mate. The point I'm making that it's not always about looks, it's all about how you use what you've got |
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You have to be attracted to the person but everyone has their own ideas about what's attractive and what isn't. They'll always be someone out there who will be attracted to you even if you think you're not particularly good looking yourself (in the traditional sense of the word). Everyone sees these things differently.
Obviously the persons personality is the deal breaker. If they're a bit of a tosser then their good looks won't save them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet?"
Not entirely - sure i'm guilty of wanting to meet gorgeous, sexy as fuck women, but their sex appeal doesn't just come from their looks! |
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"You have to be attracted to the person but everyone has their own ideas about what's attractive and what isn't. They'll always be someone out there who will be attracted to you even if you think you're not particularly good looking yourself (in the traditional sense of the word). Everyone sees these things differently.
Obviously the persons personality is the deal breaker. If they're a bit of a tosser then their good looks won't save them!"
You're a bit of a tosser aren't you? |
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"Good looks are a bonus, but have you ever been with a really good looking woman who is terrible in the sack?
Criminal
It happens mate. The point I'm making that it's not always about looks, it's all about how you use what you've got "
I have met absolute stunners that are completely vacuous relying entirely on their looks. Laying there like a stuffed seal waiting to be entertained. The legend about plain women being better in bed comes from here. It's the reason why I go for personality as a first preference
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"You have to be attracted to the person but everyone has their own ideas about what's attractive and what isn't. They'll always be someone out there who will be attracted to you even if you think you're not particularly good looking yourself (in the traditional sense of the word). Everyone sees these things differently.
Obviously the persons personality is the deal breaker. If they're a bit of a tosser then their good looks won't save them!
You're a bit of a tosser aren't you? "
I am. And even my good looks won't save me from that fact! |
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"You have to be attracted to the person but everyone has their own ideas about what's attractive and what isn't. They'll always be someone out there who will be attracted to you even if you think you're not particularly good looking yourself (in the traditional sense of the word). Everyone sees these things differently.
Obviously the persons personality is the deal breaker. If they're a bit of a tosser then their good looks won't save them!
You're a bit of a tosser aren't you?
I am. And even my good looks won't save me from that fact! "
But your arse will |
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over a year ago
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"I hope people go more for arses than faces
You're a bit of an arse....harmless enough.
Its a good job I have put my claws away...otherwise I would make you rue those words. "
Shame.
I love a decent scratch. |
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"Do physical looks always matter when looking for a meet?
It does for me. I couldn't have sex without physical AND mental attraction. "
... So it's a good job the ladies on here are fucking awesome |
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"I'd say looks are the main thing for the ladies of fab. Always seeing profiles etc with fit/hot guys only
I can fancy someone who isn't fit or hot by societal standards.
The men I fancy wouldn't be classed as fit or hot necessarily but they do something for me.
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"I have to be attracted to them physically... Arousal just doesn't happen for me. "
Well I'm gonna send you a couple pics then coz I just checked u out and your doing it for me xx
Hope I'm your cuppa tea |
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I remember a post one where it was being discussed who was the hottest / best fuck (male) on Fab. The post I remember most said 'He's an arsehole but he's a fantastic fuck and very fit'
Make of that what you will! |
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